Second Date Update PODCAST: Wanna Joggle?

I'm all right? Thank you for asking. So your email said that you think that what's the guy's name that you want to call today? Jason? Jason. He says that you think Jason isn't calling you back because you have a weird hobby. Yeah, well that's what I'm thinking. Is she like an extreme knitter or something. Why don't you tell everybody what this hobby is and then we'll judge and see if we think it's strange. Okay, it's called joggling joggling. Wait, like jo gg l joggling. It's where

people juggle jog at the same time. I've heard of this, Like there's always there's always somebody in a race, that's like joggling. Really it's just a joke or you being serious. I feel like I'm getting it's not a joke at all. Like you run and juggle at the same time. Yeah, needed jog everybody's mind is blown. I read your email and I was like, oh, because i'd heard heard of it before, and I was like, doesn't seem like a

big turn off to me. If there's a girl who's into joggling, I actually might think it's kind of interesting. That is some talent. Thank you. So apparently you're a weirdo Carol because you like to joggle. How long have you been joggling? About a year? Almost a year? Oh my god, the name is just so funny. Like I'm actually kind of impressed because I can't even juggle standing still. Yeah right, And why do you think this guy isn't calling you back because you like to run and juggle

at the same time. I don't know. It just seemed like the second I brought it up, he just got really weird. How I don't know, He's just like looked at the bartender and then he wasn't really asking me many questions. It was just it's like, whoa check please, I'm not going out with you, you circus free? Did you explain to him what joggling was, like, I've never

heard of it. Maybe he was thinking it was something totally different, you know, of course, I mean he didn't know what it was, so I was trying to explain it to him, so, you know, to trying to make it sound more normal, like well, you know, jogging kind of boring, so it makes it really interesting and and you know, it's kind of like you can use three

holes I can use for it. And then I kept telling more about it, and he was just getting weirder, and I'm like, no, it's really fun, Seriously, it's really legit and fun. How long did you spend harping on joggling? I mean ten minutes snacks. That sounds like a long time. Maybe I can understand a little bit why he might be turned off if you spent this much time talking about like, whoa, it's not a hobby, like joggling is a way of life for this girl, and I don't

know if I fit into that. So it wasn't that bad, Okay, So where'd you meet this guy? We met because I work at a restaurant. I'm a waitress and he was in for dinner with his buddies, and he was just he was just super cool. I mean, normally, I think it's kind of lame when guys, you know, try to flirt with me or head on me or whatever, you know, or like sometimes they'll actually write their fun number on the bill, and I'm like, right, like, I'm gonna call you. Yeah,

so sweet and charming. And here the problem is you didn't juggle while you're taking orders at the table. Then he would have known going into it that he's going on a date with a juggler. Yeah, I know. So everything in the date was going really great until the joggling topic came up. Yeah, I mean, as far as I know, you know, we were we just seem to be having fun, like just really having a great time. And did you ask him point blank? Does it weird

you out that I'm a joggler? No, I didn't ask him, But even when I tried to change the subject, he's just still I don't know if there's something changed, all right? And how did your date end? He just walked me to a cab. He got a cab for me, and he's you know, I was wondering if he's going to kid need but then he didn't even give me a hug. You should have just stopped him in, like I don't need the cab, then pulled out your juggling balls, started

juggling and ran off. That's why you should have left the day, I know. And you know what, it was also really awkward when I got into the cab because I scowed it over because I thought he was going to get in, and then he just shut the door. Oh that is awkward. Even the cab drivers like, oh, it was just so embarrassing. Yeah, that is embarrassing, slide over like hop on him big, Well, okay, see you later, you know. And then the hole drive home, I was like,

was it the joggling thing? So that's really weird. Though I can't think that the reason he's not calling you back is because of joggling. I would that doesn't sound like something that would be a huge turn off for somebody, you know. It's just the only thing I can think of. Okay, And how many times have you try to get ahold of him since your date? I texted him twice. I texted him once to say thank you, and he responded, but he didn't ask me out. He was just like,

no problem, you know. And then and then I sexted him again a couple days later. It was like something about the weekend, like I hope you're gonna hope you have fun fans for the weekend or something, and he didn't even respond to them. Okay, well, we'll play a song, comeback, call him and get your second date update. All right, Okay, okay, hang on looking jubil in the morning. You know what, I'm actually pissed off. Yeah, yeah, today's second date update

has made me angry. Why is that? Because Carol is on the phone with us, and Carol went out with a guy named Jason. She thinks that Jason isn't calling her back because during the date, she revealed that she has a hobby of joggling. That's running and juggling at the same time. And not a lot of people know this about me, but I juggle. Yeah, yeah, I'm good at it. I like juggling. I've been juggling for I've been juggling since I was like twelve, all right, And

I'm tired of people judging us jugglers. You America, all right, if you have a problem with people who juggle. I'm tired of being treated like a second class citizen because I enjoyed throwing three to four, maybe even five sometimes balls in the air for people's amusement. Okay, it's taken a lifetime, but Carol, I've got your back on this. Okay. If this guy is judging you for juggling, I want your permission that I can let him have it. I

can just release fury on him. Thank you. You're welcome. Dude. I'm just sick and tired of it. There's nothing scarier than an angry juggler exactly. He doesn't know who he's messing with. All right, Carol, you're ready to give him a call? Yeah? And if it turns out that this is really why he doesn't want to hang out with you, because he thinks you're weird, You're not gonna care. Right.

It's just such a bummer because he just seems cool and it would just be stupid for him not you know, Oh, it would be a huge mistake, trust me, because I will ruin his life. I love you, all right, I'm gonna call him right now and get your second date update. Okay, all right, Well, can I speak to Jason. Please. This is Jason. Hey Jason, how are you. This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, Hi, Hi,

how are you? I'm good? Have you ever heard of us? Now? Okay? Cool? Well, the reason I'm calling you today is one of our listeners sent us an email about you. Her name is Carol, and you recently went out on a date with Carol. Yeah. Yeah, it's a segment we do it on our show called the second Date Update. It's where if you go out with someone and then you end up not calling them back after your date, they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and ask if

something went wrong. So Carol wants to know why you're not calling her back. So she like emailed you about our date. Yeah, we talked to her a little bit about it. She said that everything seemed to be going well. She told you about it, Yeah, she did. She said everything was going fine until she brought up the fact that one of her hobbies is running and juggling at the same time, something called joggling. She said. After she told you that you seemed cold and distant and like

you didn't want to talk to her anymore. Well, yeah, I mean it was so the juggling really turned you off. No, okay, Like it was kind of like cute at first, Like she's cute girl, and she's like, yeah, I like to run and juggle, and I was like, oh, that's cool. And then like she kept talking about it, okay, and I don't know, it just sort of got weird. Well how did it get weird? I don't understand what it's

so weird about her liking to run and juggle. I understand it's not something that everybody does, but we just we kept talking about it, and that conversation just launched into this whole new weird conversation that she started talking about stuff and a new weird conversation about what. Well. She asked if I wanted to like do it with her, the juggling thing um, and she asked if I wanted to be like her, like her joggling husband at one point joggling husband. Yeah. Was it just the word husband

that threw you off at that point? Well, I mean I don't want to really be anybody's husband on a first date. I do you feel like she was seeing you guys in the future as husband and wife joggling together? Or something. No, I don't think she wanted me to be like her husband or something. But she started talking about other husbands that she has. What do you mean other she's married husband. No, she's not married, but she

has other husbands that she has. She has like a gym husband, and she has a movie husband and a wedding husband. Okay, she's one of those people like I have my work happy that kind of thing. Okay, But I mean she's just replacing the word friend with husband at that point, like she thinks it's fun. Yeah, that's basically what she's doing, except she has like ten husbands. It's weird. It's kind of weird to call everybody your husband. I'll agree with you on that. She was just so

adamant about it. She just wanted me to be her joggling husband. She kept saying that a couple of times, and I mean she kept saying, it's not a big deal. I have other husbands. It's it's just like that. And I don't know, I just it was weird. I didn't want to just be like another husband in her life. She's got too many husbands, so why not just tell her? When she texted you, like, hey, I don't really, I'm not interested. I don't want to see you again. It

didn't seem like she would take that for an answer. Okay, so now you're her disappearing husband. Yeah, basically I guess. All right. Well, thank you at least for telling us why you're not calling her back. I appreciate that. Yeah, sure, I think you should also tell her though, No, I don't think so. I think I could just move on from Oh okay, well, then I probably shouldn't tell you that she's actually on the other line listening and would

love to talk to you. What yep, car are you there? Yeah? Okay, Jason, Hi, can I just can I just say something? Okay? J will thank you. First of all, I have never had a guy say why didn't you just tell her you weren't interested instead of just not answering her. That's super cool. And ps Brook is totally right. It's just a place. It's just like, yeah, you know, like, oh, that's my work husband, Like you know, it's it's just a joke,

like it's just cultural, not weird. No, actually it's not cultural. I've never heard anybody refer to everyone in their life as our husband. It's a normal thing. So if I was like, Hey, after I'm done with this date, I'm gonna go hang out with my movie wife, you wouldn't have thought that was weird. No, I think it's more open. By the way. You know, Joslyn is getting pretty hot. I mean, it's super cool. Come out with me and we'll joggle for ninety minutes. You will love it. I

don't want to joggle for ninety minutes. It sounds crazy. Okay, nothing, Carol. I mean though, I want to be on your side on this one, but I just think it's kind of weird to just even bring up the word husband period on a first date. Thank you, it's pretty intense word. For me, it's the opposite. It's like making that word super casual. Yeah, but you have ten of them, Okay, as odds you have like a guy friend that you're talking about. You like, it sounds like every guy you

ever meet you decided your husband. Oh my god, that's much true. You already had a joggling husband. What would I have been? I don't know. Maybe I don't even want you to be my joggling husband anymore. Oh well, don't think it's a little weird. You like call the radio station to try to get a second date with me. It's not that weird. I'm her radio husband. So what's fine? Jason, Jason, and would you like to go out on a second date with Carol? We will pay for it. No, no, okay,

that was quick. You're missing out. No, I prefer to date goes. We don't have a husband already. I guess that makes sense. Broken Juwil in the morning,