Second Date Update PODCAST: Zoom Date

Oh yeah, for sure. We've heard restaurant dates, hot air balloon dates, drunk dates, sober dates, dates that only happened in someone's dream and they didn't realize until we called the other person and she found out. Oh wait, that's right, it was all a figment of my imagination. Do you want to go out anyway? Done everything? Well, today we have a caller who did something that we haven't heard yet. I don't believe. I don't either, a very skeptical or.

Her name's Nina, and she's the first person that we've spoken to who's gone on an actual zoom date. Oh yeah, we haven't done a zoom day. Yes, no, not what a second date update on virtual date? Yeah? So, Nina would you zoom with? I zoomed with Evan? Is this your first ever zoom date? Two? It was like my second one. Oh okay, you're well versed. Yeah. I feel like I'm meeting an astronaut. Like, yeah, this is crazy. So tell us how you met Evan. I met Evan

because he accepted me. You know how Facebook has the thing of like people you might know? People actually use that because at least you can see the mutual friends, and then if someone is interested, you can ask your mutual friends like hey, do you really know this person? I feel like every time it suggests something to me, it's like some friend of like my mom. Oh I don't know. That's how Facebook is. Yeah, on Facebook? So wait, I mean, how did you guys strike up a conversation?

He just messaged you. I'm sorry, yeah, yeah, so he just messages me and he was like, oh, you know, it's just done. Hi. I so some pictures of the beach, and she really like going to the beach too. So I was like, oh, yeah, you know, I enjoy going out there. Seems like I like seeing you in your bikinis. It was like, actually the beach, right. So he passed the Facebook test how did the zoom call go? So

at first he started off really well. So he had the idea of ordering food from the same restaurant and just Uber eats and stuff like that. So I thought that was cute. That is cute. So it's like, you guys are at the same restaurant, even though you're in your own houses, at least you're sharing the same food, and it's like three times as expensive as going to He bought it, so I was like, Okay, this is

kind of cool. That's one. Then he was like, oh, let's put on this playlist and then we just like literally had on like the same music and it was like it's gonna sound super teasy, but it was cute. It was like a little French cafe thing. Yeah. Well, in my head, I'm I'll say, if you could get a zoom day. Yeah. I literally planned this out for somebody once I thought, and she can't. It sounds like he's done this before, like he's not new to the

zoom date. And I liked them, Like, I mean, there were some internet issues, so it was like sometimes they were like a little awkward, yeah, because they're like, what, like I didn't hear what you're saying audio cuts out on zoom. Yeah. I mean first dates are awkward in themselves, but then when you can hardly hear the other person and there's music playing in the background, that's weird. Well, and it's like you can't read each other's body language.

I mean, were you able to get some sort of like tell on his vibe or if he was into you or not. Evan he was cool because he would like listen when I said something and then answered you guys. I know that sounds like a really low bar, but it is really hard for men and other people to hit. But I mean it's a it's a really easy way to see who a person is pretty quickly, right, because it's pretty right in front of you if you're only able to talk No, And Evan like, he just looks

pretty normal from what I was gathering. So I was just going for that, like, okay, okay, so I mean flowing reviews. Yeah, like how did it end? This is the weird part that I was not expecting. We're talking about paddle boarding, because I was telling him that I wanted to go out there, and all of a sudden, he stops and looks down and he's just like oh, I gotta go in a few minutes, So waiting down like at his phone or did he just look down naturally like ashamed of something. I mean, he was on

his laptop, so I'm assuming it was his phone. But he just like you know, like when you have that look in your face like oh crap. See I can't swim. So I would be like, oh crap, that's why you brought up people. I can't do that. He had a bad experience with a paddleboard in his past, like a paddleboard snuck into his room one night and like touched him. We are so far off right now. A lot of you a lot of paddleboard stories like that. So what did you think it was? Why did he have to

go so quick? I don't know. I don't know. Like we didn't even get to the dirt, and I'm a sucker for a like chocolate cake, and we had like finished by me all I said, okay, bye. I think the obvious question in this situation is were you wearing pants? Because that can that can really affect out the day, you know what. I was gonna say no because I was wearing a dress. Wouldn't the guys stay on the line, if you weren't wearing pants like that wouldn't make a

guy look down in shame and leave. I don't know. It depends on what was happening down below that screen for him. He's like, oh, I gotta go below his screen. I see, yeah, I don't know that. What do you think it is. I'm hoping he's not one of those guys that are like cheating on their wife or girlfriend. And I got attack, so I'm honey and on the way home, and then I was like, okay, I thought, dude, and it'd be so easy to do on a zoom call. Sure,

and he wouldn't feel that guilty. We wouldn't do anything right like that would be that would be the excuse. Okay. So you're the your type of woman that wants like a guy to be like loyal and still single. She does have pretty big demands. Oh god, okay, I mean, like that bar is so low right now, Well, let's see if we can push it down just a little bit lower. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Evan for you, and we'll try and get

you a second date. Update. Okay, all right, hold on, if you're just tuning in for the second date update. One of our listeners named Nina met a guy named Evan of her Facebook and apparently Evan checks all her boxes. He's got a mouth that he can talk out of. He's got ears that he can listen with two of them. Actually, yeah, a lot of guys just have the one and they don't even use it. But this guy has both ears, knows how to listen. Ladies are turned on right, just

as you say. Plus he's got decent but still kind of spotty wifis. He's a real charmer. So Nina and Evan were enjoying a nice zoom date together. Then at a certain point, Evan had this shocked expression come over his face. He looked down and said he had to get going. She doesn't know why, but ever since then, Evan seems to be kind of avoiding her. And that's why we're stepping into help. All that sound right, Nina? Yep? Right?

You know, how are you feeling going into this? Because I mean, you found a guy who listens to you. That feels like there's a lot on the line right now. I mean, I'll take what I can get. Are you nervous? Are you excited? What do you think. I'm nervous. I don't know what happened. I'm hoping he's not like married with three kids. I don't know. They just sound too good to be true the way Jeff described to him, there's got to be something wrong with him. But I

do think I'll take what I could get. Should be the new slogan for some dating there. Maybe shouldn't be for plenty of fish or something like I'll take what I can get. All right? Are you ready to call Levin? Yes? All right? Are ming him? No? No, no, no, we're just we're gonna take what we can get. Wrong, all right, name, I'm gonna tell the phone number right now? Here we go? Hello, Hi, can I speak to Evan? Please? Yeah? This is him. Hi, Evan.

My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have a second to talk with us? Uh? I'm sorry, what is this about? This is about your dating life, because apparently you do it really well, a lot better than most guys do. That's actually true. He's not being facetious. I'm sorry. How do you know this? Because that's true? Maybe I should clarify. One of our listeners reached out to us to get a hold of you. You went on a zoom date

with her, and she had a really good time. Her name is Nina. Okay, that's not a good noise. It is not a good side. It sounded like an awesome zoom date. She told us about the day, and she says that it was really really fun that you guys ordered some food together and played some romantic music over the video chat and you spoke. She was blown away that you could speak and listen. Yea, so she's confused while you're avoiding her. Uh yeah, you know, she seemed cool.

So I wanted to do a nice job, you know, make it a nice time. And that's just like a blank background. Yeah. I was impressed. I mean I felt like you put in the extra effort and it would take a lot to like get the two herber drivers to deliver the food at the same time, to do two different locations. Like you put in some work for this. I mean, it wasn't that much work. You're building it up like I orchestrated some whole thing. I don't know. I mean, it was pretty easy. It wasn't a big deal.

Don't downplay it, man, I think you got to remember, even the bar is very low and dating these days. Yeah, at this point, you're basically the George Clooney of Zoom calls. Okay, well that's exactly what George would have said to be handsome. So anyway, what's the deal, Like, why aren't you calling her back? Because she really likes you. Yeah, well, I had a nice time, but it's just clear that she's hiding things. That she's hiding things. She feels like you're

hiding things. What wait, wait, what do you mean she feels like I'm hiding things? Well, she said the phone call ended abruptly, and you had this weird look on your face, and she didn't know what made you so concerned. Okay, so we're like talking, We're having a nice time. I can't remember what we were talking about exactly. It was like the beach or like paddle boarding or something. And I look up at the screen and right behind her, a naked dude walks through the frame. Whoa, whoa yeah,

And you didn't say like, who's the naked dude? You just know. Chloti was like I've got to go, oh wow, I don't know. I didn't really know what to do. And the thing is is that like it happened twice. Are you sure you weren't like seeing something else? Wait? Twice as twice as in two separate naked dudes or the same naked dude twice? You know, I wasn't looking too closely, but it seems like it was the same naked dude. Okay, I'm trying to get a visual of it.

Was was it like directly behind her or was it way way off in the distance in the background. Dudes, describe what he looks like in great detail. Look, I've tried to block it from my memory, so I don't really remember. I mean he was he was, you know, relatively close, and he walked by. He was like holding a jar of peanut butter or something. I don't really know what just happened. What was he going to do? Is Oh my god? Wait, she's saying thing about random

naked guy. It seems like she was either like very comfortable with it or had no idea what was going on. Why wouldn't you bring it to her attention? Why wouldn't you ask, like, who's the naked guy in the background? Yeah, Look, I was on a zoom call on a first date. I'm not gonna like ask that. I'm not gonna point behind her be like, who's that naked guy? Oh my god, my curiosity would be killing me. You it's like, well, there's a naked guy. Never mind, you know, yeah, I

want to know. I mean, maybe we should just ask Nina who that was right now, because she's been on the other line listening and she actually wants to talk to you, Evan, he's on the other line. Yeah, sorry, I should have mentioned that earlier. Nina. What'd you laugh? This is awesome? Terrible? Who's the naked guy? Nita? Oh a, Brin was staring up? Can you explain what's going on? Okay, my parents have been staying with me. Don't tell me that was your dad. Do not tell me that was

your dad. So after they retired, all they have been doing is like traveling, So they have spent most of like the winter in Europe and like summer and stuff like that. So they got into this sting of like just being free. It was like their midlife prices things. So when I'm not like in the room, they will like walk around naked and no one like nuitics colonies and like they huff friends whatever, and they're they're really like into it. So now your dad just runs amuck

naked and you don't even care. Well, it's like an American thing. I feel to be very tabooish about that. But like, if you go to any European country, you will find people on the beach toaplets. So there you go, Evan, it's her dad. Does that make you feel better? Dad? You're telling me that your dad was walking naked through your zoom call. That's okay. So I'm like, I wasn't. I didn't know. You could literally see down the hall, like my house is pretty big, Like, oh my gosh,

I'm so sorry, Evan. This isn't necessarily a bad thing. Okay, she's close with her family, which is good. They may need to work on some boundaries, right if you were updating her. My parents don't live with me. They don't live with me. Okay, they were visiting. But yeah, and she's a real free, liberated spirit, which is a fun person to date. I'm just saying of it. Okay, you guys are just believing her, But how do you know that she's like telling the truth. I've only been on

one zoom date with her. I haven't even seen her in person, Like, I don't know, I just feel like I'm getting set up here. I feel really uncomfortable, honestly, Like if it's a large, old white guy, that was my dad, and I don't know what else to tell you, Like it's not something that you know my parents had at that point, Like they're older. They had me when they were older, so they will do whatever the hell

they want. All right, Well, maybe the answer to this is for you guys to do one more zoom date and then we have Nina. You bring your dad back on naked peanut butter jar around just to make sure that we can get a perfect comparison, and then Evan will be able to tell for certain whether or not it really was your dad the last time. My dad has a sixth sense of humor. Who would totally direct I mean, if you're willing to do that, we will pay for the peanut butter. Come on, Evan, I think

you should say yes. Honestly, she has such a good sense of humor. If she promises not to do the naked dad thing again, then yeah, I'll do a second zoomer. Okay, this is where dating's at. I promise her to do the naked dad thing again. Well, there you go. Congratulations Nina, you got a second date. Oh my god, Well make sure my dad wears hands and make sure let's get your mom naked on the next zoom. No, thank you, Moving ninety two point five