Second date of date. They say in life, when one door closes, another door opens. Yeah, that's great unless you have some type of door phobia or if you're scared to leave your house now because of all the random doors that are opening and closing in front of you. I really but in the dating world, I think it's a little bit similar. When one date ghost is another date approaches. I was wondering why you're going with the ghost is stretched. You have to shoehorn the rhyme in there.
But I think it works because that's what happened to one of our listeners, Chase recently. So Chase, welcome to the show. And before we get into it, what's your stance on doors? You anti? I'm a pro door just straight. They are great. We don't even need to talk about your date if we come on it. You could just focus on doors for the next seven minutes. Welcome at segment or door. Well, honestly, let's hear about the woman that you went out with. What's her name, Tiffany? Tiffany?
I mean, I don't know. Just the way you said it sounds like you like Tiffany obviously. What do you like about her? Well, you could say I used to like her. Oh, then why do you want to call her again? Yeah? What's going on? I don't Oh, I don't think you understand how the second dates have worked because we used to try and call the people that you went out with. All right, well, I guess I should start from the beginning. Yes, please, Tiffany. I met her online. She was pretty cute and I was excited
to meet her. And first dates, I usually like to do activities rather than just sit around and have to talk. So I planned for us to play mini golf. Still want to do this date? Oh, I've never done a minigolf. It's a great first date. Nice SCRD. It go well. I got there like fifteen minutes early. I went and got the clubs and balls and paid for us could both to play. That's awesome. So she can just show up and play and Steve and have to wait and
all that. That's good, that's thoughtful, gentleman. Move right. So I'm sitting there, I'm waiting. Five minutes goes by after she's supposed to be there, ten minutes, fifteen minutes. Oh no, the ghost is so I text her. I didn't get ghosted. I texted her and she apologized she had to cancel for whatever reason I don't even remember. But and you already bought the balls and the clubs and everything, already had the balls in clubs. So yeah, that's where things
got interesting. I don't like Tiffany either. Screw Tiffany. A family member pass away or something, we don't know. Mini golf takes precedence over family members. Everybody knows this, being like, excuse you're telling me she doesn't text you until twenty minutes after she's supposed to be there, and it's a legit reason. Well what do you do at that point, Chase? Do you do two rounds of golf by yourself? Let two clubs? No? So yeah, I'm already be frustrated about
the cancelation and stuff. I go return the balls and clubs and get my money back. Sad moment, can you do? I was going to ask that. The guy's like, no one's ever. There's like the sixteen year old kid working the counter, and he's like, oh, sorry, I can't give you your money back. So so I'm already frustrated or whatever. And I hate to be this guy, but I was like, okay, let me talk to the manager, Like oh man, oh wow, I mean they kid could barely drive. I kind of
get it. Yeah, I'm still kind of confused about how this is a second date, Like what are we doing here? Answering? Now, we're getting there, We're getting there. Then the manager finally comes over, and that's where the story takes the turn. And so the manager is this gorgeous woman. Oh oh, I did not see this coming. And suddenly you don't have a complaint anymore, do you? Because what are you going to tell sexy manager? I just got stood up
money back? Well, it wasn't even really necessary. Actually, she was awesome and super friendly, gave me my money back right away, So that wasn't that part of the story wasn't even an issue anymore. So okay, so what did you do? Did you strike up a conversation with her? Is that who we're interested in now? Um? Well, we were just kind of friendly and cordial to each other there.
But at that point, you know, I took the money I spent on golf, and I went over to the bar and got myself a drink, and I was just kind of hanging out over there, okay, with the manager or by yourself? Well, I was by myself, but then the manager actually approached me. Oh like, it's not a good look to have lonely men drinking in here. I
better sit down that stea. Yeah, so she again apologized, you know that I couldn't get my refunded first, and she that she felt bad about what had happened and stuff, and so she gave me her business card that also had her personal cell phone number on it. Oh no, like she saw an opening, right, So, like she must have been attracted to you, saw you s and at the bottom and alone, and was like, this is my chance. Yeah, well that's what I thought. That was that for that night.
And then a few days later I was like, since I didn't get the golf, maybe I could meet you and we could do a round of golf together. So a few days later we played a round of golf. Oh so you texted her and you guys actually went out. Yeah, well, I met her at her work. She had to hook up what's her name. I didn't even get the manager's name, did we. Her name is Kelly? Okay, okay, And so it was fun with Kelly, I'm guessing. Yeah, it was awesome.
We got through the round of golf and she got busy and it was actually on one of her work days we met up, and so she had to get back to work. But yeah, since then, I kind of haven't really heard from her. So that's the story I see. So now we're going to be calling Kelly the mini golf manager. Yes, Kelly the mini golf manager. Okay, and have you texted her called at all? A little bit?
But yeah, I haven't heard from her. Maybe it was a bad idea to meet her at her work, Like maybe I should have just been more forward and asked her out somewhere else. I don't know. Yeah, maybe she wasn't even thinking it was like a legit date or something. I don't know. Yeah, well, regardless, you can always bring the first girl back and make Kelly jealous. No, this is a win. Well, I guess the girls don't mind me.
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wellness partner of the National Football League. Subject to credit approval, minimum monthly payments required. See sleep number dot com for details. When you ask to speak to the manager nine nine hundred and ninety nine times out of a thousand, and that encounters not going to end in romance. For one of our listeners, Chase, he's the one in a thousand wow, because he wanted to get a refund at the mini golf fund zone but ended up falling for the attractive
manager who helped him. It's kind of cute, don't you think. Yeah, in like a weird, complaining type of way. But hey, he switched his too, and he got his refund, and he got a date, a date with Kelly. The two of them actually ended up playing a round of golf together a few days later. But all of a sudden, now she's ghosting. That sucks and we need to figure out why. I think he maybe, I think you maybe onto something. Honestly, that like meeting her on her day
at work, was the bad call. I hope No. I just thought that'd be a nice way, you know. She kept saying she was felt bad I didn't get to play golf, so I was like, oh, we can play golf. But yeah, I get it, but most people don't want to have a first date at the place where they Yeah, well, it's like she made the opening, he took the opening, and then now maybe it wasn't as hot as it could have. Yeah, or maybe you're just a really bad golfer.
Either way, hopefully we'll get an answer from her. I'm going to call her number right now and we'll see what she has to say. You ready, I'm ready? All right? Here we go. Hello. Hey is this Kelly? Um? It is Hey Kelly. I was hoping I could play a round of mini golf for a party of four coming up soon for free. Wait for free? You do that? Yeah? No, I'm not for free? Do you have to pay your manager? I'd like to speak to your manager? All right? What if the four people who want to play work for
a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Um, I am still sure that you're gonna have to pay the credit card? You just pull the dude, you know who we are? And she said no, So, Kelly, look, we're doing something called a secon and date update. Okay, has nothing to do with us playing golf at your establishment. Yeah, we're working. But one of our listeners played golf at your establishment recently, and you actually played with him. You
remember Chase I do. Okay, Okay, this is weird. Wait, I'm a little confused. Well, we're just sorry. Chase told us about the two of you guys hanging out, how you met and that whole story, and he felt like the two of you had a nice little connection when you played golf together. But afterwards he's a little bit confused about why you're not responding anymore. I mean, from his side of things, it felt like you were pretty
into him. You know. He told us about how you approached him at the bar, like gave him your personal cell phone number and card, and me. Yeah, we heard his side of it. We'd like to know, like, what was your impression of Chase. You know, I don't think he really knew that the person that he was dealing with, the young kid he was dealing with, came back and said, hey, listen, this guy got stood up and wants his money back.
So I felt bad for him. Oh that's right, Like right at the beginning there, when he asked for his money back after his day stood him up. The sixteen year old teenager that helped him, he went back and rat it on Chase, dude, come good drama for the teenager. Okay, I mean, I felt bad, so I gave him his money back, and I saw the humans too could get a drink, so I thought I'd get him a drink because that's like the worst feeling in the world that
happens to me. You know, you guys have great customer service. Please cry again. I'm sure they don't get many returns or refunds. Yeah, but did you think he was cute? I mean while he was crying, he wasn't cry Was he crying and he didn't say that, No, he wasn't crying. He just seemed like just a nice guy who got
wet down. Yeah, So, like, I mean, I gave him my card just because, like I like, I felt that far him and like, if you need anything else or was coming back again, maybe I could help him out with a date, you know. Okay, but he told us that you actually did end up playing around at golf with him, Well, yeah, because he ended up checht me the next day. And so I didn't know if I don't know, I didn't know if there was like a date or not, you know what I mean, I wasn't
really sure. I didn't know if he just wanted to be friends. Okay, he didn't make it, but it sounds like you were maybe open to it if it was a date, right, Like are you single? I mean I am single, yes, but like, okay, I was open to it. I mean it was fine, It was nice at first, and then things got a little weird, so I just preferred not to answer him. Well, yeah, do you mind telling us what was weird? There's some things like you all have played mini golf. I'm assuming yeah, so there
is a bridge. It was like probably on the fourth hold of the bridge, and he was like, do you ever like after work bring your dates back here and like fool around under the bridge? And I'm like, what, udok it up on the golf course? Get any AstroTurf rug lerns. I'm curious, have you? No, don't ask that as not you don't do that? Okay, Well I said no, I don't. I brushed it off, but like, right, that would just be him like trying to be flirty and failing.
If it happened once, I would understand, but it did not. Like everything he encountered after that, He's like, do you ever make out with anybody behind the windmill or pool around like behind the clown head or like on the octopus or you know what I mean? Is it weird? Weird? I mean, you know, not everything's mini on the mini golf course. So what are you talking about? The little tiny pencils? Do those turn you on to Yeah? Totally? Well, I mean that's too bad and you weren't able to
like be like, hey man, knock it off. I know what I did is I tended to get a text message because I was still on my work and said, oh, they haven't. I don't blame me for that one. I don't know if we know if we are sorry that that happened to you. And I'm also sorry to tell you that Chase is actually on the other line listening and he wants to talk to you. Course Chase, Hey, Kelly, Hi, Okay, are you listening to what she said? Yeah? I was okay.
Do you have some like self reflection on that one explanation? I mean I was just playing around. I guess, like yes, like I said, at the time, when we started playing, I didn't really know much about Kelly except for she worked at a mini golf play. So that's what you asked. You can think of anything else to ask her other than you hooked up behind that things get to know you question is like, you know what hobbies do you like? Brother and sister? Well, hooking up on a golf course
could be a hobby for some. I guess I think you owe her apology, Chase, You're probably right. I'm sorry. I me this whole time, like I now that I've heard your side and I explained my side of the story, just kind of this weird thing like is it a date? Is it not a date? So yeah, I was like, hey, you ever make out behind the clown yet? Like why
are you saying it again? And it's very awkward. I mean, I don't know, I'm I don't think I'm the only one who's ever walked past the bridge at a mini golf places and be like, hey, if I had to hide somewhere on a mini golf course to do a little frisky business, that is called family fun sent I think I get where he's coming from. Now he's trying to be funny and honest. I think, Kelly, I mean, you liked him before he did all that weird questioning. I felt sorry for him. I'm not really quite sure
that I actually liked him. Well, do you feel sorry enough for him to give him one more chance at another date, and maybe after that second date, you'll start to like him and we would pay for it. I'm going to say that I'm sorry, but I do not want to go on a second date, even if it's an after hours date at the mini golf course. Can show him what really happens behind the giant shoe. You guys saying that makes my skin crawling. Do people really
want to hook up on a mini golf course? Well, me, I think about that sometimes they So it sounding like a no from from Kelly there. What it sounds like, Chase, You found yourself a new mini golf partner in jeff Yeah, yeah, yeah, You and I can go, or we might feel bad enough for you to send you out on a pity date with Alexis. You know she's done stuff on mini golf before. Anything but the Clown Anything Broke and Jeffrey in the morning,