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Second Date Update PODCAST: Sister No Likey

Mar 29, 201714 min
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What are you supposed to do when you like a guy, but his sister doesn't approve of you for some reason? You just call us... and we'll help you find out why. It sounds strange... but that's what Laura needs from us today. Listen in the Second Date Update!

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really love them. Yeah, I think they're awesome. Group dates are great because you guys show up to the same warehouse at the same time, put your keys in a bowl, and then you just enjoy yourself for the evening, no strings attached. That's why I think group dates are great. That's not really group date. Is that wrong? It's not a date called something else? Oh okay, I thought that was the normal term for a group date. I guess. I'm glad we got that cleared up either way. But oh,

all right, well I thought that was just dating. Never mind. Then Laura, who's on the phone for a second date up date right now, went out on sort of a double date. Hey Laura, how are you doing? Hey how are you guys? Pretty good? Thank you for your email, appreciate it. So your email said you showed up to this date and there ended up being like a double date situation going on. Well, I mean, I knew that we were going out with some friends, but I didn't realize it was going to be It was just a

little more pressure than I was anticipating. So okay, I was confused. In your email, it sounded like you had no idea there we're going to be other people there. So how did you meet this guy? First of all, I met him at a party as friends how and he asked me if I wanted to go out, and I was like absolutely, So I was like, yeah, I want to meet up with a couple of friends of mine. Do you mind? Would you want to join us? And I show up and there's this other couple there. So

what was weird about that? Well, I was expecting like a group of friends, and it turned out that like the girl Amanda was his sister and her boyfriend. Oh that's always a lot of I have actually broken up with a guy because I didn't want to meet the sister really because I had a sister and I know how Judge we can be like for real, Yeah, that's I mean, that's what I was thinking. As soon as I found out that it was a sister, I was like Oh my gosh, that's a lot more than I

was thinking. That's weird to bring your sister along on a first date. Well, maybe they're closed. I mean, did they seem to be friends? They did? I mean, I will say that, like as the night went on, it got better. Like it was awkward at first, but we ended up having a really fun time. You know, I really enjoyed it. I liked her, and he was, of course great. I mean I wanted him to. I definitely wanted another date with him. What's his name? His name was Brodie? Yeah, and Laura, you want to come on

a date with me and my sister. So did you guys hit it often? Did she seem to like you and you like her? Well? I thought we did? You thought you did? I mean, did you guys talk and have a good conversation? It seemed like she did. We hit well. I mean, I don't know. Honestly, I really thought things were going well with her. I thought we were getting along great. But I texted him the next day, you know, just to tell him that I had a fun time, and he texted me back saying that he

had a good time as well. And so I just went for it and I was like, so, um, do you want to hang out again? And and he told me his sister wasn't a fan. So to me, did he say he doesn't want to hang out with you because his sister's not a fan. Well, I mean that was what was being implied. I mean he didn't say like, he told me that if I wanted to, I could try to convince her. And then he gave me her number. What he wants you to call his sister and ask

for permission to go out with him again. Well, I mean, do you know how weird that sounds. That's weird. It's got to be a joke. He was joking and you just didn't get it because it was on text message or something. Well, no, I mean I asked him if he was joking. He was like, no, she wasn't a fan. I mean what So, yeah, he said, call my sister and ask her if I can go out with you again. Basically he didn't say it exactly like that, but he was like, sure, sounds like he did. If he said, hey,

here's my sister's phone number. Caller. Well, yeah, I guess. I just I just really want to know what happened. So are we gonna call him, or do you want us to call his sister for your second date? I mean, I'm pretty sure we have to call her, right Really? I think so because he sounded like he had a good time, and I feel like she's the one who has like the answers about like what is wrong? Right? Can you really want a second date with this guy?

Or you just want to find out from the sister what you did wrong and why she doesn't like you? Because honestly, if I were to go out with a girl and she's like, you gotta call my brother for permission,

I'd be like, all right, then, no, thank you. I just feel like there must have been something that was like a miscommunication or something like that, because I really thought it was going well, and so if something went wrong that I don't know about, I just kind of want to clear things up, you know, through the air about it. So you want to clear the air with the sister and then do you still want to date

her brother? Fun enough for a second date? All right? Okay, Well we will play a song, come back, call her weird, figure out why she doesn't like you, and then see if she'll let you date her brother. Right, Yeah, that sounds very Okay, we'll do it right after this brooking jubil in the morning. Okay, for the second part of today's second day up date, I'm gonna need you to pay attention for a second. I need to explain how this is going to work. Laura went out on a

date with a guy named Brodie. She showed up to the date. It was like a double date type situation. One of those people happened to be brodie sister. She thought that they all enjoyed each other's company and the sister was cool with her. She texted Brodie the next day and he said, Hey, we can't go out again because my sister doesn't like you. So we and then they were like joking back and forth, and he said, here's my sister's phone number if you want to see

me again, clear it with my sister. So right now, we're about to call Brodie's sister, her name is Amanda on Laura's behalf to see if she can get a second date with her brother, or at least find out why the girl doesn't like her. All right, Laura, are you ready to go? Yeah? I'm ready. Okay, are you thoroughly confused? Myself? Now, But are you more creeped out that Brodie wants you to talk to his sister or that the sister is that involved with the brother's life.

I mean, I guess I'm more creeped out, but he per permissions. That's a little weirder for me. I see sisters being overprotective. I get that. Yeah, Okay, I'm gonna doll the phone right now, get her on the phone and see if we can figure out why Amanda hates Laura. Here we go, Amanda Hayes Laura name a good sitcom. By the way, Hello, can I speak to Amanda please speaking? We asked you calling. This is Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. How are you like the radio show?

Exactly like the radio show? Have you ever listened to us? I'm just here and there never seriously, I guess, yeah, no, you've put it probably never really listened very much at all. But that's okay, Amanda, because you're actually about to be on the show, which is pretty cool. Okay. One of our listeners recently send us an email about you. Oh really, what was email about? Well? Her name is Laura, and Laura recently went out on a date with your brother,

oh ring a bell? Okay, Well, she told us about the date, and the thing is, she really wants to see your brother again. But after the date, she was texting with your brother and he said he couldn't go out with her because you didn't like her. That's exactly right. So you don't so you don't like her. So that's why I'm calling you today. I'm calling you to find out what you didn't like about Laura on the date.

I mean, you know, sometimes you meet people and you just you just know that they wouldn't be good in your group of friends, or in your family or around and sometimes you just have to, you know, draw the line and speak your mind. Hold on, how can you tell from one date whether or not a girl is good enough for your brother? Like you spent two hours.

You just know there are times there are indicators. So we talked to her about the date, and she actually had nice things to say about you and thought you guys were getting along great until she got those texts from your brothers saying you didn't like her. Well, first of all, of course, she had nice things to say

about me. Second of all, I mean, it wasn't like her actions per se but it was more, you know, her choice of dress or the way she cursed, or you know, she just seems very's a very trashy air, you know, like I could just tell that she was a trashy person, and to me, it's okay, Like I I understand that people can't choose the circumstance which they're more into, right, I understand that, But this is a

grown woman. I mean, come on, I mean, I don't want to hang out with someone when I'm worried about her boobs like falling out of her shirt or you know what I mean. So you don't like the way she dressed, and you thought she was trashy. I didn't think she was trashy. I knew she was trashy straight up. Like should we talk to her? And she seemed like a lovely girl, right, Well, you didn't see her, you just talked to her. You'd been there, you would have felt the trash you vibe that I would get it.

Why are you so invested into your brother's love life because first dates can turn into marriages. It's the beginning of something. And we're a very close knit family. So you're close with your brother and you don't want him dating gutter trash exactly if you're trying to be funny with me right now, but that's exactly how I feel. Oh my gosh. You can't argue with honesty, and I appreciate you being honest with us, Amanda. Thank you, You're welcome. How do you think Laura would feel if she heard

you say that about her? Though? I don't think that I would care. Good. Maybe she would change her ways, maybe she would make some self improvement. It's good that you wouldn't care because Laura is actually on the other line listening. Yeah, Oh my god, Hi, it's good to know how big of a b you are. Serious. You were hiding the first time we met. I was trying to be polite because I have manner and know how to act in public. I'm like you, well, at least

I don't judge people based from what they're wearing. Honey. It was not only what you were wearing, it was what you were saying, how you carried yourself and awes enough to mention the fact that you don't even have a real college degree. You have a trade degree, you have a certification, you're a dentalistist, and what are you planning to do with that? Are you planning to be a dentist? Are you talking about a dentialistist? Is a very respectable job, and I'm trying to better myself. How

are you going to meet? You work at a frisking call center? Your your customer service? Your job isn't that great, missy? But I have a college degree? Yeah that answering phones that education. I feel like me and you walking down the street. People would look at us and they would know that I am automatically better than you and I want family. Do you know what they would know? They would know that someone who came from nothing and is bettering themselves as doing I hell have a lot better

than someone who has a four year degree. And to a Manda, do you like you honestly think that you're a better person. I'm sorry if you called me. I'm just telling you what I know. Don't try and act like I'm this bad person because I don't want this in my life. You know what I feel, Amanda? All right, Amanda? I feel you. I have to walk around every day knowing that people are lesser than me, and it's frustrating, it really is. And I feel you on that. Thank

you very much for your time. I would like to see if actually you two would like to get together for a second date, maybe a hangout. I'll pay for it. Wherever you guys want to be, the Happy Hour or something you can. I want to go and hang out out with a dental assistant, trashy. I have better things to do with my time. Well, Amanda, the way that you just described Laura sounds perfect for me. I mean, oh my god. First of all, I'm so glad we called her because now I have no reason to ever

be anywhere near that family again. Kid, and there's a good reason why her brother is her only friend, that's for sure. No, no, no no, no, lady, I'll be fine. Thank you's very much. I kind of wanted to out with Amanda. Is that weird? Yes? Yes, broken Jewil in the Morning.

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