Second date of date. Everybody's had a first date that just didn't go according to plan, Oh yeah for sure, whether you showed up twenty minutes late or accidentally called them by the wrong name. Yeah, or they got back together with their ex in the middle of appetizers. It's always awkward your phone now, you couldn't even make it to the main course. Yeah, but you know, I'd almost prefer those bad dates to the ones where you can't think of a bad moment, because at least you know, yeah,
that's true, you have an answer. But one of our listeners has been going crazy trying to figure out why the night took a turn for the worst, and now she's at an all time low, calling a bunch of morons on the radio for help. So here we are, Cammy. I'm sorry that you've been reduced to this. Yeah. Like I said, I would never do this. Yeah yeah, yeah, So tell us about the guy that brought you to this new low. What's his name? His names Justin? Justin? Okay,
where'd you meet Justin? On an app? All right? I don't know if you've been on apps recently, but it's like hit and miss, but like more like a million missus. Yeah, a lot from our listeners. Were you excited about justin though, Yeah, no I was. I mean most guys now, like they're really quick to be kind of overtly sexual, you know, and it's just like, oh, it's so gross. And then this guy though, like he was sweet and he's sincere,
like it just like refreshing, I guess. And then so by sweet and sincere, you mean he didn't ask to exchange nudes in the first five minutes. Yeah. Yeah, it's like the bar is so low. This bar is very low. Just said, how are you like, I'm like you, yeah, poor Cammy, really sweet and sincere not asking you for anything. What did you guys do for your date? Well, it took a while for us to get there. First of all, like we had talked on the phone for like two weeks.
Oh wait, wait, hold on, you had an actual phone conversation. I know. Are you sure that he's actually into women? Even then? Are you sure he's not eighty years old? A better question? Even the last time I really click with somebody, it's when you actually talk and call and like that is like a whole new level nowadays. That's awesome. It makes me nervous just even thinking about making that. Yeah, here guys, you guys were clicking. Yeah, it was good. And then he said we were going to go to
a steakhouse for dinner. We got there and he was handsome and he seemed like, you know, like we hadn't FaceTime, but he looked like his pictures like he sounded like himself, Like sometimes you meet somebody're like, oh, that's who you are in your life. I didn't think that was going to happen, but no, that's what the nudes are for. They show you who they really are. How did he receive you? Like, you know, like you know, you know what I mean? You awful on a dating app? What
were you like in person? Did you also show up correctly? I know, I know what I mean. No, I look like my pictures understood. Yeah, okay, and you got it. So how was your connection on the date? Yeah, I mean it was good. It was like we just kept talking about the same stuff we talked about, like trips we took and our friends, like normal state stuff. Did you feel like you ran out of things to talk about at any poce? No, I don't think so. Well. At one point he was going to put this on
his company credit card. So he and I was like, oh, I hopefully it doesn't get him in trouble. But he said, well, if you talk about one business thing, it counts technicality. So you guys talked about business stuff. No, we're making jokes, like we were saying things like lucrative deals and mergers and like run it up the flagpole and you know, like we're just trying to be silly with it. Since he was offering to pay on the company card, what did you get for dinner? I got surfinter yea, now
we're talking. He got a stake, like he got a really nice day. So okay, yeah, so where did the knight get weird for you? Okay? So this is the thing, Like all of a sudden kind of the mood changed. It was like two different people. Like he got much quieter, he stopped making eye contacts. It was like the weirdest thing, like he's barely touching his own food. So I was, I was like, well, is he sick? Like is something wrong?
Like what if he if he trying to just power through and be a hero, but some appetizers not making him feel good or I don't so this this happened before even the main course came. It's kind of as the main versus coming, Okay, how do you come up with any reasons? You think no? And I even said like did I say something? Did I do something? He's like, no, no, it's fine. I had a really good time and he
hugged me and like that's it. Wow, So you asked him, well it was so weird, and I was like, I really at that point, was like, what had nothing to lose by saying that? At that point? Did you try and save the date with a nude pick? Because it could happen that way too. I don't know this, this is really bizarre. Yeah, I mean maybe somehow he got news that was bad. I don't know, Like my friends are like, well, maybe it's not you. Maybe he's exits in the restaurant, or he knew the waitress or I
just have no idea. It didn't feel like let's see each other again. It felt like a nice to meet you by. So I mean, even though that was a nice to meet you by, did you try to reach out? I texted once and then they didn't text back, and I was like, oh no, what, I don't even know what happened, all right, weird. Well, let's try and figure it out. We're going to play a song. Come back, We'll called Justin for you, and we'll try and get your second date update. All right, okay, that would be great.
Hold on if you're just tuning in for the second date update. One of our listeners, Cammy, went out with a guy named Justin recently and went out to a steakhouse for dinner, and Justin told her to order anything she wanted because he was paying with his company's credit card. Nice and he said, He said, as long as they mentioned a few business related things, then it technically counts as a business meeting. Thing is. Halfway through dinner, Justin
started to act a little bit strange. You got really quiet, little distant, wasn't eating, And from there everything just ended kind of awkwardly. Cammy has no idea exactly where it is that things went wrong. Yeah, and Cammy, I just I feel like I feel like we've talked for a while and we gave this whole second date thing a shot, and you seem nice. Oh we're breaking up with her.
I'm just not really feeling okay. So well, it's not to the point it's not to the point where I want to stop the second day completely, but I am going to treat you differently from this point forward, and I will tell you it's not you, it's me, Okay, but it is a little bit you. Is this sounding too close to home? Cammy? It's super painful for me. Dare you? I'm still interested in you, Cammy? Okay, I
appreciate that. I think it's so weird, like it's two different people we talked on the phone, Like that's a big deal. I might be jaded, but my first thought is he's married or he's in a relationship, and like the guilt finally caught up to a mid meal, do you know what I mean? I just need to know what happened because it was so dramatic, and I even asked him because at that point, like the end of the day, I really had nothing to lose, Like what don't you stop making eye Like Okay, I'm back to
being interested now I'm going to rejoin this conversation. Let's go Okay, let's do it. Let's hope that we can do the same with Justin and get him interested in you. I see clever. I don't know if it's worth our energy. Try it anyway. You're ready, Cammy, Yeah, let's try it. Okay, that's interest again. Okay, I'm back on board. Let's see what's going on with Justin A Dallas number right now here we go. Hello, Hey, I'm looking for Justin. Yeah,
it's Jessin. Hey Justin. How's it going. My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Who's this It's a morning radio show, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. I've never heard of it. I don't listen to the radio. Sorry, low blow there. Okay, Well, I'm calling because we're kind of mad at you Justin. Ooh, that's coming off hive. Well, sorry, you're gonna crche to me. I gotta throw it back. Okay, but we're mad at you. We're mad at you on behalf of one of our listeners.
I really don't understand what you're calling me about. One of our listeners told us she went on a date with you recently. You started acting really weird towards her, and you kind of just gave up halfway through dinner. I think I know who you're talking about. Yeah, her name's Cammy. Yep, Cammy, and you really hurt her feelings and therefore my feelings. I think more than I think, she's just confused justice an angry inside. No, I know it's not that dramatic, man. She just wants to know
why you're not calling her back and what changed. So Cammy, you guys know, Cammy, she called you. Yeah, she emailed our show and we spoke to her about your date and she had a great time with you. I'm not really sure what to tell you or how much you guys already know, but I just realized, you know, we are two different types of people, Cammy and I. Honestly,
things just couldn't work out between us. So wait, hold on, Like, was there a moment that told you that, Because why would you just like stop making eye contact with her. Why wouldn't you say, oh, man, you know what, I don't know that this is going to work out. That's the thing. I went into the dinner really hopeful, but it was really loud in the restaurant, and maybe I didn't quite hear what she ordered. But you know, when when the plates arrived, I saw that she ordered this
one plate called the surf and turch. Yeah, like every invent that urch. Yeah, yeah, I don't want to go to in a whole lot of details about it, but it just wasn't okay with me. But didn't you specifically you're cheap? Yeah okay, I mean I don't get it though, because she said that you told her to order anything she wanted and that the company credit card was paying for it. Yeah, if anything that's on you. Look, this is gonna sound really weird. Okay, So surf and turfs
includes lobsters. Okay, Well, I actually have two pet lobsters at home that I love and care for. They're very meat. You don't you're okay eating You're okay eating beef a big cow. But because you have a pet lobster at home, I don't just have one. I have two. I have two lobters and they are awesome. And you know, I don't have a pet cow. I don't know anybody who has a pet cow. But if I did know somebody, I wouldn't eat a cow in front of them. Oh,
I actually makes sense. What are you talking about? What if you talked about your pet lobsters like this is so weird? What are you expecting when you go to a steakhow listen, listen, Look that two siny lobsters. One is named Snipped and the others name Leonardo da PINCHI that's really cute. But again I told you, I knew you. I knew you would think it was weird. I hear
them laughing, I know it. Look, but you know it's they mean a lot to me, you know, And I just wasn't expecting to see her order lobster to eat in front of me. Well, did Cammy know that you own two lobsters before she put in her order. I don't think we got to that point a comment. I mean, we had talked about other stuff, like so I don't understand that's so like unrealistic, Like how are she supposed
to respect feelings that she doesn't even know about? I understand that, but look, can you imagine from my perspective right one of the labster on her plate, The labster on her plate looked like snipped. Wow, wow, very traumatic. As soon as I saw that, I couldn't even look at her because every time I looked over that, I felt like I was gonna cry, as like she was eating my pet justin I gotta be honest with you, man, Not in a million years would I have guessed that
this was the reason you weren't calling your back. I'm guessing Cammy couldn't have guessed either. I let's find out if Cammy could have guessed, because Justin, I need to tell you, she's been on the other line listening and she wants to talk to you. She's been on the phone this whole time, ye had, Yeah, yeah, Justin, this
has to be made up. Like I listened to this whole thing and I was like, this just sounds like you don't want to say what the real thing is to what I mean, you're like on the spot on the radio. I get it, it's weird, but at this point, like, what is the reason you don't believe them? No, Canny, I'm being honest. Things were great and then I saw you fight into it looked like one of my pats. Don't they all look the same? No, they do not all look the same. Why would you take other though
it was your suggestion to go to this? Oh it was a steakhouse. It wasn't a lobster house. Was wow? I mean, now that you know this, Canny, do you feel bad at all? Well? I can't. I can't feel bad for eating lobster at a nice restaurant and like that you can't feel bad or you won't feel bad. Man, I can't feel bad about that. I I don't And this is why I knew at one point in the dinner. Now nothing would work out between us. I mean, I'm sorry,
this just sounds crazy. How am I supposed well, how am I supposed to say that you're eating something that looks like my friend? That's a pretty good way to say. Said that. You know, what's weird to me is that you don't even feel bad. You know, you know now that you know, like because you you had a chance to like stay what was wrong, you didn't say what was wrong. You just got quiet and you made me feel that. And now it's just like, I'm so evil
for eating lobster in a nice restaurant where we ate meat. Okay, you like steak and cow to have more personality. I'm sorry you don't understand. Lobsters are great companions. That was a lobster a great companion. You never have to walk them. They're never gonna pee on the floor. You may have heard this, but lobsters are loyal. They mate for life. Okay, I'm not those promiscuous dogs and cats that meep around. A dog will hump a leg. What a lobster made
for life? And they live a for a hundred years. And let me tell you, Cammy, that's way longer than you're going to live with all that butter that you were putting that lobster. Oh my god, may this is so crazy, you know? Yeah, yeah, you don't have to. I mean, wait, would you give her another chance if she said she'd never eat it lobster again or something? It's so hard even right now revisiting that night, it's so hard. Okay, justin Look, I don't want to put
you through any more trauma. I don't want to give you any more PTSD. So let me just ask, would you like to go out on another date with Cammy? Will pay for it. No lobster, just any other type of seafood will be fine. Yeah, I don't know. You guys can eat crabs and then give her crabs later. No crustaceans all. No, I don't know. This is a terrible way to start a relationship. Everyone else I don't all. I think we've gone too far down the hole. I don't think we can recover after the butter and the
lot or whatever. Leonardo DAPINCHI like the painter. Sorry, but you know this is just too much for me. I'm not interested anymore either. You guys are worried about him being triggered. I'm triggered by this whole conversation doesn't end up now. I hope you never go out on a date and somebody eats like a dog or a kitten in front of you. I hope that too. Thank you for that. What restaurants are you going to? Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,
