Second Date Update PODCAST: Ultimate Frisbee Dad

whatever that means. I didn't know you weren't supposed to take a baseball bat to play Ultimate Frisbee. I had no idea, But then I get labeled all kinds of names. But Jesse actually got a date out of playing Ultimate Frisbee, and I don't think had a restraining order slapped on her either. That I'm wrong, Jesse, Am I wrong? No, you did bring it back to the game or an axe or anything like that. Done. No, I wish somebody

would have told me beforehand. But your email said that you met the guy you want to call today playing Ultimate Frisbee. Yeah. I'm kind of a spontaneous person and I like trying out these things, and I was online and I saw this gaming thing, so I was like, I wouldn't do that. I've never played before. Was it a singles like meet up type thing? No, not necessarily. It was just sort of like young people. So how

was it when you went out there and played? Did you find out you were amazing and ultimate frisbee and had no idea? No, I'm actually really bad apparently, but there was this one guy who was really good, like probably had been playing with that gup people for a long time, and I know that's what really turns ladies on as a guy who can handle a frisbee. It's actually it's not too far from a line really, So it was actually really nice because you know, you have

to have a certain grace, you know. Yeah, any athletic man on a field that is good is sexy. Okay, yeah, no, it was really sexy. So I was trying to get his attention a little bit. And so during a break, I was like standing by him, and he like offered me some of his gatorade. He was like, you're it looked like you could use some of this. Offered you

some gatorade? Huh? Yeah, he offered me some blue you know, wait a minute, though, I mean if you're sharing out of the same bottle, that means he doesn't think you're gross, right. That's why I was excited because I was like, okay, so breaking the ice, sharing gatorade? You already like you guys kissed, yeah, right, next step swap it spit. Yeah. I don't know. He was just like super straightforward and

like immediately was joking with me in my extense. And I don't know, I like that, you know, give it to me. And you know, that's another thing that another attribute the dudes that if they're able to do that, I've heard. I've heard it's a big deal for ladies. So did you ask him out or did he ask you out? He asked me out? Nice, yeah, and which was great. You know, we had a couple of drinks,

had a nice meal. But I was a little annoyed because there were a lot of like kids there and they were being really loud and just annoying, you know, like they were like running all over the place and at a fancy restaurant. They weren't. It wasn't a fancy restaurant, but it was, you know, as a decent restaurant, and I don't know, they were just so loud, and so I said to him, I was like, kids are annoying, Like I don't know how people do it. And then he was just like, oh, I have a kid. That

was good. What I meant was every kid except for yours is annoying. How did you backpedal on that? Yeah? Well no, I was like no, no, no, just these kids. I'm sure your kids. It was really awkward and I didn't know what to say. And he was really nice about it. He like jokes with me. It was just like no, no, no, I get it, like I have a kid, he's annoying, Like, I get it. I mean, he just dropped on you that he had a kid. How did you feel about that? I mean, it's it's yeah,

it's weird, but I don't know. Like I said, I'm I like to try new things. So why not parenting? Yeah? Whatever, step parent? You know. I mean I haven't stayd a guy with a kid before, so why not? Right? So how did everything end with him? Well? I thought things were going smoothly and then he took me home kissed me on the cheeks, which you know is nice. I was hoping for a little bit more. But it was right, especially from an ultimate frisbee player. Those guys are badassies.

They're usually not going for a kiss on the cheek at the end of the night, you know. So do you think it's a kid thing? That is the reason I've everything else was great. That was the only awkward moment that I could think of that probably would have kept him from calling me again. You know. And how many times have you tried to reach out to him? I sent him like a text few days after and no reply. Um, yeah, so this one. But I really want to see him again. I you know, I really

enjoyed our our date. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back, call him and get your second date update? All right, Okay, okay, hang on frooking Jubil in the morning. Second update. I'm honestly really surprised that Jesse, who was on the phone to do a second date update today, isn't getting a call back from the dude that she went out with, because really, she has all of the qualities that men look for in a woman. She hates kids, That's pretty much it. That's the quality, that's what you

look for. That's the quality. And she has that right, Jesse, No, I didn't say I hated kids. I just thought the ones in the restaurant were annoying. If you're just tuning in, Jesse met the dude she wants to call today while

playing Ultimate Frisbee. They went out to eat at a restaurant, and the only thing that she thinks might be the reason he's not calling back is because while they were there, she made a comment about how annoying the kids in the restaurant were, and that's when he said, Oh, I have a kid, And yeah, I guess it was a little awkward after that, but they got back to normal and she ended with a kiss on the cheek, but

hasn't heard anything since. Yep, that's pretty much it. And the thing is he never really came back from that, and you never told him like, no, I actually like kids. I could see myself being with someone with the kid. Is that what you want to tell him now? If we get him on the phone. It sounds a little desperate saying that, doesn't it like I don't know how

to get away from the awkward moment. Maybe you just addressed that it was a joke and move on instead of being like no, I promise I want to be a mom. I don't know either way. The date didn't work out for you, So I'm gonna call him right now. See if we get him on the phone and find out what happened. Okay, okay, all right, here here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Douglas? Who's Douglas? Hey Doug, this is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. How

are you? My name is Douglas. Who's this? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Or okay, who are you? Host a radio show called Brook and Jewil in the Morning. My name is Jewil. Um. What do you need from me? Well? I wanted to talk to you about a friend of ours who you know? Okay, okay, you're pretty quick and to the point, guy, aren't you Douglas? Yes I am. Why are you calling me? Good question? So you went out with a girl named Jesse recently? Yeah? Yeah?

Did you like Jesse? What business is that of yours? Well, it's it's our business because she emailed us to see if we could talk to you and find out if you didn't like her. I didn't hate her, who I just didn't feel it working Okay, okay, can you tell us why I don't feel worth the same places in our lives? And it's just as far as personalities, temperaments and patience goes, it's just not what I'm looking for in some of the date? Sorry? Is it because you

have a kid and she doesn't? How do you know that? Well, she told us a little bit about your date and said she thinks that's the reason you don't want to go out with her again, just like amnial, So you can't deal with it yourself. Wait, you just like put down a whole generation of people there. Well, I'm not saying that every millennial is one of those things and behaves that way. But when I see a duck, I call it a duck. It's a good way to peace.

So you thought she was a millennial duck? Well, after having to listen to a five minute tirade that someone didn't tag her in a Facebook post? Yeah kind of what? Okay? Wait, I want to know about the tirade, but I'm really curious, are you sixty five year old man? I'm a thirty year old man with two kids with soulk custody. I got a lot to do. I'm very busy. I just don't have time to screw around anymore, Okay, And by her complaining about a Facebook post, do you think she

has time to screw around? And you don't. It's not just that she's complaining that. No, you know, I work at ten to eight or ten to five job and I only got eight hours of sleep last night, and her friends aren't tagging her Facebook posts, and it's just I mean, I don't think she's a bad person. I just don't have time for that. Yeah, I mean it makes sense like you're a single parent of I'm gonna get place in my life. I'm sorry. I mean, why

didn't you just tell her that though? Well, I didn't want to come down on her as like, you know, you're an idiot, and I don't want to have anything else to do with you and me. You're already there on the day, and I don't think that. I don't think that. It's just like I said, we're just in different places in her life. We want different things. Maybe in a few years she might feel differently, but right

now I don't have the time to do it. So in your mind, it's just finish the date up, give her a kiss on the cheeks, send her on her way, and you can get back to doing business. Look, it's not doing business, it's called life. I'm actively participating in it, and I just gotta get it done. I don't have time for the bs. But I mean, here's the thing with that. Like, I get that you have a lot on your plate right now, but you can't fault her for not having the same amount of stuff to deal with.

I'm not faulting her. I'm just saying that I don't have time for it. I'm sure there's plenty of other guys that can sympathize and want to listen to her about not getting tagged in a Facebook post. I'm not one of them, all right. And look, if you guys want to get back to her and just let her know, that'd be great. I'd appreciate it. Well, I have a better idea. I can tell that you're, like I said,

you're a man of business. Let's expedite it and just let you know that she's on the phone right now and you actually told her what are you talking about. I mean, she's on the other line listening to this conversation and would like to speak with you real quick. If you have time, sir, sir, she's not on the phone. Yes, I am hi. I'm sorry, Jesse, you had to hear that. I don't mean it maliciously, but it's the truth. It just sounds like you're being really, really insensitive. Honestly, it's

not about insensitivity. It's just I mean no, it's that you don't want to You don't want to empathize with my problems, but you think your problems are so much bigger and greater than mine. Are you were worried about a Facebook post? I have two kids to raise, want to hatively much bigger problems. But I'm sorry if that hurts your feelings. I don't mean to. It's just the way it is. Listen. It wasn't about the Facebook post,

is the fact that I was posted by my roommate. Okay, you have no idea what it's like to live with two other women. It's hard, It's really hard. Are you kidding me? I can't even believe that sentence is coming out of your mouth. You have no idea, you know, clue, you've never done it before. You have no idea what it's like to be responsible for two kids that you're responsible for keeping alive. You live with two kids. They're not your responsibility. Two kids. I am their responsibility. The

buck stops with me, it doesn't. I'm not worried about Facebook posts. I'm sorry. Please stop talking about my Facebook post and stop talking about your kids. Okay? How really? How hard can indeed raise two kids? Okay? You just sit them in front of a TV? Why not? I'm really I'm starting to lose my patience. Like I said, she's not an evil person. I just do not have time for this nonsense anymore. I'm sure she'd do great. I'm sure she's gonna find a great guy. I really

gotta go listen. Working is hard, Okay. I work from ten to five with barely an hour lunch break. Okay, that's assiful. If you don't even want to hear me out, yeah, hear out ten to five. You want to? You want to do something like the day that I that we met playing up with frisbee. You know the kind of days off I get like that one of those a month. Even when I have a day off, Jesse, I don't have a day go off. I have to babysit two kids every second of the day. There's no time off

for me. If I'm I get a chine, I was to sleep a night. That is a choice you made. Okay, if you were two kids, that's your choice. You're gonna be a father. Okay, you can't blame me if I want to get more than a date hour and to sleep at night, Jesse, I'm not blaming you. I just don't want to date you. Jesse. I think that you should probably just quit while your ahead. Because he is being way nicer than I expected to be to you. I don't think so. I'd like to hear more from him. Yeah.

As a matter of fact, I think you guys would be a great couple. Oh really, yeah, Douglas, would you like to go out with Jesse on another date? We will pay for it. Come on, guys, please please get you a second date. Douglas. Look, I appreciate that you're having a lot of fun with the the radio, but I really got stuff to do. I'm sorry Jesse and I didn't get along. I'm sorry you guys couldn't put us back together for a date. Everything will be fine. The

sun's coming up tomorrow, nobody's gonna die. But I have to go get my kids ready for school. Please go all right, We'll let you go. Douglas, thank you, thank you, bye? All right, all right, and he is gone. Jesse, I'm sorry that didn't work out for you. I mean, I'm kind of blown away by it. I honestly thought it didn't go that badly. So you thought it didn't go back? Well, Jesse, Uh, better luck next time, okay, okay. And I feel your pain about the Facebook tagging thing. It is so annoying

when people leave you off the posts. Thank you. Yeah, he just didn't get it, I know. Jerk broken Jupil in the morning text message in at seven eighty five to nine two says that girl makes me ashamed to be a millennial. Talking about today's a second date update that was taped twelve, Brooke was still here, brooks out on eternity to leave. Jackie is filling in. But anyway, the couple Jesse and Douglas, that's their names. Jesse wanted to call Douglas. He wasn't calling back after they had

a great date. And the reason why is because he's a busy man with kids and she has big problems too. Yeah does. She was really upset that her roommates didn't tag her in a Facebook post, and she was also complaining about having to work from ten to five with only an hour lunch break. Oh my god, what does work that they demand that of her? I know, that is ridiculous. I'm sure she could call somebody. That's got to be illegal. Gym laid and then the bachelor's only

and there's so much going on in her life. There's such easy work hours, and I know, and the guy was kind. He was kind of a jerk about it, you know, like we're in two different places in life. I'm busy, I got kids, and she doesn't understand the pressures. He's a little barky about it. Yeah, he was. He was a little angry about it. But almost everybody texting in at seven, eight, five to nine two is taking his side, just because of the trivial stuff that she

complained about. Seriously, your roommate's not tagging you in a Facebook post. I mean, you live with them, It's so easy. I think that's in the constitution. Yeah, seriously. And then a lot of parents are mad at her because she used the line, well, you have kids, just put them from the TV or whatever, right, super easy. I don't even think that. Then again, none of us do that. If you want to do a second a update, I have to do his email the show and we will

call the person who didn't call you back. Fellas