Second Date Update PODCAST: Sushi With Ketchup

chocolate on so and maybe even some whipped cream. There's a horrible decisive A lot of freaky people at the coffee shop. Damn not me. They're weird those chocolates. And that's where the guy on the phone for a second date update today met the lady that he wants to call. He met her at a coffee shop. His name is Ronald. What's up, ronalds? Go on gat Are you a frappuccino guy or a hot chocolate guy? Just coffee for me? Yeah, and I'm not. I'm not into all the fancy coffee stuff. Yeah,

that means he likes caffeine on stuff. Huh. Tell us about the girl that you want to call today for your second ad update. So I met this really cool girl, Jill at a Starbucks. Actually I was in I was in line in front of her, you know, waiting to order, just looking around because it was a long line, and suddenly noticed, oh wow that you know, it's this cute girl behind me. Did you spend the rest of the time trying not to look behind you but also wanting

to look behind you to see Well, yeah, exactly. I mean I basically tried to look at her without being creepy, but you know, obviously she's pretty. I wanted to look at her. He's like you to put your phone in selfie taking mode and just hold it up, so you just taking a bunch of selfies. Don't mind me because that's attractive. I just tried to be cool about it, you know, just look around and happen to catch her in my gaze. But I decided, you know, when I got to the counter, I paid for her drink. I

did kind of a pay it forward thing. Oh that's a good way to do it. It is good because that's commonplace, that's our bucks too. So if she doesn't like you and just be like, oh I was just doing when people do at Starbucks. But if she does really like you and want to talk to you, and you're like sweet at work, and it's like a bonus because it says about you, I think of other people. See that's what I'm saying. At Starbucks. When somebody does that, you know they're a giver. Thank you. You can tell

a lot about people at Starbucks. So you did that, ended she thank you for it? Well? Yeah, so she goes to the counter and they said, oh, that guy paid for it, and you know, she comes to thank me and says, oh, wow, you know, it's nice of you to do that. And I just said, oh, you know, I just like to do that every once in a while. Yeah. Actually, she was really cool to talk with and we had fun. So I just said, hey, do you want to go at dinner with me tonight? Wow? Same night? Yeah, and

she said yes she did. She did, which was awesome. So we decided, you know, because we just met, we would just meet at the restaurant. Yeah, okay, so we did. We met at the restaurant. I mean, she has an amazing smile, she's really intelligent, really easy to talk to, and dinner was going really well. And you know and everything. I mean, we're having a really good time together. Okay, you guys were laughing at each other's jokes and yeah, like I just thought it was really I don't know,

I just call it an easy date. Huh. Well, then you're definition the easy day and mine is different. So you guys had a good dinner and you like it. Why do you think she's not calling you back? Then? I don't know. I mean, the only thing I can figure is I do have this, um, I don't know, kind of funny habit that I don't know, Maybe that weirded her out or something. What is it? I really love sushi. Okay, we went to this sushi place, but I like having ketchup with my sushi. Oh go get

out of here. That's worse in ordering to stake well done. Actually it's really good and it's surprisingly it matches really well. No, No, you know what, I'll take her. I'll take your word that ketchup goes good with sushi, Ronald, I will take your word on that. You're trying to say that you have a more advanced palette. Don't knock it, you try it. No, I'm gonna knock it all day. Long and never try it long. How about that? Okay? So anyway, obviously you know it's a sushi place, so I bring my own

ketch up with me. I bring little packet up with place. That is awesome. That is commitment to the ketchup. Well, and look, I mean she obviously looked weird at me, and she asked a lot of questions, and you know, I was just like, hey, this is the real me. I like ketchup on my sushi. And that was that, you know, I mean, at least I'm honest about who I am. Yeah, it's how the sushi chef saw what you were doing and spit in your field exactly. You know what, I'm gonna open my own restaurant, just show

you how good this is. It's gonna be only you eating there. So how did things end then with her? So at the end of the date, I walked her to her car and I leaned in for a kiss and I got a handshake. That's not a good sign. Yeah, it could be, you know, it could be like some weird red flag to her. It could say that you're too picky, or you're too demanding, or you're weird. Oh come on, that's not weird, like weird would be like if I were making comments about whip cream and chocolate

at a coffee shop. Very good point. All right, So do you think it's a catch up thing the reason that you didn't even want to kiss you? Honestly? I mean, it was obviously the weirdest thing on the date, and everything else seemed to be easy. So you know, I don't know. And how many times have you tried to get ahold of her since then? Or do I have to admit that place I don't know. I mean I've texted her and called her a few times. That's double digits. Okay,

so probably too much at this point. Well, we'll do it one more time for you. We'll play a song and then come back and call her and get your second date update. All right, just hang on, all right, thanks, Okay, we'll do it next Frooking Jewels Second date updated right in the middle of your second date updating if you're just joining us. Ronald is on the phone, and Ronald met a girl named Jill and took her out for

sushi if you don't know what sushi is. And some ancient Japanese art where they carve up fish and place it on a bed of rice and maybe add some seaweed in to create a beautiful flavor combination. And Ronald, who's on the phone, has taken sushi to the next level. He likes to add something that we here in America call ketchup the sushi. You can't even say it like

that and make it sound fancy. Ketchup is a fairly new thing, and it basically just covers up the flavor of whatever it's on, making it taste like tomato sauce. Yea with a lot of sugar tomato sauce. Ronald thinks that maybe putting ketchup on his sushi might have sealed his fate, and that's the reason his dat isn't calling back because he knows it's weird, but at least he owns Ronald, are you ready to call Jill and find out if putting ketchup on your sushi ruined your date? Yeah?

I'm ready to find out now if she has a problem with it. Do you want to continue to pursue a second date? Yeah? I would. I mean, she's really cool and she's very easy to get along with, and you know, I'm curious to see what happened? Would you stop using ketchup if she asked you too? No, I would not do so. You like her enough, but you don't like her enough to drop ketchup? Correct? All right, I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now and see

if we can figure out what we're wrong. Okay, all right? Hello, Hi, asking the Jill? Please? Yeah? This is Jill. Can I ask his calling? Yes? You can, Jill. This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. How are you hi? I'm good? How are you good? Are you familiar with who I am at all? Yeah? I'm just kind of curious why you're calling. You've heard the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning before. I just want to make very clear because sometimes people really have no idea. Yeah, yeah, no,

I have heard it. Okay, I think it's clear in her giggle before? Well, what would you say if I told you that I'm calling to do a second date update with you? You're not serious right now, are you? Yes? I am completely serious. You went out with a dude named Ronald a little while ago, and now you're not calling him back. Oh, there goes giggle. Oh suddenly you're not laughing? Yeah? No, uh I went out with Ronald. Yeah, yeah,

we know that. Yeah, I got your phone number and everything from him, and we talked to him a little bit about your date. He thinks that you're not calling him back because he puts ketchup on his sushi. Yeah, that was definitely a new experience, that's one way to put it. Yeah, did you think that maybe he was too picky or unclassified or no? I mean, you know, I don't know if he told you this, but I actually to try it, um, And yeah, yeah I did.

They're brave. Yeah. I wouldn't have done that. I would have punched him right in the face if he had offered him up on it. What did it taste like? Um, it wasn't the worst thing in the world, But I don't think that I would do it again. Okay, So he didn't convert you over to putting ketchup on your sushi. I guess No, No, he did not, So if you tried it, I'm guessing that that's not the reason you're calling him back. Yeah, no, that's not so why are you giving him the cold shoulder? Then? UM, to be

honest with you, guys. At the end of the date, our server came up and offered us coffee, and don't tell me you put did he put ketchup in his coffee? Keep in him? But that I think I would have probably just walked out at that point. Um, so I want to have coffee. So I said yes to the server and I asked him. I was like, do you want some also? And he does no, I don't drink coffee, and exactly exactly. So I was like, Okay, that's kind of weird. And I was like, we met at Starbucks?

Would you mean you don't drink coffee? And then he went on to tell me that he just goes to different coffee shops trying to meet girls. And that took a completely different term for me. Why would he tell you that? Why wouldn't he just say, you know, I'm really a tea guy and they have a great line

of teas there question? I don't know. For me, honestly, it made me question, Like in my head, I was thinking, Wow, if you've met so organically, this is such a cute story meeting at Starbucks, be paid for my drink, And then it's not that cute when you realize he could be doing this every day with the different girls and

you know. Then I started thinking. I was like, I don't even remember him ordering a drink, Like, did he just you know, see me and decide to get in front of me just so he could pay for my drink and just so he can have an excuse to talk to me, you know, just I mean, it didn't line up, and it was kind of starting to seem a little creepy. I want to say, hey, I want

to say something here, Jill. You might have forgotten you say you listen to the second day updates and Ronald is on the other line and wants to talk to you. Oh yeah, yeah, Hi, Jill. I guess I'm a little surprised at your reaction to that. I mean, the thing is, I told you in confidence that I do this, But you know, I don't go to coffee shops every day. It's not like, you know, some kind of lifestyle or something. But you know, I just told you that in private.

You know that I go to coffee shops every once in a while to meet people. Yeah, it just feels a little out there to me. It seems almost like you scope out people and go and meet them, which I don't know. That just to me seems a little creepy. But I guess I don't understand how is that creepy? I mean there's you know, not only am I honest about it, but I'm not hanging out in bars or online or you and I watch people and then you know, attack them like it's your prey. You know, that's what

it's so not at a hole. I did I attack you like prey. No, we actually had a conversation and we met and the coffee at the coffee shop. If you were like did you seems and just decide that you wanted to stand in front of me at the coffee shop and then you've that is your excuse to talk to me. That to me seems a little creepy. And for me, I don't know how many people you've done that with and it no, I like, listen, I've

only done it like a few times. It's not but you know it's really where are you supposed to meet people? I mean in a cool thing as I met you, and we had a really easy conversation and a good time out. And I just don't understand why it's that creepy. I mean, you make very good points. We did have a very nice conversation and all. I don't know. I think I was just very taken aback by it, and it just kind of made the date feel less authentic. Yeah.

But Jill, I mean, have you ever done online dating? Yeah? Yeah? And that's the thing I understand now more where he's coming from. Just I mean, Ronald, if if we're being honest now and we're being open and everything, how many people have you done this too? Like? What is it that number of girls that you have seen out a coffee shop decided you wanted to go out with them and bought them a coffee? Yeah, Ronald, how many women

have you bought coffee for? You? Describe it? It It sounds like he's sitting in the corner with binoculars taking like picture see for all I know. Look, Jill, I mean the number of people is irrelevant. The point is did you have a good time? Yeah? I did. I had a good time. But you need to tell me how many people you've done this too? You need to be honest. But that's not the point. The point is we met because I was sitting in that coffee shop waiting for

you to walk in. That sounds creepy. I don't feel like, Jill, you really want to know the answer to the question that you're asking. I feel like that's only going to make things worse for you. I think you might be right. Look, I don't know what you want. I was honest with you about the sushi. I was totally upfront about this. I mean, look, I don't know how many people I've met there. I mean it's probably somewhere between I don't know,

thirty and fifty whoa, whoa. You must be notorious among marisas they see Ronald coming from a mile away, and you must also be rich. That's a lot of coffee about for people. Hey, Jill, would you like to go out with Ronald on a second date? We will pay for it. I'm not gonna lie. I thought you were going to say that it was going to be between like five and ten people, But three and fifty eight

that's a lot. I mean, what's a difference. He could be sitting on Tinder swiping left and right on hundreds of people's pictures. No. No, in person, it's totally creepier. If you're watching a person as they come in. That's that's so much creepier than online dating. I guess that both parties on online dating know what they're in for. In Ronald's case, it's only Ronald that knows what he's sitting here. No, hey, I don't appreciate that comment. Joe,

will you go out with Ronald again? Just one more date? I don't know. We have fun, but I think it was just a little much for me. What if he just shows up at the next coffee shop you go to, will you share coffee with him? That? I think I might run another direction. Now, come on, I'm sorry, Ronald, you didn't get a second date. Well, hey, you know I was honest and if she doesn't like honesty, then obviously she's not the girl for me. Yeah. I think probably a lot of women aren't the girl for you,

but you'll find the one that is eventually. Ronald broken jewel in the morning text in at seven, eight, five to nine too says, I'm pretty sure that guy should actually be arrested for putting ketchup on sushi, and I think I agree with you. We're talking about today's second date update if you missed it, Ronald wanted to call Jill.

They met at Starbucks. They went out for sushi, and he thought the reason that he wasn't getting a call back was because he puts ketchup on his sushi, And it turns out that wasn't the thing that turned her off. It was a little disgusting, I guess to her, but she actually tried it and just said it wasn't my cup of tea. The reason that she didn't want to go out with him again was during the date, he

revealed that he doesn't even drink coffee. He just goes to coffee places and waits for people to come in, so he could drive a couple of conversation and ask him out on a date. So she was like, it just felt creepy that he was doing that. I think that's I don't know, I think that's kind of judgy. And he was so honest about it. I mean maybe he was too honest about it and that's what bid him. The thing is, it's too honest right and hurts you.

The thing is, since well since the Internet, now if you ask anybody out in person, you're always a creepy. I feel like people used to do that twenty thirty years ago. They would wait around to try to find people. But now if you talk to anybody in person, you're a weirdo. It's like, whoa wait till I post something and then randomly send me a message in my DMS picture. Yeah, and then we'll go out. That would be so forward. You free right send me nude photos before we even

go out. Just sendee way to do it. So they agreed to not go out again. She didn't want to see him again because she thinks he's a weirdo who just stocks women at coffee shops. He has gotten thirty to fifty dates that I mean and impressive. Who really cares? He puts ketch up on sushi and that's yeah the biggest thing. Yeah, I remember. If you want to do a Seconday update, all have to do his email the show and we will call the person who didn't call

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