Second Date Update PODCAST: Want my Spaghetti Noodle

and we didn't go out. But after looking back at all my years of dating, that was the most creative thing I've ever done, and this guy outdid me by far, which is impressive. Congratulations Lucas. Oh thanks wet Man. Thanks for having me on. Guys, no problem. I read your email and it was very creative. How you asked this girl out? First of all, what's her name? Gemma? Gemma? All right, why don't you tell us a little bit

about Gemma. Well, she's really cute. We've worked together, we do a catering job, and like I always wanted to ask her out. It was I mean, it took me forever to actually like get the courage of to say anything too. How long have you been thinking about this. Ah, man, it's been at least eight months. Oh that's kind of cute. Would you like so much about her? She's one of those girls' is kind of like cute, but she doesn't know how cute she is, you know. Okay, so she's cute,

very cute. Oh my god, she's so cute. That part what finally made you go, I'm gonna ask her out. If you've been thinking about it for eight months? Yeah, I mean it's been eight months. I just basically looked myself in the mirror and I was like, you know what, if I don't do it now, I'm never gonna do it. Okay. So, so did you actually do something creative or did you do something like Jubles described? No? No, I think I

did something pretty creative. Okay. So one night we were working together on this job and we had all the food set up, and it's right before the event starts, and I said to her, will you please look over there because there's this one special order that I don't want to screw up. Right, So she walks over there. My heart's something. She pulls up the lid of a dish and underneath I had written will you go out with? Me in spaghetti. That's creative. You asked a girl out

in spaghetti. I've never heard of that before, right. What was her reaction? Well, I didn't know because I went in the other room and I started working these tables and stuff, and I'm thinking about it the whole time, and she doesn't say anything until the end of the night. We're cleaning up after everybody. She comes up to me and she's like, did you write will you go out with me? In spaghetti? And I was nervous because I thought that she didn't like it, but she says, did

you really mean that? And I said yeah. So then we made plans to go out. Awesome. Okay, So so it did work. Yeah, the spaghetti ask out actually worked all right. So there's a lesson that a lot of dudes can learn out there. If you haven't ad asking a girl out, use some spaghetti. Spaghetti ask out trick brought to us by Lucas. What did you guys do

on your day when you actually went out? Well, the next night, we're catering a job and she was actually talking to me a lot, getting a little bit flirty. Give me the eyes, you know. Okay, so she's excited obviously about this date. Yeah, things are going great. And then after we're cleaning up, she said, you know, you want to do something and I was like, of course, you're like, yeah, didn't you read my spaghetti letter. I'm telling you guys people underwrite the spaghetti. Did you guys

hang out that night? Yeah? Yeah. So we finished up the job, take her out to my car. It's like, well, why don't you come back to my place. I'll make you some food, we'll have some wine, do that kind of thing. And she agreed. So we drive over to my place and I actually made her can you guess spaghetti? All right? Now it's getting no when the jokes should end. She really liked it though, okay, and it was good wine because it was from the catering company you're listening in.

So you mean you stole the wine? Is that what you're saying? I'm I borrowed, stole Who's keep right? Okay, So you guys shared spaghetti and some stolen wine from your job. Yeah, I guess you could say that you know that she knows that you stolen from the catering company, right, I mean she worked for the same company. It's not a mystery where the nice bottle of wine came from. Yeah, sure she knew where it was from. But it's cool. We all do it. It's one of the parks of

the job. Was it also left over spaghetti that you were serving her at the catering? No, No, I made the spaghetti that night. Okay, fresh spaghetti, old wine. Got it. So how did the date go though? When you guys were actually having dinner and stuff. We actually didn't even get to dinner because things started heating up. We started, you know, making out a little bit wow right away, Yeah, but then a little bit into things, she started getting

a little weird. How so well, she just kind of pulled back and then started being a little bit distant, and she said that she thought we were going too fast. And I was like, what, oh, maybe that's not weird. Maybe she just thought you were going too fast. I don't I've never had a girl and tell me to slow down before. And then she just says to me, you know what, I don't know if it's best that I stay whoa wow? Okay, And that hit me like a ton of bricks. Did you cry? No? I didn't cry,

but you know, I was upset. I wanted to go over to the Spaghettian, right, No, please, I think that's the way you should have just communicated with her. The whole time was bea spaghetti noodle. So did she leave right after that? Then? Yeah, we work at the same place. We do all these same jobs together, and it's been incredibly weird. That's this weird vibe going on. And I don't know how to I don't know what to do. I actually feel bad for you, Like eight months you're

building this night up in your head. It's finally going exactly how you imagined it too, and then everything is apparently fallen apart. Thank you. Have you tried to talk to her about this? I've tried. I mean, you know, I try and talk to her at the job. She just walked into the next room. I'm texting her, I'm calling her, and she never responds to anything. And and you were respectful when she said she wanted to slow down. He said, yeah, that's fine, that's cool, we can do that. Yeah,

And I was totally cool with that. I thought, you know, maybe we are taking things too fast. All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second day update. Okay, all right, thankful you guys. Yeah, man, hang on rooking Jubil in the morning if you're just joining us for today's second date. Update. Lucas is on the phone and he wants to call a girl named Gemma today. They actually started making out twenty minutes in

to their first date. Yeah, get it. But now she's not calling him back and he doesn't know why, and he asked her out in one of the most creative ways I've ever heard. He asked her out with a plate of pasta. They both work at a catering company and one night when they were working together, he spelled out, will you go out with me in spaghetti? And she eventually said yes. But now, like I said, she's not answering any of his phone calls and she's kind of

ignoring him at work. Lucas, what I think you need to do is go beyond words now at this point, what do you mean by that? Well, the pasta thing works so good for you, Right, you got a date? Yeah, I think you should do it again, but this time, don't spell anything out. Just get a hot dog and a bun and maybe a couple of meat balls and place them all appropriately on a plate and show that to her, and she might be down to go out with you again after that. You know, I should have

called you before the first time. I got all the tricks, man, I got all the tricks. Especially said. She said that she thought that they were moving too fast. That's not too fast at all to bowl. We'll call her right now and see if we can figure out why she's not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, May I speak to Jemma? Please? This is she. Hey, Gemma, how are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, you're working catering, so I'm guessing

you're not up early in the morning. Well, how do you know that I work in catering. I kind of know a lot more than you think I know about your Gemma? Why do you Why did you do it like that? Okay, that's super creepy. And who are those people that are in the background. That's broke. Why is that weird guy laughing? That's jose the laughing guy. And then there's me. My name is Jebil and this is Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Why are you guys calling me She's like, that doesn't

make it any better. I'm calling you because you went out on a date with a guy who listens to our show and he emailed us and asked if we could get you on the phone. Wow. Okay. The guy that wanted us to call you today, his name is Lucas. Oh god, and I know you know who Lucas is because you guys work together. Yes, I'm trying to change jobs. You're trying to change jobs to avoid Lucas. Yeah, that is really intense. Why because it's just a little too

awkward for me? All right? Well, what is so awkward? I mean, he told us a little bit about your date. He told us that you guys went out one night after work and went back to his place to eat, and you drank a little bit. He told us that you guys started making out a certain point. He's telling you that we made out. Why is he telling people about our date so explicitly? He did, Well, he didn't give us any like crazy details. He just said that

you guys are making out at a certain point. You stopped and said that you wanted to go, and then you left and haven't talked to him since. I will say he was completely respectful of you, and he was so excited. I mean, it sounds like he's had a crush on you for months and months and was so looking forward to this night. Well, it's like so uncomfortable. I don't know, I just yes, he was obviously very

excited and very inexperienced excited. And was he a bad kisser or I'm kind of scared to ask you what you mean why he was so excited. It's actually just everything everything possible. Just seemed like he's never been with a woman before ever in his life. And I the date started with me going at his door and he shook my hand when he saw me, he shook my I've known this guy for eight months and he shook my hand. Okay, maybe he was being a little bit charming,

maybe he's trying to be sweet. I'll let it fly. And then we walked in and he had like already opened wine that he even he was totally open about it. He was like, yeah, I got it from catering gig. I mean, so he essentially stole wine, but it was already open from being poured at the catering events. So he's cutting corners on your date. Yeah, Yeah, I mean, this is the first date and he wanted to impress me, and he impressed me. I opened aired out used wine,

but you still made out with them? Well because I thought, Okay, well, maybe he's being really sweet intert maybe he's really nervous. But then he started to ask me permission to do everything. And when I say everything, I mean he was like, is it okay if I sit next to you? Yes? Is it okay? If I touch your hands like like this? Can I just put my hand on your hands? Everything? So imagine like can I kiss you right now? Can I kiss you with tongue right now? Is that okay?

All right? No? No, no, so awkward. I've heard people do they can I kiss you thing? And I know some girls have a split reaction that some girls like, just go for it. Some girls are like, I like it when they ask did he really ask you? Can I kiss you with tongue? Yes? Oh god? Can I use my tongue? My tongue? Was that the final question that made you stop saying yes? The final question which was the total total. I mean, it should have been can I kiss you with tom? But it was, um,

can I can I grab your boobs? Your boobs. Can I grab your boobs? Not like let me see them? Let me see them, but you know, not nothing like cool dirty. It was like, can I grab your boobs? Grab? And then I just had to dip out. I mean, it was so terrible. I can understand how that would be awkward to ask everything the most. I also, can I ask you something? Sure? I just need your permission.

Is it okay if I let you know that he is it okay if I let you know that he's on the other line listening right now and wants to talk to you. Are you seeing me right now? No? I'm not, Lucas. Oh my god, I didn't ask you permission to do every single little thing. I mean, you're going a little overboard here. Really listen. You don't want to die, and you know I want to make sure that you're okay with things. No, Lucas, if you were to ask me one time, can I kiss you right now?

That can be still sexy. But it's not sexy when you ask about everything. I mean, you were asking about sitting next to me, holding my hand, topics of conversation. I was trying to take it slow. I didn't want to like put you off or make you feel uncomfortable or anything. If there's anything that we get from this really inappropriate and awkward phone call right now on a radio shows, it's that you should never ever do that again. How do I know if it's okay to if you're boom?

If I don't ask you, I can't even believe you're asking me that question. No, man, I have to ask that question. Stop dogging on Lucas so much. He's trying to be respectful of you, Gemma, thank you trying. I get that he's trying to be respectful, but at a certain point he needs to pick up on the queue that it's just not working. Yeah. Hey, if I remember correctly from that night, you were saying yes to a

lot of things. Good point. I only said yes because I had already consumed nearly that entire bottle of the open air do out wine that you stole from the catering company, and I was too lit. Oh and that's a responsible way to behave on a first date. I'm saying that I was trying to be responsible. That's not That's not my problem. I'm not the one calling into a radio show, Jemma. No, it would have been too awkward. I wasn't prepared to talk to you, Jemma. He liked

you for eight months. You're telling me the entire time that you guys worked together, you didn't have any feelings towards him, and you have a wonderful personality or sweet But as soon as you were alone with me, it was like the worst date I've ever missed. Oh that is harsh man. He didn't do anything wrong. He was

just awkward, for God's sake. But imagine, like like a woman's spark is lit by somebody being manly, at least that's how mine is, And as soon as somebody starts acting like a twelve years old, I can't do it. You know what you like? I guess I wish I never grabbed your boob on that date. I wish you would just asked it. I wish you'd just grabbed it. Yeah. Well, I think we have a little different memory of that night because you were pretty turned on when I was

doing it. Oh, I think we definitely have a different Well, Jemma, I would like to ask you a question. Oh God, Gemma, is it okay if I ask you? If you go out on a second date with Lucas because we will pay for it. You know what. No, I gotta say no. I'm so sorry. You know, Lucas, I wish you all of the best. I really really do. I think you're very sweet. My recommendation for you is that you never

just do not ask questions like that again. Just go ahead and go for it, find that self confidence within yourself and move forward. You sound like a motivational speaker. It's awesome. Listen. There are plenty of girls who want me. All right. I don't need you, I don't need anything like that, So you know, have a great one. You're right, Lucas, there are plenty of girls out there who want you. Just ask them. I'm sure they're out there. And jew in the morning, would you mind if I kiss you

with tongue? This time? It's broken Jewel in the Morning. Talking about today's second date update. Lucas wanted to call Jemma and we got her on the phone and found out why she wasn't calling him back. It's because he asked permission for everything and even utter those words, can I kiss you with tongue? She was not into that. I think his intentions were good, you know, the way

he did it not so smooth. Yeah, I think it's okay to get consent and make sure things are cool, but there's a point when you just kind of have to know that things are okay. Yeah, when they're kissing you back. Yeah, when they're kissing you back. Like at that point you can kind of test the limit and they're like, hey, don't put your hand there, you take your hand away. Yes, but you don't want to ask for everything. And he did that and they decided not

to go out again. The mood every time, every single time, it's kind of like a game of Simon says, at some point, right, remember you want to do a second day update, I'll have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back just five minutes away from your shot at the phrase that page ninety two point five