Second Date Update PODCAST: The Test

again or something that happens to me NonStop. It's really embarrassing and usually causes quite a scene. Well, actually I did remember my pants this time. They didn't have anything to do with it. Okay, did she forget her pants? Well no, but that would have made it better. Okay, So your email said that there was a scene that was caused. First tell us about the girl and then tell us about the scene. Well, first off, her name's Vanessa. She's a friend of a friend, so I didn't really

know her initially. But yeah, I mean she's like, seriously the hottest girl I've ever dated at point for sure is a that's a bold statement, sir, Well not necessarily he might have dated some real, real, unattractive people. No, well, she's like hot in general. Like, here's the other girls updated they're they're pretty cute. I'm not gonna lie, but this girl is like a ridiculous ten Okay, okay, So

did you know that before going into it? I mean, you said you were a set up friend of a friend, but had you known of her before and wanted the friend to set you up for Well, when when my friend wanted to set it up, I was hesitant, but then she showed me a picture of her, and uh yeah, so yeah, then I was definitely Ina. So when you guys saw each other for the first time, do you

think she was equally as excited about you? I think I'm a halfway ys a looking guy, but I knew a little bit about her, Like I, um, my friend told me she really liked Italians, so I suggested this one Italian place, but she said no, she wanted to go to her favorite time place. You're like, I'm gonna I'm gonna be a man here, I'm gonna think of the right place to take her, and she's like, no, We're going to my restaurant. I think that's a really

good sign. I mean, obviously she's excited about the date. If she wants to show you someplace good that she thinks is amazing, I was definitely down to try it. And plus, if she picks the place, then like she can't pen that on me if it sucks. Yeah, that's a very good point one. All right, Well, your email said that there was a scene caused during your date.

Tell us about that. What happened? Okay, So everything was going well until the waitress walked up and she told us about the restaurant a little bit and then left and everything. It seemed fine, but Vanessa was like really put off by that, and I didn't understand exactly like what was going on. And then she realized she had just left one menu and that really put her off because she interpreted that as like what am I Am I gonna like order for her? Or like is she

not her own person? Like may she just forgot him in you? You know? Yeah, she got insulted thinking that the waitress was assuming that you were the man in charge. I think so, yeah, I mean I didn't take it like that at all. But then she comes to refill our waters and Vanessa like criticizes that too. Basically, she says that the waitress build the water glass too high or something and where it should be only a quarter

inch from the top and wow. And then she went off about how she waitressed for years and she can't believe that this girl is actually a real waitress. And by the time we were done, I didn't know what was going on, but she was getting progressively more mad. Did you try to calm her down? I mean, how did you react everything she was criticizing. I didn't really know what to say because I just basically agreed with her, and I was just like, yeah, I was like trying

not to rock the boat anymore than it already was. Yeah, I mean, I guess if she's already pissed off, you don't want to like poke the bear, you know, Yeah, exactly. So what happened. So the waitress brings her bill and I was gonna leave a tip, of course, like a normal person, and Vanessa is like, no, don't leave a tip. She did a terrible job. Wait a former waitress said

not to leave a tip. That sounds so crazy to me. Yeah, I know, I was, of course I'm gonna give her a tip, but I got up to leave, and I was just gonna hand herr cash, like as in passing, But Vanessa goes straight to the waitress and like tells her off and like talks about how crappy of a job did and like how she should never be a server anymore and go get a job somewhere else, and like she was so pissed and want to call this

girl again. She sounds like a really horrible person. On the one hand, maybe she's just having the worst day possible, you know, I don't know what happened to her job before that or whatever. But at the same time, she's incredibly hot, and I, oh my god, you just want to give her another shot? Huh yeah, definitely for sure. I just want to find out what the actual we'll deal with. Then okay, you won't return any of my calls. I don't understand why she would not want to call

me based on having beef with the waitress. Not your fault, and she chose the restaurant paid exactly have you have you asked your friend that set you up? Like, is she known for being a little off kilter? I talked to my friend about it and she said, no, Vanessa is always super sweet, super nice, like even keel and obviously your friend is just your friend has never gone out on a date with vanessas sounds like, all right, well we'll play a song, come back call her and

get your second day update. Okay, all right, all right, are you nervous because I am rooking Jubil in the morning If you're just joining us for today's second day update, Ben is on the phone with us. And Ben went out on a date with the incredible hulk, very very hot,

incredible hold, but still a very very angry person. Her name is Vanessa, and I guess throughout their whole first date, she just raged about everything from the waitress only dropping off one menu to her not pouring the water correctly, just all of it. And then even at the end of their date, she confronted the waitress and told her what a terrible job she had done before storming off and out of Ben's life forever. And now, for some reason, Ben still wants to see if he can get another

date with this woman, probably because she's just hot. She wasn't be like a supermodel or something, because I would not put up with that amount of crazy. She definitely looks like a supermodel, and you know, I've I've only been on one date with her, So I'm willing to give her the benefit of the doubt because maybe she just had a bad day. You know, everybody has bad days. Pretty people get away with everything. If she was slightly ugly,

you would have so many horrible words for her. Yeah, exactly. Well, I'm gonna dial her phone number right now and see if we can find out why she's not calling you back. Okay, all right, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, it's Vanessa there. This is she. Hey Vanessa, how are you? This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Who Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's a it's a radio show. You're you're on the radio? Yes, I'm gonna good, go ahead, and just gonna guess that

you haven't heard of the show before. It's a show like you. Yes, it's a radio show. Is this like a country show? Is it like? Do you guys talk about stuff? What's No, it's not. It's just I mean, it's just a regular morning radio show. We do all kinds of wacky prank phone calls and things like that. You know, are you pranking me? No, I'm not pranking you right now. I do want to talk to you about something though, if you have a moment, okay, I guess,

depending on what it is. Well, the other day, one of our listeners emailed us about you, about me. Yes, go on, his name is Ben, and you guys went out. Nope, nope, nope, I'm not interested contact information. Just let him to know to stop calling me. All right, Well, hold hold on, hold up, though you didn't. You didn't even let me finish what I was gonna say. I don't need to let you finish the answers. No, I don't know why he's contacting you to contact me. Is that what's going on?

You don't even want to You don't even want to know why Ben would send us an email about you. I know why Ben is emailing you. He wants to go out with me again. He has made that very clear. You hear what he has to say. Because Ben said some things that you did, they weren't super awesome. I'm sure I know exactly what he said. All right, it was not a good night. Ben was not a great guy, you know. To be honest, I thought he was at first. My friend really talked him up and uh, it's a

it's a non. Can I ask you a question about the date? Is that possible without you getting mad at me? Okay? He said that when you guys went out, everything went fine, like you guys, we're getting along, and then you started just raging about the waitress and you got so angry that you ended the date by storming off to your car and haven't talked to him again. Hmye. Okay, so but it sounds but from talking to you, it sounds

like you were angry with him. Yeah. Ben did not pass the test, and you know, and that's no more dates for him. What's the test? Wait? What test? To be honest, I am very attractive. I'm sure Ben made that clear to you. I am a very attractive person, and I'm not being haughty about it. I'm just being real. I'm generally attractive to most people. Okay. Confidence is a good thing. Yeah, very humble too, Yeah yeah, no, of course, But I'm aware of that. And you know I'm not

a shallow person, obviously. I mean, Ben is attractive enough, but he's not. He's not. I'm more talcative than Ben is not me. Okay, but a lot of times I have to deal with people who only want to date me because I'm attractive. So I set up a test process so that I can weed out the bad ones. That's that's actually kind of genius. Like I don't understand it because I'm not that thank you, but I'm sure

you're very hot. What was the test? When I date guys, I you know, the first date is like when you find out what they're made of inside, like what kind of guy they actually are, not just looks, not with their based on it. And a lot of guys will just want to date me because I'm hot, So I make it so I kind of provoked them to call me out on my shop. So that's why whenever I go out on a first date, I choose the restaurant.

So the waitress is my friend and so I wasn't being unfair to her, but I act unfairly, you know, like I'll call out little micro things like the water being messed up, or not call enough or quarter inch from the top, like I've told him that I've waitress before and that she's a waitress just like Badger the waitress.

And if he isn't willing to call me out and tell me that I'm being a jerk, but I don't want to be with somebody who would just agree with me, because I'm like, well she's hot, screwed if she's a mean. This is the most I mean. At first I thought you were super vague, but now I just think you're an evil genius. Happens. Oh it's happened. You just don't know about it. I'm not the only girl doing this. So the waitress was your friend, Yeah, yeah, yeah, she

was definitely. She knows all about this and he and he just went along with the whole thing. Yeah. He just kind of like shrugged and was like oh yeah, like we'll get another menum and like, oh yeah, the water does seem weirdly small from the top. I'm like, that makes no sense? Is it almost fun for you? Like? How far can I go before this guy actually stands up for what's right? This is making me sound like I'm like an evil like sorceress who's like thinking of

all these ways of the things. But it's not like that. I really, I honestly want to find somebody of substance, like a partner who's willing to call me out. And you know, I've done this a dozen times, I mean, and out of all those, I've literally only gone on a second date with one guy, really, and it's because he called me out. He was like, you're kind of being a jerk, and I was like, oh, whoa round up a pause for this fun, let's try us out.

One dude out of dozens actually call you out for being in a hole because everybody else just wanted to date you because you're hot. I'm glad that you're impressed by all this. But are we done with this this phone call? We are almost done. I just have one more thing I need to say to you. Okay, what else do you want to know? I feel like I've told you everything. Oh I don't want to know anything. I just want to let you know that Ben is actually on the other line listening to this conversation and

really wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes? Ben? You there? Or did you run away? No? I'm definitely here, Vanessa. That's pretty what you did back in the restaurant. And look, I'm gonna call you out now because it apparently you like that kind of thing and I didn't call you out back. I'm trying to be a nice guy, and this is the first freaking date that I have been on with you. I'm not gonna like cause drama immediately I get to know sie on drama trying to I'm

going to call somebody out on being mean. You could have eased just been like nope, that's the water, isn't weird? Um? Do you have a problem with this waitress? You could have literally said anything instead of just being a little dude. That was you. That's what it felt like being on

a date with you. Then you get to know somebody first, and then once you get to know somebody, then you can call them out for all their I'm just trying to get to know who you are, and you're okay, but called a no, no, no no, you held a radio station to try and get a second date with me even though I was an asshole. So if I wasn't attractive, would you want a second date? If I didn't look like this, would you want a second date? That's a no?

Isn't it okay? Well? In case in point, I mean, Ben, you've got to be honest, like you did it say one thing about her other than how hot she was, Like, I honestly don't know anything about Vanessa. Why are you giving her more ammunition. She doesn't know that everybody is attracted initially by beauty. That's just the way it works. I'm not saying that you're a terrible person. You're not the right person for me. I'm looking for somebody who's willing to call me out, willing to communicate with me

if I'm being irrational about something. I don't want you to just be like, oh, pacify it. It's fine. I can have sex with her later. Like it's great, It'll be worth it. I don't really know what to do. Look, I feel like I've been scammed, okay, like one of those scams over the internet where you lose all your money and you don't really know what happened. And I feel like you didn't give me a fair date. And I deserve a fair date. Everyone does, and so like

that's all I'm asking. I'm only asking for a fair date, somebody that's open and honest and not playing tricks. Hey, Vanessa, would you like to go out with Ben one more time? We will pay for a second date. You know. I want to give him a round of applause for that wonderful speech he just gave. But no, you are brutal. Well, you know what, Look okay, that kind of steals a deal for me, because if you're gonna be a sole

like that, I wouldn't want to date anyway. Oh now he doesn't want to date, And ask Ben, if you would have done that on our first date, maybe we'd be going on a second day. John had to call a radio station to get in touch with this man. Ben. I'm sorry you did not get a second date. I can't win. If I called her out and didn't like who she was, then she would like me. And if I didn't and wanted to get to know her more

than she won't like me. Yeah. I don't know. I guess on your next date, just like as soon as you start going out, just calling out on everything. Just be rude, ye broken jubil in the morning the hot test didn't even know it existed. If you don't know what I'm talking about, I'll tell you in just a second. We're talking about today's second date update and the guy in today's second Date update named Ben. I bet he

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is hit up my friends at advocateslaw dot com. It's two or six five one two thirty five fifty five. They've gotten over one hundred million dollars for their clients, so hit him up. Speaking of being blindsided, Ben went out with Vanessa. She was terrible on their first date, yelling at the waitress, saying like are you even gonna tip her? Just complaining about everything. When we got her on the phone, we asked her about the date and she said, yeah, I do that on all my first

dates because I'm incredibly hot. But she didn't sound like cocky hot. She just sounds like I know I'm attractive and dudes just want to date me because I'm good looking. So when she goes out on dates, she acts like an a hole seeing if the guy will call her on it so she knows that he's just not into her looks, and it's all set up like the waitress was actually a friend of hers, that's why she picked

the restaurant. And I couldn't figure out why he wanted to call her when she was being just a jerk, But it was because she was hot. She was not enough. I just heard about this as I would fall for this. I would fail at this test totally. Oh, I think most dudes do. That's why she does it. And there's so many dudes that are pissed at her on the text board right now, someone texted in she sounds like she has a weird face and a small booty. Right, Yeah,

guys are angry at her. But because that's not petty, it worked because normally you wouldn't want to do a second you wouldn't want a second date update if you went out with somebody like that, But he still wanted to do it because she was hot, So I guess it worked for a text in at seven, eight, five, nine, Two, ladies, are you going to do this test? Now? Did you

learn something from Vanessa? Remember? If you want to do a second date update, just email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back two five,