Second Date Update PODCAST: Trapeze Madness

apparently met him at circus class. I picture just her waiting outside of a tiny little car with like fifteen guys getting out of it, and he was like the fifth and then they made eye contact and she knew that he was the one that had her heart. Her name is Kayla. Kayla, how are you doing great? How are you guys good? First of all, where do you sign up for circus class? I'm very interested. Actually, there are sucus schools everywhere. It's like everyone's all about like

fun fitness. So you know, it's like fun fitness. So this is that you're doing this for fun. It's not your profession. No, no, no, it's definitely like I can't bring myself to like run or go to the gym, so this is my alternative. Good. I'm glad you're not trying to start an office romance at the circus and date one of the other circus employees. That would be very bad. Drama in the circus is not good, right, all right? What's this guy's name, Tim? And how did

you meet Tim? Well? I met him really briefly in class. It's it's a really busy class, so it's hard to like socialize. Um. But we were in the same group together and I didn't exactly see what happened, but I turned and heard like everyone had gasps and then he was on the floor. So I guess he fell off the trapeze. Oh that's a big deal. I mean, what about the net. You guys have a nebt right under the trapeze. He wasn't a super high trapeze. We had a matt under him. So was he hurt badly? He

hit his head on the ground. He probably rumbled his brain a little bit, but he's fine. The instructor had a bunch of other students on his hands, so I just grabbed ice for him and kind of took care of him for a little while. You saw that as you're in didn't you? Like? You? Like? This is it? This is what I'm going to make my move. I've been in class for a while, and actually that happened to me a couple of weeks ago, so I got it all right. Was he doing okay? Well you took

care of him, or was he kind of messed up? Yeah, no, he was signed. He actually kept telling me to like leave. I think he was like a little embarrassed maybe from falling. But I just kept an eye on him and gave him some ice and all that stuff, and we were getting along pretty well. And then he asked me if

I wanted to get drinks after class. Yes, he's very cute, and honestly, I didn't feel very comfortable leaving him alone for hours after class, So keeping an eye on him that way, that's a good way to get a date and just be like, hey, I have a head injury. If you leave me, I could die. Do you want to go to a bar and hang out? Because if you don't and then I pass away, it's on your hands. That kind of that's kind of how you felt about that. That's a good way to get a date. Not exactly,

but there was a layer of concern for sure. Yeah, because there's nothing better to follow up concussion than alcohol. How did drinks go? It was great. We had really good conversation. We seem to have a lot of the same interests beyond circus. There was like, there was a moment he went to the restroom and he was gone for a really long time, and it was probably like

ten minutes. Okay, it's a long time to be in the bathroom, right, just because of what had happened in class, I got nervous, so I asked a guy to go in and check on him, and he was totally fine. And did he mention that the guy went to check on him. Yeah. The guy I sent him there came out before tim and he told me that he was just taking really long, you know. Oh, so he was doing that's so that's weird to do when you hang out with somebody right away. Sometimes when you have to

do it, you have no choice. But when you're in that situation as a guy, I know, you definitely try to make it as quick as possible, not pull out your phone and start playing a video game and twenty minutes later you come back to the table. It was ten and it was If he hadn't have just fallen on his head, then I definitely wouldn't eve even thought twice, right, I was just concerned. What did he say when he came out of the bathroom and he knew that you had sent in someone to check on him. We didn't

talk about it. It was an unspoken embarrassment, especially because of what he was doing in there. And now you both know that he was taking it too. But wouldn't everybody know you were taking it too if you spent ten minutes inside of a public restroom, like what else? What other options are there to do? For ten minutes? He could be concussed. I don't know if he's like if he like knodded off or something. Yeah, under other circumstances,

you'd know what he was doing. But if you hit his head and wandered in there, then you're not sure. I get I would leave him be Yeah, I just don't get why he'd be embarrassed when it would be obvious what he was doing, because you don't want to be taking a dump on your first date. Well, I don't go in the bathroom for ten minutes, make it quick.

I don't think he was expecting to go on a date after class, Yeah, yeah, I mean it wasn't like you guys had planned this date and he had a chance to clear everything out before heading out on the town with you. So why do you think he's not calling you back? Then, Well, it's not even that he's not calling me back. We agreed that we would like go out again after class, and he just hasn't been in class for the last week. And how many classes

have you guys had, like one two? I was supposed to have seen him twice already, and he hasn't been in either class. And I've I've called him and he hasn't called me back. But I just haven't seen him at all. Wow, And I don't know if he's just like not into circus anymore, or if maybe his concussion like took a bigger toll and like he's taking some time off. Let's find out. We're going to play a song,

come back, call him and get your second date update. Okay, okay, okay, hold on frooking Jubil in the morning, right in the middle of a second date update if you're just joining us. Kayla is on the phone and today she wants to call a guy named Tim. They met at circus class. Apparently she's not actually trying to be in the circus, but she goes there for workouts. I guess it's a

good workout to do these circus classes. But she met the guy when he accidentally fell off the trapeze and hit his head, and she was the one to help nurse him back to health. And then they actually went out for drinks right after that and enjoyed some good conversation everything else. She said, there was an awkward moment when he went to the bathroom for about ten minutes, and she sent somebody to go in and check on

him because he was gone for so long. She was concerned maybe he had a concussion or something, but he was just in there doing his business for a really long time. And it was awkward because now he knows that she knows exactly what he was doing, but she hasn't been able to get ahold him. She's called him and he hasn't shown up to circus class, so she thinks he might be ditching her. Kayla, are you ready for your second date update? I am ready. I do want to let you know for this one because it's

a special case because he did hit his head. I actually called ahead and figured out what the reason is. Yeah, and I'm sorry to inform you he has passed on. Is no longer with us because of hitting his head when he fell off the trapeze. His parents actually blame you, and they told me to expect a lawsuit and to have that on your conscience the rest of your life. Okay, So thank you very much for the second date update. You have a good one, you murderer? All right? Ready

to call him? Well, I guess now, yeah, Now, any news is good news. Right, absolutely, here we go. I'm gonna doall this one of her right now. Hello, Hey, gonna speak to Tim please? Yes, this is Tim, Tim, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Good. Who is this Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio program. I'm calling you today because one of our listeners emailed us about you. Okay, her name is Kayla. Kayla recently met you at a

circus trappeeze class kind of workout thing. Oh yeah, okay, yeah. Well, Kayla emailed us because she said she really enjoyed meeting you, but also that she hasn't seen you at the circus class since you guys went out for drinks. So she asked if we could get you on the phone and find out why. Oh she I'm sorry. She wants what does she want? She wants to know why you're not calling her back and also why you haven't shown up to the circus class. She feels like you're ditching her. No, no,

I'm not. I'm not ditching her. You aren't, really, no, not at all. I mean, you know she's a cool girl. But I haven't been going to class lately. Is it because you hit your head? How do you know about that? I know because Kayla told us about it. She told us all about how she met you at the circus class and how you guys had drinks after, And I guess she's confused why you aren't showing up to class anymore. I won't call her back because she really would like

to see you again. Wow, it's it's a little crazy. It's not like I blew her off, but you understand how it would feel that way, especially since you guys like made plans to go get drinks next time you had class together. Well, it was more or less her idea. I don't necessarily remember if I committed to that though. Okay, so you didn't commit to seeing her again. Why haven't you shown up to class? Is it because she's there. Well, you know it was I have a very vague recollection

of the whole night. It was very traumatic. Well is it were you? Were you really injured very badly from falling off the trapeze? Wow? I mean you know it was like a ten fifteen footfall. Dang. And there were a lot of people concerned, you know. Okay, all right, why don't you want to hang out with her again? I don't know, she's a great girl, just that, you know, there were some other things that kind of happened that night.

You know that. I didn't want to be misleading. You don't want to be misleading about what just things happen. You know, it's just kind of my business, you know, my personal stuff, right. I don't want to get like two into your business. Is it something bad that you don't want to talk about? It's not bad. Just this is just alarming, you know. I'm just surprised that she would go through all of this to get a hold of me. Right. So it's a lot of work. So

is there anything that you could tell us anything? I'd appreciate it. Okay, fine, I'll tell you guys. You know, it's just that a lot of people came up to me that night. And you know, there was another girl in the class who I had exchanged numbers with and she expressed an interest in me. And while I was on the date with Kyla, I was getting text messages from this other girl. Okay, so you so you're dating another girl from that circus class. Wow, I wouldn't. I

don't know if I would call it dating. And it's it's not just her. There was a couple other people in the class that I'm seeing right now. Who do you could slay so badly in the circus class. You're dating a bunch of people from the circus class. I'm going on a lot of dates with people that were concerned about with me that night. Oh my god, you're using Hey, dude, I you know what I like your style,

use the head injury to score dates? Well, you know, it wasn't I didn't do it on purpose or anything. It just kind of started getting hot chicks trying to take care of you. Why not use this sympathy card? I get it. Oh my god. So you guys can understand, though, it'd be weird for me to go back to circus class with all these women around that I'm seeing. Yeah,

for sure, No, I totally did it. If you're dating everybody that's in the circus class that was concerned about you after you hit your head, I can understand you not wanted to go back there and get caught up in some sort of angry circus battle, right effect would I would totally call Kayla back. I just have to let everything run his course, all right? Cool? Well, you know what, you don't even need to wait to call her back because she's actually on the other line listening.

You're kidding me, right, Ken, I was actually worried about you, Like I didn't know what was going on. I didn't know if it was like more severe than it was that night. You weren't calling me back at all. I was worried, Kayla. I appreciate your concern. You're you're very wonderful. You know, you really don't need to see those things. Hello, you're a really nice girl. I mean, you've obviously gone through all this trouble. I just said, I was just

kind of, you know, weighing my options. I can't believe that you just wouldn't even call me back and let me know what was going on. I was actually concerned about you, and you let me believe that we have this great night, and I was expecting to hear back from you. You could have at least told me you weren't interested. No, I am interested. No, you're not interested. I am, I am You're not. Now it really doesn't matter anymore because I'm not interested in you. Oh can

I ask you? Are you being honest with all these women that you're dating, that you're not like looking for a relationship. I mean, it's not about being honest or anything, which I'm just dating. It's just like you know, if they call me, I hang out, we go out with them. Not really. I called you and you didn't call me back. Well again, I was going to call you back. I like the Friday, are you available Friday? I'm not. How about Saturday? I'm not available to go out with you ever? Kayla?

Are you positive? Yeah? I'm positive because I have to ask him, no matter what tim would you like to go out on a second date with Kayla? She's not available this Friday or Saturday, like she said, But I will pay for another date for you guys, to go out of your choosing. Absolutely. He sounds like he's a really wanted guy. I mean there's gotta be something cool about him, right, Do you hear that, Kayla? I mean, do you really want to go out with someone that

no one wants? Oh my god, yeah, Kayla, He's in demand though. Yeah. Yeah, I'm really not interested in any particular kind of douchebag. Okay, So any does no douchebags work for you at all? No? No bags work for me? Sorry, Tim, you could have got a date if you were a Yeah. I take a fense to that, just because you know, I hit my head and girls came to my aid. I'm you know, I'm in high demand right now. I'm

just capitalizing on this. I like how they hitting your head was the best thing to ever happen to you, Tim, It was actually no saying that makes you a douche bag. All right, Well, Tim, thank you very much for your time. I appreciate it. All right, thank you. I'm sorry, It's all right. I don't care, Kayla. Thank you very much for agreeing to do the second date update in your email and everything all right. And the next time somebody gets a head injury in your class, do not help them.

You've learned your lesson broken jubil in the morning texting at seven eight, five nine two That says, suddenly people all over will start throwing themselves from a trapeez this weekend. That's right. If you missed today's second date update, it was a weird place to meet. But this girl, Kayla, met a guy named Tim at this circus class that she goes to kind of uses a workout thing. He fell from the trappez, hit his head and she felt bad for him. They went out. He wasn't calling her back.

And the reason that he wasn't calling her back he's suddenly dating sounds like everybody in the circus class because once he hit his head, all the girls and they were like, oh my god, are you okay? Here's my number, call me if you need anything. And now he's been dating a bunch of girls just so basically girls that were taken pity on him from hitting his head in the trapeze class. Who knew that would work. It's kind of genius because I've actually been to a trapeze class before,

and the male the female ratio is really on your guys' side. Yeah, I bet it is. Suddenly every dude that's listening is like googling circus classes so that they can get on a trappez and then hit their head get a concussion, but hey, you get a concussion, we still get a lot of dates. She of course didn't want to go out with him again because now he's dating everybody on

the planet because he hit his head. She didn't do the same thing if the tables were absolutely remember if you want a second date update, just email the show. We will call the person that didn't call you back. Movie