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Second Date Update PODCAST: Speaking it Clean

Dec 08, 201614 min
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One of our listeners feels horrible about the mistake she made during their date, and HE even called her out on it...you won't believe what it was, it's pretty embarrassing. To find out what it was, tune in to the phone tap.

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I appreciate it. He no, thanks for having me. You're welcome. We don't normally do this, But why don't we start this second date update with the end of your date. Let's start at the end because I was dying to hear what happens, So why don't you tell everybody what happened. It ended with a hug, right, Okay, that's not the worst part. What happened before the hug? Okay? So keep in mind that we spent almost three hours together. Um,

and he said it was nice meeting you. But the entire time of our date, you've actually been calling me matt Um. But it's actually Mike. You were calling him the wrong name then, yeah, but he didn't correct me. I think that's on him. Yeah, I mean, how am I listen to? I heard it incorrectly and he never once tried to correct me again, so I had no idea. He did correct you at the end. And what did you say after he said, actually, what is his name

Matt or Mike? Now I'm confused. I was calling him Matt, but his name is actually Mike. Okay, And what did you say when he corrected you? Finally at the very end, I was just so embarrassed and I was just like, I am so sorry. I had no idea. So how did you meet this dude? We met at swing dancing class okay, okay, like previously or that night. It was literally that day, like he did the swinging dancing class and then he asked me to go to the bar

right after. Oh that's good because I imagined you having classes with this guy for weeks and weeks and weeks. No, no, no, no, it was the first class. I'd only heard his name when you first introduced himself or the wrong name. Okay, that makes it a little more excusable then if it's the first night that you met him, and you got his name wrong, not if you guys had known each other for a while, right, right, right? And I assume

you thought that the drinks after dancing were going great. Yeah, I was having a really good time, and I thought he was too. I was hoping that, you know, the night would just keep going on. Maybe we could do something after or you know, get another drink or something. But he ended up saying that he had to go because he had worked the next day. So I don't know, I guess, I don't know. I thought he was really enjoying himself, so I was a little bit disappointed. Other

than the name stuff. What did you like about this guy? Why do you want to do a second date? Update? When I first met him, he just seemed really like goofy and he says something really funny. When I first showed up the class, I looked around and I was the only person who wasn't in a couple. I was the only single person. I mean I I was pretty sure that there'd be other people there, but it was

just me and him. So they immediately matched us together and he cracked a joke like he made me feel less embarrassed, and he was just like you know, maybe we should just get married and make this less awkward. Yeah, yeah, he was really funny. It was just you know, it made me feel a lot better about taking the class. And you know, for a guy who has such a great sense of humor, it just seems really weird that would like the reason that he hasn't texted me back anymore.

Was there any other awkward moments that you can think of it all? There was one other like slightly awkward moment, but again it was like closed with a laugh, you know, like midway through or so. I was filling this connection with him, and you know, I'd already had a drink and I'm a lightweight, and I sort of blurted out like, oh my god, you remind me of my dad. Oh nobody wants to man. I feel like that's worse than

calling him the wrong name. I mean, can you imagine if he would have said, oh, you remind me of my mom. Girls. But no, I didn't mean it like that, Like I was like, no, not in that weight, Like you know what I mean, Like, my dad's really funny and he cracks joke. He just reminded me that like kind of goofball the way that he cracked Ke. So, yeah, dad humor a compliment. You know, I love my dad sense of humor, and it's just something that I thought I could connect to him with. Like thing, it's a

guy that's you're romantically interested in. You might not want to draw that comparison. All right, Well we'll play a song. Come back, call your sort of dad guy, no Mike or Matt or whatever, and get your second date update. Okay, okay, looking jubil in the morning. Second, we're halfway through the second date update. And if you're just joining us, Meredith is on the phone and Meredith wants to date her dad. Oh, unfortunately, I think her dad spoken four. So she wants us

to call a guy named Mike today. The reason I say that is because during the date, Meredith laughed and said, you remind me of my dad, and there was an awkward moment then, And there was also a major awkward moment when at the end of the date Mike said, hey, by the way, you've been calling me Matt all night, and then they shared a hug and he walked out of her life forever. Okay, Meredith, we're about to call Mike and see why he's not calling you back, even

though we think we might know the answer. I feel horrible that that happened, but we had such a good chemistry together. Yeah, but listening to the recap, don't you even feel like you totally BRUI that day? Totally? I mean, you know, onto the circumstances, it wasn't the worst thing that could happen. Yeah, you just told him that you're remind him of your dad, That's all. I mean. You could have said it while you guys were naked in

bed together, and that would have been worse. You're right, Oh god, he knew it was the sense of humor. I explained, all right, I'm gonna dial his phone number right now. Okay, oh god, I'm nervous. Hulu, I was looking for Mike. This is Mike. Hey Mike, how are you. My name is Jubil and I host a radio show called Brook and Jewbil in the Morning. Who are you. My name is Jubil and I host a radio show

called Brook and Jewbil in the Morning. I'm calling you today because we actually got an email about you from one of our listeners. Okay, name is Meredith. Oh my god. And you met Meredith at a swing dance in class and then you guys went out for drinks after. Yes, that happened. Okay, that is confirmed. Good, I'm glad we got that out of the way. We're all in the same page. Well, Meredith is wondering why you're not giving

her a call back after your date. Really? Yeah, So she asked us if we could get you on the phone and figure out if she did something wrong. Huh, all right? All right, well, all right? What all right? You can tell us what happened? Or is this whole thing just a joke. No, it's not at all. It's a segment we do on our show called the Second Date Update. That's why I'm calling you today. I'm wondering

if Meredith did something wrong on your date. Uh. I don't know, not really, I guess I just don't think we're a great match. Is it? Is it because she called you Matt instead of Mike the entire time? How are you knowing that? Oh? Because we talked to Meredith about your date and she told us everything that happened. She also said that there was one awkward moment where she kind of compared you to her dad, and she thought maybe that was the reason that you didn't want

to go out with her again. Yeah, that was definitely a little weird. Um. Yeah, well, I mean a lot of people like their parents, so that was probably well, I mean, just in general, that was maybe a compliment, Mike. You ever think about that. It's a weird thing to say. So was that? It is it? Those two things in calling you the wrong name and comparing you to the dad, those are pretty big things. It was that and something else? Well, what else was there? I don't know. She just kind

of takes off a pet peeve. It's like, you know, it's more it's more me than it is her. It's like, it's not her fault. She's a sweet girl. That's like the worst breakup line ever. Though it's me, it's not you. What is it? She was doing this weird saying when we were at the bar, and maybe she was doing it all night, but I only noticed when we got to the bar. But I was telling her a story and she goes, oh my god, are you smurfing serious?

Smurfing serious is what she said, like the cartoon show smurfhing? Yeah, I guess so I was just like, what do you mean? She responded by saying, your story is florking crazy? Florking? Oh yeah, she said florking. It was like every single time she went to swear, she just replaced it with a nonsense word. You gotta give her a break, Like maybe she was just trying to be ladylike or watch her manners on a first date, I guess. But this isn't like the nineteen fifties. You know, you can it's

okay to swear. Was it just that instance or was it more than that? Yeah, Like, you know, I'd be telling her a story and then she just like cut me off, yell or something like holy heckel specs, Wow she said that. Jus, I don't think we can air that on the radio. That's edgy stuff. Good gracious, Mike, I think she sounds kind of cute. Hey, Mike, I do need to let you know that she's actually on the other line right now listening and wants to talk to you. Wait are you Syria? Yes, I am Meredith.

You there? Yeah, Hi, Mike, this is pretty weird. Yeah. I wasn't expecting that to come out of your mouth, expecting what to come out of my mouth. Holy heckel specs. Yeah, you may have just pissed Meredith off there. Oh, I'm sorry, sorry about that ratif. I mean, did you want me to curse like a sailor? The whole time I was like, I mean, you don't necessarily have to swear, but if you're gonna do it, to do it right. I don't know,

but I don't like to curse. And you started doing it, and I kind of wanted to, you know, follow suit, but I don't. I don't. I don't curse, and so you know, I just do what my sister and I do at home. When you know it, that's really started when we wanted to like say things, and like our parents were there and we didn't want to be disrespectful, but it just kind of makes it makes you sound

really immature. Well, cussing makes one sound really unintelligent and uneducated. Yeah, I guess, but it's just kind of hard to have a conversation when someone out of nowhere yells son of a bugger butt, that's any better than some of the other B word. That's starting to me. So, I mean, it's just I thought you seemed like you had, like, you know, a fun sense of humor, so like we laugh about it all the time, even our parents laugh about it because it's funny, like we make stuff up,

we're preative about it, and it's oh my god. I mean it's something maybe your parents think it's funny, but like, honestly, to me, it was like having a drink with a kindergartener. Wow. So it's like I like me, I know, I remind you of your dad, but like I'm not your dad. Maybe like your dad funny, but like I don't really I don't know. Like you can cuss. You can cuss in front of Mike if you want to, Meredith, I think that's what he's saying, but I don't. I don't

want to cuss. Like I mean, I know, I have freedom and speech, I can say whatever I want. I just don't like saying. It's not polite, it's not ladylike. And it was the first date. So I'm not gonna, you know, bring it out. Yeah, I mean, she has a really good point, Mike, but I mean you can't get over some stupid phrases like holy Ravioli or whatever

she was saying. I don't. I mean, I cuss like a sailor, but you know, to each their own, I mean, yeah, exactly, I each their own, but I'm just not into it. I guess, you know, I kind of want to feel like I'm talking to an adult, you know, especially if it's like someone that I'm gonna, you know, potentially be in a relationship with. Mike, maybe you want to reconsider. Maybe she can tone down the nonsense words or whatever, and you guys could go out again. Would you like

to go out on a second date with her? We'll pay for it. I mean, I maybe if she agree is not to I can't believe I'm saying this, But if she agrees not to use that kind of language, Meredith, can you watch your mouth? Can you watch your mouth? To go out with Mike one more time? I mean, yeah, I honestly don't really do it with other friends. It's just something that my sister and I did. And then, like Meredith with the dad, I think you should just own that you were the offensive one on this date

for probably the first time in your life. I'm sorry, Mike, not Matt. Would you like to go on a second date with me? If I told down? Sure, let's give it another track? All right? Nice a successful second date update. Congratulations you guys, Thanks, thank you so much. You're welcome you guys. Go out, have fun, and then snarf all night long, just snarf to your heart, to content, broken jewel in the morning.

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