Are you single and feeling out of the loop? Put away that mouse and get out of the house. Join in the Loop, Seattle's brand new activities clubs just for singles. Put in the Loop Singles dot Com Today looking jewels, second dat Day. You know what really surprises me? Out of all the second date updates we've done, we've done quite a few where someone's like I was set up on a blind date. I didn't really see the person beforehand, and then I showed up and met them and they
were attractive. The attractive part is what surprises you. Yeah, that's what surprises Like. We always get one where they say that they showed up and the person is better or just as they thought, and nobody's ever. Like people get built up in their head that they must be going out with like the biggest monster ever, and then they show them. They're like, oh, it's not that bad. When I used to get set up by friends, I'd always show up and be like, that's what you think
of me? You think I should be with this? Yeah? Pretty much. Jenna was set up through friends with a guy named Scott, and once again, Scott wasn't as ugly as she thought he was going to be Jenna. Yeah, congratulations. Yeah, that's a big deal. So tell us a little bit about Scott. I met him through friends and I had seen kind of a blurry picture of him, like a little far away, you know, so I knew he wasn't going to be totally ugly, but he was really, really,
really good looking. When I walked it, I couldn't I was shocked. Did you tell him that? Did you say, Oh, I saw your picture kind of on Facebook and you are way better. You shouldn't take pictures. No, I didn't want him to know that. I looked him up. You know, what did your friends tell you about him before you met him? They didn't say much. They said, you know that he's very successful, he's in business, he's nice. That was pretty much it. I mean, did you guys have fun? Yeah?
I mean, first of all, we met at a really nice restaurant for drinks, which I thought cool, you know, not a bar, And he was really attentive. He asked me a lot of questions. I felt like he really listened to me. It's really funny. I laughed a lot, you know, so it went really well. Was there any awkward moments at all on your date? No? None at all. I mean, look, I listened to you guys all the time, and I've heard some of the terrible things that have happened,
But nothing like that happened. No, you know, no one passed gas, no one did anything. No one blue snot out of their nose like it was totally golden. And I really don't understand what happened. You forgot the one that happens a lot in second dight updates. Anybody black out drunk? No, I kept my drinking to a minimum. I should not get to drunk, I swear. So why do you think this guy's not calling you back? Then? I don't know. Maybe he's used to dating different kinds
of girls. I'm a little more on the conservative side, especially on a first date. You know, I was dressed kind of conservatively and so is that well how conservative like turtleneck skirt to ankle? Yeah? Well, I mean I wasn't completely covered up, so wasn't showing cleavage or a lot of leg. Oh yeah, that is a deal breaker. No, wonder he's not calling you back? What are you doing? Yeah?
Is this your first time on a date? Jenna? Look, it was a blind date, and if if that's really the You know, if a guy likes you, I mean, I highly doubt that he was turned off that much by you dressing conservatively. But I also can understand you being self conscious about it because you dressed for a date with what you thought was going to be kind of anago. You walk in and he's hot, and you're like, oh my god, why did I wear that? Yes, that
didn't cross my mind. I mean I tend to dress a little more conservatively on the beginning anyway, or on dates. I don't, you know, like to seem so easy, I guess. But do you think maybe he's hoping for an easy girl and that's why maybe? I don't know, I think you're making big assumptions about him just because he's hot. I don't think that's fair. What that he just wants a trampy girl? Yeah, I mean he kissed you at the end of the night, right, That's usually leads up
to something else. Wait, he wants a trappy girl, why would he ever try to kiss you or talk? Come on? Those guys that want easy girls are always like, hey, han's long. Yeah, So how did the date end? So after we left the restaurant, we went for a long walk just kind of walking around, and then we ended up back at my car and he kissed me. Oh he even sealed the deal. Yeah wow, And he talked
to you it all since you guys went out. Well, so I texted him and I said like, thanks for the nice time and you know, thank you so much for the dreams blah blah blah, and yeah he wrote back and said, yeah, it was a lot of fun and that was it, Like period, that was yeah. Period. Did you hit your friends up to see like has he said anything? Yeah, And they're just not really responsive. They're saying that he's not really saying what happened. You know,
no one can really get it out of him. I guess like he's just turning it down, like I don't want to talk about it. I don't know if he's saying he doesn't want to talk about it, or maybe they're hiding something for me, or if he's just kind of brushing it off. You can't get a straight up answer though out of anybody. No, it's like everyone's hiding something sketch sketchy. I mean, are you feeling like you're the butt of a joke or something between your friends group? Well,
That's what I'm worried about. And that's why, you know, I said, I'm just going to call and see because this is stupid and it's just killing me. You know, I want to know what happened. If I did something terrible, then I kind of want to know what it was. All right, all right, well we'll play a song, come back, call him and get your second date update. Okay, Okay, thank you, all right. Brooking Jubil in the Morning Second
Date Update. Cool Now to win a one thousand dollars cash create one eight sixty six blue Brooking Jubil in the Morning Second Update. Today's second date update should be a lesson to all of the ladies listening right now. When you go out on a first date, don't wear clothes. Okay. Research has shown that in over seventy percent of first dates, they always go better if you wear less clothes. If you wear no clothes at all, one hundred percent satisfaction rate.
That's the problem that Jenna is having. She feels like the only reason she's not getting a call back is maybe she dressed a little too conservative and the guy wasn't really into her. You're ready to go, Jenna, ready to call him and get him on the phone and find out if that's why. I hope that's not why. I mean, you wouldn't want to go out with him, if that's why? Right? No? No, I mean I don't know. Maybe possibly I thought the guy was pretty attractive, so
it would depend. I mean, maybe he thinks, you know, I'm a mormtter. I don't know. Maybe he thinks I'm just totally conservative. I don't I wouldn't want him to have this complete wrong. Well, Jenna, no matter what win or lose when we get him on the phone, if you get a second date or not, at least you've learned your lesson that the next time you go out on a date forget the right. No, Okay, still haven't learned. Yeah, I don't even know if I can do the second
date update. Now, all right, I'm gonna dollar phone of br Okay, okay, let's do this. All right, here we go. Hi, Scott, Hey, Scott, how are you? This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the morning. Scott, you there. I don't know who this is. Oh you don't, That's what I just said. What is this? My name is Jewil. I'm calling from Brook and Jewil in the Morning the radio show. And I'm calling you because you recently went out on a date with one of our listeners and they were hoping
that we could get a hold of you. Why is a radio show calling me about a date. Well, we do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. So you recently went out on a date with a girl named Jenna. Yeah, okay, And so Jenna emailed us because you haven't been answering any of her phone calls and she thought you guys had a great time. But she's wondering if she did something wrong or if there
was a specific reason that you're not calling her back. No, there's no specific just you know, not dig into going through with things that you know there's no point too. So you feel like there's no point in continuing to try to date Jenna. I mean, I just know that it's not going to work. Let me ask you. This was it because she dressed too conservatively? Right? I know that's annoying. No, I had nothing to do with it. Okay, she was. She was actually concerned that that might be
the issue. No, that's that's that's not the reason why. Well, if that's not the reason. Why can you kind of give us a little bit of information so that at least I can tell her, hey, don't worry about the way that you dress. It wasn't that. Yeah, you could tell her that that's fine, But I mean as far as like a more specific thing, it's just kind of like one of those things or it's not going to work. And really, to be honest, she's cute and everything, but
I'm looking for a different breed of girl. Different breed what does that even mean? We're not breed like who don't come like thoroughbread or No, there are some thoroughbreads out there. Believe me, I know, I know what you're talking about. Scott. Yeah, I mean there are different breeds of all kinds of humans. But what are you looking for? Then? You know, basically, I'm a guy who works a lot, pretty successful at what I do. And you know, is
she not pretty enough? Nope, she's fine. It's very cute. I'm not saying that. The bottom line is that, like, I don't know how to say this, but she's too smart. What you said? Did you just say too smart? Yeah? That's right, she's too smart. I'm not looking for um a smart girl. What that might be that that might be the best way to be turned down for a date ever, is for somebody to tell you that you're too smart. It's like a compliment but then also a letdown at the same time. What do you mean you
only date dumb girls? Well, I mean I wouldn't say that. I just want someone who is not as smart and someone who's not as ambitious as Jenna. Why would you not. I feel like I look for the opposite, and I've never had the opposite, so I've had the other thing, and trust me, it's not all that's cracked up to be. But I feel like I want the opposite. And why would you want to be with someone who's not ambitious
and not smart? Well, like I said, I'm pretty successful and I need someone who's going to focus on me and not their own career or their own motivation. Oh okay, So you just want someone to be home and look pretty for you and make you some dinner every once in a while. You know, I'm a good looking guy. I do really well. Basically, I just am looking for some arm candy and there's nothing wrong with that. There is because you're treating your woman is a trophy. No
matter who she is. So there's lots of things wrong with there is a ton of benefits. Okay, she gets to go on a lot of great vacation, a lot of business trips. She gets to be living a good life. All she has to do is stand there and look good. So that's all you want. You basically want a mannequin. No, I don't want to dat a mannequin. But I just don't want someone like Jenna, you know. I mean she went to Berkeley. I think she got like a double degree,
which is insane. Oh my gosh, I mean, stop it disgusting. It's way too motivated. I need someone who's just going to be there and be supportive for me and be at home and make babies with me. At least you're at least you're honest about it, you know, No, no, a least no one. He's honest. Well, at least he knows what he's getting into, because I'm assuming the girl that he's gonna find is gonna be okay with being arm candy, and there are people that are good with that.
So at least you didn't string her along exactly. I've just never heard a more selfish, self centered egotistical person in my entire life happens. You know what, I think You've never heard a more honest man in your entire agree. Oh my god, honest successful man that's just looking for a hot chick who will shut the f up. Hey, Scott, thank you for your time, man, I appreciate it. Yeah, no problem. I appreciate your honesty and continued success in
all of your business ventures. Thank you, dude. But I do want to let you know that Jenna is actually on the other line listening to this conversation. What. Yeah, Jenna is on the phone listening. Jenna, are you there. I'm shocked. I'm shocked. I'm pissed. I've never heard anything so ridiculous in my life. I woke up. It's nineteen fifty. What is your problem? Are you serious right now? I didn't know you were on the other line, so I didn't know you were going to hear all that. But yeah,
that's how I feel. I just can't believe. I mean, that's completely different than the impression that you gave me the other night. Well, I mean that was on a date. I was being charming. Oh my god, Je, did you see any signs of this at all, not at all. I mean, why did you let me go on and on? Why didn't you tell me right then when I told
you what i'd do. Je You're interesting and that's really really cool that you're so motivated, and I actually think that that's good for you, and I'm excited for you, and I was interested to talk to you, but that's not who I'm want in a relationship. Okay, Scott, For the record, I think you are a total of app correction, Jenna, you mean successful app You're a misogynistic for brains. What is your problem? Do you have? Like no remorse at all.
I don't even know what to say to you. You know, you've been talking this entire time and I have no idea who you are. I don't even know your name, but I gotta be honest, it sounds like you're someone who's very threatened by me and my success, and if anything, I just have sympathy for any girl that may get trapped in whatever both you've got going on. Dude, I don't know, but you know what, there's a lot of girls who would love to go to the South of France with me for a weekend at the drop of
a dime. And it sounds like maybe you'd like to be one of those people both. Honey, I can pay for my own trip to the south of France, thank you very much. Yeah, you probably can with your husband's money. You better step down now. Her husband's unemployed, so you don't even know what you're talking about. That's actually true. Hey, Scott, would you like to go out with Jenna on a second day? I know you don't need it, but we'll pay for it. No, okay, Jenna, I'm assuming you don't
want to gout with Scott again? Absolutely not. No, okay, maybe ask your co host if she wants to go out on a date with me. Brooke, you want to go out on a date with Scott? Never ever, in any life would I ever even want to talk to him again. All I want to do is kick you in the box right now, I'm like furious. You know, maybe you should tell your female co host again, whoever she is, she needs to learn a lesson and know
her place. Okay the other woman does, y'all. I'll do that for you, hey, Brooke, men are talking broken Juwil in the morning,