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you know. But the question is when you realize that you've made a mistake, do you immediately tell the person right there or do you wait and see if anything bad happens first, like if they maybe they didn't even notice, yeah, like right, Like when you accidentally soil yourself at dinner, do you be up front and just admit to your date that you gave yourself a new Jersey hot pack? Yeah? Or do you wait and see if she notices the smell first and then you can be honest. I was

thinking more like I didn't mean to mention my ex. Well, see, that's a mistake there too. And one of our listeners, Jay, knows that he maybe messed up and he wasn't sure if he should address it or just let it play out, Okay, messed up or messed himself. Yeah, well it wasn't the mistake that I was talking about. Thank god. Jay. We'll get to the mistake you may have made in just a minute, but first, tell us about the girl you want to call today. What's her name? Her name is Nicole?

All right? We originally met on I G Instagram. Oh, I see who's using the lingo for the gram for the young folks like dmen on the side. Did you hit her up? Yes, of course we've hung out. No like, did you just like write her out of the blue or did you have friends of friends or how did you find her? She actually found me. I am a photographer, so I have a lot of pictures online. Dude, I'm sorry. Are you an Instagram photographer to get chicks? Are you like a real wife photographer for a job? I have

made money on photos? I'm not. I mean he could have. He can have a hobby that we're tographer, Like, what kind of I think that? He's just talking about landscape pictures, right, some of them a landscape pictures, some of them with women. Oh yeah, the landscape of the human form. Very yeah, curvy mountainous mounds. It's a landscape, I will say sound. But it's a good thing if you look good enough that people are hitting you up. Normally it's the other

way around, so at least you're semi perfrad. No, No, she did hit me up. She asked if I take pictures of her? Oh okay, okay, So is that something where you would normally have someone pay you to do that? Um, I wasn't actually expecting any money on this one. I just thought that she was beautiful. I mean, dime piece. I believe they called him talking about okay, so such a formal way, So it sounds like you use that opportunity to kind of spin this into a date. Yes,

so we went hiking. You know, she likes the pictures of the mountain, the scape of being outside and trees. She sort of wanted that. But did she think of this as a date, because to me, she's like having a professional exchange with someone who wants to go take pictures of her up on a mountain. It's what it sounds like. It wasn't paying me, I mean, it was shouldn't hire me, okay. Was there anything flirty about it? Oh? Yeah,

flirtiness Oh wow, sounds real. One sided. Ask me, when your voice gets ten octaves higher when you're talking about it, might not be. I also have a dog that I took on the hike with us. Oh, okay, then it's definitely a date. It's there's a dog present. Yeah, what does that have to do with anything, Ollie. That's actually the first thing she commented on was my dog. Allie. Did you guys have any personal conversation? Yeah, we talked

about subjects. We laughed, Oh, subjects. Subject We both liked soup. Yeah, I mean see Jackson feeling. Yeah, that's what people do. They talk. Oh wow, you should write a dating book, sir, Yeah, I should so. Okay, So it sounds like you had a good time taking photos. What was the mistake that you think you may have made during the date. I'm not sure, but at one point I brought some sandwiches

with us. I told her was going to bring some food, you know, okay, and that makes it more date like, Yeah, you know if you're bringing food along for both of you. M yeah, it's like a four hour thing in the end, longer than the average data. So we're eating and I take a bite in my sandwich, and then she's looking at me like something's wrong, like I killed a cat or something. I don't know what it was. What she's like looking at you to disgust as you're eating well,

and I said that everything, okay? Did I do something? And she's like, while you were eating your sandwich and ants crawled into your mouth and onto your sandwich and you ate an ant? Sense would you say protein? Um? It doesn't even matter. I mean I didn't taste the answer so small you wouldn't even know. That doesn't sound that bad, honestly, guy, I'm not calling this guy back because he accidentally ate a buck that. Yeah, is that the only bad thing that happened? Not really something else? Okay.

I took some more pictures of her by the canyon. We went down, great pictures, you know, hangled up. Now when you say the canyon, are you referring to a place on her body or is this a real canyon? I'm just this but this guy, I don't know. So you're down below her shooting up, is what you're saying. Yeah, okay, And I'm probably about like fifteen twenty feet away from her, and I see around her feet. It looks like what

could possibly be maybe poison ivy. Oh, but I wasn't sure, so I didn't want to upset her, and you're just like, hey, sit down here there. Did she have a reaction. I don't think she had a reaction, but we did keep on walking and I was hoping to find a romantic moment to like maybe kiss her, but she was going fast down the hill and we just got to the car and eded out. She took some pictures too, and she hasn't posted any of them on Instagram. Oh, she

hasn't posted any of your photos on Instagram. Nope. Oh, wow, that's interesting. Oh that's not good. Yeah, they must not have been very good, but there were no No. I think she doesn't want anything to do with you. They had to have. You spent four hours out in the wilderness. You didn't get one good snap of her, Like, come on, I think that she's not posting them because she doesn't

want to be attached to you at all. Or maybe she's so covered in poison ivy itches and burns that she like can't even get up out of her bed. Right now, I've had a run in with poison oak, and you know pretty immediately that things are not or nettles like all of that stuff, like you know you messed up. All right, we're gonna play a song. We'll come back and we'll call him the call and we'll figure out which mistake was the thing that caused you to not get a call. All right, Jay Thanky, all right,

we're gonna get your second day update right after. Hold on if you're just tuning in for the second day update. We're on the phone with a photographer named Jay, and Jay offered to take a beautiful woman named Nicole on a scenic, romantic hiking photo shoot. Was pretty nice, according to him. It went really great too. They talked about subjects, they spoke words, and discussed matters of general interests. I hope that wasn't too descriptive. There it was, but Jay

admits there may have been a few awkward moments. One, Jay accidentally aid an aunt that crawled onto a sandwich. Yeah, she didn't like that. I don't really care. And second he did have her pose in an area that may have been covered in poison ivy. But Jay he isn't sure.

He just he doesn't think so. Though. The worst sign, though, is after their date, Nicole has not posted any of his photos that he took up on our Instagram, which is the whole reason that they went on the date in the first place, the whole reason she contacted you in the first place, right, Jay, Yes, she liked the pictures of the dog first, and then you know, went onto my pictures of landscapes and people. What do you more hurt by that she's not calling you back for

a date or that she doesn't like your photography. Well, I don't know that she doesn't like my photography, So that's the answer. Okay, we're gonna call her right now and find out exactly what she thinks about it. Okay, you're ready, Yes, Okay, here we go. Hi. Can I speak to Nicole? Please? This is Nicole is hi. My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. You got a second? Um, Okay, what's up?

High to goal? What's up? We were told that you were a model, and we need someone to model for us because we're not very good looking. We work on the radio, so I take a body double any day. Yeah. Is this like a joke? What's going on? Yeah? Sorry? That was It wasn't very good. Yeah, I'm just kidding with you. We're doing something that we do on our

show called a second date update. That's where if you go out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can reach out to us and we'll give them a call for you to figure out the reason why. Okay, do you remember going on a date recently? I mean I think, yeah, does this person that you think of is his name Jay? Yeah, so you did consider that a date. I was worried that maybe, you mean, it's one of those where you don't know if it's a date, but maybe you can get away if it's

not a date. Were you scared of him? No, it was fine, Like he's okay, you know, like because jokes are kind of dirty, and but that wasn't it? Okay? Now, well, he did tell us a little bit about how your day went. He said that he took you on a hiking date to go do a photo shoot up over some scenic landscape. And he also said that you're the one that hit him up initially because you wanted him to take pictures for you. Well, yeah, I mean he's

a good photographer. Like my friend knows who he is, Like she like, I don't know knows him, like your friends and friends or whatever. So it didn't seem to sketch. But why did he tell you all about like what we did well, because that's part of this is we want to know what the date was like from his perspective and what he thinks might have gone wrong. And he told us about an incident where he ate an ant that was on his sandwich by accident, and it

really grossed you out. Whatever that wasn't it? See Ill, that's ridiculous, Like a woman's not going to call you back because you accidentally ate aunt. We've heard weirder stuff, honestly. So another thing that he told us was that there was a moment where you were taking pictures on like some canyon mountain side and he was worried that you may have been standing in poison ivy. Okay, he never told me that, Oh he didn't, Sorry forget I said it. Did you have any bad reactions later break out in

hot No? But like if you think someone's in poison IVY, you're supposed to say you're in poison. This isn't like you have lettice in your teeth. This is like get out of poison IVY. Yeah, So it obviously wasn't that. Well no, no, so what is it? Then? What's the reason that you're not calling him back? And he also says he hasn't posted any of his photos on your Instagram yet? No, why God, No, it sounds like you're disgusted by him. I don't know, you sound kind of

in love. No, he was like, oh, I should go to the restroom or whatever, but basically had to go pee behind a tree whatever. We're in the woods, and like he had been teaking us some shots to me as we were walking, and I wanted to see, so his camera's there, So I flipped through his camera and like there's pictures of him inside his car, like it's

right where we met up, and he's not right parts. Basically, wait, you're saying you saw naked photos of him in his car on his camp Yeah, I thought in his car. Well that said, I made a very quick way to say it. Okay, are they selfies or were so much? Yes? No, they're selfies, but like, why are you taking pictures of

your in your car before you're meeting me? It was so weird and gross, and they're like, guys, start putting it all together, like so some of the jokes he had and I don't know, Rose, Oh my god, I would have ran like we were in the like he's got the car, like I believe with him. Oh dude, I would have been so freaked out, Like you're with alone in the woods with this dude who's obsessed with his own I guess every dude is. But whatever, you

know what I'm saying. I mean, it sounds like you took his camera when he was when he didn't give it to you. Yeah, for good reasons. Those are they're private, they're private picture. You're worried about his privacy, keep on the radio. He's not worried about his privacy. I'm just I'm just saying, like, what if he went through your photos and saw a naked picture of you on your camera? Yeah, because she took those right before her day. I don't know.

Maybe we should just ask him, Jay, what was going on with that? Why take a naked picture? What the hell are you doing going through my camera? We didn't tell you this, Nicole, but Jason on the other line listening the whole time and wants to talk to you, of course any better? Why are you looking through my camera? First of all, that's incredibly expensive camera. I shouldn't be talking like why we didn't matter, and like what are you doing with your stot before me? Like? What is that?

It was a picture? I was I wanted to make sure everything was okay? What what? Why so you drop your pants to take a picture of your junk? Jay? Wow, males, am I going to take a picture of it? I wanted to make sure. Look for you, there's other things that you could have tested your camera. And I'm sure the dude that is creepy. I think that that is like a huge risk, Like the first guy who's taking pictures of it kidding me? Okay, definitely not the first.

I mean, Jay, I know you're embarrassed right now, but I don't think this is embarrassed. I think you're all stupid. Oh okay, I think your child, but you're right on that one. We are pretty dumb. She did something illegal. I think I might even go to the police. J Okay, she met a man on the internet, Okay, and a woman has to be careful and do her due diligence to make sure you're not a nut job. A nut job? Yeah, you you crazy crazy? You went through my stuff without

my permissions. I don't know who you think you are, and I can pictures of much right now? Jay, come on, man, you don't even know what a deuce you are, like you suck you basically suck you. I don't want you might have to come on the radio. And oh and I was epolice. Yeah, I bet I should have said something, and you probably would have gotten a rash. Probably who says? Okay? Who who wishes someone a rash? Jay? You are not making this any better? Yeah, Jay, you sound like you're

getting defensive? Are the picture is not very flattering? Is that what the problem is? You noticed? You didn't mention that mentor? I scare who cares? Really honestly? Like at that point I didn't even care anyway, and then it was just like, oh whoa, Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I think they're both a little bit in the wrong for different reasons. The only the only way that we'll be able to tell for certain who's right on this is to get the picture sent to the station so

we can decide once and for all. You want me to send them to you you're requesting, Yeah, just send them only to Jeffrey, please, I'll review the evidence. And I'll decide who's right and who's wrong. And this one email address. Nicole, You're good, don't worry. This is the weirdest day. Sorry, it could get a little bit weirder. If I offer to send you guys out on another date,

oh my god, we'll pay for it. And I am offering that I wasn't blow if you could, if you're going to post those pictures, if you could tag me, No, I'm not going to post them. Jay, you do forget. I don't want to send talking in the coals. I don't want a hard pass on this one. Yeah, oh, hard pass. She's okay, that's okay. I know, I understand if I post them. Can I tell you? Oh, I don't know what's going on anymore, but I think I think there's not going to be a second date happening

or any more photos. Nicole, I'm gonna give you the last word here. What do you want to say? You don't know. Maybe just keep your in your pants. That's a good bottel to live by, Just keep it in your pants. Moving ninety two point five