Second Date Update PODCAST: Treadmill Fail

you good? How you doing? I think you succeeded in the interesting category because everybody wants to know. Okay, um, should I just tell you maybe tell us about the girl a little bit. What's her name? Her name is Brittany, And yeah, I met her at the gym. And had you seen her a couple of times? Or was this the first time running into her at the gym? No, I've seen her for a while and she's like incredibly beautiful.

And I mean I listened to you guys show a lot and they know a lot of people are you know, say that they've dating this beautiful girl and that. But I think that this girl is probably like next level, like beyond anything. Are you trying to brag right now? Are you just excited? I'm not trying to rag since she's not calling you back obviously. Okay, all right, So as you tried to talk to her before the incident that almost put you in the hospital, No, I hadn't.

The thing is like I've seen a lot of guys try to talk to her like walk up, you know, try to whatever, and she's not rude, but just like gets rid of them, you know, is always just like keeps serve self to herself. Oh my god, you have been stalking this girl to Jim, I don't know if it's stalking. She's hard not to notice and anyway, but that's that's what I've seen. So I didn't want to be one of those guys. I didn't want to be

just the next in line to strike out. So I was like just trying to think of something I could do to ideally make her laugh, which seems like the best way to get a girl interested, you know, absolutely, Yeah, you're right on with it. So what do you do? You you fart on the treadmill next to her. No, what I did was she was on the treadmill and while she was working up. I jumped on the treadmill and started running behind her. Yeah, and I was like, oh, sorry,

I didn't see you there. Maybe you can go a little faster. That's great, that's so funny. That's dangerous. Yeah, I like, dude, this treadmill is not big enough for you to be right behind me. Yeah. I would have to think scary for her as well. This is weirdo doing funny. I thought it was really funny, but her first reaction was definitely a little scared. Yeah, and I kind of like flipped around and turned backwards. So I got my back door running, you know. Um, and you know,

I was just being funny. I thought, you know, it was gonna be cool. But our feet got tangled. Oh and we both like went flying. What a fail? And you were able to still somehow score a date with her after this? Yeah, well that's the crazy part. So, I mean she was super pissed and I had to like talk to the gym supervisor. I got a warning,

and I mean it was like pretty disastrous. But when I went outside, like fifteen minutes later, she was standing there and she was kind of like, you know, she was up that she thought she was like I could have gotten hurt, and she was right, and I was like, I'm sorry about the way I did it, but I did it because I think you're really pretty and I didn't know how to talk to you, and yeah, that's kind of sweet. Well it obviously got her too. Yeah, I can't believe she fell for it. But okay, I

don't know she fell for it. Maybe maybe I got the a for effort. I don't know, but I basically was like, let's just let me buy you a drink. Let's go, let's go, like, you know, hang out for a minute. And she agreed. So we ended up going to the bar down the street and it was really nice. But after like thirty minutes, she looked at her phone and was like, you know, I really got to go,

and she left and that was it. And now I'm like, you know, she won't text me back, she's ghosting me, and I don't know what to do, no idea why. I really don't. I mean, like I would have understood, you know, before she didn't want to talk to me. We kind of like had a moment. We went out and it was like going somewhere, And that's why I'm so baffled. I really don't know what happened. Yeah, she still went out with you after maybe risking a concussion or broken bone or something, and then all of a

sudden at your date, she just ghosts. That's weird. So wait, you haven't seen her at the gym either. Yeah, no, I haven't seen her there. It's been a week and she's not been there like the times that I've been there. Okay, Yeah, she definitely had switched up her gym schedule because she doesn't want to see you. Yeah, what do you do? Man? Well, I mean the fact that I almost kill her might be it. Yeah, I guess you're right. All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call her

and get your second day up date. Thank you, hang on brooking jubil in the morning date if you're just joining us for today's second date. Update. This dude name Michael is on the phone and he wants to call Brittany, and he almost killed Brittany at the gym, and now

he's wondering why he's not getting a call back. It's not quite that serious, but he did see Brittany at the gym for a long time, a girl that he wanted to talk to, and Finally, one day, he got up the nerve and thought he'd be funny, so he jumped on the treadmill at the same time, I started to try to be creative, ended up falling off and everything. But did go out on a date, and then shortly endo that date, she just ended it and took off, like half an hour in and he hasn't heard from

her since. See. I feel like, Michael, you were expecting too much. I think this was actually a pity date by Brittany. What I mean. Granted, you're the one that injured her, but it's a weird thing that women do when we're like, oh, but he feels bad, so I feel bad for him, and I don't want him to feel bad. I don't think it was a total pitty date. I mean, you know, I have something to offer, I think, But this point, I'm just like trying to figure out

why she's ghost to me. It just doesn't make any sense to me, you know, to go out with me and then just like bail like that. All right, Well, Dollar phone him right now. I'll get her on the phone and see if we can find out what happened. Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Brittany please, yeah, this is she. Hey Brittany, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay, have you ever heard of it before? Ever heard of

what before? Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm not sure? All right, it sounds like you just woke up. Are you tired? Yes? I'm sorry about that. Well, so we're calling you because we actually got an email from one of our listeners who asked us to call you. Okay, still not registering, is it? Well? No, I'm I'm I'm

in tregue. Okay. His name is Michael. Oh all right, and you met Michael at the gym recently, yes, yeah, and then you went out with Michael on a date after and left pretty quick into it and you haven't contacted him since. That is correct? Okay? Cool. Well, Michael emailed us because he wants to know what went wrong. Oh well, I mean it was just like I wasn't really sure how I felt, you know, I just couldn't really deal deal with it. First dates are weird, you know,

so did you? This was my theory? Okay. My theory is is that you went out with him as a pity date because he told us about the whole treadmill fiasco where he injured both you and him. Initially it kind of was, you know, I'm like, oh my god, such a weird guy and all I I'll just go out with him and get him off my back. But I don't know, I'm not really sure how I feel about him, and I felt really awkward. I had to leave during the wait during the drinks that you guys

were having, you felt awkward. Yeah, I'm I'm still like kind of going through like a break up, if you will, sort of. I'm kind of sensitive. So it was going really well, and I'm just so surprised that I liked him, you know, And I don't know if I'm ready to, you know, move forward with a guy that I might like. And I don't know, I'm just sort of a mess right now em emotionally. But you can tell that you

liked him that much just from that experience. Yeah, we like had a lot in common, and like we started like finishing each other's sentences, and yeah, I just I was taken aback at how like attracted to him. I became throughout just like that half hour, and the feelings were kind of overwhelming. That I was. I had to excuse myself. Wait how long? How long have you are? Wait?

Are you single right now? Are you still in a relationship? Oh? No, I am single, but like I had a fiance and it was very messy and it's only been about five six months or so, and I just I promised myself that I wouldn't date anyone for at least a year to really get over this guy, you know, to be fully open and available for a new relationship, and you know, wouldn't be fair to Michael, you know, to be in um, you know, to date someone when I'm like this, so

you can still do stuff with him, you know. I mean, that's a good way to get over a breakup. Well, that's the thing I'm you know, I felt like this could be a really special guy in my life and I'm really not ready for that. So I really need, like, you know, a year to heal and be available. And it's only been about six months or so. So okay, So you just wanted to tell him, he just wants to tell him that he's got to wait six months

if she wants another date. Kind of probably, I feel like, I feel like that is so emotionally responsible of you. Thank you. Yeah, you know, you really are aware of where you're at in the healing process. And this guy's obviously not just a rebound guy, correct, And you know, I don't know if he feels that way about me or anything. And I'm just like, whoa, this is happening way too fast, and so I don't know, it's a

little embarrassing. But oh that's so sweet. Well I was saying, we could tell him that, and I think you could probably just do it yourself though, because he's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. If you're not serious, Are you serious, Michael Brittany, How are you feeling? Sorry about that? Awkward laugh? I that's not fair. I didn't know you were on the line. I wow. I mean, I'm just like blown away right now. I really just thought that you didn't want to see

me again. I current believe. I'm really sorry. I just I didn't really know how to process everything that was going on. And you know, obviously now you know everything I've been going through. So it's just you know, I'm sorry. Yeah, she wants to see you again, just in six months. I mean, I hear what you're saying, and that makes sense. But at the same time, it's like, i'd really like to see you again, and if you had a good time and feel the same way about me, it's kind

of crazy not to at least hang out, you know. Yeah, I just I don't think it would be fair to you either, because I'm not, you know, completely one hundred percent there yet I'd still be thinking about my ex and you know not, you know, I don't want to bring any like crap from that relationship into this. So it's just I'm trying to be responsible and careful with, you know, my emotions. For sure. I hear what you're saying.

That's really good that you're like processing that. At the same time, though, it's like so rare that you meet somebody. I mean, I really feel like, I mean, you're like the most beautiful girl I've ever met, and you know, after talking to you, and like your heart is like even more beautiful on the inside. I mean, I just, oh, I mean, that was the best compliment ever. Yeah, oh no, that's that's really beautiful and I appreciate that, and I would love to say yes, I just I don't think

it's a good idea right now. And and like you said, it's not you know, every day you meet someone so special, so like I'll still you know, if we're still there for each other in five six months or whatever. I was like, cool, Brinnan, Look you've heard everybody swooning about how hearts and love and all that stuff beautiful. It is, in fact that beautiful. Don't you think you should just go for it? I see your point, It's just I

think that'll be too messy. I need more time to to heal and be confident and figure out like who I am as a person, and I was in a relationship for a long time. Right, one last question, And I've heard what you said. You said you're not interested until you feel like you've healed enough. But would you like to go with Michael on a second day? We'll pay for it, Brittany, Before you answer, I know you've said no to me and them asking like a whole bunch,

but just please think about it. I mean, I just want to say that if we had that much of a connection after thirty minutes of hanging out, it just seems crazy to me to risk throwing that away, Like, why don't you check a couple of weeks and heal and then maybe we can get together. Yeah. Yeah, listen to him, Brittany. I mean, there's no such thing as good timing. These things always happen when you least want them too. No, I hear you, guys, and I appreciate it.

It's just I promised myself a year. I think that's the you know, a good timeline to feel better, and so I just have to, you know, regretfully decline. Yeah, Brittany, I think I think you're making a big mistake because, you know, as somebody who's gone through a lot of breakups and always promise myself at the end of those that I would wait a certain amount of time. I've always jumped in, like into another relationship at about the six month mark, and you are missing You might be

missing out on a really awesome breakup. Wait, yeah, exactly. I was gonna say. A jewel is such a good example of healthy relationships in this world. I fully support you, Brittany, stick it out, stick to your guns. Yeah, thanks for that, Michael, keep my phone number, and like, in six months, we can see what happened. You know, we can still see each other at the gym. Maybe. Oh man, that's too bad. Well, I will definitely call you in a few months. Oh,

she said, six, not a few, stick to the rule. Yeah, broken jew in the morning, getting lots of texts and at seven eighty five to nine two that are kind of surprising everybody's saying the girl from today's second date update was just giving him a line. If you missed today a second date update, Michael wanted to call Brittany. They met at the gym, they hung out for a little while, then she left the date and hadn't talked

to him. Well, we got her on the phone and she said that he was amazing, Yeah, that she liked everything about him, but she felt a strong connection, but that she also just got out of a relationship and was giving herself a year to be single before she got back into her relationship, so she wasn't ready to date yet and he could contact her in six months. Yeah,

and maybe they could go out again. I mean, she had been engaged, and she said it was a messy breakup, and then it had been six months since they broken up. But she did start out the description of the date saying it started as a pity date. Yeah, she did say that, you know, I thought so too. And I was like, good for her for not caving if that's what she thinks she really needs. But that is, it's an interesting wrinkle that I didn't think of. I mean,

maybe we were being naive. I don't know what the thing now, Maybe we were being naive. Or maybe our listening audience is very cynical. Yeah, that could be, and I appreciate that. Or just the world in general is like, oh, come on, that's a line. Nobody waits that long before they get into a relationship. They meet somebody they really like, you'll throw caution to the wind and you'll get back into a relationship. She's full of craps. She didn't like you.

Either that or it's just a really good explanation of why there's so many dysfunctional relationships out there. Right, that's true. Remember, if you want to do a Seconday up, they don't have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.