Brooking Jubels second d It's important to be a good friend, unless, of course, that friend ruins your chance at getting some action, then you should cut them out of your life. That's what I think. And in today's second date update, that's exactly what it sounds like happened to Jay, who's on the phone right now. Jay wants to call a girl named Michelle and she's not calling him back after one
of his friends apparently ruined his date. How you doing, Jay, I'm doing all right right now, guys, Why don't you tell us what happened? Well? I met Michelle online, so I saw her profile, and her profile did stand out to me a little bit because, like, she just came off as so I don't willing go down to earth. Okay, sorry, I thought you were going. I thought you were going willing on that one. But that's what I usually look
for in a a woman. Dude. It's actually kind of refreshing to hear a guy I say that her profile stood out not because of how much boob she had in the picture. Yeah, you know, it's right, because I like the fact that she had like a lot of pictures with her family. But the truth is she also had a really nice set of boots too, everything that you're looking for. So she seems like she's normal, she seems
like a nice girl. So I messaged her and she messaged me back, and we kind of hit it off, and we notched back and forth for a couple of weeks and we set up a date finally. Now what you do on the day your email said that your friend actually ruined it for you. Well, it was a first date. So we decided to do just something like, you know, low pressure casual, just to meet up for
drinks at a bar after work. So I was like getting ready to go and meet her, and then one of my co workers who's a friend as well, he comes and tells me like this awful story about how he just got dumb by his girlfriend. Okay, so you guys are at work and he's given you a sob story. Yeah, I mean he's actually pretty devastating, like he was like crying and stuff. So you're like, hey, yeah, yeah, your story is cooling everything, But I got a date right
now with a girl who will hopefully be my girlfriend. Yeah, you're standing in my way. Well, there's definitely a part of me that I was thinking that I know, I couldn't leave him. I mean, he was literally crying. I just couldn't just like bail on him. So I was like panicking a little bit. I'm like, what am I gonna do? I can't abandon him. So I texted Michelle and I asked her, listen, my friend, you know he just got dumped. Is it okay if I bring him along?
You know, why wouldn't you just reschedule with her? That seems smart, you know, looking back, maybe, but it's just like our schedules were like so conflicting for so long. It's taking me two weeks for us to get together, so I wouldn't really wanted to happen. And I just thought this, like he would come along, we would have a few drinks, and we will be able to just break away and like he would go home and that would be fine, you know, right. Was she cool about
you bringing him along? She said? Yeah. So we went up and we met and we all had some drinks. And every time I thought we were going to break away and pull the cord and ditch the single loser, yeah, just like he was. You know, he just kept breaking down, like we could not just help with the sand. We just couldn't shake him. So he was like trying. When you guys were out drinking, she was sobbing. Yeah, I mean at this point he was kind of like this
whimperish sobbing and what do you do? That's awkward? Was she trying to comfort him too? She was just trying not to say anything that would make things worse, right, Yeah, she doesn't know the guy, so she was just trying to say, you know, just bee all neutral and just be like it's gonna be okay. And I guess you'd probably get points because you look like a really caring friend, which is always a positive. But were you ever able
to just talk to her? Yeah? See that's the thing. Like, after like two hours, she was pretty much kind of like, you know, she just said I gotta get going and she needed to go, and I was like, all right, um, so I'm guessing your date ended with a passionate kiss right in front of this guy. It was like the awkward kind of like shoulder bump hug thing. Um like it was. It was just a polite hug, good vibe, right, okay, And have you heard from her since the date? Well?
What I did watch when I finally got home that night, I sent her a text asking her if we could try it again, just hit the reboot button, reset button, and just try it again, just the two of us this time. Yeah, And she texted back that she didn't think it was going to work out or it was a good idea. I mean, I mean, that's kind of messed up. Though she's blaming you for I mean, it's not an ideal situation. I get it. But you think
that she'd give you another chance? Yeah, I I thought she was kind of see the whole thing that I was trying to do the right thing for my friend. And I even texted her asking her, like, you know, is there a reason why? Like if she could just like at least tell me why. But she never even texted me back after that. So that's all you've heard from her. I don't think it's gonna work out? Why? Yeah, that was the last thing I heard from her, And
she never got back to me. And now I'm like, man, you know, I spent two weeks we really connected online, we had the chemistry, and I it's like, I just blew it. Have you murdered your coworker yet? Well? You know, it's like his girlfriend dumped him like kind of ruined two relationships. Yeah, exactly. You two can cry together now it's your cubicles at work. All right. Oh that's the thing. I really don't want to, you know, I really want
to make this work. Okay, Well, well play a song, come back, call her, and then get your second date update. All right, all right, thanks guys. Yeah, man, hold on it. Five looking cubil in the morning. I'm actually surprised that the guy that's on the phone to do a second date update today isn't getting a call back because normally uncontrollable crying on a first date always works for me. But then again, it usually happens in the bedroom, and they never made it to the bedroom. They were just
in a bar. So you should have had your date in a bedroom, Jay, and it might have worked out better for you. I'll try to keep that in behind for the advice if you're just tuning in and don't know what I'm talking about. Jay went out with a girl named Michelle that he met online. The only problem was right before he was about to go on his date, a coworker friend of his came up to him and said that his girlfriend left him and he was like in tears and everything else, and so Jay was like,
all right, well you can come along with me. He asked the girl if it was okay to bring the dude. She was like sure, And I think Jay was hoping that the guy would eventually get lost, but instead he spent two hours with them. On Jay's first date with this girl, crying and sobbing and just talking about how his life was over because his relationship ended. And she hasn't talked to Jay since except for telling him that is not going to work out. All right, Jay, you're
ready to get her on the phone? Yes, definitely. Maybe she just realized that relationships aren't worth it and it's better to be single than put yourself through that heartache. Or maybe she got his number instead of yours and they've been seeing each other ever since she felt bad for him. That'd be a smooth, smooth move by that guy. If you could get a date after crying for two hours, that sounds like the greatest scheme ever. If you did that, I'd let him have her actually come in and for it.
All right, I'm a dollar phone of her right now? Here we go? Helloh, can I speak to Michelle please, isn't Michelle. Hey, Michelle, how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, Brook and Jubil like the radio show. Yeah, just like that. How are you? I'm much better now, you guys me. I'm nothing just calling people that. Obviously you listen to the show. That's cool. We're just calling a check with people, see how they're doing.
It's part of our servant. Yeah right, I'm actually calling you because somebody emailed us about you. Oh god, telling me this is not a freaking second date update. I'd love to do that, but it is a second date update. Oh god. And you recently went out with a guy named Jay. Oh my god, you're calling me about ja. Yes, I am. Jay emailed us and told us about your date, said that it was really awkward because his co worker came along, And then after the date he texted you like, hey,
I'm sorry about that. We should try it again, and you texted him back that you weren't interested. Yeah, that's I can't believe that he told you all that. Well, he obviously liked you a lot and wants to see you again, So what's the reason that you told him it wouldn't possibly work? Well, he told you how the friend came along, right, Yes he did. He said his co worker showed up and cried pretty much the time. Yeah,
that is that not enough? So is that the only reason that you're not calling him back because of his co worker? No, the co worker cried the whole time, and to comfort him, he started saying horrible things about the girl. I mean, she wasn't even there to defend herself. And he's like, well, you know, she was kind of fat, so you can do better. And well it was there he was trash talking his co workers X. Yes, he's like, oh, you can do better. I mean she has a nice
set of boobs, that's all. And he was saying this in front of you, and what were you doing? I was like, yeah, I hope it gets better for you. There's more out there, can't you give him? I mean you could throw up a bone on that one. It's not like you've never comforted a girlfriend by talking about what a loser her X was on a date. Yeah, I wouldn't say that. I wouldn't say that in front of another girl, be like, oh dude, she's a waste, saying horrible like she had man hands. You don't want her.
And then the part where I was like, Okay, I need to leave is when they started asking me for friends, because the best way to get over if I wanted to get under someone else. So he was asking if you had any friends that his buddy could hook up day, can you call somebody and get them here right away so that maybe he can sleep with someone. Really, when I was like, okay, I'm going to see you later, he actually asked you if you had a friend that would sleep with him, yes, and could I get them
on the phone right now. What was your response to that? I was horrified and disgusted, and I tried to extricate myself from the situation and said I need to Was there like anything enjoyable about the date? I mean, it was funny on the outside, and I wasn't, you know, emotionally involved at that point. Did you ever for once think about a friend You're like, oh, I bet you she'd do it, and then almost call them. No, no, no,
not at all. Can't even go there. Okay, So, Michelle, I know that it sounds like you're listening to the show, and I don't know how many second date updates you listen to but maybe you forgot that. Jay is actually on the other line listening right now. No, I figured that was coming. I'm glad that he got to hear all that. Oh okay, Jay, you know there. Yeah, I'm here, pretty harsh recap. Jay listening to what she just said. I can't believe she's like saying this kind of stuff.
I can't believe that I was on the first date with you and you solicited one of my friends for sex. No, that's not what I did. That's not what I did. I was consoling my friend. That's what I was doing about It was not in a nice way. You have to know your audience, and I was there. It wasn't just the guys talking. And I'm glad that I got to see that side of you before I ventured in on a real date. So, well, haven't you ever had a friend who just got dumped? I mean, haven't you
ever broken up with you? And we watched a sad movie and I say, oh, sweetie, you'll get better. There are better ones out there. Just wait a minute, though, But like you, you're telling me you've never had and you don't know any of your friends who've ever had a casual just a hook up after breaking up just to feel better about themselves. Told me you might end up doing that, but you don't go on a first date and ask your date to help you on that mine. I was just trying to get you involved so you
didn't feel left out, that's all. I did not feel left out, So thank you. Don't you just want to maybe apologize though, and just say the timing was bad? No, I mean, this is like, we got to be realistic. She knows what's going on out there. I mean, don't be such a prud Okay, Well, you're being at jacks and I don't want to have anything to do with you. Weren't I made for each other great? And you were just a jack? So I hope nobody goes out with
you ever again. Yay, Well, this would be a perfect time for me to ask Michelle, would you like to go on a second date with Jay? Let me think, no, No, are you sure? I'm very sure? Okay, Michelle, do you have a friend who's a little loose on the moral side that would want to go out with him? Will you guys seem very loose on the moral side? One? All right? Hey, Jay, I'm sorry you didn't get a second date. But it is like you just went through a breakup and I will sleep with you to help
you feel better. I'm gonna have to say that that's a no. I just got turned down too. Everybody's getting turned down and nobody's getting laid over it in the morning. Quick word of advice for all the gentlemen out there dating. If you're out on a date, do not bad mouth women the whole time, and then ask your date if she has a friend who's pretty easy and would hook up with one of your friends. Shouldn't have to say that. I should not have to say that, but unfortunately I do.
It's broken Jewel in the morning. I'm talking about today's second date update. This guy Jay wanted us to call a girl Michelle that he went out on a date with. The problem with his date was that right before he was going on it, one of his buddies that he works with came up to him pretty much sobbing heartbroke and he had just broken up with his girlfriend and he's like, right before he was leaving, so he asked
his date, hey, can I bring my coworker along. He'll just be there for a little while, and then he'll go on his way, but he's having a tough time, and she was cool about it, she was like, sure,
bring him along. Well, it turns out after we got her on the phone and she told us the story that during that time, while they were trying to console his coworker, he actually was just like bad mouthing the guy's ex girlfriend, like saying horrible things about her in front of this girl, and then also stopped to ask the girl that he was on a date with if she had a friend who was, you know, easy enough and willing to sleep with this dude in order to
help him get over his girlfriend, Like, hey, you know, the best way to get over somebody's to hook up with somebody, right, So, do you have any friends out there who might just you can call him up right now. They'll come over the restaurant, they can know the bathroom real quick and get things done. And I surprisingly she
didn't like that. Yeah, I mean, it wasn't a look into what could happen if they ever broke up or anything, or how he handled his own relationships at all, And he didn't understand why she didn't want to go out with him again. But a lot of people texting in at seven eighty five to nine two understand exactly why
she didn't want to go out with him again. Remember, if you want to go out with somebody, if you've went out with somebody and they haven't called you back, just email the show Brook and Jewil at moving nine to five dot com. We will call the person who didn't call you back.