Second Date Update PODCAST: The Happy Maker

be right back. I'm gonna go lift my body weight like two times my body weight, and then I'll be back around at this corner of the gym to talk to you. All right, cool? None of my name is Dunk. Nice seeing you. I'm assuming that's what happened for the guy on the phone today who wants to do a second date update. He said that he met the girl that he wants to call at the gym. His name is not Donk, his name is Robert. What's up, Robert? Hey? How are you? I'm good man, how are you? I'm

doing well, doing well, hoping you can help me. So you're email in said that you met a breezy while you're at the gym, right dead? I did hold that go down, bro. Well, I was at the gym and you know, I, you know, noticed this girl and I thought, you know, she was over there rafting. Oh my god, that's a while. I'll go over and I'll try to

flex my muscles next to her. Joking. I mean, you're kidding at that point when you're telling us this, right, I wish, but the mail ego is a scary thing I think sometimes, and I realized this in hindsight, but that's what I did. Did you really actually go flex or you like we're working out next or just trying working out? I was working out next, Okay, I pictured you standing next or just flexing your muscles in the mirror extra loud like. I didn't do that, thank thankfully,

all right, thankfully to not do that. So what was your opening line? I'm always interested in that. Yeah. So I saw her over the drinking fountain and I just went up to her and I was just just said, you have some really nice glutes. You did not say that, Yeah I did. Yeah, you could tell that she works really hard. She works really hard on those glutes. I mean, was she kind of like a meathead like you are, no offense who I want to see it like that? I don't know what do you want, Jim right, I

don't know what it determines. No meat head to compliment, no doubt about it. That's what That's what I am, That's what I do. Absolutely And yes, she same deal, you know. I mean she was rocking some very expensive athletic wear, um head to tell, so I was. I was definitely feeling her okay. And what did she say after you complimented her glutes? Thanks? She said? She said, thanks, I work hard. I got you live in a world that I will never enter in my life, and not

for lack of wanting to. It's just I don't have the effort that you guys have. So did you ask her out right there? I wanted to go go after the workout, trying not to be complete creep o, and UH waited until she was leaving the gym, and I went up to her and the parking lot, which sounds creepier, but it really was. You followed her out to her car. I did. I did do the following of the car. Women love when big, muscle bound men follow them into

dark parking lines. What did you say? They're like, how are you going to drive a car with those big glues? Like keep fit in the seat? That's pretty good. I wish I had said that. No, I just said, hey, what are you doing tomorrow night? You're gonna go get dinner. It's pretty simple, pretty straightforward, and she obviously said yes to that. Otherwise you wouldn't be doing a second day update right now. How did dinner go? I was good? You know, I rocked my good luck button down shirt,

which always makes me feel good. You know, sometimes the shirt makes the man I feel okay, and dinner went great. You know, she's great glutes, but she was learning this Whotle outfit where her calves were really accentuated. I would super feeling on her. What about her personality? Did you like personality wise? She was cool? Yeah, it's good conversation. Conversation. What did you guys talk about? I told her that I've run a couple of different businesses is and I

kind of went on a bit of a rant. And I'm afraid that maybe it was too much, which is like one time, but it was kind of went on a little bit of a rant about my businesses. When you mean rant, I automatically think, like angry rant about your businesses. What do you mean by rant? Well, I did talk about a guy that had screwed me over in business once. That's why I think it feels like a rant. Yeah, are you an angry guy? Not particularly,

but I am when I'm crossed, you know what I mean? Like, I think I'm pretty happy guy day to day, but you know, if somebody, somebody screws me over, then yeah, I get pretty fired up. I mess with the bull, get the horns. Yes, exactly. What was her reaction to you going off about this dude? It would seemed fine at the time. I didn't think anything of because it was just like I said, it was like one time. It was like a freef little moment in the date.

And that's why I'm thinking that maybe that's what what it was. I don't know what's she awkward after that? Not particularly, but she didn't say a lot. She was just kind of looking down kind of. She crossed her legs a couple of times, which I liked the calves, but it was just birth fidgety BG. Okay, yeah, yeah, women don't tend to like it when guys rage at the dinner table. Well, it wasn't a rage. It was it was a rant. You know, the ranch's to a degree less than a than a rage. Yeah, okay, so

you weren't going totally crazy. That makes it better. How'd you guys end everything? Well? I asked her if she wanted to go get a drink somewhere else. I thought I was going pretty well. Um, she said no, she need to go home. So I walked her to her car and gave her a hug, hug goodbye. I thought it, you know, keep white, And that was it. Have you talked to her since? I texted her once and I said I'm headed to the gym. Are you gonna be there today? And then she just said, I worked out yesterday.

That's it. That's all she said. That's all she said. And then I'm like, I was at the gym yesterday and I was there for a good period of time when you would have been there, and I didn't see her. Okay, so you think she's lying to you about that? Yeah? I do. You haven't seen her at all in person at the gym? I have not. No. All right, well, we'll play a song, come back, call her and get

your second date update all right, awesome, thank you. Yeah, man, hold on looking jubil in the morning if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Robert is on the phone, and today he wants to call a girl named Chandra. What do we know about Chandra. She's got an okay personality and some great gluts and some calves, some wonderful calves as well. That's what Robert liked about her. They met at the gym, he complimented her gluts, they

went out for dinner, and now she's not calling him back. Robert, We're about to call her and see if we can get her on the phone and find out what went wrong. Anything else that you'd like to add before we call her other than the gluts and the calves. No, I just want to say thank you, thank you. I'm very curious to see what she says. It's awesome. I feel like it's going to be something pretty extreme because it sounds like she switched Jims just to avoid you. To me,

I'm just saying, you haven't seen her there. Whoa U yikes, that's bad. We're gonna hope that's not the case the case, all right, we'll find out right, I'm gonna doll the phone. I'm get your second day out date. Okay, thank you? Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Chandra please? Did she Hey Chandra? How are you? My name is Jubil and I'm calling from Brooke and Jubil in the Morning. Um, Hi, Dared calling from what Brooke and Jubil in the Morning

the radio show? Uh? Okay, how are you today? Fine? That? Why are you calling me? Well, I'm actually calling you because one of our listeners emailed us and asked if we could get a hold of you. What. Yeah, I don't understand. Well, there's a guy that listens to our show. His name is Robert, and you went out to dinner

with him. Oh okay, yeah, so you know Robert. Well, Robert listen to our show and emailed asking if I could call you to find out why you're not calling him back after you guys went out on your date. It's a segment that we do on our show called the second Date Update. So Robert's wondering if he did something wrong. I mean I did text him back the other today and he like texted me and I texted him back. He actually told us that yeah, but it didn't sound like a text from somebody who wants to

see him again. It sounded like you were kind of blowing him off. Yeah, I'm glad he picked up on that. Okay, so you are blowing him off? Yeah, I mean actually I would really be fine to never see him again. Why do you mind telling us? Why so that we can share it with him? Well, he's uh, he's just

really forward, meaning yeah, a little too forward. I mean at first, at first, like I thought it was attractive, Like I've dated a bunch of guys who are like really shy, and I was like, I always have to make the move and like start the conversation, and so it was nice. He wasn't shy or timid, and he seemed really confident. He told us how you guys first met, and when he saw you at the gym, he walked up and complimented you on your glutes. Is that kind

of what you mean by too forward? Well, I mean at that point I thought it was just kind of funny, you know, um, and I appreciated that honesty, you know, like he didn't seem that weird. But once he went out, he just he just crossed the line. Was too much? It was too much? Did he say something or was he acting aggressive towards you? Yeah, he said something something really bad. What did he say? Uh? I really rather not say what he said. I don't want to say that.

It makes it makes you that uncomfortable to repeat what he said. Yes, definitely. Can you give us a hint? Well, we were talking about our interests and uh, we're talking about sports that we like, and you know, he likes basketball and football, like you know. And I mentioned that I like swimming and that I'm really good at swimming. I was swimming in college, and I was talking about how I'd probably like it because I was really good at it. And then he goes, you know what I'm

good at and he leans into the table. Oh, I can already see what's coming. And I can't say that. I shouldn't say that. He doesn't know like I mean, he literally thinks that he did nothing wrong on this date. He thinks he did nothing wrong. Yeah, we're talking, said he thinks he said nothing inappropriate. Yep. Yeah. When we talked to him about your date, he was like, Oh, it's cool. We just had a fun conversation. I may have got a little ranty at some point about my business,

but that's all I could think of. That's amazing. I just said, totally clueless. All right, the anticipation is killing me. What did he say? Oh? God, well, I can't say this, but I'll try to give you the idea. Okay. He leans into me and he says, I'm good at um doing things for others that make them happy. I'm assuming you don't mean charity work. Noah. He was like vulgar about it? Really? Wow? Yeah, like how vulgar? He used some pretty disgusting words. Can you just do like a

rhymes with here? No, I'm not gonna know. I'm not gonna do that. Use your imagination. He was talking about how he is good at servicing women. I think I understand what he was saying. And he really thought he was going to impress you with this, can you? I mean, I've been on a lot of dates. Nobody has ever said anything like that to me. And you weren't interested in putting his skills to the test, huh. I mean this was a first date, okay, Like we hadn't even

kissed or anything. We're talking about sports and that comes out of no and there is no I mean, like there was no sexual talk at all before this statement, I was talking about being on the swim team. Well, thank you for telling us your story. I appreciate it. You're welcome. It was horrible. I wish I could forget it. Unfortunately, you're not going to be able to forget it just yet, because he's on the other line listening and wants to

talk to you. Wait, what, yeah, do you serious? Robert, Hey, Shandra, how are you doing? Oh? Yeah, I'm I'm a little confused. I'll be honest with all of you. We were talking about things that we were good at. She said she was good a swimming. I'm really good at that. That's not a sport, Robert, inappropriate, it is for some people. I can't believe. I mean, I think he was the first seat. You don't say that kind of thing out

to dinner. At the dinner table, we're eating. I hear what you're saying, But you can't tell me you weren't at least at all intrigued if I was good at that, right, I mean, there was a little part of you somewhere deep down in the research. Okay, okay, Robert, hold on, Robert, Robert, listen. Does it seem like I was a little intrigued. Well you should have been, because I'm really good. I'm really good. I don't even want to meet the women who told you that. Well, I mean you got to give him

some credit. He likes to put a lot of effort into police. Thank you, thank you were up there. Yeah, look, it's not about me. I didn't talk about me. I'm talking about you. I love here for you. That's the kind of team player that I am. All. I think you need to take a little bit of that effort and move it towards how to be appropriate. Eye. Yeah,

I don't think. I don't think she's mad at exactly you wanting to do that, But maybe the time and the place was bad and the way you said it, it sounds like she wouldn't tell us the exact way you described it. But I can imagine it's probably not language like come on, like you're not fourteen year olds like one. Well, i'll concede the location. I'll concede the location, but I do not apologize for my ability alogize. Oh wow, Look, everything I do, I try to do the best of

my god given abilities. I give one hundred and ten percent and I am the best at that. And that's what I can promise you in that department, I can probably see a lot of other departments too. Oh my god, Sandre, was there anything charming about Robert on the day outside of this moment? Yeah. I mean, if you listen to him, he's funny, but he's just like wildly inappropriate, also way too much. Hey, Robert, let me ask you a question

next time. If you went out on a date with Chandra, if she actually said yes, and you said something inappropriate, would you have a problem with her telling you to stop. Absolutely not. I would have loved her to say no, that's inappropriate. Then I know now I know what the boundary. So there you go, Chandra. He just doesn't know if you went out with him again. You have the freedom now to tell him, hey, don't say stuff like that, and he'll stop. I kind of feel like he has

learned nothing from this conversation. I don't want to have to be telling him every time he says something inappropriate, like you have to monitor yourself. No, I don't think this was a good match. That sucks. I was really hoping to get a second date and see what happened after it. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm trying to avoid. So sorry, Robert, but there are a lot of women interested in your particular skill set and I think you're gonna be okay. All right, thanks guys, I appreciate sand

good luck, good luck out there, you too, buddy. Remember who's number one in your heart? All right? Oh God, broken Jupil in the morning.