Five Rooking Jewels Second d D. One of my favorite things in the Second Date Update is hearing how people meet each other. Yeah, you know, it's always interesting to find out where people meet and how they meet, and especially like for me as a guy, that's all I know is like the pressure of going up to talk to a girl when you're out in public and you don't know what's gonna happen. It's always that nerve wracking experience.
I know for me, every time I've met a girl out, it's always like you see her and she's beautiful and you want to talk to her, and you're like, oh, man, okay, I'm gonna go up to her, and I'm gonna offer the eighty dollars that I have in my pocket. That's not good. I guess I'll go up to ninety whatever she wants looks. You know, it's always been really difficult for me to meet women in public, but it is
interesting to see where people meet each other. And Paul, who's on the phone to do a second Date update today, met the girl that he wants to call at a farmer's market. That's where he says he met her. Paul, how does somebody meet a girl at a farmer's market. What are you just walking around? And you throw some fresh wheat behind you and just hopefully she follows you home. I mean, have you ever been to a farmer's market? Yeah, you can't just buy exactly. I guess I've never really been.
That's what it seems like it would be to me. How's it going, Paul, Hey, guys, how's it going? So? How did you meet this girl at a farmer's market? So basically, it was over the weekend and I was hung over. Right, it was like three in the afternoon. I woke up. Second, who gets up? What dude gets up hung over? And it's like, you know what I'm gonna do? Head down to the farmer's market. Hey man, I got a cleanse. I got a cleanse, you now, I mean that's the first thing you gotta do when
you're hung over. You know, some fresh fruit that works. That's how he works. Okay, So you wandered into the wandered into the farmer's market still drunk from the night before. Yeah, I was more groggy. I was just like, uh, you know, I just need to sober up. I need I needed any healthy antioxidant type of stuff my system out. Okay, So what's the girl's name, by the way, that you met at the farmer's market. Lisa? Name is La Lisa.
All right, tell us about when you met Lisa. So there was like some cheese samplings going on, and I still had the mun cheese, you know, because that sounds good actually on a hangover, Like if I were they do that, they do cheese y. Yeah, Paul, I think you and I need to start hanging out of Farmer's Market. You sound exactly like my type of guy. All right, So you're there drunk eating the cheese, and that's when she walked up. Yeah, you know, I was there. It
was a weird thing. It was almost like Ladies and the Tramp where you know, like a spaghetti scene, but it was like with a piece of cheese and we both like reached up and you're like, oh, hello, are you're going to grab the same piece of cheese? Yeah? That is I mean, if I was this girl and there's this really hungover dude eating cheese at the farmer's Market,
I'm not immediately attracted to you. Okay, yeah, I'll thus you could tell I was hung over honestly, because you know, it is when you're like still having the bed hair, you still feel sexy and confident, you know, where you're still kind of buzzed, but you're still like, yeah, all right, so you guys went to grab the same piece of cheese and you were like, what's up? A girl? Are you doing here? Yeah? Well, not like that. I mean I was still a gentleman, so I was like, oh
my bad. You know, you could have it, you know, and we kind of sparked a little conversation, you know, flirty, and she was smiling at all the dumb stuff I was saying. And afterwards I was bold, you know, because you know, I was still a little tipsy, and I was like, hey, you want to like maybe grab a coffee or something. Okay, So did you go straight from the Farmer's Market to go get coffee? No, I mean first you have to finish up some errands and shopping.
So I kind of was like with her, you know, because I was like I have to be like, oh yeah, I was shopping too, though, but like, yeah, I have to. We finished shopping, so I had to shop as well. So you had to pretend shop at the farmer's market to get your date. Yeah, I guess I did it because the spark was there and she seemed pretty interesting, and I don't know, I was just I was just like,
I can't blow this opportunity, you know. Yeah, Okay, so you guys walked around the farmer's market and bought groceries and then went for coffee. It was pretty cool. It was like a little place near there. And she's a really cool chick. You know, she's really real. She's not into like materialistic stuff, which kind of like interests me. Like she's not into like clothes or like, you know, labels or you know. So you met her at a farmer's market and she's not into anything materialistic. You met
a hippie. Yeah, yeah, I guess. You know, she's just different from other girls. I guess now. And so I mean coffee went well, then how long did you guys say? Oh? He probably hung out for like a good twenty minutes or so, just like talking about life. And the only thing was like afterwards, I kind of asked her out and I said, Hey, can we like maybe actually go on a date or something? And she said, yeah, why not? Maybe smiled, and I remember, maybe it's not necessarily the
best thing to hear. She smiled. She smiled. That's like a good signal of like positivity. So how'd your interaction go after that? Then after the coffee, So we've been texting back and forth, but then she stopped, and I'm just wondering, well, is she busy or is she not feeling me? You know, what's the last thing you said to her? I was I'm kind of awkward with texts, So I think I was just saying like, hey, so still drinking beet juice because like beat juice, saying like, hey,
I'm still drinking it. I'm awkward, So that actually sounds kind of funny. I mean, did you respond to the beat juice comment at all? Or was that the last you heard from her? Yeah, that was the last you Are you trying too hard to like be into what she's into? Yeah? Maybe, I don't know. I mean, I was trying to connect with her just to show that I was into her stuff that she was into. But I don't know. I hope she doesn't think I was mocking her, you know, I hope she doesn't think I'm
an idiot. All right, Well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date. Update. All right, cool, all right, man, hang on brooking jubil in the morning. Second update. Let me think of the best way I can recap today's second date update. Oh like this. He's a reckless drunk who just wanted some antioxidants to cure his hangover. She's a free spirit who was just out to get some fresh cut flowers and some artisan bread. That was until the day they met at the farmer's
market and their lives were flipped upside down. Ryan Reynolds stars as Paul from today's second date update, and Kate Beckinsale stars is the girl and he's about to call in this new smash hit Free Range Love coming to theaters this summer Love comes GMO free. Hey Paul, does that pretty much recap your date there right in the head? Yes, it is. If you're just tuning in for the second day update. Paul is on the phone. We're about to
call a girl named Lisa on his behalf. They met at a farmer's market, ended up going from the farmer's market to get some coffee. Had a really good time, but she hasn't really agreed to go out with him on a second date. She did say she would think about going out with him, So there was never like a solid yes we're going out. Sore about to get her on the phone and find out why she doesn't
want to go out with him? Anything else you want to add before we call her, Paul, She's just a different type of woman that I've dealt with before, you know, So I just want to see how it goes all right? Cool? Well, not the phone of her right now, get her on the phone and get your Second Date Update. Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Lisa? Please? Speaking? Hi? Lisa? How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Fine? Do I know you? Um? I don't
think we've ever met before. No, it's nice to meet you. Yeah. Wait, I'm sorry. Who else is on the line? Oh, that's the entire show. So it's Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm jew Bil, that's Brooke, that's Jose How are you this morning? Um? Effused that I'm calling you because we recently got an email from one of our listeners asking if we could get a hold of you. Okay, it's a segment that we do on our show called the
Second Date Update. Paul emailed us and asked us if we could find out if you didn't like him for a certain reason. Okay, so are we still a few minutes of your time to talk about your date with Paul? Um. I don't really want to do this, to be honest, Okay, he just really liked you, and he's he's just wondering if he did something wrong or why you're not into him, because he definitely didn't do anything wrong. That's all I'll say.
He didn't do anything wrong, And you have any advice that maybe you could give us for him as he goes forward, like dating in the future, things that he should maybe watch out for. No, I mean it's not It's just it's nothing like that. Um, was he trying too hard? I thought maybe he was like trying to be interested in what you were interested and it came off his fake No, I mean I didn't feel like that. It's just like I know that if I say what kind of went on with me, he's going to be judged,
and they don't really want to be judged. So I promise you we will not judge you. We do these things all the time. I promise you nobody will judge you unless it's something really, really really really really weird, Like if you killed a person, I might judge you if you murder, if you were a murderer, I might judge you. So did you like him at all? At least I really did? Um, there was definitely a really immediate attraction and that I felt a really strong Okay,
so why are you giving him the cold's shoulder? Uh? Well, when we were at coffee, I got a communition premonition, like a vision of something. Yeah, premonition is the best word I can think of to describe it. A really strong feeling. Was it brought on by something he said or something that he did? No, it just occurred, and I needed to take some time to figure out what it was, what it was about. Um, it wasn't so much a premonition about him. Um, just there was something
strong there that I needed to sort out. So I went to a spiritual guide that I see. Um, this premonition or feeling that you had when you were out with him, it was powerful enough that you wanted to talk to your spiritual person about it? Yeah, very much show Um does that mean like you liked him a lot? I mean I liked him a lot, definitely. And then and then I got this feeling, you know, like I said, at coffee, and it was strong, you know, and so I had to go investigate it. Okay, So what did
your spiritual advisor say? Do you mind telling us that? Uh? Yeah, but you just gotta be like, I understand that, what I believe is that when everyone believes, and I get that, but just like, please be respectful for sure. Okay, So my spiritual advisor connected to the reason why we had such a strong connection is because you're actually related in the past life. In the fifteen hundreds, he was my father. Um,
what in the fifteen hundreds he was your father? Yeah? Yeah, I mean that's why it was like I felt like I knew him. I felt like I knew things about him, and it felt like more of a recognition than a meeting. Okay, that's interesting. So you felt that connected to it. I mean, obviously if he used to be your dad, yeah, you would knew him already. I don't know much about what you believe in and that kind of stuff, So you can help enlighten me right now. So you felt like
you were out having coffee with your dad. Yes, I understand he's in a different physical body now as am I but if you believe in reincarnation, and you believe that when we die we are reincarnated in another body, that nothing, nothing is treated or destroyed, right, you know, things come back in different forms. So it was not like, that's literally my dad, but that was my dad's spirit. Okay, And you don't want to date your dad, but it's your dad from the fifteen hundreds. I mean that's pretty
far removed. What's your dad, always your dad, but but your your dad. I believe this is what I believe, and I understand that that's not what everyone. Okay, So how how did you feel when he found out he was your dad from the fifteen hundreds? I felt like it made sense why I felt like I knew him so well already. I mean, obviously it was kind of a bummer because I did like him. Um yeah, I mean for me, it would add something to it. I'd be like, sweet, I get to kind to sleep with
my parents sort of. But I'm a little different too, Lisa, how one told you either you know, I'm getting a premonition right now, actually, are you? Yeah? The premonition is that he's on the other line listening to this conversation. Are you serious. Yes, I am, Paul. Are you there? Yeah? Say how do your daughter? I'm kind of like, huhh. I mean I don't really want to say, um, you know, I think that's you know, you know, you understand why I didn't carry back. I mean, are you serious? Yeah?
I mean, is this I'm just wondering. Is this just you don't want to talk to me anymore? You just do want to like? I mean, I feel like this might be like you saying friends down, but in an over complicated way? Is at it or because I mean, I'm not trying to get out of it. I actually I do like you, so I'm not trying to like evade relationship. I'm definitely not comfortable dating for obvious reasons. Some of them used to be my dad. I mean, this is a joke, right, Why else do you think
we felt such a strong connection at first? Oh? Because you're pretty and I'm cute. Is there any chance that your spiritual guide could be wrong and that maybe you had a connection because he's actually your past husband from the fifteen hundreds? No, I mean she's never hearing me wrong in the past. I really I trust her completely, So no, but I'm not your dad, I mean my dad now. Yeah, but I'm not well, I mean, all right, so this is hard. This is like a hard mass problem.
I have to wrap my head around. All right. So I'm not your dad now, So what's the problem. I think what he's saying, Lisa is would you like to go out on a second date with Paul? We will pay for a second date. He was your dad a long time ago. I don't think it should really matter now. Unfortunately matters to me, um a lot. So wow, Um, if you would like to have a relationship, you know, and a friendship or we can connect up our past, that would be awesome. Um, But but no for dating. Wow.
I don't understand like why we had a connection. I mean, I mean we did, like, but it was because you were my dad. I don't understand how that could like stop this from what we had. Yeah, I mean, is there any hoophole? Unfortunately no. Yeah, maybe you could ground her and force her to go out with you. You are the father figure here. Well sorry, Paul, no second date. And Lisa, I appreciate your time, and I appreciate you
being open and honest with us. I know it had to be hard because he thought we were going to judge you and make fun of you. I did, all right, Yeah, so I appreciate it. Okay, have a good day. He too. Wow, that was really hard not to judge her fun