Second Date Update: Promtastrophe

didn't go the extra mile. He went way past that mile, and I can't wait to hear exactly what he did. Max. Welcome to the show. Hey guys, thanks for having me on, but I cannot wait to hear what you took her. Now you feel a lot pressure. That was a lot of hype. Jeffrey gave you no no pressure. I mean I delivered, you know, right style. He never lets a lady down. Tell us about the girl that you went out with. What's her name? Her name is Beth Okay

and we met online. Actually, she's super cute, and I tell you the whole sort of backstory about our date. We were texting for a while a couple of weeks. Actually, just because, but it didn't work with our schedules. Okay, I mean, so, were you planning something big and elaborate the entire time and the schedule wasn't working out? Or well, it's funny you ask. Because we were talking and I found out she had never been to prom oh I know, right.

I think she said her date ditched or something, and sure, okay, so I came up with this idea. I surprised her recreating prom night for her. That you're going to blow that on a first date? I mean, god, I mean I feel like that's a then you keep in your back pocket for when you're dating six months and then you do it. Not him, him, I guess, I know. Max brings it all. Date one, we were really connecting on the phone. So how did you do this? Would

you guys do drink in the car before? No? No? No, no, no, no okay okay, okay. So I just pulled her to dress up. Okay, So that's literally all I told her, But she didn't know that the prom was coming. No, I didn't tell anything else. Okay, but here's what I do. I go to her apartment and I texted her to look outside her window and it was sort of dusk, like it was getting dark, and I'd set up these

candles outside and these rose petals. Actually took me a long time, but the rose petals were on the sidewalk and they spelled out from question mark. Oh you even did a promposal. Yeah, you guys get it. You're so proud as you should be, sir, guess. But it's probably awkward with all the adults walking by that are like, why is this old gentleman asking some girl to prom This is weird. Should call athy? So you told her to look out the window. She looked out, and what happened?

She looked out and she looked really excited, kind of shocked, but she came down. Yeah good. I gave her her corsage, even brought the corsage. So what's next? I called it uber and I had to uber take us to my work parking lot. Okay, okay, okay, it wasn't quit. It actually has really good acoustics, which is why we went there. Oh it's like a parking garage. Okay, I went to a poor high school. I'm gonna tell you, your parking garage is probably in better condition than my high school.

Ye fancy fancy. Okay, so you went to your work parking garage and what happened there? Of course, I take out my boom box and started playing some old nineties songs for her, and we danced, and we took plenty photos together. You even took prom photos together. Yeah, I used my iPhone, you know, I downloaded the funny background that could be really cute or super awkward. I agree, there's a fine line here. How is Beth feeling during this whole experience? Could you get a read on that

she seemed to like it? I mean, was she smiling? She seemed to like it? That's a very short reviews? What made you think that she seemed to like But I mean she didn't run away, and like she probably could have run away at various points. Don't feels are hard to run? I don't know. Concerned that you're judging your date's interest based on whether or not she ran away. Gave her three opportunities to run. Now she dialed nine one, but she didn't die the last one, so she must like,

come on, you know what I mean? Is that what you mean? Or I know we're just giving you a hard time man, this we're honestly jealous because you've done way more on your first date than we've done on any of our dates compared to other second dates. This is a lot of effort. It's very creative and very romantic. All kidding aside, this is impressive. Dude, I told you

guys that delivered. Yeah, I mean, thank you. But what you guys do after, like, you know you dance like once or twice, right, because you dance more than that, and it does start to get awkward. Right, Well, I didn't want a short change. I had fifteen songs on the playlist. Wait, you've stayed in the parking lot and dance for fifteen songs? Did you have someone yell at you for dirty dancing halfway through? You guys are joking, But fifteen songs is a long time max that I

wanted to give it a full experience. Yeah, I mean, real prom is awkward. So the recreation of problems at awkward too. So there is like fast songs and slow songs, and you guys were totally sober, just the two of you in a partner garage dancing basically. Yeah, okay, I bet it's more romantic in real life than what we're picturing in our heads. It felt like it. Yeah again romantic to the third song. Okay, it's always a lit down so this Yeah, so how did this night end?

We drove to McDonalds and we got some food. Who was honestly, it was felf perfect, I guess until the end when I walked her through the door and she said, oh, that was such a special night. And then she sort of leaned in and like, I kiss me, but she kiss another cheek and then I haven't heard from her at all. Huh, Well, I mean that's I mean, it's just a lot of effort to not get a call back. Dude, you should at least get like a pity kiss on prom night, I think. So that's what I thought. Yeah,

I mean, it's nothing else. You went through all this effort, and that's what we're gonna try to get you. Right now, We're gonna we're gonna get you a pity kiss. Okay, I can get behind that, maybe even a pity second date. He was happy that she didn't run. Come on, we're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call back for you, and we'll try and get you a second date, up date, A right man? All right? All right, hold on if you're just too in for the second date. Update.

One of our listeners, Max recreated prom night for his date Beth after he found out that she never went to hers back in high school. He did a big promposal. They danced to old songs in the parking garage at his work, and they even took prom photos on his iPhone and he didn't get a kiss at the end of the night. After all that, I said, he should have at least gotten a pity kiss for all that

effort that he went through for her. So I'm telling you right now, Max, if we don't get you this date and we can't deliver a pity kiss from Beth, then our own social media coordinator Alexis has agreed to step up and we'll kiss you on the air to end this segment. I'm guaranteeing it. If you can go all out for a date, then we can go all out for a second ja. Yeah. I mean, if anyone's the expert on pity kisses, it's definitely you, Jeffrey. So take that. Okay, Well, someone on this show was going

to pity kiss you, Max, whether you want it or not. Yeah, I don't know. I just hope you guys give me a date. Did you pay for the McDonald's, because then I'll totally kiss you. Bro. We split the McDonald's mind. You didn't pay for McDonald They already paid for everything else. What do you want from its? Pay for the mixtape and the parking girl and the uber ride there and the candle and the flowers. I'm sorry, I didn't know your parents hadn't give you an allowance yet, and that's

why he couldn't cover McDonald's. Okay, Brooks Hayton on you right now, Max, But you know what, I support you, okay, piece, and I'm gonna rent some hotel room after the second date updating case it goes really well, just for you and me. What prom? Did you have? The best prom? Dude? Oars ended in a forest at a cager, So that's why you want to do problem with me? Max? Did anybody just go home at the end of the only one that just was in my own bed? Yeah? All right,

we're all getting sidetracked reminiscing about our proms. Let's focus on the second date update and Max we're going to try and call it right now. You're ready, Yeah, I'm ready? Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Beth? Yes, it is calling. My name's Jeffrey, work on the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh um, are you familiar with us? I'm familiar with you. I just I don't know why you're calling. Okay, Well, if you're familiar, then you might be familiar with a segment that we

do call the second date Update. That's where if you go out with someone right and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can email us for help. Oh okay, yeah, I've heard of it. So recently you went out with a guy and you were not calling him back afterwards, so he's asked us to get in touch with you. Okay, what's his name? His name is Max. Max. It's going to be a hard to forget date, I would imagine unless you've gone to a bunch of recreated proms over

the last week or so. No, I just that one. That's goody. So are you purposely not getting back to him, or maybe you get busy? What did he tell you about our date? I mean he basically ran us through the whole evening where he did a promposal for you. He took you to his parking garage at his work to recreate a dance. You guys went to McDonald's afterwards, and he made it sound like it was a pretty fun night. Okay, So dancing in a parking garage and

going to McDonald sounds fun to you. Okay, not to me personally, but I could understand why it nice gesture sounds to me? Did it? Okay? I will say when Max told us a story, he said that you guys danced for like fifteen songs, which to me was overkill. Yeah, there were a lot of songs, and he was excited about each one of them, like you're remember this one and giving me the history of each. Oh, I mean it is sweet, like he's just trying to recreate promp

for you because he said you missed your high school prom. Yeah, you're right. I mean the whole thing was. It was really really sweet. It was just a little maybe like childish for me. Does that make them? Well, high school we were kind of a kid like meaning like I mean like we're growing a dope now, Like it's okay, I missed my prom, Like I'm not sitting here crying in a corner all these years later, But you said

yes to the promposal. So well, she's saying, when the proposal was outside her door and he was standing out of touch with the candles, she should have just been like, uh no, let's just do like I mean, yeah, the

gesture was really cute. I just you know, doing the like promposal thing, like it's kind of the cutest part of it, right, yeah, kind of everything else, Like, you know, it was just the two of us in this like perking garage, you know, and I've just met this guy for the first time in real life, so it was a little awkward. Yeah, I could see that. I mean, I definitely understand what you're saying that that's a weird

experience to go through. But you have to remember he's just trying to create a moment for you, and like maybe he didn't do it the best way, but going forward, you don't have to do that again. You could just do a normal date. Well that was kind of a deal breaker for me. Um wait, what was a deal breaker? I'm sorry, just doing the long prom night thing was a deal breaker. No, it was. It was actually a conversation that we had had at McDonald that just kind

of turned me off. It wasn't him making you pay for your own something else. No, no, no, we can book the bill. It's fine. So when he was talking to McDonald that he was talking a lot about plans for our future dates, which there's something wrong with thinking about future dates, but he thought, because I love the prom dates so much that he wanted to like recreate all of these other events in my life, like my sixteen and like my twenty one run and like basically

all the big moments that people have. I mean, I get that because it I mean, to me, it would feel like he's trying to insert himself in my past memories. Like it's okay that I had a life before I met you, man, we could still date without you. Forcing. Yeah. I also think it's kind of weird that he keeps trying to recreate her in her teenage years. Yeah. Run. He also wants are wasted in a back alley somewhere

being on a garbage can. Yeah. I mean it was just a little too much for me, And like in the moment, it was hard for me to say anything because I was so overwhelmed and kind of taken aback, Like, wait, you want to do what Now that you're out of that moment, I'm going to put you into a different moment where I tell you that Max is on the other line listening and he wants to talk to you right now. Oh he's on the other line. Yeah, he's been saying the whole time. MAXI there, Yeah, I'm here.

Oh my god, I didn't know who you were listening. Um. Is it cool prom night? Right? I mean, yeah, it was. It was really sweet of you to do that. Um. Yeah, I don't know what to say. It's just that you you You did say that you've never been a problem that you wished you you had, so I was basically

making your wish come true. Yeah, it's kind of less about the prom aspect and more about like wanting to recreate all of these other moments in my life for our dates instead of just like going out and getting to know each other. Right. Yeah. I just thought that those were really important to you, and I wanted to maybe experience those moments with you. I thought that would be really nice. But is it just that I don't know, You're not like attracted to me. To me, it was

just a little too much. It was a little overkill, especially, like, like I said, this prom was super nice, but like trying to recreate my sweet sixteen that I already had is a little bit different than recreating a prom that I never had. Yeah, but I wasn't at your sweet sixteen. I mean I would have liked to have been there. Oh, man, are you not hearing anything she's saying? Like, I know, man, that you may have hurt feelings right now, but I feel like it's good with you to be very direct.

She doesn't want to do that. Yeah, fine, well just to the twenty one one and we don't have to do it earlier that. I don't think you're understanding what she's saying. She's done all that already, She's finished with that portion of her life. She'd like to move into adulthood and do all the things that adults like to do that are fun and until would be an upgrade for once you said you liked the driver's license idea when you got your driver's license and we were going

to do that together. What what do you get a teacher how to parallel? Again, these are things we don't need to relive in life. Nobody wants to relive the stress of your driver's license or I never said I wanted to do a driver's license party. I just said I had never had one, and I don't even know if those are like a thing like, well, excuse me for being mister, think of others. No, Max, you're being mister. Don't listen to anyone who didn't like being celebrated. Okay,

why don't you have one of those parties for yourself? Then? Yeah, recreate taking your first steps and she can be there for I will be up for that if that's what you all new for the next day. Okay, Well, in that case, Beth, we would like to send you out one more time with Max. You can you can recreate. You can hold his finger why he barely keeps his balance and takes his first steps again, and we'll pay

for that somehow. What are you saying? I don't want to keep looking back, So I think that for me to move forward from this is not going on a second date. Yes, a very good way to say that. We could do ever entirement party. Do you want to do it? That sounds like fun. Hey you're over the hill. Yeah, you get a discount on your food. You'll be in bed by four o'clock. What do you say? I like you. There's some food that easy and it's easy to bite

through one. Today we all go in gonalds Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.