Second Date Update PODCAST: Vinyl Party

the eighties. We'll talk to him about that in just a second, but first, his name is Sean, and Sean, before we get into what you did on your dates, where'd you meet the girl that you want to call today? I met her to bar. Okay, she came in with a few friends and the obnoxious man and our crew broke the ice and uh right up for me. Nice. Yeah, you don't sound like the obnoxious person in your crew. You sound like the barely awake person. Thank you, no problem.

I didn't know if he was trying to use sexy voice with us or you were like literally still lying in bed. Allow both your buddy opened up the conversation and what was her name? Sarah? Sarah? So tell us a little bit about your first encounter with Sarah. Just talked a little bit and the music at the bar was kind of funny. Someone kind of tackies and was kind of cool, some eighty stuff, some ninety stuff, and we just were just having a laugh and talked a

little bit about her work and just sexy Sarah. I could barely stand it, you know, Sarah, did you use that voice too when you told her that? Didn't you? I tried. My god, you sound so creepy to me right now, like if I saw you in a bar, And I mean, did you really refer to her as sexy Sarah to her face too? Absolutely not. Oh yeah, you're smart. You can call her that now, all right? So you met her at that bar, and let's get to your email about the date you went on, because

it was very interesting to me. You went to a vinyl party, Yeah, somebody I know. You know, they throw these parties where everyone shows up and everybody brings one record, and there's kind of like a curator or a handler that kind of picks everybody one by one and they hand over their record, and then they pick a track off of that record, and then at the end of the song, each person kind of tells, you know, like why that song is special or poignant or sappy or whatever.

So you're a hipster, is what you're saying, I mean, I guess, I mean my jeans aren't large. If that's an indicator, that actually sounds like a kind of cool party though, To be honest, I mean, sometimes it's fun, sometimes it's funny, and sometimes it's super awkward. And I guess that I mean, and therein lies the humor. Yeah, okay, So do you go to these things a lot? I've been to a few, and say a lot, but yeah, you know, I've seen it. Okay. So did she have

to bring a record herself? She did? Yeah, And what did she choose? Because that's a lot of pressure, man, Yeah, yeah, she brought a Cyndi Lauper record. Cool, all right? And you said that they play a song and then they talk about it? What song was hers? We're in the world? What true colors? Dude? I love true colors? How can you not like true colors? How are you hating on true colors? Oh? Horrid? Absolutely horrid? Man? Did you tell

her that? Absolutely? Not? Okay? God, I was gonna say that might be the reason she's not calling you back. If you're like God, I've never bringing you to another Vinyl party. First day thought you were creepy, And now I just think you're a jerk for hating on true colors. Did she seem to have a good time at the Vinyl party? Yeah, you know, she's uh, you know, somewhat reserved,

but she seemed like she had a good time. And she talked to some people that I know and hung around a little bit, and you know, we hung out for hours. It seemed, you know, seemed relaxed and casual and okay, she was. She wasn't like dancing on the tables or anything, but you know, she had fun. Did she judge you as harshly about your pick for your song? Is that maybe what happened? I'm not sure. What did you break? Rick James super Freak? Yeah, come on, nobody

can hate on that. Yeah, but that's tacky on a first date. Man, I don't know. Come on, are you killing me? You're destroying me as fun super Freak on a first date? I mean, could you be any more obvious of what your message was? What are you talking about? It's a fun song, it was a huge hit, the party song. It's a dance song. At the very least two babies were made at least I think so. I think that's actually a fact with that song every single time is played, two babies are made. How did the

night end? Since she was calling an uber and you know, I had my car, so you know, I didn't drink, and I offered. I said, no, no, you let me give you right home, and you know she wasn't having it. She said, you know, she was polite and said the uber was around the corner in two minutes and that was that. And so she just left, no kiss, no hug, nothing, two pat and the back cug. Oh yeah, that's even

worse than no hug. And to call an uber before you even tell someone that you're calling an uber means that you're trying to make a real speedy getaway. Thanks for reminding me, Yes, yes it does. So why do you think she's not calling you back? I don't know. I mean it went, it went pretty well, I thought, I mean I really enjoyed her. I mean, I think she's so damn pretty, and I thought I was being courteous, so you know, I didn't drink, and you know I

couldn't have been that obnoxious. So I really don't know. You know, I would like to know, but I have no idea. Okay, cool, Well we'll play a song, unfortunately not on final digital song, and then we'll come back and get your second date update. All right, all right, all right, hang on brooking jubil in the morning second days if you're just tuning in for today's second date update. Sean is on the phone, and Sean is a super freak.

That's right, He's a super freak. Except the only problem with being a super freak is when you don't have somebody to super freak with. So Sean's been home alone in his house, super freaking by himself, which can be fun, but it's way better with a partner, and the girl that he wants to be a super freak partner isn't calling him back. Sean took his date, her name is Sarah,

to a vinyl party. The idea of the party is you buy a vinyl record and take it there, and then they play a song from that record, and then everybody listens to you explain why you picked that song. That was Sean's song that he picked, super freak. I

guess she picked True Colors by Cindy Lauper. Awesome song. Anyway, He thought that he had a great date and she had a good time, except she left early, took an uber when he offered to give her a ride home, and they ended the evening with just a hug and a pat on the back. So it seems like she didn't really enjoy the date with Sean, and we're gonna get her on the phone right now and find out if that's true. No, Sean, I was a little hard on you in the first part of this. Yes you were. Yeah,

it was. But I'm going to give you a chance. Why should Sarah go out with you again? You should be prepared with that answer. So we're gonna do the heavy lifting at the first part, and we talked to her and find out if something went wrong and everything else. But eventually that's going to come up in the conversation, Sean, And that's what I want you to be thinking about while we talked to her. Okay, you want to feed

me something, I'm on a blank there. Tell her that you liked her a lot and you really want to date her, and you thought she was a magnificent person, and that should be good. I think I put the focus on her. Yeah, there's nothing you can really draw from from yourself. Just put it on her. Okay, all right, all right? There in two genius man minds at work right now here we go. I'm gonna call her right now. Okay, yeah, all right, hang on, Hello, Hi, can I speak to

Sarah please? This is she? Hey Sarah, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Uh, I'm sorry. What are you calling from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, you're not familiar with it at all. No, I don't listen to the radio. Why are you calling? Well, I'm calling because you recently went on a date with somebody who does listen to the show. Okay. And his name is Sean. Okay, okay. And Sean emailed us about you and said that he

really had a good time. But he's wondering why you're not answering his phone calls or text messages. Um, that's weird. I agree, it's kind of weird. I don't really know what you want to know. I guess we just weren't a fit. You weren't fit. Yeah, he's super cute guy, very nice, very charming, engage in the conversation and just

sometimes in life. The timing boss. I don't really believe you on that one, because you called an uber before you even told him you were going to call an uber like that usually indicates something else was going on. How do you How do you know that? Because he told us he told you a lot about our date? Then, yeah,

he did. He told us all about it. I mean the reason why I called the uber is there was some stuff that was going on, and I just I didn't really want to talk with him about it, and I just kind of wanted to excuse myself from the situation. And I just thought that, well, that's what wents beck. You mean, like stuff at the party going on that you didn't like. It's a little more complicated than that. Okay, Ay, mind telling us what it is so we can at

least let him know because he liked you a lot. Um. So, Sean and I had our date set up, and earlier in the day, I had received a text message from my ex boyfriend. Okay, I didn't respond to it. I just kind of let it go by the wayside and wanted to enjoy my time with Sean and getting to know him. And so my song, my favorite song, Um, did he tell you what it was? Yeah? Yeah, that's all I'm saying. I've got your back on that one. Yeah.

He told us that you're the record that you chose to bring with Cindy Lauper and the song that you wanted with True Colors. He told us that to me, it's just a really great song. It's just, you know, kind of a female anthem of support and really just going after what's important to you in your life. And I'm kind of getting emotional talking about it right now, but it just brought up a lot of emotions and it made me really kind of think about where I'm at in my life and where I want to go.

And my ex just you know, sent me this lovely text message and it just I felt like it was a sign that we were supposed to be together, and you know, I got a little emotional excused myself. I went to the restroom. I kind of gathered things together and that's when, you know, I took a deep breath and was like, I just I don't feel comforable being here because it was kind of a weird emotional state. So I called the uber and that's kind of when

I last. So nothing against Sean. It was he was very nice, but he's just not the person I'm supposed to be with So are you back with your X? I am? I am, Yeah, we're back together. I'm telling you that is a powerful song. I have tried many times to it. I haven't run back to any man's arms yet, but I could see how that could happen for you. Yeah, it was just the confirmation from that song and getting back to my act. It was just so strong. I couldn't ignore it. I couldn't sleep it

on the rug. And I have Sean really to think for that. So oh nice. Yeah, Sean did a nice thing and reminded you of your ex boyfriend. So now you could go back and be in that relationship. You know, if you guys do talk to him, if you could pass that along, that would be great, because I do appreciate what meeting him has brought to my life. Sure. Well, actually you can thank him yourself, because he's on the

other line listening and wants to talk to you. What do you mean, I mean, he's on the other line and wants to say hi to you. He's been listening to this whole thing. Yeah, ye, Sean, are you still there? Hip? I could rekindle your love. Look, I am so sorry for not returning your phone. Call and your text messages. I just I thought it was inappropriate. I didn't really know how to tell you, but thank you, honestly, thank you.

I know it's probably not what you want to hear from a girl that you went out on a date with getting back together with her ex, But had I not had that opportunity to meet you and really kind of had that opportunity to bring a record to this really cool, interesting party that you invited me to. I wanted to have gotten to the place, you know, to be comfortable and confident in moving back into a relationship with X. And we're in a really good place right now. Sean.

You should be really happy for her. Yeah, I'm super happy. You gotta be kidding me. I bet you. I bet you love SIDDI lauper True Colors more than ever before right now. I hated that song so much and I just have like a new level of just like that song real. Yes, really, party, you told me that you really liked it. Yeah, Well, I was lying through my teeth because I really like you, you know. I mean not to be cheesy, but you know, I thought we

had something. I thought we had a nice time, and you know, I thought goes and I was a little bit but her youdn't return my text. Sean, we did. We had a great time. And I don't know any other way to say it, but you're you know, you're not my guy. You are a great guy. Hey, thanks, you know, and I understand, but just you know, the future, you could just return a text, you know. I think it was pretty nice of her to say that she had a good time since she spent half the date

crying by herself in the bathroom. Yeah, you know, I have that effect sometimes, you know. There you go, Sean, Hey, at least you can take saulce and knowing that Sarah is happy, I guess. Yeah. I mean I never should have taken her to that damn party. Yeah. If you wouldn't have done that, she might not have realized that she wanted to be back with her ex. He was

meant to be. I mean, it was it was going to happen eventually, and it just it kind of worked out in this lovely story the universe wanted to write for us. Well, Sarah, the universe wants me to ask you, if you'll go out with Sean on a second date, we will pay for it. You want to go out Sean. Again, she's not even single. Thank that'd be the most shocking. Yes, we ever got on a second date update, So you're

sure about that? That's a no no. But I have some single girlfriends and I think might be a good fit for him. Oh nice, Sean, Are you interested in going out with one of Sarah's friends? Absolutely? You are talking to the og, super freaquent. When did you start? Oh yeah, I'm so excited. I am so excited to set you have. I've got a ton of girlfriends met some of them met at the bar, but I'll definitely get you guys in contact. All right, Well, there you go, Sean.

It's kind of a successful second date update for you. I'll take it. Yeah. Yeah, And Sarah just make sure that any girl you set I'm up with has an ex boyfriend that she's been thinking about a lot. Very good point. On the text messages, it says that guy couldn't be a real hipster. A real hipster wouldn't listen to your show. I realized that. Yeah, Brooke and Jewel in the morning, if you missed the second day to update that was recorded when Brooke was still here. Jackie

is filling in for Brook. Brooke is out on maternity leave and Sean wanted to call Sarah. Sean kind of a hipstery guy, at least he says so, but he listened to this show, so he can't be too much of a hipster. He took her to a vinyl party where everybody listens to records and then they talk about the songs that they chose for the evening. He chose

Super Freak, she chose True Colors. Anyway, she wasn't calling him back because the song reminded her of her ex and then she called her X and got back together with her X and didn't want to go out with him again. Wow. And yeah, well it didn't really backfire too much because she said that he was a nice guy and she's willing to hook him up with some friends, so he was into that. So kind of a successful

A second day update worked out forever. Yeah, remember, if you want to do a second day up the date, all you have to do his email the show and we will call the person didn't call you back. Proven nineteen two point five