Second Date Update PODCAST: That’s Not Mine?!

be a little a hole on her date. Why was her son involved in her date? Yeah, find out in just a second. When we talked to her, Courtney, how are you? I'm good? How are you? You don't mind me calling your son a little a hole? Dude? No, because that's what he was. How old is your son, Courtney? He's three? Oh, he's three. Okay, they can be little a wholesometimes, that's true. It is kind of weird to have your son involved in your first date with a guy.

We'll get into that in a second, But first off, how'd you meet to do that? You want to call today? We met on an online dating site, okay, okay, and you were transparent that you were a mom right off the bat. Oh. Completely. Most of my pictures actually have my son in them with me because I don't want that to be a secret, huge part of my life. Yeah right, that's a good thing. So this guy obviously doesn't mind kids. What's his name, by the way, my

son or the guy who? The guy? Jason? Jason? Okay? Never, the sun's name is little a Hole. Yeah. So what did you guys do when you went out? We just went out for drink. I mean we had talked a while on the dating site and it went well. I don't go out with a lot of guys just because having a kid and finding someone that I can even just chat with m is kind of rare. Honestly, I hear being a parent is a full time job. That's what they say. It is true if you're doing it right,

it's true. If you're not, then So how was conversation with this guy over drinks? He was super fun and he's a really good listener, which I don't know if other women are going through this like to have someone that doesn't kind of glaze over when you're talking or start talking about themselves. It is so like refreshing. I don't know. I know I'm always the same way whenever somebody's talking to me and I'm like, they're listening to me.

I thoughwise is really refreshing when they're not just talking about themselves, you know what I mean? Yeah, Like I always feel that. Yeah, So you guys had a good time and good conversation. But where does your son come into play in all this? Well, I think because I was up comfortable and it was going well, I drank a little more than I usually do and I got a little tipsy, which is like whatever, I don't do this much. So that's when I decided to invite him

back to meet my son. To meet your son, well, I wanted to invite him back to my place, but I knew that the babysitter was still there with my sons. So I was kind of hoping, like, yeah, he would meet my son, and yeah he would be coming back to my place. I didn't know what time of day was this, so he was home with a sitter, so it was like nine o'clock. He should be asleep. He might still be awake. Why don't you come meet him? But if he's not awake, then you and I can

hang out. I'm saying, Jason, the guy that you went on the date with, did he seem okay with meeting your kid? Honestly, if I were on a date with a girl and it was a first date and she's like, I want you to come meet my son, that would be a little strange for me. Yeah, I couldn't do it. Did I think it caught him off guard a little bit? And again I was a little more bold because I

had had a few drinks. But he said yes, and he was a little hesitant, like he was maybe afraid to say no. But she said yes and we went We went back to my place. So mommy's home, she's a little drunk and she's got a male friend with her. How did that go? Uh? It was It was not right, um adam. My son was still awake, and he broke a toy or something and wanted me to fix it, and it was like broken, it was completely busted. I

couldn't fix it. I needed him go to sleep. And then he just went So you tell this guy, hey, you gotta meet my son. He's just a little angel. And then you go over there and your kid throws a fit. Why is it always like the worst time possible that kids throw fits. Yeah, it's all the time with him. Whenever I would like him to be on his best behavior, it's the opposite. Yeah, so crazy. And what was Jason's reaction to your kid freaking out? Um, he was kind of, you know, just kind of frozen

for a while, it seems. I think he was a little freaked out. But then I finally got Adam down. He kind of curried himself asleep. Okay, So he's down. So then I'm like, well, let's have a class of wine. Mommy needs another drink. So we have a drink and we're chatting and he seems fine, but then he said he had to go. Okay, so I walked him to the door. He kissed me on the cheek. Yeah, and that was a week ago, okay. And how many times have you tried to get a hold of him since

you guys went out. I think I've taxed him three times, which I know is kind of a lot, but it's over the course of a week. Just and I wasn't like, how are you can we get together again? I was like, I don't know. Just for Indam text, You're like, I swear I'm not a bad mother and my kid is in a total drink. Did you get any response from him at all? No? Okay, well I think we know why he's not calling you back. Yeah, but we'll see if we can get you a second date. Well, here's

the thing, It's like, I don't know. At first, I was in my head about it and thinking it was it was because I had taken him back to see Adam, but he knew I had a kid and he said yes, And then I don't know. I think I justsed him in my head and thinking like if if Adam would have behaved, would have had been different. I don't know. All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, get him on the phone, and get your second date. Update. Okay, okay, cool,

thanks guy, All right, hang on frooking Jubil in the morning. S. Children are beautiful creatures, aren't They could just listen to that all day long, especially when you're on a first date. Right in the middle of a second date, update, Courtney is on the phone and she wants us to call a guy named Jason. She thinks Jason might not be calling her back because she actually got a little drunk

and decided to introduce him to her son. They went back to her house, he met her kid, and then her child started freaking out about something and it kind of ruined the date. So that's why she thinks she's not getting a call back. You know, my mom didn't date much when I was a kid at all. Really, she's married to your dad. But I wish my mom would have been dating when I was a kid, so I could have just ruined her date of how Courtney's kid did. All right, Courtney, are you ready to make

your phone call? Yeah, I'm ready. If you got to do it all over again, would you skip the three year old introduction? I think that would be in my favor. Yeah, okay, to make sure you didn't do that on both of your dates. All right, I'm gonna dial this phone number right now and find out why he's not calling you back. Okay, thank you, go. Hello, I was looking for Jason. Yeah it was Jason. Hey, Jason, how are you. My name is Jubil and I host a morning radio show called

Brook and Jubil in the Morning. Okay, what sorry, my name is Jubil. What is this about? Please? Well, actually, one of our listeners emailed us about you and asked if I could get you on the phone and ask you a few questions. Wait, so this is the radio program. Yes, and somebody who listens to our show emailed and asked if we could get you on the phone. Okay, and it's about what It's about a date that you went

on recently. Uh, He's like, I know, it's weird. It's a segment we do on our show called the second Date Update. So you recently went out with a girl named Courtney oh Man. Okay, Um, yeah, yes, I did go out with a girl in Courtney recently. Okay. Cool. So we got the right Jason on the phone. Well, Courtney's wondering why you're not getting back to her after your date. Wow, So she called the radio. Yeah, I'll

tell you what she told us. Courtney said that you guys met on a dating site and went out and had a fun time drinking and talking, and then at the end of the night, you went back to her house and ended up meeting her kid. Right, Yeah, yeah, yeah that happened. And that was a little surprised by that. I knew from her profile that she had a kid. Yeah, so I was cool with that, but I didn't expect to be you know, ask back to meet the kid. Yeah, she knows. She even knows that was kind of weird movie.

She said she was a little drunk when she suggested that you go back there and meet the kid. And then she told us how her son like freaked out. Uh, it was. It was pretty rough. She she had warned me about him. She said he could be a handful and so, but to be honest, the way he threw the tantrum that he threw was pretty It was pretty intense. It was. It was an eleven. Okay, it was eleven on the one to ten scale. Do you have much

experience with toddlers at all? You know, I don't have a kids on my own, but I have cousins and brothers and sisters who have kids. So I got lots of nieces and nephews. So it's great to be the cool uncle. Okay, but so you could understand, I mean, like late at night, the kid's gonna have a tantrum, it's tired. Yeah, you know, I get it. I get it. And I'm good with kids too, So that was that was a little weird. But I I wouldn't say that

was the reason I didn't contact her again. Is there a reason or did you just not really like to date? For her sake, I probably don't want to mention it on the radio because I don't think she'd like that. I mean, I know she called you, but yeah, but if it's for her sake, she's the one that agreed to do the second date update, and everybody knows when you do a second date update, you might hear something that you don't want to hear, and you have to be willing to have it aired out on the show.

So she knows that. Yeah, all right, so I should just throw on blast. Huh, that's what she's asking for. She would love it, actually, all right. Well, she's dealing with Adam I think was his name, and that took a while. It was an event. So I'm trying to, you know, keep myself entertained looking a magazine or whatever. And I had to go to the bathroom, so I'm not trying to snoop or anything. And it looked like through the bedroom door there was a bathroom that way,

and so I went through that way. But in the bedroom asleep in a crib is like a newborn baby. We talked all night and I feel like I got to know her really well and she really opened up to me and still talk my phone. That she also had a newborn baby that she hasn't told me about. But she didn't mention at all that she had a newborn child, not at all, not one. She didn't mention that to us either. What. I was completely shocked. I was like, I don't know what to do. I got

I gotta get out of there. So so she had a secret kid, secret baby. Yeah, she's a secret kid kid. I mean, you're sure it wasn't like the babysitter had a newborn and the newborn was sleeping in the back room. That babysitter was not old enough to have a newborn, and clearly, like she said, the babysit at home. So yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right. So she has she had a secret baby. Why would she did you ask her about the secret baby? I didn't ask her about the secret baby baby. I'm

just like, I'm out. Yeah, but why would she tell you about the one child and not the second child. Obviously she's got a favorite. You can meet my three year old, but my newborn not very coolie. That is understandable if somebody had a secret baby, i'd be a little weary of dating them too. Yeah, I was blowing. Maybe she just I don't know, Like the only thing I can think of is like, maybe she was just worried that the baby had happened so soon that that

would scare you off. But she wasn't worried about me meeting her three year old June. I don't know why the baby will beat that different. I mean, I guess it means that there was a baby daddy more recently than. Speaking of secrets like secret babies and such, I have a secret. Courtney is actually on the other line listening and would like to talk to you right now. Right. No, I'm serious. She's on the other line. Are you serious? She's on the phone. Yep. Secret babies and secret phone calls,

that's what we're all about here. Wait, what the heck were you doing in my bathroom? You did not ask them there, so you set this whole thing up on the radio. Yeah, idea to have this conversation this way. I've wanted to talk to you and figure out what was going on, and you were not answering me. Well, I wasn't answering you because you were a liar. I don't want to go out again. I'm not a liar. It's not what you think. It's not that at all. Why didn't you not? Wait? Wait? So did I not?

Am I imagining the baby? Or you are not imagining the baby? Um? But that is not my baby? What somebody? It's somebody else's baby? This baby is it? It's a friend of mine. She's another single mom and we share babysitter sometimes and when we go out. Oh, that makes total. So it's your friend's secret baby. It's a secret baby. Wait okay, Cody, Then why didn't you tell me about it? Why would you need to know that my friend's baby was sleeping the other room? I don't I mean, you

weren't supposed to go in my bedroom. Why were you going in my bedroom? Because I had to pee? We were drinking all night and bathroom and that's the one I found. It was the closest one. Well, it wasn't the bathroom. That was my pundroom in the bathroom, right, the bedroom bathroom. It doesn't matter. You have a second kid that you didn't tell me about, and that's that's next to me. That is not true. I just told you the truth. Yeah, whatever. I don't believe you. You

told me everything about the situation about yourself. You're super open with me, and you would have told me about that. I don't know why you wouldn't have you prepared me for the situation that we were walking into. There had nothing to do it with what was going on. Okay, you're a moron if you think that I was going to have a secret baby and try inside it from you, like I had this plan to like be this evil genius behind your back. That's a good point, Jason. Why

would she hide a baby from you? I mean, if you guys did start dating, at some point, she's gonna have to introduce you to the baby. I don't know. Maybe she was waiting to introduce me to the baby, like on the second date. Maybe it's going up to that. Maybe on the third day she'd go like a seven year old. Just kids showing up everywhere, just secret kids left and right, kids pop it up everywhere, like well Chamberlain's kids. Have you been burned that bad by other dates?

Maybe you're the one who has some issues because I'm telling you the truth. I don't have time to plan these evil schemes. Okay, I'm a single mom. The reason that I shared a babysitter is because it's hard. It's really hard to support a kids. So my friend and I do this together, Okay, to do it together when we decide to go out and try to get out there in the dating scene. I don't do this often. He seems like a really great guy, and I wanted

to give you a chance. I'm being completely truthful. Okay. I don't need you to attack me. I don't need that. I don't have time for that in my life. Okay, but I really think you're a really great guy. And if we can move past this silly secret by scheme that you think I'm doing, Jason, would you like to go out with Courtney again? We'll pay for a second date and she can prove to you that she does not have a secret baby. I can't believe she even

past too. It's so dumb, I know. Yeah, I mean, I'm gonna have to say no, because why don't you call me a moron too? For two hours with her that night, and if I had to make a guess on whether she was telling me the truth right now or not, I would say probably not. So you still

you still think she's lying about the baby. Well, I also think that maybe the fact that she called a radio show makes me think she wants attention a little bit, and or maybe you have communication problems and you should answer your tex All right, Well, I happen to think I'm a really good person, a really good judge of character. So I'm sorry that you think that, but a little paranoid. Maybe good person, a little paranoid Jason, thank you for your time. Yeah, thank you for your time. This is

a great wayte to spend my morning. You were ambushed with a secret baby. Hate those secret babies, Courtney Wall I'm sorry, no second date for you. His loss. It's totally fine. Yeah. You know, the one thing I learned in all this is I guess I should have posted my secret baby to my dating profile. Yeah, is that in your dating profile in your bio section? I have a three year old and a secret baby. I'd hit

you up and ask questions about that. In the morning text in at seven eighty five and nine two that says I'll go on a date with her as long as she's cool with a secret wife, jul in the morning, that's a force about the second date. Update girl named Court, and he wanted to call a dude named Jason that she went out with. They hung out, drank a little bit, went back to her place. He already knew that she had a kid. When they got back to her place, the kid was kind of out of control, and that's

what she thought. The problem was that he saw the kid was like, oh man, that kid is a health child. I don't want to deal with him. But it turns out he thought she had a secret baby. Apparently he went to go use the bathroom, didn't know where it was, opened the door to her room and there was a cribbin there, and he's like, oh my god, she has another kid she didn't tell me about. She swears that she does like a babysitter, share with her friend and

that was her friend's kid. But throughout the whole second date update, he didn't believe her at all and still accused her of having a secret baby that she didn't tell him about. Oh my god, it just makes me roll my eyes. Why would she admit the three year old and keep the baby a secret? That makes no sense at all. I don't know a secret baby or not. I couldn't do it. If there's just babies all around. They're babysitting Sherry like, that's so genius. And of course,

no matter what though, he would not buy it. He's like, yeah, whatever, whatever, that's a secret baby. I know it. And it was like a newer baby too. You'd think that if she just had a kid, yeah, she wouldn't be in the dating world. But I don't know. I don't know how people with secret babies act, you know, I don't know. They have a lot of secrets as well as someone brought up on the tech Spoort, as long as there

was no secret baby daddy that was still in the picture. Remember, if you want to do a scond day update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back. Moving ninety two point five