Frooking jewels. Second date. The girl who's on the phone for a second date update today says that her date ended in quote a triple kiss, an interesting way to end a date. I'm thinking of three places on my body I would like to have kissed right now, and let me tell you that happened on a first date with me. It would not end there. I don't think, Kristen, how are you? How are you good? So your date did it in a triple kiss. Normally, when I think of a triple kiss, I think it's like three people.
So I'm envisioning you and the guy that you went out with and the waiter all making out at the end of your date. Is that what happened? Um? No, I just mend a pack on each cheek and then on the lid. Oh, that's all the triple kisses. That's misleading, really, actually, Christin, that's really boring compared to what I was thinking. Reason no,
not at all. Actually, can we restart this? And then you say it's the waiter in him and you guys, even if it's not true, even if it's not true, just for me, I think it would be more exciting if we could do that. Is that all right, No, I'm not gonna say that. Okay. So the date ended with him kissing you on the cheek twice and then on the lips. Yeah, you gotta kiss. At the end of the date, it sounds like everything went well. Why do you think he's not calling you back? I don't know.
I mean I met him at yoga, and I don't know. I'm always skeptical of guys coming up to me in yoga, but he seemed really nice, and so I thought, you know, what made you say yes to this one? Um, he just really seems like a yogi you know what I mean, Like the guys are there and they just look so awkward and that they're like really only there for the view.
But he seemed like he really was into it, and he seems to like me, you know, genuinely wanted to go out to dinner, like it didn't seem fleezy like it could be. And how did the date go with him? It looked really well. We had a great dinner. We have a lot in common. I feel like, like I was talking about TV shows, Um, I mean I definitely have like shows I watch on Netflix or whatever, and so I just wanted to know, like, what does he like and turns out he doesn't have cable? What a loser? Oh?
Come on, yeah, how do you even want to call this guy back? Oh? I mean I feel like that's where maybe I made a mistake. Why was he like one of those snotty people who thinks that he's better than you because there doesn't watch much TV? No. I mean like he said, like, oh, cable's too expensive. So I tried to make a joke and be like, oh, it's because you're poor, and I can understand that. Did Did he get your joke? Oh my gosh, Like he just got really quiet, yeah, man, really uncomfortable. I felt
like I really offended him. And I was just joking. Did your back pedal after you said it? I was like, no, it was just a joke. I didn't mean to actually ask if you were poor. Obviously, like I apologized and said I was only joking, and you know, I just could see on his face that he seemed to understand. But at the same time, I just feel like he got his feelings. But you did with the Bill cub You also said, oh, let me get this, and I know you're in tough times right now. No, Oh, my god,
it must not have gone too bad. I mean he kissed you at the end of the date, and a triple kiss. No that I mean, well, I don't know. I mean he kissed me on both cheeks and on the lips. But it was really, you know, sort of a fast goodbye, so I don't know, passion, like an Italian man saying hello to another Italian man. Yeah, that more what it felt like. Yeah, I mean, it was kind of like that. It was kind of weird. Oh
my gosh, that's not sound sexy at all. So you think the only reason he's not calling you back is because you called him poor. I was kidding, Oh my god, But is that accurate? Yes, that's accurate. All right, But I didn't mean it like that. I just want him to know that I was kidding. Okay, well, we'll play a song, come back, call him and get your second date update. All right, right, thanks guys, brooking jubil in
the morning. Second update. I like the girl who's on the phone for a second date update today because she's a risk taker. It's a big risk that you when you decide whether you should tell the person you're on a first date with that they're poor or not on a first date, and she took that risk and went for it, and unfortunately now she's not getting a call back. But I like that you were willing to do that.
Oh my gosh, I was just kidding. If you're just tuning in for the second date update, Kristen was out with her date, who she met at a yoga class. They're having a good time. At some point they brought up TV watching and how she likes Netflix and Hulu and all that stuff, and he said that he doesn't have internet or TV at her house and her response was,
oh my god, what are you poor? She was joking, but he didn't realize it was a joke, and that's the reason that she thinks she's not getting a call back. Are you about ready to get him on the phone and find out why he's not calling you back? Kristen, Yes, I'm dying to find out. You still want to talk
to him, even if he's that bad at taking jokes. Well, I just want to clear the air and make sure that he's not holding something against me, some sort of grudge, and you will date him if he's poor, is what you're saying. I don't think that there is I mean it's a little bit of a pause there. You were like, I don't know. We'll find out just how poor. All right, I'm gonna doubt the phone of her right now and get him on the phone. You're ready, Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi,
can I speak to Marshall please? Yeah, sim Hey Marshall, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. No way, Yes, how are you? I'm fine? What's what's going on? Well? I'm calling you because one of our listeners emailed us about you and asked me to get you on the phone. Really. Yes, her name is Kristen. You guys recently went out on a date and since then you haven't been calling her, texting her back or anything, and she's wondering if she did something wrong,
and she asked you to call me. Yes, it's a segment we do on our show called the secon Can Date Update. If somebody doesn't get a call back from someone they went out on a date with, they asked us to get that person on the phone and ask why.
So now I'm asking you the question why. Well, if you must know during the dates, something that probably should have been said wasn't said something that should have been said wasn't said, like take me back to your place, because I always look, dude, I get really frustrated when girls don't say that when I'm out with them on dates. No, no, not that. But what was it then? Okay, so we're walking back to her car, and everything up to that point was pretty nice. I guess. You know, we had
a couple of awkward moments, but it was okay. Yeah, she told us about the part where she called you poor. Really oh yeah, see when we talked, we talked to everybody who wants to do these phone calls. We talked to her, and she thought the reason you weren't calling her back was because of that poorly timed joke. And I used the word poor, I guess. But that joke where she called you poor, No, I mean, honestly, I thought it was a little funny. Okay, So it wasn't that.
It was whatever she wants that all right? So what should she have said then? She? Okay, not once, not once through the whole night does she say thanks. She doesn't say thank you. Yeah, I take her to a nice restaurant. I pay for the meal. Even after she makes a joke about me being poor. I take the meal, so nice dinner. I'm walking here to her car, and you know, I give her a kiss and she doesn't say anything. There's like no reciprocation. Did you want to
thanks for the kiss too, or just for dinner? No, well, for dinner obviously, okay, because I always like girls to thank you for dinner and for the kiss. But I do understand where you're coming from. She didn't thank you at all. That'd be pretty rad. Did she even do the you know where girls kind of graciously reach for their purse to grab it like I'm gonna paid half, and then you're like no, I think she was expecting me to do it, and I was fine with doing it,
but I want a little thanks afterwards, you know. Let's unders I went through the effort. Why can't you do that little thing? So you just feel like you treated you a really nice time and she was ungrateful. Yeah, So I didn't call her back because I don't really want to be with someone who's not going to be as thoughtful as I am with them. Yeah, I don't blame you on that. I wonder if she was thankful
at all, don't you? Well, I assume she wasn't. Well, we should ask her because she's actually on the other line listening. Are you kidding me? No, I'm not Jesus Kristen. Yeah, Oh my gosh, I didn't even realize, Marshall. I'm sorry, thank you, thank you so much. Are you being facetious, because that's kind of what it sounds like. I'm no, I'm saying thank you. I had it dad her. I really didn't realize that I didn't thank you. Well, I'm sorry,
but you know where I come from. It's just, you know, those are the kinds of polite niceties that you you exchanged with somebody. Listen. I just I guess I just space that night. I don't know. I mean, I just I really do appreciate it, and I just hope that you can forgive me. Well, look, you know, thank you for saying that. I guess, but really it's too a little too late, and I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but I
don't have time to go through this with somebody. I I want somebody who's going to be that thoughtful, forward thinking person. I am a thoughtful person. I don't understand what the big deal is. I'm sorry. Well, if you can't understand what the big deal is. I think that speaks to something about you down. You paid with a gift certificate, for crying out, I don't even pay cash or credit card or nothing. It's not even like it
was your money. For well, it with my money because I received it on my birthday from somebody who gave me. All right, hey you guys, one second, So Marshall, did you really pay with a gift certificate? Yes? I paid with a gift certificate, but that has no bearing on this situation. And I could have used that gift certificate in any other thing that I wanted to pay for, but I chose to use it for our dinner. Yeah. I'm not ripping on you for that at all, Kristen.
I'm asking you. Did you not say thank you because you noticed that it was a gift certificate and not his actual money. No, I'm just saying that right now because he's pissing me the off. I mean, don't you think you're beat a little bit too hard nosed on this thank you thing? Yeah? Maybe, but I don't see that. You know, this is ridiculous. I've never heard of anyone
getting so hung up on thank you this one time. Well, yeah, first it's this one time, and then you know, in a relationship, then it's become for getting birthdays or not really caring about birthdays, anniversary that you don't really give a crap about. Wow, it sounds like you have a lot of bagga. No, it's not about baggage. It's about having common courtesy for your fellow human beings. It's very simple and speaking of common courtesy, and I hope that
you will say thank you after this. Marshall, I would love to send you guys out on a second date. Would you go out with Kristen again? I'll pay for it. No, you don't even need to ask him, because I am not going out Kristen. Listen, you know nothing about manners I do. It's rude not to at least ask. So I'm asking Marshall if he'll go out with you. Oh my god. No, I would not like to go on on another date with her. And I would like to thank Kristin for losing the number that I gave her.
He'll come and go ahead and lose my yoga class and find another one. It's it's not your yoga class, Kristen, my friend, and you don't get to common anymore. You can't do that, Yes I can, and you are banned from a yoga class forever. Guys, Wow, Kristen, you lost a potential second date, and Marshall, you've lost your privileges to do yoga at her yoga studio. I don't care what she says until showing up to that class broken jubil in the morning.