Second Date Update PODCAST: What’s Yo Flava?

is that? Well we'll get into that in a second. I'll have him tell us all about that. But Dane is on the phone and he wants to call a girl named Hillary today. Dane, how are you? I'm all right? How are you? Guys? I would not be all right if I were you, I'd be a very sad, broken man. After reading your email, I'm getting over it. I've had a little bit of time to heal. I guess good,

good day, so hurt gool good to hear. All Right, Before we get into all that, first of all, tell me a little bit about the girl that you want us to call today. Where'd you meet her? Well, we actually met off of a Tinder okay, and U you know, I like the way that she looked, and we kind of started texting a little bit and decided that we were going to meet up for a date. And are you a guy Dane who often meets chicks off of Tinder? Oh? Well, I suppose. I mean it's it's twenty fifteen. I mean

that's where everybody. The technology is there, so why not you not take advantage of it? I agree with you on that one. So what did you guys do when you decided to meet up? We met up at a restaurant by the mall. We went to the kitchen and it was actually pretty the meal or the time spent with her. No, the meal, I don't know, with her was cool. The drinks were good, and the conversation was good. So did you did you purposely bring her to a restaurant that you really don't like. I didn't know it

was going to be that bad. It's been a while since I've eaten there, and I was hoping that they had fixed their problem. Suddenly the second day up, they had turned to do a yell for viewer. Yeah, so you didn't enjoy the food much, but you enjoyed her company, and dinner went well. Yeah, I enjoyed your company, dinner went well. She was just as hot as she was

in her pictures, So that was no disappointment. It was your goal here the entire time to hook up with this girl because you met on Tinder and you just wanted or are you looking for, like to actually date someone. Well, I mean, isn't that everyone's goal eventually? It's does a couple with somebody? Some people want to have a relationship with a person. Other people just want to have one night. I mean, I live by kind of the mantra, kind of that you know, you can't go in expecting too much. Yeah,

so something came out of it. Great, But to go with the flow, you hook up, never talked to her again, that's cool. You hook up and then have a relationship with her, that's cool, right, But this tick was really cool, and I'm just kind of at a loss. You know that she hasn't called me or returning any of my text or phone calls. Well, the big thing that I picked up from your email was the car ride back to your place. Tell me a little bit about that.

Oh okay, Well, here's what happens. After dinner, we went to we went to go see a movie, and uh, it was a pretty good movie. You know. During the movie, she kinda leaned her head on my shoulder, and I was like, okay, you know, it's nice. You know, so I figured, you know, what's go time? What time? Because she put her head on your shoulder, did she also make eye contact once? And you knew, you know, it's like I hope that you try to like see if

she was actually answered. It was just like head on the shoulder and then all a sudden you're on zipping your pants like, no, no, it's not like I did the old hole in the popcorn bucket, you know, So that's go time for you. Huh. I just thought she was getting comfy with me, so I figured let's get out of here. So you figured let's get out of here. Yeah, it was torking in the movie. So you know, how do you how do you do that? Dane? Well, she

didn't not go. She put her head on your shoulder and you just turned her like, yeah, I know what that means, get out of here? That is that is impressive, Dane. Are you sure that she understood your intentions? I mean, what would you have thought that I wanted to go have coffee. Honestly, I think head on her shoulder is so innocent, like hand on a thigh maybe indicates a little bit more. Head on her shoulder. Well, do you remember I did meet this girl on Tinder? Yeahs Usually

tender's pretty much on hookup app. So if you go out on a Tinder day and somebody says let's get out of here, usually means go back to my place. Yeah, And on her tender profile, it's not like you know, some people on Tinder they say, you know, I'm not here for hookups, swipe left. And she didn't have that, okay, So obviously regardless, she agreed to go in your car with you wherever you're going when you said let's get out of here. That says a lot to me. And

she had her own car, okay. So what happened in the car ride? Then we're just kind of chit chat. About halfway over to my house, she gave me the old I shouldn't do this routine, okay, and she asked she had to fileud drive her back to her car, and so said, I are you sure? And you know she she was, I guess and you know, I'm not a creep. So I took her back to over to the mall where car was. That's way less than what

I would have done. Are you sure I would have actually pulled the car over, got on my hands and knees and begged please, we're almost there, were almost please come back with me. Well maybe that's how I felt inside, but I didn't want to actually say that I didn't do that. But all right, So so you took her back to her car and dropped her off. Did you guys kiss or anything? No? Uh, And that was that

was kind of weird too. Actually, yeah, I dropped her off and I asked her if I did something wrong, and she just said, you know, it was the first date and we should probably take things slow. And she gave me a hug. So the closest intimacy you guys had was head on shoulder and hug. Yeah, all right. You know. She was like, yeah, you know, text me or call me, and I was like, okay, So I have a couple of times, text her a couple of times,

called her a couple of times. And I don't head it nothing at all, not even like a hey or nice. But decision not nothing. Okay. Do you remember a moment in the car where her mood changed, where she started second guessing what she was doing. Yeah, about the time when you said I really shouldn't do this fills it out for you. All right, man, Well we're gonna play a song, come back, call her and get your second day update. Okay, all right, great, all right man? Oh

mind looking jubil in the morning. Second Dane, I think I know how you screwed up on your first date. You do, I do. I think you gave your date too much time to think about her bad decision. No, that's what I think happened. Why is there going to be a bad decision because it's you, Dane. If you're just tuning in for the second day update, Dane met this girl off a tender. They went and had dinner, went to the movies. During the movie, she put her head on his shoulder and to Dane, he was like, yes,

it's time to do this. So he said let's get out of here, and they were driving back to his place, but like halfway there, she stopped and said, nope, I'm not down. Take me back to my car. Dane, being the gentleman that he is, took her back to the car and Drop Dropping hasn't heard from her since. But what I'm saying is you gave her too much time when she put her head on your shoulder instantly. Pants should have come off. Should do it right there in

the movie theater. You gotta when opportunity knocks, you gotta answer the call. Don't give it too much time for her to think about it. I think that's to get arrested. Hey, it's worth it, trust me, it's worth it, all right? And are you looking for another date with this girl? Are you looking to finish what got stopped in the middle of the drive. Yeah, yeah, either one. Yeah, you're asking some very obvious questions to this guy. He just wants to get a piece. And then if it turns

into more simple, I need to be more simple. Yes you do. Here we go, Dane. I'm about to call it right now and get your second date. Update. Oh hi, can I speak to Hillary please? This is Hillary? Hey Hillary, how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Hey, Hey, Hey, what's going on? Who is this Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm calling you because somebody recently emailed us about you. I recently got an email from somebody who wanted us

to get in touch with you. His name is Dane. Oh and you went out on a date with Dane a little while ago, remember him? Yeah? Okay, Well, Dane really enjoyed your time together. He told us a little bit about your date. But he actually wanted us to get you on the phone to find out why you're not calling him back, because he would love to see you again. I'm just not really interested anymore. Okay. He told us about your date. He said that you guys are actually on the way back to his house and

you told him to turn around. He told you about what actually happened on our date. Yeah. Yeah, because we were going to call you out of the blue without knowing what he thought of the date. So we talked to him a little bit about it, and he said he had a great time. You went to dinner, in a movie, and then he was hoping for more and then you asked him to turn around and take you back to your car. Wha, Yeah, that that kind of happened. Did he say something to you to make you have

a change of heart? Well, you know, you know he shouldn't ask somebody on the first date what their favorite type of condoms are? That was awesome question he asked you. Yeah, that threw me off. Yeah, I would think so how did that? How did that come up? How did that come up? Yeah? I've been on a lot of dates before and I've never once asked anybody what their favorite condoms alone on our first date. Yeah, yeah, there was just like that. It was just kind of like out

of the mood. Like one minute where talking about how awful dinner was, and then he's like, so, hey, what's your favorite type of condoms? It's even a creepier way to put it, not what kind of condoms, He's like, what's your favorite condom? It kind of almost sounds like he's calling you slutty a little bit, like, hey, I know you use a lot of condoms, what's your favorite one? I know? Like curiously, like that was just offensive, Like what kind of girl does he think that I am?

Did you? Did you answer him? No? I was like no, I think you know, I think that maybe we should just call it a night. Yeah, that's a way to kill the mood. I think I don't even like having to go grab one, like from my dresser drawer. I feel like it kills the mood, you know what I mean. But then it'll be like, hey, I hope this one's appropriate for you. Yeah, I got a whole plethora of sizes and shapes whatever you want. Oh man, Hillary, I'm sorry that you had to go through that. Thank you. Yeah.

I should also tell you that Dane's actually on the phone and listening to this too. What Yeah, he's actually on the other line. Hi Hillary. Uh, I'm really I'm really kind of floored, like I didn't realize. I'm sorry, you know, what can I really say? I mean, I'm sorry that you got offended, but I'm not sorry for asking you that question. I think it's kind of a fair question to ask. I thought it was being nice's flight. Are you serious? You thought that I was that kind

of girl? Well, it's I think you're a particular kind of girl. But we were heading back to my house. We left the movie a little early. We were heading back to my house. I mean, I maybe I just had the wrong assumption. Yeah, maybe you think maybe possibly, Well, when you've got in my car, maybe it would have been nice to tell me that, hey, I just want to cuddle or something like that. I thought I was. I thought it was actually a pretty logical question in

this day and age. Logical you think that's logical, Like it would have been nicer if you but they just asked what kind of flowers I like? Now? What kind of condoms I want? What? Why would I ask you about flowers when we're about to go back to my house and have sex? About flowers? Even that's what's going to happen. You don't know that? Well, come on, I met you off tender. That's good right there. Just because I met you out tender doesn't mean that I'm gonna

sleep with you. You I don't know what you're going back to my house? And Hillary, why wouldn't you have just told him at that point, hey, we are not going to need condoms because we're not doing that. Well, I said, take me back to my car. That was That was enough? Wow. I think the polite thing was to ask you what kind of condoms you want? To impolite thing was to not come back. Yeah, there you go.

You're the one who's wrong. You're Hillary. Hey, Hillary, would you like to go on a second date with Dane? I will pay for it. I really would like to. Hell, No, I will not go out on another date with him, all right, I kind of figured as much. Well, Hillary, thank you very much for your time. I appreciate it, sure, thank you. One thing that I do need to know, though, is what is your favorite kindoms? Vied for her pleasure. Nice choice girl to say broken jewel in the morning.

The text and eight five nine two says that dude had a point. They were on the way back to his house, but it's still a very awkward question. That guy is just dumb. They're talking about the second date. Update is broke and jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. This guy, Dane wanted us to call this girl Hillary back after their date. Didn't understand why. After they had saw a movie and they were heading back to his place, she said, turn the car around,

we're not going back there. Well, on the way there, he looked at her and said, what's your favorite condom? Because apparently he didn't have any protection to his house and wanted to get some. But that's a very weird way to phrase it, and it made her fell awkward and it killed the mood and she doesn't really want to see him again. Good for him for using protection him. That's a positive, but always take it with you or stop in the circle. Hey, why don't I grab a

bottle of wine? Some v now say it like that too, and then bite your lower lip after you say it. But the sky's it was something else like I'm gonna grab some wine. And then you go in there and then you just like clear the condom, aisle out and you come out with like a back full of columns and like beer. You know. They also try to disguise it a little bit boxes where you can get like

a multipack. So you just have some options. Remember, if you want to do a second day up, they don't have to do an email the show Brook and Jewel at moving nine two five dot com. We will call the person who didn't call you back two point five