Second Date Update PODCAST: Your Shirt Sucks

phone with us right now. He wants to call a girl named Carla. In his email, he said that he planned a fun little date where they were gonna go like bar hopping to a bunch of bars, and by the time they got to their third one, she wanted to leave it. He was like, no, we have to go to the fourth bar. I planned four bars. So that's why he thinks he's not getting a call back Justin, did you do it like that? Or you're not as

aggressive as I picture? I don't think I was quite as aggressive, is okay, So why don't you tell us how it happened. So we're at the third bar and we're having a great time. But she starts to complain that her feet or starting to hurt, and I didn't think too much of it, you know, like girls complain about that all the time. We no, was she wearried heels to this bar hopping date? Yeah? Well they were kind of like not like hi yo, hi uel. Did you tell her prior to the date that this was

what you guys were going to be doing? Walking a lot? No, because I wanted to surprise her because I thought that was more fun and kind of like an adventure. You know. If I was wearing date night heels and I had to walk to three different bars, it makes you feel like you want to cut your feet off. Really sometimes it hurts that bad. Well, I didn't think it was that they looked pretty comfortable for you know, how many high heels have you warned a couple? But that's that's

another story, all right. So she was complaining about her feet hurting, but you still made her go to another bar? Yeah, because the next one. I knew it was going to be awesome and it's like one of my favorite places, and I knew she would really like it, and so like, come on, let's go, And she's like, oh, but my feet, my feet. I'm like, oh, come on, we'll go to the other bar. It'll be awesome. She's like, I really don't want to go because she are killing me. Why

don't you get it? And I'm like, come on, so take your shoes off and let's go. You going to the next bar? Yeah, I offered to even carry her shoes. Okay, but if she says but if she says she wants to stay, why not just go? Okay, maybe we can go to the fourth bar a different time. I don't know. I was just excited. I say that was in the moment, and I wanted to show her around. You know, I get probably should have thought about that because she seemed

pretty upset. She's kind of pissed off. So when you got to the fourth bar, she's just like done talking to you at that point. How do you know she was upset? Yeah, kind of like I went and I got the drinks and she's like sitting there with her arms crossed and she's picking off her shoes and she's like looking around. I'm like, hey, this plays great, and

she's like yeah, whatever it was, Yeah, it was. She was like totally giving me the cold shoulder and I'm like, oh, okay, maybe this didn't go as well as I hope, So how did everything end? Then after that, I got her cab and I like wanted to give her a hug and then like a kissed good night, and she was just like bye, and she got in the cab and closed the door. Oh that's it. That's it. No kiss, not even like she didn't give me a hug, not even a handshake. So she was definitely upset that you

drug that other. Yeah, she like grabbed her shoes out of my hands because I was carrying them. Like I get that she was upset. You know, her feet were sore and stuff like that. But that bar was awesome. It's like the fast bar. I don't know how she was not having a good time. How did that win her over? It's like so good. It's like there's so much going on. It's like just a party, and I'm like, look around, forget about your feet, look around, take this bar in, enjoy it for what it is. So you

definitely screwed up by doing that. Okay, I know it sounds like bad, But like before that last bar, though, we were having like such a good time. We were laughing, she was like poking fun at me and laughing. I was poking fun at her and laughing. She even like she looked at my shirt and she's like, that's a terrible color one and you liked that? Well, yeah, she's like, she's like, I love someone who's honest. Like you know, most first dates, it's like you don't know what to say.

It's like really superficial. You're talking about, you know, your job or the weather or something. But she came right out and told me my shirt looked horrible, and I thought, that's refreshing. Yeah, I guess it is. I guess you're right. It was just it was just like such a good time. How many times have you tried to get ahold of her since your date? Like six or seven times? Like I texted a lot and I called her a couple

of times, but mostly just texting. It's like you're forcing this and the last bar all together well, I mean, well, I don't understand why she wouldn't want to get back to me, Like we had such a good time and that bar was awesome. I will say, by the fourth bar, if your feet hurt, sometimes that's all you can think about. So maybe it really wasn't you. Maybe she was just legitimately in pain. All right, well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update.

All right, yeah, awesome, okay, man, hang on looking jubil in the morning. You know, most people, if they were out on a first date with someone and that person insulted them in the first fifteen minutes, they'd be like, all right, I probably don't want to see them again. Not justin though. The guy who's on the phone to do a second date update today he went out with a girl named Carla. Shortly unto their date, she said

I hate your shirt. It looks terrible on you. And instead of going like, wow, that was rude, Maybe I don't want to see this girl again, he was like, oh, I love you so much. I feel like it's gonna be the first time we do a second date update where I'm truly not worried about this guy's feelings. Like we could call her, she could say something really mean, and he's gonna be like, awesome, Yeah, I know she wasn't me. I don't think she wasn't mean. I mean,

it's a difference and honesty. It's sort of like someone's like I'm punching you, but I still love you. Yeah, it's like yeah, it's like that. It's like like that. The big difference is that she is honest, and that is like so rare to come by, and especially like so immediately in a date, like the world needs more

people like that. To a point, Justin I feel like there's she's one of those people that's like, I just have no filter, and those people say that because they're using that as an excuse to just not say I'm just kind of an a hole. I think she's saying it because she cares. Okay, cares so much. She didn't call you back. I'm gonna doll the phone of her right now and see exactly why she's not getting back to you. Okay, okay, cool, here we go. Hello, Hi,

can I speak to Carla? Please listen? Hey, Carla? How are you? This is Jewbil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Who is it Jebil from brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio show? Oh do you have the wrong number? I'm pretty sure I don't have the wrong number. Did you recently go out on a date with a guy named Justin? H Yeah? Why do you know that? Because Justin listens to our show and asked

me to call you. What why? Because he told us about your date, said that he really enjoyed going out with you, but you won't return any of his phone calls or god, text messages, and he wanted to see if we could get you on the phone and find out why. So I don't. I don't answer his text, and then he calls the radio show to get holder. Oh my god, yep, that's exactly what happened. Any interest in telling us why you won't call Justin back? I can't even I can't believe that he wants me to

call him back. Why is he so interested in me? He said he really enjoyed your date and wants the chance to go out with you again. Oh my god? Him? Wrong with this guy? What's wrong with this guy? Is it hard to believe that somebody would want to go out with you again? Carla? I get. I mean, I don't think that it was that it was that great

of a date. Why is that? I just it was long and painful, and I think I was getting kind of cranky at the end of it, and then it was a very abrupt goodbye when I left, And then yeah, and then I haven't responded to any of his texts or calls by long and painful. Let me ask you this. He told us about your date. He said that he drug you to a bunch of bars, and by the third one, you said your feet were hurting and you didn't want to go to the fourth bar, but he

made you go to that one. Did that piss you off? Yep? Okay? What Why wouldn't you just leave at that point though, like, call a cab on your own, get a new bird. I know I should. I was going to leave after the third one, but he really wanted to go to this fourth one, and he was just he was like this little sad, little kid that really wanted to go to this fourth bar. He kept saying how great it was, and I was like, well, what's great about it? Here's a hockey guy. I see, it's so awesome, and I

you know, I felt bad for him. He had this whole plan. I felt like I was let him finish his this master date plan that he had. So it sounds like you absolutely hated being out with this dude. I mean it was like fine, you know, he bought me a bunch of drinks, so that was nice. That was fine. Uh how was the final bar? Did you? Was it as great as he had promised? Uh? It was this normal bar. And he goes to the fact that he wanted to show me this old jukebox that

they had. He acted like it was the only bar that had a jukebox. I didn't have the harder to tell him that most barns have that there's a lot you know, Carla, I feel like you and I could be friends. We both seemed to have the same zest for life, Like that's a stupid jukebox. I just wasn't gonna do it. Wasn't having a great time at the end, but he just like, you wouldn't get to him. I think I even told him a shirt looked terrible, and he goes, oh, oh, he's so honest. That's cool. Yeah,

held he told us all about that. He was like, I love her honesty. Man, she ripped on my clothing. Yes. It was like, is this a joke? And the texting and calling me, I couldn't I drop the phone first one I saw him calling, I was like, why didn't you just send him a text? I mean, because obviously he wasn't getting the point. If you would have texted him back and said, no, I don't ever want to see you again. You would have been like, oh man,

there she is being honest again. I love it. Like, who knows how he could have read that and then he would have Yeah, Carla, thank you very much for telling us a little bit about your date with Justin. I appreciate it. Talking about the date was ended up being more fun than the actual date. Well, since you were honest with us, I feel like I should be honest with you and let you know that Justin is actually on the phone listening to this conversation. No he's not,

Yes he is. Why because we think it's funny, that's true. No, it's not. I don't. I don't understand. I like, we like so click. I know, like you're like the last part wasn't so great, but the first part was really great. And I mean like, I mean, I took your advice to heart. I got all these new shirts and every No. I just don't think that we did click, though, but we totally You totally got me. And that's what I was like. You were so authentic, you were so honest,

and I was just like, that's amazing. That's the kind of person I want to date. That's the kind of person I want to be around. That well, that's very flattering, but I just unfortunately do not feel the same way. And that jukebox is like an authentic like from nineteen sixty three. It plays like old forty fives. I mean, you can't find that anywhere anymore, and it's functioning and it's I mean, it's amazing. It's just it's just not it's just not a match. I'm sorry, like you've got

I mean, I made fun of your shirt. I feel like I was. I just looked bored the whole time. I was texting with friends while you were talking, Like, what were you not getting that? I wasn't tested like you had to force me to go to the fourth bar. I was ready to go home. Carla. I feel like you didn't even give him a chance from the beginning. It sounds like he walked into the bar and you were already done with him. No. I mean it started

off find the first bar. We had a couple of drinks and it was kind of small talks, and then we got to the second bar and it was that's when the boredom fed in and I was just bored, but I felt bad and I felt like I had to do, you know, the whole bar crawl for him. I don't know. I guess I just read this wrong. I thought we were a great match. I thought we had like a really good chemistry. And I'm just I don't know, I'm like shocked. Yep, you're right, Justin, we

are a perfect match. Really, no being sarcastic again. You gotta come on, you gotta follow along with the conversation. At this point, I think it's a great time to ask Carla if she would like to go on a second date with Justin. Carla, I will pay for a second date. Would you like to wort with Justin? Again? No? Am I not picking up on the sarcasm now? I thought you were being sarcastic at for a suffer. Thank you very much now, Justin? Sorry, man, Well, I guess

thanks for trying. I guess how you have to get better at, you know, following sarcasm. No, hey, no you don't, dude, No you don't. You don't have to get better at picking up sarcasm at all. Thanks man, No, I was big sarcastic. Jesus, I'm not getting it broken jewel in the morning. Steve