Second Date Update PODCAST: Two Waiters One Date

how are you guys doing today? My allergies are flaring up. And I had this whole intro planned where I was going to call you a frisky waiter and her a lustful waitress and tell a story about you guys met real quick. But unfortunately my sneezing got the best of me. So you're gonna have to do that. Greg. Well, I like it because I think I might have some allergic to women are allergic to me, so maybe you guys can help me out. Oh Greg, look at you, king

of the segue for us. I'm trying wow save the intro, So you guys can send me. Yeah, all right, we can stop now, Greg's enough. So Greg, you're a waiter. Yes, I am a waiter. I'm probably one of the best waiters around that like the same. But yes, I am in the service industry. Are you frisky or was I right? Are you frisky? I'd like to think that I'm frisky, but I mean I don't know. Um I try, I definitely tell. And is this lovely waitress that you went

out with? Is this a a co worker? Well? No, not really. I was just at the restaurant she worked at. Okay, all right as a customer. Yeah. Yeah, I was out with some friends and we were just having some dinner and some drinks and she ended up being our waitress. Weird waiters and waitresses eat at other restaurants. I know, we have mind blowing Yes, we do occasionally be like radio people listening to other radio stations happen. So do I mean were you struck by her immediately when she

came up to your table? I mean, before she came up to my table, I saw her if it almost had my fingers crossed that she would be our waitress. She was, you know, really looking good that night. Okay, And did you just flat out ask her out on the spot or I did not. I um, actually, i'd

had it happened a couple of times to myself. Women had left her name and number on the receipt after they signed for it, so I kind of stole her idea and I did that, you know, I left greg and then left my phone number at the bottom of the receipt when I paid the bill, and that actually worked it did? She actually text me like two days later. It was she I got a text and I didn't even know who it was because I silly enough forgot

her name. And then I was like, who is she look at Cynthia and then I was like, oh, yeah, dude, that's amazing. I've tried that so many times and I know you're gonna be surprised by this. Never once I was. I think it was a smiling face. I say, you know, I took it up a name, number and a smiling face and probably a big tip to go with it, because no goal is going to call you back if you don't tip. Well, yeah, I want I want to easy thirty percent that night. Okay, so what did you

guys do when you went out? So we both know of this really high end restaurant we've been wanting to go to. I actually one of my buddies works there. It's usually like really hard to get a reservation, so he was able to, you know, get us in for a table for two. So I thought that was, you know, going to really impress her. And sweet was she impressed she went? So I want to say she was impressed. She ended up going obviously, I thought that is impressed.

And how was the actual date while you were there? I mean, I mean it was cool. Honestly, I don't eat at high end restaurants. So all the food was really interesting and you know, it was like a six course meal. Everything it was nice and paste out. I thought we had really good conversation. Yeah, I mean you're talking like a marathon. Did her though, if you're talking six courses. There's a lot that can go wrong when you're committing what three hours to a meal? Four hours? Yeah,

it was about two and a half three hours easily. Yeah, it was getting there and going through old courses, so yeah, it was there was a lot of room for failure in it. But I don't know if I was blind to it, but I never saw anything go wrong. I felt weird about it? Okay, was what was the highlight for you? My highlight was the dessert. It was almost like they were reading my mind because they brought this

an amazing chocolate, three layered cheesecake. I think I hate to interrupt you there, Greg, but I think Brooke was asking about the highlight with her and not the food. Oh well, I didn't even tell you. If she shows up dressed to the nines and she's sitting across with me and it was just almost froze me in time. Then I'm looking at her and can't believe that I'm with her. The anticipation is actually killing me right now. So what happened? Did your kiss? Did you go home together? Now?

So we finished and a walk or to her car, and then I think we're going in for the kiss. She turns to the side and just keeps me a hot Wow. I thought, you know, maybe, Okay, it was our first date and I like that about her. Maybe you know she's playing a little hard to get it. She gave me a taste, but you know, it's like, I'm not gonna give you your dessert per se on the first date, because she really went for a side hug like you were saying, it's a first date. Not

everybody kisses on a first date. She gave me the hug, and it kind of motivates you more, you know, to try that. All right, now, you've you've got me, and I'm really into you even more at this point because you know, I haven't chasted the forbidden fruit. It don't call it that, right, I'm really motivated. Okay, And how how many have you talked since that day? Only text message? I reached out. I text her, you know, just said I had a great time. She didn't hear from her,

and nothing's materialized into meeting up again. Okay, Well we'll play a song come back, and then call her and see if we can find out what happened in your second date update. All right, okay, thank you so much brooking Cubile in the morning. We've been doing second day updates for a long time now, and I feel like something keeps getting disrespected over and over again. Really, what's that? The side hug? Every time somebody gets a side hug, they always take it as a brush off. But you

know what, maybe the side hug is the new second base. Yeah, no, probably not. Yeah, it's actually a terrible thing to get a side hug after a date. And that's what happened to Greg, who was on the phone right now. He's a waiter and was in another restaurant and actually hit on the waitress by writing his phone number down on the receipt. She ended up calling him and they went out to a very fancy restaurant. But by the end of the date she just gave him a little side

hug and now she stopped talking to him. Is there anything that you would do differently second time around? Greg? I mean, maybe not take her to the fancy restaurant. So I had something to shoot for. Okay, I see you started off too hot? Maybe yeah, yeah, maybe I came in too big. All right, Well I doll her phone number right now. See if we can get her on the phone and find out if you gave it to her too big. Usually not a problem, but maybe this time it is. Okay. Let's go all right, Hello, Hi,

May ask me to Cynthia. This is she, Hey Cynthia, how are you? This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewbil in the Morning. I'm sorry what this is Jebil from Brooke and Jewbil in the Morning. The radio show, Um Okay, okay, why why are you guys calling me? Well, I'm calling you because we recently got an email about you from one of our listeners. I'm sorry, what are you talking about? Who is this again? This is Jewbil from Brooke and

Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. We do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not talking to them after, we call you to find out what happened. So we got an email from a dude named Greg. Uh. I'm sorry, No, I don't want to do this. Thank you though, but we just have We just have a few questions. Yeah, I don't want to talk about okay. We just want to ask you a couple of questions so that you

can find out what happened. That's all. What Well, she just hung up, she laughed. Did she hello? Hey? Greg? Was that a sufficient enough answer for you? When she said she didn't want to talk about me? I was suppe we could take a little deeper, but apparently she really doesn't want to talk about me. Are you hold on? Greg? Are you because a lot of times we do these things and then you aren't telling us something that you should be telling us. No, I'm an open book. I'm

looking for answers honestly. I mean, if I could give more information, I would put it all out there. I mean, can you please call her back? Call her again? All right, I'll do the fund him and try one more time. Okay, thanks Juble. Yeah, I'm sorry. I just I really don't want to talk about it. I really don't well what I mean if I can. Sorry, I just don't really want to talk about it. I'm super embarrassed. Wait, you're embarrassed. You know. It's it's my fault. He doesn't have to worry. Wait,

are you doing anything wrong? Are you in a relationship or something? No, No, it's something like that. It's just it's on me. You know. It was my mistake. I shouldn't have gone out with him. Not his fault, totally mine. Is it because you guys both work in the service industry or something? You have a rule like you don't date other people in the service industry or something? You know, cops are I was like, I don't date other cops. Did they say that? I think so? Yeah? Okay they

did they say that, Cynthia. No, No, No, it's not that at all. Oh good, I messed up. You messed up? Yeah, I messed up. He doesn't think you messed up. He thinks that you were. I mean, from the sounds of it, he thinks you're perfect. Okay, that's wait, so that's not a good thing. No, No, that's fine, it's fine. It's

just it's just really awkward. Well, can you just tell us anything because he's really curious, like he's been beating himself up trying to figure out what happened because he really liked Okay, Well, I definitely don't want to feel bad. So what is it? Okay? Um, did he tell you guys how he asked me out? Yeah, he said that he left his phone number on the receipt when he was sitting at your table, and we were all shocked that you bought that. You that you wrote him back.

I did, and it's probably the last time I'll do something like that. Huh. So you regretted the date from the moment you texted him after he hit on you. Okay, here's the thing. The night before, when I was working, another guy left to his seat and he did pretty much the same thing. He left his name and his number. So I thought I was calling the other guy. He's really attractive. You know, he's definitely more attractive to me

than Greg is. Oh no, you mixed him up. Yeah, so when I contracted Greg, I thought I was contracting the other guy, and I didn't realize it until I was on the day eighth. Yeah, I got the receipts mixed up. Great's fine, he's fine. It's just not as cute as the other guy. He's fine. No, I don't know what to do though. I just feel really awkward thinking about it. So that's why you want to talk

about it. I was really uncomfortable. Okay, But okay, I get I get like that would be a really weird moment when you show up to a date thinking one guy is going to be there and a totally different guy is going to be there. Yeah, but Greg sounds awesome, and he pulled all these strings for this great date for you. He said, you guys had chemistry. I mean, but I just kept thinking while I was eating, you know, God, this would taste so much better if I was with

the other guy. Yeah. I'm sure there's research somewhere that food tastes better when you're with a hotter person. I agree with you on that. Okay, yeah, did you out of curiosity? Did you ever go out with the other guy? Yeah? I did, I did really well. Okay, Well listen, the truth is Greg's date was so much better than the hotter guy. Yeah, and I feel bad, but the hotter guy was hot. So I wait, even though you had a better do with Greg, you still want to pursue

hot man. Yeah, it's really hot. He must be, all right, I hope you're not looking for a relationship that is so shallow. Yeah. No, I'm not trying to be in something really serious, you know. Right now, I just want date hot guys. Well, Cynthia, I've been there. I do need to let you know that Greg is actually on the other line listening right now and wants to talk to you. What hey, Cynthia, not that attractive Greg? Sorry?

What sucks. Yeah, I'm a little loss for words right now because, like wat, Greg, you heard everything you were like heard unfortunately, but yes I heard that you heard everything that I was saying to them from attractive hotter ud would have been better without me, but oh yeah, so I am so sorry. I had no idea I would have been like that sort of honest. I guess if I had known you were listening, You're a really

nice guy. I'm so, I'm really sorry. Why didn't you just say something when you first saw me and you realize you made a mistake. We could have win our separate ways. I didn't know what to do. I was I was sort of horrified, and the mistake was on me, and I didn't want to be rude, you know, And the restaurant was nice. I'd never been there before. I'd always wanted to go. You didn't want to be rude, and then you go through the whole dinner and let me pick up the tab and you didn't want to

be rude. I mean, you out you know it was a date. I didn't know what to do with a date with the wrong guy. You didn't know that, you didn't man just say means you think it's at the end, you know, if you knew, and you didn't want to tell me, you you know, like, oh, let me get or at least offered. You didn't even reach through anything. I just picked it all up and think we were on a date. I know, but you weren't. Didn't mean to be on the date with me, you meant to

be on the worst date with the hotter guy. You know again, I'm so sorry. I don't even want to say. This is so uncomfortable. And you said like that my date was better, Like, I mean, I know your date sit there? You know that makes no sense. You could be like you can grow to be more attracted to people not with me, you know, I kind of like I see it and I know it. What is it? Could I like get a haircut? Was it my clothes with? No? Greg?

You're great, There's nothing wrong with you. You're great. Wrong with you? You've ever been there, you know, where you're with someone but the entire time you're thinking about someone else. I'm sorry, you know it was it was just that's how it was all night. I have been there for the past days thinking about you, and now I get this earthquake hitting me. There's no way you could like open up your eyes, up your heart, maybe give him

another chance. Well, you know what, I would be totally willing to go out with Greg again, you know, like on a fun friend dated. Fun. Well, then how about it, Cynthia, would you like to go out with Greg again on a fun friend date. We will pay for it. I totally go out with Greg on a fun friend date. Yes, Greg, what do you think about the fun friend date? I don't want going on I on a pity date with you, Cynthia. Why why don't you guys just give it to Cynthia

and her new hot guy. They can use it, so it's just not getting used. I mean, at least she'll enjoy herself. Oh my god, that's a great idea. My. There you go, Cynthia. And since it sounds like your current hot dude is a horrible date, or we'll give you at least a decent gift card somewhere. Oh my god, thank you, Greg. What about do I get it? I'm safe? I mean, this is the biggest slap on my face, your face, you know, it's just it's like you said, why waste it? You know, we can use it for

other things. You know, we don't have to pay for your date with the hot guy. But he's really hot. All right, Cynthia, then you know what's sold. All right, We'll send you out on a date with the hot dude. Yeah. Even Jewel can't refuse a hot man. I can't. In the morning, I got a text in at seven eighty five to nine two. That just says the worst part is I know Greg, it's broken jewel in the morning, talking about today's second date update. This dude named Greg

wanted to call Cynthia. They're both waiters. He was actually at the restaurant she works at, hit her up, and they went out on a date. When we got her on the phone, we found out that she actually thought she was going out with another guy because another dude had slid his number to her too, and she thought she was texting that dude and not. So she showed up and had a less hotter version to go on

a date with. But she did end up going on a date with the hot guy and said even though he's not as cool as Greg, he's a lot hotter, so she'd rather date that guy instead. I feel so bad for Greg. I mean, I know people are texting in right now that they want to go out with him, but still that's even a pity dates. This is how guys are though. She just as a male mentality, like we're like, oh, she's annoying, she won't do this and that, but she's hot, so I'll take her. It's everyone's mentality.

Every once in a while, you need hot and dumb. Okay, it's true. But unfortunately for Greg, he had to find out that he's average and pretty fun to be around, and he lost out to hot and dumb. We all have everybody texting in at seven, eight, five nine two right now is on Greg's side and said that she's terrible.

At least she was honest about it though, But the end, when we asked if they go on a date, she said that they'd go on they could go on a friend date, a fun friend date together, and he wasn't interested in that though. Yeah, he got he got screwed over twice. Yeah, and not in a good way. No, definitely not. Remember, if you want to do a second day update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back. Two point five percent