Second Date Update PODCAST: Two Timing Two-Stepper

it was slatting a rug. She's like, no, you're idiot. It was just taking salsa. Okay, though that's a little more boring than what I thought. All Right, So, yeah, it says that you guys went, So you took a salsa class with the guy you want to call it a huh yeah? And what's his name? Mark? Mark? And how did you meet Mark? We actually met on a dating site. Were you both already interested in salsa? And

that's how you guys linked up? Uh No, it kind of came about randomly because we were sort of bonding and joking about our past dates and how boring they were, like the usual dinner whatever, movie boring thing that never really works out to like a second date. So we kind of were like, if we went out, we would do something totally fun and salsa dancing is what we came up with. We would learn to dance of love. Was it fun? Yeah, I mean it was super fun.

We decided to meet up like a half hour before across the street at a bar and had a couple of drinks. We laughed a lot, and you know, he was really funny and we had a great time, and we went in to do the dancing and we were horrible, Like we were both really bad, which could be awesome. I mean if you're both laughing at yourselves during the whole thing, like it could really be attractive. Yeah, exactly.

And he had this really great laugh too, and awesome like hair too that I just wanted to touch all the time. But anyway, are you the creep that was smelling his hair? It was just like really like soft and fluffy. I don't know, that's get You know, we do a lot of these second date updates. We rarely have women fawn over a guy's hair, so he must have a fantastic haircutter. It was just like the right amount of curl. You know, do you like his personality at all or was it just the hair that did

it for you? Oh? No, no, yeah, no he was great. If personality was awesome. He's really sweet and just like made me laugh. I mean, like I said, when we were dancing, we were so bad, and we just made each other laugh the whole time. It was great. And even though you're bad, I mean, there's still a lot of physical contact in dancing. Was there a good chemistry between you two? I thought so. I mean it wasn't like super mushy romantic, you know, like there wasn't like

this huge spark. But at the same time, I feel like we were kind of just distracted by the fact that we were salted dancing and we suck. It's probably hard to be romantic and make a lot of eye contact when you're trying to count in your head two three, four, seven, ten, when you're awkwardly trying to dance. I can understand that.

Did you guys do anything other than dance together? I mean, we danced, and then you know, we went home pretty much after right after that, I think it was like said good night, and that was the sort of weird thing about it. It was like I was totally down for a kiss, you know kiss on the first night, but he just gave me a hug. Did he make any plans with you to see you later? Like we

got to take another class because we're so bad? I think we kind of were like, oh, yeah, let's meet up again, you know, sort of that casual thing you do. But you know, we had talked a lot on the website, so I guess I kind of assumed too, like we were gonna follow up. You said he gave you a hug at the end. Was it the kind of hug where it's like he moved slow or was it the kind of hug where he was just like done and didn't want to see you again? Hug? I know I

should have like really paid attention to that. I guess I was probably too busy, like just wanting to kind of grab his hair and puts his hair, so went in for the hug, and you know it was like a hold and release. It was a hold and release, hold, release, Okay, so that could be just a moving, slow hug. Then you didn't ask him for like a lock of his hair and anything with it scared him off. Is there anything awkward that you could think of. I guess just

like I was totally expecting to kiss. Like, there was a couple of moments even like when we were dancing that I thought, you know, like when we you know, you take breaks and you listen to the teacher or whatever. I thought said he was gonna kiss me, but he totally didn't. He was just like leaning into like say something funny. So that was kind of awkward, but nothing huge. You know, how long has it been since your date? Let's see, two weeks? Two weeks? And have you talked

at all? No, you know, I sent him a couple of tacks messages or whatever, but I haven't gotten any response. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back call him and get your second date update and find out if something happened. Okay, thank you, all right, hanging up five brooking jubil in the morning. Second Update. Today's second date update is brought

to you by passion. Yes, the kind of passion that comes with salsa dancing, the hips gyrating back and forth, and the fast paced movement of your legs creating eye contact and love that only two people can share when they salsa dance. Passion find it online or somewhere anywhere. Denise went salsa dancing on her first date with a guy named Mark, but Mark is not calling her back. That's why she's on the phone to day to do a second date update. Denise, anything you want to say

to us before we call Mark? Uh? No, I guess that I'm nervous. You're nervous right now? Are you niverous he's gonna say something bad? Or what are you nervous about? No? I mean, I mean, I guess. I just hope he's not too embarrassed, but whatever, he'll get over it. Not too embarrass being on the radio and a second date update, yeah, or to embarrassed because we know he's a crappy dancer.

That the radio thing. Yeah, okay, And if you're just tuning in for the second day update, they went sausa dancing. They had a fun night. At the end of the evening, he just gave her a hug when she wanted a kiss. But she's really not sure what happened. So let's find out right now by dialing his phone number, getting him on the phone. Okay, okay, sounds great, All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, is Mark there? Yeah? This is Mark. Hey Mark, how are you? My name is Jubil. Oh okay,

Hi Mark. I don't know if you know who I am or not. I host a morning radio show. It's called Brook and Jubil in the Morning. What's going on? Well, I'm actually calling you today because one of our listeners sent us an email about you. Okay. Her name is Denise, and you guys recently went salsa dancing together. Whoa what? Yeah, it's a segment we do on our show. It's called

the second Date Update. So if somebody goes out on a date and then they get blown off, they ask us to get that person on the phone and ask why. So Denise wants to know why you're not calling her back? Oh my gosh, you call her radio station? Yes, she did. I knew this was a bad idea. You knew you knew what was a bad idea? Going out with Denise? Uh? Well sort of. I mean, I just, I mean I feel guilty. I just there's just like really no future for she and I as things. Why do you say that? Look,

I really rather not like get into it. But if you you know, I mean, if you talk to her or whatever, definitely tell her she's cool and great, but like nothing's going to happen. So you thought she was cool and great, but there's no future between you two for sure. Yeah, can you give me anything more than that? And I don't know, I don't know. You said just a second ago that you feel guilty. Yeah, I mean, like it's just that she's probably not the only girl

that like feels that way. And what do you mean, it's just that she Like, there have been a lot of sort of one and done kind of dates that I've been on recently from with like a bunch of different girls, and you're dating around a lot. No, No, what do you mean? No? You just you just said that you're taking lots of girls out on dates and not calling any of them back. I mean that's fine, like date dates. I mean it's not like it's not a date date that sounds exactly like a date date.

Well even from the get go, like from even beforehand, I don't plan on calling any of them back, Like, so why go on dates and then they're not dates? I mean they're not dates. I use the site. Well, all right, basically I'm married. What what did you just say?

I'm married. I'm very happily, very happily married. You are not obviously very happily married if you're on a dating website going out on dates that you refuse to call dates like, I promise you that my wife and I are very much in love and I'm not cheating, Like I don't kiss any of these girls, I don't hook up with them. You just lonely or something, and you want companionship when your wife's at workers. No, no, no, no no, So my wife and I are five year is coming

up right? Your five year anniversary? Yeah? Yeah, our five year anniversary. So I had this whole idea that I wanted to do this big surprise for her where basically I've been going out and I've been taking dancing lessons with different women, and these girls are helping me practice. Essentially, they're like dancing partners. You are so full of crap. I can't even believe it. You're trying to tell us that you're just learning how to dance by being on a dating website. St Yeah, you're Oh my god, I

want to custle bad. It's the truth. Look, I mean, I start talking to these girls whatever we if it's I only go with people that I think I would have a good time with and then you know, we go out, we dance, and half the time I even tell them what I'm up to. You know, why have to say why not tell everybody? Why not just go hey, I need a partner to dance with because I want to learn to dance for my wife for anniversary. Because it's about my wife. It's not about like bringing somebody

else in on this thing. You know, like I'm not trying to like include some girl in like my five year thing. Why are you on a dating website? Because it's an easy way to meet people. It's people who are willing to go out and have fun. They want to engage with somebody. And you know, like I could put up some ad on Chryslist, but I might get some creep or some you know, weirdo. What are you talking about? You can go to a dancing studio and

they find a partner for you. Well, I've been to classes before where they have an number of people and I just end up standing in the corner like anthing by myself. So would you say exaccurate that you're faking going on datestan? No, because I don't think that there's anything that I'm doing on the date. That is anything that would like lead these girls to believe that there's like a romantic thing. Person on a dating website thinks that there's going to be a romantic thing. That's why

they're on the dating website. Dude. Look, I'm telling you, these girls have really fun times. I have a really fun time. I'm not a jerk. I don't treat them poorly, And in my opinion, I think what I'm doing is way better than what most of these guys are doing on these apps and on this stuff anyway, where they're just trying to get hookups. Like on my profile too, it doesn't say I'm looking for a relationship. It says I'm just looking to have fun. So what should I

tell Denistan, Like, oh, hey, sorry, he's married. If you're going to talk to her, I would hope that you would include that I thought she was really great and I hope that she can know I'm sure she's going to find a really great guy because she was really cool. Well, you know you could actually talk to her because she's actually on the phone listening. Yeah, you are a liar and you're crazy. Yeah I need mental health. What is going on here? Denise is actually on the phone listening,

so she's heard this entire conversation. Yeah, you used me. You made me believe that you were taking me out on the date. You made me believe that. Well, if you think back on the conversation, I didn't allude to us dating or anything like that. You know, there was no leading me dating website. Every conversation you have on a dating website is alluding to you dating. What do you think the point is just to be friends? Yeah, I don't just talk about like hooking up with a

guy the entire time. You're trying to get to know each other. There's so much more to do it. You're crazy and you're a complete Thanks for ruining my dating experience. Look, you are pitting this all on me, and this is not my fault. Okay, Like, if you had asked me at all, I would have been totally upfront with you. You just said, hey, like, are you are you seeing other people? Are you you know? What's what's your deal? Are you married? Like I would have totally been like, yes,

I am married. I love my wife. That is ridiculous. That is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Yeah, Well, other girls asked and I told them. So what are you going to tell your wife? All, honey, just for you, I signed up for a dating website and I have been going out with random women learning how to dance. Well, I'll probably, you know, won't tell her that's part of it. But what I will say is that I took four months of dance classes for her. It went and spent

all this time and energy trying to do something romantic. Hey, I have to ask a question, no matter what, So, Mark, would you like to go out on a second date with niece? We'll send you guys out again for another salsa dancing class or something. I mean, I need to take more classes. Are you kidding me? No, I'm not kidding. I mean now everything's out in the open, and it'd be, you know, like friends going for a dance class. I think Denise would rather kill you. I hope your wife

leaves you seriously. So is that a no? Yeah? I think that's a very strong no. Mark. Thanks for your time though, I appreciate it. Yeah. Yeah, good luck on your dance classes. Okay, I hope your wife loves it. Thank you? Married Will and Denise. There you go. That's why you're not getting a call back. Wow, I'm glad I found out at least, well you should have asked to begin with. Apparently, Denise. Apparently. Yeah. For now on, I'm going to ask every day, I going are you married?

Are you just hearing for your wife? Yeah? I think that's a good idea. In the morning text in at seven eight, five to nine two that says, see that second date update is proof never do anything to try to impress your wife, because no matter what you do, you'll always lose. Talking of course, about the second date update from today, this girl named Denise want to call

a dude name Mark. They met online, they were going out, they went out to a salsa dancing class, had a fun time, and all of a sudden, he just kind of dropped off the face of the earth. Well, it turns out Mark has been dating a lot of women off of this website and taking them to salsa classes. Yeah, and he doesn't actually think that they're dates. He's just going with these women so that he can learn to dance salsa to surprise his wife for their anniversary. Yeah.

Never mind the fact that he doesn't tell anybody that he's married or that he leads them on. Well, that's not true. He said that there was one girl that asked if he was married, and he was honest and he said, yes, I am married, and I'm doing this for my wife. Other than that, he's just duping girls into going on dates so that he can have dance partners because he can't do it with somebody that he

already knows because they might tell his wife. And so he's basically going on dates yea, with women to learn sal stuff for his wife. That is the most elaborate excuse for cheating I've ever heard in my life. But he's not. But he's not cheating. Cheating going on a date with someone else's cheating, you, guys, It doesn't matter if there's a physical I don't know. I mean, he's not. He's not calling him back, he's not carrying on a relationship.

He's just going out doing some dance lessons and then going home. He didn't even he didn't do anything with her at the end of the night, didn't even like pretend that they were going to go on another day. He did, not telling his wife about it and not telling her how he learned how to solve the dance. She should be flatter than her husband. Work it is to plan all these dates and go out with people to learn to dance at A text in at seven eight five nine two says, OMG, I think I danced

with Mark once we took a class. He stepped on my foot and broke my toe, just saying his wife should watch out. Another text in at seven eight five nine two that says, hey, Marky boy, for your next anniversary, just do what most of us guys do. Throw some jewelry at her and call it a day. Hey see, just proof. Stop putting in the effort. Guys, you're just

gonna get you in trouble. I remember, if you want to do a second day update, I have to do an email of the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back