Second Date Update PODCAST: You Throw Like a Girl

think so. I never did much like actual lovn. But maybe it's fun. Mama just wanted a tasty morsel of meat for the weekend, and that meat was named Sam, who just wanted some iron candy for her son's baseball game or something. I don't know, but I don't think that's what was happening. Your weekend lover experience involved her son. Yeah. Yeah, she's a single mom, but she's really really pretty and she's super fun. She's got a great personality too. I

was really pleasantly surprised. How did you meet this single mom? We met online we get lovers dot com kind of the way you have to say it, all right, So he for a weekend and then don't call me back ghost me dot com. So the first time you guys hung out, you met her son, and that didn't alarm you at all. Oh no, no, no, we didn't. It wasn't the first time we hung out. The first time we did it actually kind of like the classic way. We went for drinks and we had a lot of fun.

But she had to leave early because she said, you know, she had to go take care of her kid, and I was, yeah, it made total sense. But we had a lot of fun. So because we hadn't really spent a huge amount of time together that first night, I said, well, hey, why don't we go out to dinner tomorrow night, which was Saturday. Okay? So she said okay, sure, And things weren't even better the second time. You know, it was great. We were laughing, we were telling each other jokes, getting

to know each other better. And the next day she says, well, hey, my son has a little league baseball game. So I was like, cool, and she said why don't you come? And I said I'd love to. So boring I watched professional sports kids don't know how to play very well. Little league baseball is more interesting than real baseball. Because you know, they whiffed the ball and they don't know what they're doing. That's funny, you know, real baseball is

just like they spit and they scratched themselves. I don't know, I can't stand it. Yeah, I love it. So you actually went along to watch her son's baseball game. That's it feels like a big commitment to me. Well, I mean yeah, but I was feeling it, so I said, you know what, cast your fate to the win. Let's see what happens. You know, it could be fun. And what was that like? Was it what you expected it

to be? Well? Pretty much, yeah, nobody really. You know, it's a little league baseball game, so you know, we'll spend some time talking to the other parents. So we watched the game a little bit. But after the game, I was trying to score some brownie points with their kids, so I took them aside and I bought them a hot dog and an ice cream cone. And I said, well, don't let's don't tell your mom because you know she's

probably gonna get mad that you had the sweets et cetera. Wait, hold up, you went in ahead and bought her son something that you told him to keep as a secret, Like that's kind of creepy. Yeah, it's not creepy. It's it's it's man time, you know, like like man to man. Sounds creepier that I've heard that before. Trust mean, nothing good game of that. So well, I mean, I'm just saying that's my first red flag is that you're buying

her son ice cream without asking her. Well he wanted it, and I was, again, you're just making yourself sounds terrible, sound not doing myself any favors right now, You're not anyway, you got the kids some ice cream? And did his did his mom like give explicit details not to give him any ice cream? No? I mean she hadn't said not too, but she hadn't said it was okay either. I didn't even ask. Okay, you're just trying to be that cool guy, like, hey, dude, here's some ice cream down.

Tell your mommy, I'm the man by the way, own a leather jacket and a car. Want your mommy to like me? Hi? Five? Is that what you were doing? Yeah? Have a stretched that out over like ten minutes, and that's that's basically all right. So how did the t ball game end? And did it fine. She just talked a little bit. Then she said she had to get him home and I said okay, and you know, then

she took off and then I took off. But then I tried to call her that evening, do you know, tell her I had fun and see if we could make plans to hang out again. And she didn't pick up. So I left her a voicemail and she didn't answer. And then a day or two went by and I texted her and she still hadn't answer. She's just like, as soon as she left the game, that's the last

I've heard of her. And I've been pouring over my head and I'm thinking, and I'll bet you any amount of money that that little probably told on me and ratted me out totally okay because I bought them ice cream and she probably flipped out and got mad that I've got and it was just there's just stupid. But there's one scoop. But it's not the ice cream. It's the going behind her back thing because you don't know her parenting style, you don't know what rules she has

set up. I mean there's eight thousand different Wow, that's not a good idea. None of them are good though, it's just an ice cream cone. If you're that kind of like, you know, hyper parent, it's like, come on, loosen up a little bit. Yeah, all right, Well we'll play a song come back Caller and see if that bastard rated you out. Then your second date update right

after this. Okay, sounds good? All right, Brook and jubil in the morning, and welcome back to Brook and jubil Field and your second date update up to bat Right now is Sam and Sam's in quite the pickle. He went out with Brenda and spent the entire weekend hanging out with her, some dinner and some drinks, and then concluded his weekend with a wonderful day at the ballpark watching her son play in a little league game. But now Sam isn't getting a call back. Will he be

oh for one? In career second date updates, We'll find out in just a moment. But first let's talk to Sam and see if he's ready to make the call. Sam, are you ready? Yeah, I'm ready. This is actually I'm asleep listening to your baseball announcer voice. But like Moose people are when they watch baseball, Sam, We're gonna give her a call and find out why she's not calling you back after what you thought was a wonderful weekend.

Any other thoughts before we get started. I'm just confused as to why she wouldn't call me back, because you know, we spend three straight days together. So well, I'll doll their phone number right now then and see if we can figure out what happened. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello him, I speak to Brenda. Please. This is hey Brenda. How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, I'm fine. Who is this again? Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

It's a radio show. Oh okay, okay, obviously long time listener, appreciate that, Brenda. You're welcome. Any idea why a radio show would be calling you? I don't know. Did I win something? No, you didn't. You actually went out on a date with one of our listeners and now you're not calling him back and he's wondering what happened. His name is Sam, right right, and Sam told us that you guys spent like a whole weekend together, but now you won't call him back. Well, I don't think I

would call it a whole weekend. I mean, it wasn't like we were together every waking moment. He said, you did dinner, you did drinks. Yeah. Yeah, it doesn't sound like it was a fun time for you. Uh yeah, well, I mean it started off all right. But it started off started off all right. That's usually how people like dates recapped. Did you just not enjoy hanging out with him? You know? I mean I was kind of into him the first night. He was nice. I mean, I'm nice

enough for me to try again for dinner. You're just showering this dude with compliments. I thought for sure you would have been like head over heels for this guy since you invited him to your son's teaball game, because that's a big leap. Yeah, how do you know he went to my kids game? He told us all about it, Oh he did, He told you everything. Yeah, he said that you guys went out on a Friday night, had some drinks and dinner on Saturday, and then your son's

baseball game on Sunday. Yeah, and he's confused because he thought you had a wonderful time each of those days. Well, something changed Sunday at the baseball game changed. Yeah, I mean, we're at the little league game, having a nice time, and suddenly he kind of starts it's like talking trash about these little kids split skills. He's ripping on the kids. I mean, it's understandable. Little league play is terrible. They're children, yeah,

I know. And the little kids yeah, I mean, they're five years old and it's time to step it up and play like an eight year old. That's what I say. But so he was ripping out in the kids the whole time. Yeah, I mean, he's like cracking jokes about I'm kind of loudly, and like other parents are starting to kind of give weird glances. And then at one point he like turns to me and says, in all seriousness, and he says, it looks like your son could use

some throwing lessons. What don't worry, don't worry about it. I'll teach him how to not throw like a girl. That was he serious about that or was a really bad joke? He seemed totally warious about it to me, Like, I mean he made a point about it two or three times, two or three times? Yes, what was your response, I mean, did you say anything back to him? I mean, my mom would have been like, yeah, you're right, the kids sucks. But did you say don't talk about my

kid that way? No, I didn't say a thing. I mean, I'm not gonna honor that with a response. But I was fuming, Okay, understandable, So well, yeah, I mean I don't want some jerks like that around me or my kids totally. Well, unfortunately he's kind of around you right now, because he's actually on the other line listening to this phone call and wants to talk to you. What yep, Sam, are you there right? Brand? Uh? Hello? Um, I guess we should probably have a little chat then, shouldn't we? Um?

Yeast of all, I don't know what there is to say right now, Sam, except you know, maybe you'd like to apologize. What's just how you? So let me finish right. Just for the record, I was trying to help, all right. I didn't mean anything malicious. I wasn't trying to be nasty. I'm just calling it like it was. I like sports and kind of get into sports. I wasn't being vicious or nasty. I mean, I didn't like, you know, get

drunk or throw my beer. You make it sound like I was, So I'm sort of yetty out there and in the stand. I wasn't not to my estimation anyway. And yeah, you know, look, I was trying to find a way to honestly kind of bond with your kid, and I thought maybe if we could play some baseball. I mean, because I know you've got your son, and your son's your top priorities. Show if I want to be with you, I have to get along with your son as well. That's that's a part of who you are.

So I'm trying. I was trying to help. I was honestly. I wasn't gonna lie to you or sugarcoat anything. I'm just saying it like it was. You're not gonna bond with a five year old kid by killing his mother that he spucks. I'm sorry, I know it's just gonna sound weird, but I didn't mean that in a bad way. You didn't mean it in a bad way. You were actually critiquing a five year old performance, like you should just be happy if they make it to first base

instead of third base. Look, if you start now, you might actually have like a cal ripkin on your hands. You know, if you could have started early, you totally be one of those dads when you have kids, won't you? Yeah? Maybe? I mean, I don't see any problem with wanting your kids to be the best that they can be. And Brenda, honestly, that's all I want for your son is just I don't want him to suck as bad as you did that day. Oh my god. And I mean that with all.

Don't do you respect? That is so rude. If you're gonna take it rude, it's gonna be rude. You could just, you know, laugh at all. You have no idea about what you're saying, do you? I have every idea what I'm saying. I was offering to help him be better. If you didn't want me to help, you just said thanks, but no thanks. You didn't have to ghost me on the phone like this. I don't even know what to say to that. There's nothing wrong with my son's athletic ability.

There's something mentally wrong with you sizing five year old kids. Look again, for the record, it's not that there's anything wrong quote unquote with your kids athletic ability. I just said he could be better. Well in that case, Brenda, would you like to go on a second date with Sam? I know he'd like to see you again. We'll pay for it. Oh yeah, I'd love to go on a second date with some guy. He's gonna criticize my son's spelling. Kiss well, you know if he's if he's not a

good speller. I was a great speller growing up. I see, Brenda, Sam could coach your kid in all the ways of being a man. Yeah, he's the worst super dad. Are you sure you don't want to go out with him? Yeah, I'm positive on this very snary. That's extremely disappointing. I guess we did find out that Sam is oh for one in the date department. Just shows Sam that every time he criticizes a five year old throwing skills, he definitely doesn't get a date. Maybe next time he'll try

to not do that. What do you think, Sam, Well, at least he didn't wrap me out about the ice cream, So that's night. Yeah, don't worry about it, Brenda. Next for your time. In the text in at seven eight, five to nine, two says I don't really support the guy ripping on the kids baseball skills, but the kid probably did suck. Let's give him that. It's broken jewel in the morning. That second date up, that you just heard was obviously tapeball. Brooke was still here. She's out

on attorney leaving. Jackie is filling in. But the dude named Sam wanted to call a woman named Brenda. He was confused why she wasn't calling back after they spent like the whole weekend together, even went to her kids little league game, and Brenda wasn't calling him back because during the game, he just ripped on the kid the whole time. It was like, you know, I can teach him how to throw like a boy if you want to.

That's some of a turn off off, you know, I mean, on a date, if he's already kind of being a bully, why would you go on another date with a bull bullying and stepping in as a father figure, like, I'll take care of this kid out of throw. We're only going to raise champions together, you and I. So at the end of everything, she yelled at him and told him never to call her again, and he still didn't get it. He's still like, what I was just trying

to help kid sucks. I'm a nice guy. Yeah, he should just be a little league coach and get all his aggressions on another you know, and I really should keep been separate from his dating life. Remember, if you want to do a second day up date, I'll have to do his email the show, and we will call the person that didn't call you back