Second Date Update PODCAST: The Wink

long at some CD bar. But it was really the seventies where the wink really caught its stride, and ruby cats were winking at all the foxy ladies taking them down to the disco to do the hustle and the wink. I feel like I've just in school. But sadly, after the seventies, the wink fell on hard times and it's sort of been dead since the nineties. But now it's been revived by one man named Ryan, who's on the

phone for a second at update right now. And Ryan apparently met the girl he wants to call today because of a wink. Yep, you're reviving the wink Ryan. Interesting, I didn't know winking still happened. Girl, Yeah, I wink at everyone. Oh you wink at everyone. You're just throwing them out there, willy nilly, like, doesn't matter what they are, like, you just wink it away. It's bold, moved. Oh no, she winked at me. Oh wow. Okay, yeah, I've winked before, but now she winked at me. Oh wow, a lady

bringing the wink back. That's weird, man, I've not hurt of anybody meeting through a wink. So tell us about the girl you want to call today. What's her name? Her name is Page. So we were at a house party, right, and I saw across the room she was smiling, laughing with her friends. Okay, So then I just casually walked over and I said to her, Hey, I'm I saw you winking at me from across the room, which she didn't, but I said it anyway. Okay, she didn't really, I see.

Did she think that was cute? Obviously? Well? No, At first she was kind of weirded out and said no, I did not wink at you. But then I said, no, let me double check, let me, let me let me take a moment and let's reenact this. So I went back across the room and I waited for her to wink again, although she didn't, but I walked across the room again and I said, I'm pretty sure you winked.

I'm almost positive. She started laughing. Okay, okay, I mean basically, when you went across the room, you gave her an out to leave, so she was interested. Well at least it worked. Yeah, So did you guys just hang out that night or did you go out at a date? So we hung out for about an hour. We just talked about life and our goals and what inspires us and wow, it was really really cool. Yeah, you guys got deep quick. Yeah. I was kind of surprising. Actually,

I didn't expect that, considering how Corny might pickup line. So, did you guys go out on an actual date? Well? No, I mean that was technically I guess the first day of hanging out in the party. Okay, so you've been trying to get her to go out with you again after meeting her at this party and she is not calling you back or what. Well, so it kind of ended a little weird. I asked to call her and

she said yes. But then instead of you know, like me giving her kiss on a check or you know, like a hug or some kind of embrace, she just reached out with her hand basically was signifying a handshake, and you didn't slap her hand away and be like no, we kiss over here. And then well I didn't quite know what to do with that. She just kind of reached out and I was like, what is she doing? And then I realized it was a handshake, so I kind of just slowly went in and shook her hand.

I mean, that is a setting her boundary move right, Like, that's her letting you know this is where I'm at right now. Yeah, I guess. So, I mean it was a first for me. I've never had a connection with a girl. And then she wants me to shake her hand. Otherwise she seemed interested. Well, okay, So there was this

point in the night where we were conversing. We actually moved rooms because it was really loud in the room we were in, so we had our time to hear each other, and we went up there just to find the quiet spot as to chat, and we accidentally walked in on some people. Oh it sounds like they weren't just people sitting in the room, like, and how many

people are we talking about? Did you walked in? Look, I'm not going to go into details about that, but let me just say we basically walked in and immediately it was one of those movie moments where we slowly walked out and closed the door slowly. Yeah. I had no idea that Chad could twist in those ways. Yeah. Did her demeanor change after that? Did she go from friendly to maybe a little colder or anything? She definitely

felt awkward, And I mean I didn't at first. Of course that changed once I kind of put two to together, and she might have thought I was bringing her up there to join that. That's what I would have thought. That's exactly the first thing I thought of when you said that. A little coincidental. I don't know who the people that were in. I didn't know the people in the room at all. Right, sure, let's go tell you loud in here. I know a nice quiet room upstairs.

Oh whoa, look at what we just walked into. It did not go down like that, I assure you guys. It was not my intention. Yeah, just was an accident. It doesn't matter. I mean that's why you got a handshake. I'm certain of it at this point. Absolutely great, man, I really liked the scroll. I just I thought, you know, all the reason to call her again and make this right and clear the air. All right, well we'll play a song, come back, and then call her and get

your second date update. Okay, thanks, All right, looking jubil in the morning if you're just tuning in for today's second date update. Ryan is on the phone with us and he wants to call a girl named Page. Ryan, I don't care so much that she's not calling you back. That's not what I'm really focusing on. You met this

girl at a party. You said everything was going cool, and then there was a moment where you went to switch rooms because where you were at was too loud, and then you opened the door to this room and there was a bunch of people and they're getting freaky. And that's the part that's got me kind of twisted up, Ryan, Like, I need more details on that specific moment, because I'm just wondering how many people was already focusing on one

person or was there Like I've drawn a picture. I've got a picture, I just drew, and I want to make sure that it's correct. So if you'd give me any more details, Ryan, I appreciate it. On that part of your date, please hook me up. I'm not going to details. We're not going to go down that road. I already told you, okay, any sounds you can remember, a sound, maybe a sound you can remember. That is what the internet is for for you, dude, I'm not

going down that road, don't see. Which makes it even more believable that you didn't on purpose bring the girl to that room. I did not bring her to that room on purpose. Yeah, I don't care. I just want to know what was happening in there. All right, Well, we'll continue on, I guess, and we'll call Page, even though that's not the really important part of the story. You're a weird dude, man, or did you say that was a weird dude in there? No talking about you?

You were there, sir? All right, Well, I'm gonna dial Page's phone number and see if well, first see if she'll give me the details and then find out why she's not calling your back. You do not ask her about the details. That's gonna make his situation worries. Here we go, Hello, all r is this page? Yes? Who's this hey page? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning get out page. I don't want to get out right now. I want to talk to you more.

I don't think she meant literally, what are you doing? Good? Question? In front of a microphone? Talking to you on the phone right now? What are you doing? I was surprised that you guys are calling me? What's up? Much? Hey? Do you sound so cool? I want to hang out with you already? You're just chill. I am cool. We'd have fun. You sound cool. And the dude that went on a date with you and wants to call you for a second day update thought you were cool too. Ah,

that's why you're calling me. Okay, do you know who would want to do a second day update with you? Not? Really? No, I think this one would be confusing because I wouldn't even consider your first hangout at an actual date. Okay, his name is Ryan. Do you remember meeting a dude named Ryan at a party? Oh? He said that he met you at this party and he's been texting you to hang out, but you have not gotten back to him.

That's true. Why is that true? Is there a particular reason that you don't like Ryan, I don't like it's a harsh way of saying it. I just didn't feel the need to talk to him again. He has. I mean, we've kind of worked out a theory on why you're not calling him back. Why do you think because he led you to a room where there was a bunch of people doing stuff with each other? Oh my god, he told you that. Yeah, how many people was it in there? Just curious? It was? It was, you know,

more than a few. Oh my god, did you What did you think when you open that door and saw that. I was surprised, Yes, usually surprising when you opened a door and something like that's going on. Pleasant surprise or a bad surprise, that's the question. I guess. I was plus surprised. Oh what hold on? Yeah, I thought it was kind of bowled of him to do something like that, you know, kind of taking me to this room, seeing like, oh my god, this guy kind of on another level,

kind of cool. I liked it, And so that was game. You were, you were down to hang out in that room. Well, I was until first he kind of pulled me a little bit and I kind of help, you know, I still kind of strung trying to let him know what's cool, but then he kind of pulled me a little harder and he shut the door, and I thought, what's that about? Oh, so you're actually disappointed that you guys left the room. Yeah, I was kind of exciting, you know, okay, And why

didn't you tell him that? Well? I kind of wanted to see his reaction too, But then he just seemed to turn into a big truth this is not the direction we thought. No, Ryan, I actually thought that maybe you thought he took you to that room on purpose and it turned you off. But apparently it did the opposite. Why would it turn me off because you gave up. I mean it's a shock. It's a lot when you literally have only said hi to someone basically, and then

you gave him a handshake at the end. Yeah, because after he shut the door and then we started having these long, drawn out, boring conversations. Sounds like he did it on an accident, I guess, And he just seemed like he was going to be a bore man. Ryan got totally mixed signals from you. I don't think that it was I think Ryan doesn't get it exactly. Yeah, Yeah,

it's definitely not gonna get it. It sounds like, but Page, Ryan is on the phone and wants to talk to you right now, unless he got scared and left Ryan either Page, I didn't. I had no idea that that you were into that kind of thing. That was totally on accident that I took you into that room. Did you hear how we just said it? Yeah? I heard everything. Oh my god, you guys are crazy. So wait, Brian, are you feeling What are you feeling? I don't know

what I'm feeling right now. I'm so confused, like sad that you missed an opportunity, intimidated, but I'm kind of confused. But I'm also like turned on a little bit. And I'm also I don't quite understand, like, Okay, I assure you I'm not approved, but I didn't want to like, Oh, Brian, you wanted to get out of that room pretty fast. Yes, because I was worried about what you were gonna think. Well,

you could have just asked me what I thought. Oh well, you got so quiet and a little awkward afterwards, so I wasn't sure. I wasn't sure how you felt. I was quiet because I was hoping that you were going to invite me, but you never did. Page. I was hoping to know, like win you over kind of thing, but I didn't really exactly want to win you over with a bunch of other people in the same room, Like like what I mean, I don't want a bunch of other people winning you over at the exact same

time time trying to look you over. I don't know, but I think, Ryan, are you looking for the same thing Page is looking for? At this point? Absolutely? Really you are. I don't think you even know what Page is looking for. I don't either, but I want to go down that road. Okay, you're ready to try it out? Well, in that case, Page, would you like to go out on a second date with Ryan and maybe many others?

I don't know, but we will pay for you two to go out at least you know it was it was spontaneous, right, that moment was so brand new and spontaneous, and he didn't seem down at the time. Ryan, you just didn't pick up the signals, and I just, you know, I don't think it would be right to go on the second date and not feel like you can be spontaneous. Are you serious? We can't go back and relive that moment.

So yes we can. I'm all about living in the moment. Page, all right, I know a bunch of parties where all of that's going on constantly. Oh you do. Yes, my friends are a freakidilic, you know, they're like, I'm like seeing a crazy Yeah, but now I don't know. Now I'm gonna go and you're gonna be expecting me to want to do something like that, and then what if I want to do something different? Yeah, you want to do Ryan, He brings up a good point. Page. If

you're asking me to watch, I can watch. I've done it before. I'm I'm a pro, I'm a cro What do you think it is this attractive to you? I just think you know our time is over, Ryan, and you know you missed it. The boat has sailed damn it. All right, Well, Ryan, I'm sorry you didn't get a second date. And Page, I'm sorry that Ryan didn't seize the moment. And I'm sure you'll find other opportunities though, if you just keep your eyes open. There's no way

that this could be my life. You know what, Ryan is, why don't you text me when you're at one of those parties and if I see you around, I see you around? Done all right? Well in the morning text in at seven, eight, five to nine to two says, wow, I need a page. A lot of people are filling that way. It's broken Jewel in the morning, talking about today's second date update if you missed it, stude, Ryan wanted to call page. They went to a party together.

That's where they met. Actually didn't go together, but they met there and she wasn't hanging back. He thought she wasn't calling back because there was an awkward moment where they walked in on some people having fun. Yeah, in a room. I think you know what I mean by having fun and more than one person, lots of people. Sorry for the conversation you just had to have with your kids in the car. He thought, maybe she thought he planned that was trying to get her to do it,

and that's why she wasn't calling back. But in reality, she wasn't calling back because he didn't invite her into the room. Yeah, and that he was super awkward about it. Afterwards, she's so chill. She thought he was approved. Yeah, and she's like, you know what, if we run into each other at a party, it's going to be cool. But other than that, we can't go out again. Sorry, I don't have that much coolness at all. Maybe you can hang out with Page and learn a thing or two,

or three, or four or five. You could teach me a lot. Remember, if you want to do a second day update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back