Second Date Update PODCAST: Sister Surprise

can be overwhelming. Yeah, and that's why you have to look out out of however many swipes you're doing, one hundred, two hundred a day, you have to start thinking, maybe I need to look for a sign in here, a sign, yeah, okay, something that shows you it's the right person. So like the opposite of a red flag, right, So for a lot of a lot of people in this room, that sign might be something that says STD free. Yeah, yeah, that's a good sign. I mean, it's kind of picking,

kind of picky in the world. But one of our listeners, Claire, was on a dating app recently and says that she saw a sign Claire. How are you today, Hey, guys, I'm good. Tell us who this guy is. What's his name? His name is Adam? Okay, and have you been doing dating apps for a while? Yes, I've been on Tinder while. Yes, I could hear the sadness in your voice. Just said, what was the sign that said Adam was the one

for you? So on his bio his birthday is the same day as Nicholas Cage and I love him, like I am crazy about him. Wait, you're crazy about Adam or you actually like Nicolas Cage? Oh, I'm crazy about Nicholas Cage. We found the Wait, Nicholas Cage is your type? You're talking about the same Nicholas Cage we're talking about, like the actor. Yes, oh my gosh. You guys don't think he's had it all nothing? Yeah, yeah, absolutely not. I mean if you like things that come at truck stops.

But maybe I think everybody's beautiful in their own way. But it tell us a little bit more about Adam, Like what stood out other than him having the same birthday asn't a Cage. I mean, he's like not really my type, but I decided to give him a shot because he has the same birthday as Nicolas Cage, and he's cute. You know, his personality I think is just what made him so much more endearing, and like I was really just into him. Okay, so like did you hit on him or did he hit on you? How?

How did you guys make the date happen? So when we matched, I kind of just reached out to him and was like, we should get together and grab a drink because you know, I mean, it's got to work. He's the same sign as Nicolas Cage, So okay, what did you guys do for your date? So we went bar hopping and it was so much fun. He like knows a whole lot of these novelty shots. He was like feeling comfortable on oping up and ordered um, the shot called the Cement Mixer, which sounds like crazy, but

it was so so good. Cement the most they like curdle in your mouth and oh, don't ever take one prank. Oh my god, that's so gross it makes me want to gag. Was that fun for you to do like crazy shots and stuff? Yeah? Yeah, I'd like, normally I don't take shots, but like he was ordering these and I didn't want to, Like come off as a loser, so I took them. There was like a one that taste of like bubblegum like. It was called the Bazooka Joe. There was like one called a Crouching Tiger, which I

don't even know what that is. But I was having a blast and I thought it was so cool that he was just like ordering all these cool things that always happens when you go out to the bar. You're like, what is this, I don't know, drinking, the guys buying it, just drinking. I mean like, you say, you're having a blast, but I'm assuming you're wasted by the end of this day. Oh yeah, Oh my gosh. So we get to the third bar I think it was, and he gets a text from his sister who like wanted to join, and

we were like, oh my god, that'll be cool. That's fine, Like have her come. Oh wow, so you're meeting the family on date one. Yeah, so I thought that was really sweet. So we're all taking shots together, we're having fun, and she starts asking me questions, you know, as like a sister would do. I mean, you were cool with that because I actually dumped a guy once because he wanted me to meet his three sisters, and I'm like, no, too much. I don't like the competition. It was just

too scary for me, like older sisters. I am an older sister and like, you know, yeah, I'm like, ah, I think it's I think it's even more pressure to meet an older sister than it is to meet the family, like to meet the parents. I could see that for sure, actually,

but that sounds like it went pretty well. Yeah, I mean I think this is kind of like a different scenario because she was already out and you know, she checked it Adam and he just kind of wanted to stop in and Okay, you know, come, so how did everything end with you and Adam and his sister. So by the end, I think, you know, we were all just getting along. Everything was super cool and we're having so much fun. But we were all very very drunk.

I was pretty toasted. Yeah, so I kind of started getting the spin and I wasn't feeling really good and I excused myself and I may have thrown up. I don't, I don't know. Yeah, that's not the fireworks you want to end a day usually. Yeah, did he see that? I don't know if he saw it. I hope he didn't. I just told him I needed some fresh air. Okay, but you know, towards the end, I hugged each other goodbye. We got into our own Coopers, and you know, we

went home. Is that why you think he's not calling you back just because you puked? I mean, the guy's feeding you disgusting shots. What is his expectation? Girl? Can't hang? I mean, I can't imagine. It's just that, I mean, we were having so much fun that I stop sick. Well, it's in moments like these that I always wonder what would Nick Cage do? And I think Nick Cage would play a song, he would come back, and then he would call Adam for you and ask him where's the treasure?

And then he'll get your second date update right after this. Okay, okay, all right, hold on if you're just tuning in for the second date update, We've got Claire on the phone. And Claire had quite a night, did Oh? Yes? She went bar hopping with a guy named Adam who she met on Tinder. They drank a bunch of novelty shots together. They were having a great time. By the end of the evening. Adam's sister even stopped by to meet her and say Hi, Now, Claire, we never asked you this.

Did you tell Adam the only reason you went out with him is because he shares a birthday with Nick Cage, Because if you did, that could be why he's avoiding you. I mean I didn't tell him, Okay, you that you remember Claire was very intoxicated. I think that there may be a lot of pieces of this night, Claire that you're leaving out not on purpose. Yeah, I mean I do remember ordering like two more Crouching Tigers from the bartender, so I know, I don't know what yeah that is.

I mean, I I'm guessing after you take a shot of crouching Tiger, you get the hidden dragon. Yes, that's the problem, That's what they say. Yeah, because Claire did remember going and running out of the bar to relieve some nausea. Possibly she doesn't it, but I feel like I feel like these are the biggest risk second eate updates, Claire, because I mean, you could have done something really embarrassing that we're just about to find out about. Are you okay with that? I mean, I have to know, but

I'm like cringing a little. Okay, Buckle up, Claire. It could be a rocky ride. Here we go. I'm gonna dial Adam's phone number right now. You're ready, Yeah, all right, let's do it. Hello. Hey, is this Adam? Uh? Yep? Yo, Adam was good bro. It's Jeffrey. What do you sound? So? What are you talking about? Voice? Anyone talks? No one talks like that. Oh okay, Sorry, hello Adam, sir, pleasure to make your acquaintance. Adam. We're working on the middle

ground with Jeffrey. Sorry. Man, you guys tell me you want me to talk young? Yeah, it doesn't work for you. All right. Well, okay, sorry about that, Adam, but I don't know what was going on. But I'm about to hang up the phone. Please don't hang up. I apologize. Look, we're a radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning and we're doing something right now called a second date update. Have you ever heard of that before? I have not heard of it. Okay, don't worry. It's not where Jeffrey

tries out new slang words. I thought it was pretty good, but whatever. All right. So, the way the second date update works is if you go out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back. You can email our show and we'll reach out to that person for you to try and figure out the reason why. Okay, all right, And so recently you took out a girl who's hoping to get ahold of you, and her name's Claire. Oh yeah,

I do know Claire. Yeah, okay, yeah, and so yeah, Claire told us about how you guys met, said she had a great time on your bar hopping date, and she's hoping to get some answers for why you've been ghost in her lately. She wants to know, like what does she want to know exactly? She wants to know the reason that you're not getting a hold of her after your night together, because she said that she had a blast with you taking the novelty shots. She said

she met your sister. I mean she did say that she got a little bit sloppy at the end of the night. Maybe, yeah, but which sounds like it was to be expected. You were. I mean, you made her, you ordered a cement mixer for her. You must too, Yeah, I mean it was it was fine, it was nice. Okay. Yeah. I just don't think Claire and I are going to work out. Okay, can you explain why because Claire has no idea and she was honest. I mean she said a lot of the night was a little hazy, So

maybe something happened that she doesn't remember. Uh No, not really. I just I think the vibe wasn't right. I mean it was good at some parts, but overall, I think it probably wasn't for the best. Okay, could I mean, could you be a little bit more specific though, because she really wants to know what she did wrong? Like, was it her getting drunk? Did she say something weird in front of your sister? To be honest, the my sister wasn't really my sister. Huh what does that mean?

She was actually an ex girlfriend of mine? Still closed? Oh your ex girlfriend you played off as your sister or you dated your sister. Yeah, now we need clarity. No, I've never dated my sister. All right, but this girl that you told Claire was your sister is actually an ex girlfriend. Yeah, you know, we dated years ago. We've

remained friends. She knows a lot about me, and I'm not very good at like the whole reading people thing, and I invite her out sometimes to basically help me out with that part of things, Like if I'm having a good time with somebody, I'll invite her out, say hey, what do you think? And it just wasn't a good fit. The vibes were a little off, and to be honest, my ex didn't really like Claire that much. Wait, the vibes didn't fit according to her or according to you,

that's a good question. I was kind of on the fence, and again, like I'm not great, especially with alcohol involved, like reading people, and I like having a second opinion. I trust her. It was fine, but you know, my ex was like this would never work. Wait wait, wait, wait, wait wait, how many times have you done this because you're still single? I mean, has your ex ever said like, yeah, this is a great girl for you. Yeah, yeah she has. And to be honest, you hit it out of the park,

Like that's why I trust her so much. She's a great judge of character. How do you later explain to someone you're dating that your sister is actually your ex girlfriend. That's a tough pickle to get yourself in. Yeah. Usually, you know, I wait a couple months and it kind of bring it out as a joke, and it's kind of funny because we're already dating, so it's not a big how lied to me about who my family is? Well, I wonder how Claire feels about that, because I need

to tell you this, Adam. She's actually been on the other line listening and heard everything that she said. What is going hard? Boy? Change your Okay, this is a little weird, But yeah, I would argue saying that your ex girlfriends your sister is a little weird. So what

are you thinking, Claire? I don't know. It's just like I don't understand why, right, Yeah, I know it sounds weird, but I also I didn't really mean for you to know about this stuff, and I am sorry, but it is something that's like I do trust this person and trust me. We do not want to get back together or anything. It's just more of like like a third party to help me out. Well, can you be more specific about why your ex didn't like Claire? Like, what did she say about me? I don't know if we're

Do you really want to know this stuff? Oh? No, yeah I do. I think you probably don't. But it's okay, Claire, I do. I mean, okay, if you want to do this. She said that you kind of talked a lot about yourself during the day, and I was kind of annoying. Are you kidding? She was asking me all kinds of questions about myself? What am I supposed to things? I was answering, the question is about me and where I am and where I'm from, like the normal questions that

you would answer about yourself. Like I mean, yeah, but it was kind of a lot. You know though, that is actually not too bad of an insult. I mean, I think that we can all fall victim to that sometimes, Like you're not the only person who has ever answered questions. I don't know, I've just been like, had I got caught in a one sided conversation? Can you look back and think like maybe you were asking enough questions about them?

I mean maybe I was like a little more chatty since I was drunk and just like you know, I guess maybe rambling on and caring about myself. She also said that you were on your phone a lot too. We were talking about like traveling in places that we've been, and I took a trip to Italy and I was sharing those photos with you guys. Oh yeah, you're sharing phones of your vacations. Yeah, it's all about you again, guys. I mean these are points that we can all learn from, right,

you can grow. Yeah, and Claire actually had a really nice time and a great vibe with you up until that point. So then just go, Adam. I was definitely very drunk, so I feel like you didn't get enough time to like really get to know me without having your X there, like you know, asking me all these questions. And then I was nervous because here I am thinking, like, this is your sister, right, and I'm trying to make a good impression. I'm also drunk, and I might have

been talking a lot. And yeah, yeah, just stop talking there, Just stop talking there, Claire. You have to learn, You have to learn from your past mistakes. Shut up right now, Up you guys, stop joking with me. Claire. I think I think that you bring up excellent points. Okay, I mean you do. Yeah, Well here's what I'm gonna do, Adam. Would you like to go out with Claire one more time without your X? Yeah? That should be a rule. You said that you vibed with her before she came along.

What do you think give her another shot? Will pay for it? I mean, for goodness sake, she's still interested after hearing that messed up story about the sister line. Yeah, I guess my X and I did kind of set you up for disaster a little bit and you We were asking a lot of questions and you about you and your trip, and yeah, I would love to see you again. Yeah, Claire, does that work for you? That

does it works for me? And sounds so disappointed with it, like I'm glad, I'm just I'm a little bit embarrassed too. So again, we don't need to hear about your feelings. A moving ninety two point five