Rooking Jubels second date update. They say that one man's trash is another man's treasure. I already don't like the start of today's second date update, and that's why Tim is on the phone for a second date update. Today. He found a discarded date and then he sweeped in and got a date with her. Started Tim, Now, I don't want to call your date trash. It was just an analogy. Okay, Yeah, I tell us about the garbage pickup. How'd it go? Um? Yeah, well, let leove back up.
I went out that night to go see a play and I just went by myself. So I go to the theater and I'm there and down the row, a couple of seats down, there's this girl and she was pretty cute. So I smiled at her and she sort of smiled back. Did you throw her a wink too? No? No, I did the polite you know, like smile ahead. No, just like hello all right, like bite the lower lip, like h my god. Any of the proper moves are
just simply a maybe I should have done that. You start talking about how this woman sounds like a sweater from Goodwill, and now you're tea all right, So he smiled at her. I did, and the seat next to her is vacant. So I get a little courage and I kind of like walked down a little bit to the aisle and I just said, Hey, is anybody sitting the seat? And she said, yeah, someone else is going to come take the seat. And then that's when you yelled at out. Why are you yelled at her? Now?
He was upset. No, no, no, no, oh, you didn't yelled at her. No, I just said, oh, okay, I didn't ask who you know the seat was for, right, because it's none of your business, because she's a complete stranger in a theater. Yeah, but she also didn't say you know who it was for either, Like if it was her husband, I imagine she would say like, no, it's for my husband or or my boyfriend. Right, she
probably wouldn't, let you know, stop hitting on me exactly. Yeah, And the nicest way possible, I feel like, seat taken has already stopped hitting on me. Why would you guys saying no, actually I married him in a very long relationship and the seat has been taken by him. Maybe there's this possibility that the seat is, you know, just for one of her girlfriend. You know, a friend of hers actually went to see the play with Yeah, right, okay, okay, so you went back to your regular seat, then I did.
I did. I said, okay, well, you know, and enjoy the show, and then I went back and the show started a few minutes later, and it was good, okay, But then through the show I sort of kept the eye just looking over by her to see if him in a hatch showed up. You almost sound like you're starting to get a little creepy, the guy at the that keeps looking over at her during the play. I did it. That's the thing. I didn't want to, so I kind of did, like the perfuel vision to see
if there's any action happening over there. Um anyway, So intermission comes and no one had showed up. Oh the mysterious vacant seat. She's either lying to you or the person didn't show up. So you know, I went out, I got something to drink, do the intermission stuff. And when I came back in, I came in, so I walked past her to get into the aisle, and as I walked past her, I just said, hey, the seats still taken, and she said, no, they didn't show, and I said, oh, well, do you mind if I sit there?
And she said sure, So I say, good persistence. Okay. You know, I would have felt weird going back up to her and being like, yeah, hey, what's up? You said someone just come for that seat, but it's been open this whole time and I've had my eye on that seat. So yeah, and you a liar, just lied. Everybody's what's going on with you? I didn't want to seem that way. I didn't want to see a creepy guy. It was more like, you know, like I felt bad,
like she got good up on her day. It's kind of awkward, though, I mean, you're putting her in a position like what is she going to do? Stick to the lie at that point? No, someone's still coming for the last half of the play. But the good thing is the play finishes and we start talking and then I just said, do you want to go grab something to eat? And she said, yeah, sure, that'd be great. So that's cool. Okay. Yeah, So we laughed and we walked to a place and we sit on and you know,
we talked for a little while. We get a drink, we get some food, conversations great, you know, it's not creepy at all. And I noticed so that she's starting to get a little life tired, and so I was like, oh, you know what, won't we just call it a night? And she said, yeah, that'd be great. So I walked into her car, said good night, gave her a hug, and said can I call you? And she said sure?
And so I texted her a couple of times and I never heard back, and I was, you know, I thought things had gone well, and you know, then I emailed you guys. Did you ever find out who the seat was for? You know, we didn't talk about it at dinner because I thought if I brought it up and she could get stood up, it would be uncomfortable or make her feel bad. So I just stayed away from it. I has a good idea. So how long has it been since you guys went to dinner? It's
been like a week and a half. A week and a half, okay, So she's definitely blowing you off. Yeah yeah, and you know, I just certain, but why, you know, who was that four or maybe it was for a boyfriend or someone that she was dating and he finally showed up, or and now she's like nine wanting to do with you. Maybe I was too forward, you know, maybe I was a creepy guy in the theater trying to steal the speed or yeah, so that's why you knowled you guys, Well, we'll play a song, comeback, call
her and get your second date update. Okay, okay, great, great, all right, man, just hold on brooking jubile in the morning. Second. You know, I forgot to ask the most important question about today's second date update. If you just missed the first part. Tim is on the phone and he wants to call a girl named Sarah today. They actually met at a play. She had an empty seat next to her.
At the beginning of the play, he asked if he could sit in it because he wanted to move seats and sit next to her because he thought she was hot, and she said it was taken, And then after intermission he saw the seat was still open, so he asked her again. She ended up saying yes, you can sit in the seat because whoever she was waiting for didn't show up. After the play, they went to dinner, had a great time. But now she's not calling him back, and I forgot to ask him this, and I'm sorry
about that. Everybody listening, I know that you really want to know, Tim, how was the play? No one cares about that, like scale of one to five stars? What are we talking? Well, the first act I was a little distracted because I was, you know, trying to figure out what the MP seat was about. So I think it was like a three. Okay, good, all right. Shouldn't we even do the Seconday update now? Or have we gotten that all cleared up? No? I still want to
know why she never thought? Okay, and Tim, you can't remember any awkward moments you guys had when you went for dinner and drinks after the play. No, everything was real, like casual and cool, and I thought I was being very like polite, and I have a lot of questions about her, you know what she's like. I thought it was a good conversation. You actually seem very charming and like a good listener. So I'll give you props on that. Well, thank you, thank you, horrible play reviewer. But yeah, I'm
gonna dot her phone number right now here we go. Okay, Hello, Hi is Sarah there? Yeah, this is Sarah. Hey Sarah, how are you? My name is Jebil and I host a show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay, how are you today? Fine? Thank you. What's this regarding, Well, it's regarding a date that you went on just a little while ago. Okay, I know we started out so
business like, didn't we know? It's you might not even think of this as a date, but you recently hung out with somebody and they've been trying to get a hold of you to get another date, but you're not calling them back. So they emailed us to see if we could get you on the phone and find out why. Oh jeez, his name is Tim. Seriously. Yeah, he told us about how he met you at a play and then you had dinner after, so he contacted you to
get ahold of me. Yeah he did. Apparently he's been trying to get ahold of you, but you're not returning any of his phone calls or text messages. Yeah. I don't know. I'm just not into it, I guess. Oh it sounded almost like for a second you were excited that he contacted us. I was more surprised, not excited. Read that wrong, then, Yeah, well Tim told us about how you guys hung out. He said that it seemed like you had a great time and he's confused. Wow.
I think he's an interesting person. I just I don't know. I don't know how I feel about him. Can I tell you what I think it is and you let me know if I'm right or wrong? Okay? So he said that when he saw you at the play, you had an empty seat next to you, and he asked you like twice if he could sit in it. The first time you said you were waiting for somebody to show up. The next time you said, sure, they didn't show up. Were you waiting for a boyfriend or a
husband or something like that. Uh No, I'm definitely single. Okay. I actually just got canceled on by a friend. So I mean, why would you say yes to him sitting there when he asked the second time, and yes to dinner if you weren't interested in him. I mean I was interested in him, but I only know him for like ten seconds, and you know that kind of changed once I got to know him. Really, I told him after we talked to him that he was charming and a good listener. Apparently I also had a bad read
on that. Yeah, I don't know. It was fine, And then at dinner, I just sort of got some red flags. What sort of red flags can you tell us? Basically, we were walking into the restaurant and he stepped on my heel and he just says oops, and I kind of so he stepped on your he stepped on your shoe and then said oops. Yeah, and like you know, normal people would apologize if you just stepped on one right. Oh. Yeah, he didn't say sorry about that. No, he didn't say sorry.
It was really strange. And then at dinner later, he knocks over his glass and it breaks, and when the waitress comes and picks it up, he just says, the glass fell. He didn't take responsibility for the shoe or the glass. Yeah, exactly, no apology. You know, if that would have been me, I would have been so embarrassed. You know, you've broken the restaurant's glass. Yeah, he didn't apologize at all, So it was it kind of a jerk then just pointing out, hey, glass on the ground,
pick it up please. Honestly, it kind of read like that, and that is not what I'm looking for. I'm just not into somebody who can't say that they're sorry, you know, I'm looking for someone who's more polite and can admit when they've done something wrong, when they've stepped on someone maybe or broken someone else's property. I mean, it's the first date, and you'd think on the first date that's when you want to be the most polite. And I think he just has some kind of problem where he
can't say he's sorry. Okay, I want to let you know that I don't have that problem, and I want to tell you that I'm sorry to break the news. But Tim is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you right now. What. Yeah, I'm sorry about that. Tim. Are you there? Yeah? Hi? Tim? Is that you? It's me? Hey, so awkward? Is that the real reason why you didn't come it back? Because I didn't say sorry. Yeah, that's the reason I'm sorry. See, I can say it, but I don't know why you're
saying it. Why I just said I'm sorry. Yeah, it's just an empty sorry. What wait? Now you need sories with depth. It just seems like for me. So okay, So we were walking in the restaurant. We were in the middle of a conversation and I know he's talking about I stepped on your heel, and I started just went like, oops, it went back to the conversation. It was like sort of looks like a toss off that
it happened. It didn't happened on purpose, and it was in the middle of the conversation, so it just like, oh oops, and we just continued. I didn't I didn't think it was that big about red playing. A normal person would say I'm sorry, yeah, but I didn't step on you. I stepped on your shoe. I would be apologizing if are you right now? Yeah? Most people wouldn't. Why why would I say sorry? I didn't do any
lookings on purpose? Okay, sometimes you don't do things on purpose, you can still say sorry, Like you accidentally stepped on a shoe. People, those are just those are just empty sorryes because it wasn't I didn't do it on purpose. It was an accident. So if you were like driving your car and you accidentally hit a pedestrian, you wouldn't apologize for that either, because that wasn't on purpose. Well,
whose fault wasn't serious? Are you serious right now? No, I'm just your foot that's on my foot could not be my fault. It's not your fault. It was an accident. No one's fault it's an I have never really dissected the word sorry like we're doing right now. No, it'says. I grew up that if you're gonna say sorry, it's meaningful, and you should say sorry for something that that you did and then you realize it was wrong, then you're like, oh, you know, you say, you say I'm sorry for that.
But when it's like this an accident, like you know, if you bump into somebody, she's like, oops, it's not mean, it's not negative, it's just like oops, and then the lights goes on. Yeah, but I, like everybody else, grew up with common courtesy. So even if you weren't going to say sorry, you say excuse me or I didn't mean to do that. I just don't agree with that.
Like if Sarah and I continued and we got a new relationship and then later on something happens where I should say I'm sorry and I say hey, Sarah, I'm sorry, it would have such a huge meaning and she would really know like, wow, he's really sorry. Hey I cheated on you, but I'm really sorry. And you know, I don't throw that word around willy nilly, no nothing, Yeah, you shouldn't throw it you're right, you shouldn't throw it around.
Willy Nilly said, that is so not what I expected your response to beat all this, Tim, Well, I'm not really sorry about it. Sorry, I'm not sorry. Sarah's yeah, and you know, guys, I'm not surprised. Okay, So are we done here? No, not yet, Sarah, we're almost one. But I do have to ask you if you would like to go on a second date with Tim, we will pay for it. You know what. Sorry, No, it's
so immature. It's so immature to say that with that tone, like now you're ruining sorry, you ruined the word blinded, immature that you can't use your manner if that a six year old can use, So maybe practice that six year will say sorry for sneezing. They'll say sorry for anything. I am an adult, I'm a grown man. I only say sorry when it counts and when it's needed. I like that. Oh man, all right, well sorry, all right, well sorry, I can't even say sorry now without thinking
about it. I won't say sorry because it's not my fault. Tim. He didn't get a second date, right. I had no idea that so many people would support the guy from Today's second date update. Somebody texted in at seven eight five nine tunes said, I agree saying sorry is a sign of weakness, and I refused to be weak. If you missed today's second date update. Oh my god, Tim, I wanted to call a girl named Sarah to find
out why she wasn't calling him back. She said she wasn't calling him back because during the date he accidentally stepped on her shoe and he said oops instead of sorry, and he's basically broke a water glass, didn't say sorry to the waitress or anything else, just basically didn't apologize and he owned it. He was like, no, yeah, of course I didn't say sorry. I'm an adult. I say sorry if I actually did something wrong and meant it. Those were accidents, and no, no, I'm not sorry about it.
I'm sad. I'm sad it happened, but I'm not sorry. But do you hear saying even if you don't apologize, you can still like excuse your behavior, like excuse me, or I didn't mean to do that or wow, oops don't counts. So I've learned a lesson in saying sorry, and I'm I'm not gonna say it anymore. I'm not gonna apologize for anything, and I'm not sorry for that
one bit that doesn't surprise me. Remember, if you want to do a second ad update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back five