Need Leasic Trust the experienced team at the Leasic Center at Evergreen I Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do lesi at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jewels Second dat Day. Dawson is on the phone with us for a second date update today and his email said that he met the girl he wants to call while playing a game at a house party. Hey Dawson, what game were you guys playing? We were playing the
Famous People Card game? Is that is that where you guys hold up a picture of me and then you try to guess what I'm doing that evening? That's a fun game. It was Famous People Card Game? Yeah? Yeah again, Yeah, that's the one where you hold up a picture of me. I know, Oh man, what's the Famous People card game?
I don't know what that is? So like, okay, so I'm sitting across from you, for instance, and I hold up a picture on my forehead and I can't see it obviously of a famous person, you know, actor, somebody famous, and then you know, you would have to kind of act out get me to guess who it is without you know saying who it is. So if you're sitting across from me, I'd be like, it's it's me. Okay, I think we understand the game now. So how did
you guys end up playing the game together at the party? Yeah, okay, So you know, I went to this house party with a bunch of my friends and stuff. We get there and we're hanging out, and then, not to sound cheesy, but across the room, I noticed this girl and she's got really, you know, really nice brown hair, and she has this really nice approachable mouth. So did you say approachable mouth? Yeah, like nice approachable mouth. Does that mean
a smile? What does that mean? She has a really nice smile, nice approachable mouth, you know all I mean I describe it differently. Yeah, I've never heard it describe that way. Did you tell her that she has an approachable mouth? That could be why you're not getting a call back? No, I don't. It doesn't seem weird to me.
I mean I've heard other whatever. Okay, okay, okay, So wait, did you like position yourself all night so that when you guys started playing this card game you could be next to each other or on teams or something exactly. You know, we're basically playing teams because there's a lot of people pair up and I put the card on my head, and I mean, first thing she says is I've got a car for everyone, And I mean, right there, I know who it is. Yeah, you know it's Oprah. Yeah.
I don't want to give it up that quick. I want to keep engaging in stuff, So I just keep asking questions and stuff like I don't know, is this person on TV a lot? You know, just whatever, just so we can kind of keep even though it's just talking about the game, you know what I mean, just kind of back and forth. Yeah, She's like, hey, idiot, it's Oprah. How did you not get that? You're stupid? I don't want to go out with you, right, I would think you were dumb if you were doing that. No,
because you got to think about the situation. You're at a party and stuff, so obviously you can't take it too serious. Sleep Yeah, I mean, it obviously worked for you. You got her number, at least to the point where you're on the phone with us now wondering why she's not calling you back. So what happened after you guys played the game? So we go outside and we're kind of lounging on some pool chairs. And stuff, and you know, it felt right, so I went in for a kiss.
Oh my gosh. Yeah, well and she kissed back, and it would have been great except for some drunk dude that comes walking out announcing, you know, beer pong in a couple of minutes, everybody inside, man, Yeah, buzz kill. So he ruined your makeout session. Yeah, it kills the mood totally. So what did she say? Oh, sweet, I gotta get out of here. I gotta go play beer pong. It wasn't it wasn't like that. It was just it really was just kind of like you know, that big
rogue block just thrown down. Yeah, okay, you know, so did you guys go in and play beer pong together? Yeah, we went in and we did that. But then you know, throughout the night, I you know, my friends start tugging me again to hang out and whatever. So we did end up at the end of the night exchanging phone numbers. Yeah that's awesome. Yeah, But now it's been like a week and a half, and I mean, this is why
I'm calling you, guys. I can't get any real response about legitimately setting up a date, Like I'm the one that's always sending out the text and just getting uh, yeah, you know, let me, let me look at my calendar, or we can try and get around to it, you know what I mean, I can get around to it. So I'm kind of at a loss. So I figured, well, you know, I'll give you guys a call. And do you think it's because she's busy or do you think
it's because she's not interested. I don't know if there's another guy in the picture, like maybe she just went to this house party and if there's another guy he couldn't go or something, and then there's a little connection there and enough for her to swap phone numbers, and maybe now she's thinking like that. It's like, oh, yeah, my husband could get angry out with this guy at a house party. There's nothing other than that you can think of that would give you a reason why she
wouldn't want to go out with you. No, well, my end, you know, everything seemed to go great at the house party, and then the first day or so after there was a lot of flirting going back and forth with the text messaging and stuff, and then it gets just kind of petered off. That's not good. Petering is bad. Yeah, Well, it can be good. I've petered a few times and it was amazing, but sometimes with Peter and it's been terrible.
So it's definitely bade. Yeah, we'll play a song and then we'll come back and we'll get your second day up date. All right, thank you very much. Okay, hang on looking jubil in the morning. Right in the middle of a second day update and if you're just joining us, Dawson is on the phone, and Dawson thinks a record scratch moment Mida ruined his chances at love. Yeah, you've had those record scratch moments, Like was the last time
I had a record scratch moment? It's just the other day. Actually, Well, what happens in a conversation with someone and they're like, you know what, you're really soft spoken and rather polite in person, And I was like, no, it's not that, it's just that I don't like you very much. Record scratch moment. Way to put the brakes on a conversation,
you know, Yeah, it makes sense now. Yeah, And Dawson had a record scratch moment when he met the girl he wants to call to day, Hey, Dawson, what's her name? I didn't get that from you, by the way. Oh it's Janine. Okay. They were at a party and they were making out, and then somebody ran outside and was like it's time for beer pong. Everybody inside record scratch moment and they exchange emails. At the end of the night,
they texted back and forth a little bit. She seemed very flirty at first, but now she's kind of dropped off and he's wondering why. So we're about to get her on the phone and see if we can figure out what happened. Any last words, Dawson, Now, man, I just want to get this resolved and hopefully end up on a second date. Oh and I forgot to ask Dawson, when you said you were texting flirty back and forth, you didn't take it like too far, if you know
what I mean. Oh no, no, no, you didn't send any pics of things or no, no, no picks, no eggplant emojis. Yeah, because sometimes flirting for women and flirting for men are very different definitions. Just send me a winky face. So I sent her my entire naked body. That is kind of how it goes down like that. I thought that was the emoji for she wants it. That's true. That is a record scratch moment, you know, like I think I'm being cute. Oh my god, there
it is record scratch moment. All right, well I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now and see if we can figure it out. Here we go. You ready, let's do it? Okay? Hello, Hi, messpeak to Janine. Yes, this is Janine. Hey, what's up? How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show on the radio. Okay from What is this about? Well, I'm calling you today because of our listeners emailed us about you mean what, I'm unconfused. We do a segment
on our show. It's called the second Date Update. That's where if you go out with somebody on a date and then end up not calling them after, they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and ask what happened. So Dawson, yeah, oh god, oh was that a good ogut or a bad ogut? I can't tell. So we talked to him a little bit and he told us about when you guys met at a party. Just I don't think we Yeah, you
don't think you were? Yeah? I mean we I mean, you guys just want to know why I'm not talking to him anymore. Yep, that's exactly why we're on the phone with you right now. Other than you know, I think you're an awesome person and want to talk to you anyway. But that's pretty much why we're calling. Do you mind telling us, Well, I just found out something that's unattractive to me. Wait, you found out like back information, like he has a girlfriend. No, no, he doesn't have
a girlfriend, and that's the problem. Is that the problem? The problem is he doesn't have a girlfriend. Well yeah, kind of. I mean the problem is that he's single. What wait, you want to be like a mistress to somebody that's your goal in life? Oh no, no, no, no, no, I don't want I would never date a guy who has a girlfriend. Oh good, I just don't want to date a guy who's single. That in a very tough spot in the dating world, because either you have a
girlfriend or you're single. Yeah. No, no, I mean he's really single. Yeah, that's usually how people like there's potential dates really single. I mean that's usually a positive attribute. No, I mean a day or two after the part I checked his Facebook page. There are like no pictures of him with a girl. None, And that's a bad thing. And that's a bad thing. Okay. Why that leads me to think that no girls want him, that he's undesirable.
So you're thinking that he's broken in some way because he doesn't have any pictures on social media of him with other women. Well, I didn't just check Facebook. I mean we have a mutual friend, I asked her. She said, he hasn't seen anybody seriously in months. So why is that an issue? If someone goes like a long period without being in a steady relationship, then there must be something wrong. What if they, I don't know, just enjoy being single because they're happy with their lives and where
they are in themselves. Nobody enjoys being single. That's a myth, that is true. There's plenty of people that enjoy it. Do you ever enjoy it? I certainly don't it. I just I don't get what you're saying. I think I get it. Like if I meet a girl and I find out she hasn't been on a date in two years, I'm thinking, like, why is nobody dating her even two years? Maybe because she wants to be single? This is stupid. I don't know. After a while, you don't want to
be single? Yes, some people do, so, Janine, are you in a relationship? Then I'm actively dating. I have a lot of people who want to date me, and I go out on several dates. I'm desirable and Dawson is undesirable. Okay, no, well you know what else is undesirable? Gotcha? You know what else Dawson is. He's also on the other line and wants to talk to you. What yeah, Dawson, are you there? No? No, no, no, no, no, no, what's up, Janine?
It's mister undesirable. Excuse me for wanting someone who wanted to be socially active. I am socially active. I don't need to broadcast it all over the world though. Really, how many girls are you seeing right now? WHOA? I'm none right now exactly. And that's the problem. You know, I had a girlfriend about four months ago as well, So really, so why haven't you want to meet anyone in four months? Because I want to take a break, you know, be single for a little bit because I
just got out of a relationship. You can tell yourself that all you want, but the truth is, no one wants to date you. What is your problem? This my problem. The longest I've been quote unquote single is ten dates. You're supposed to jump right back into the day after you break up with someone. That's what's the post that happened? Yeah, Janita, it tells me if you have that many dates lined up, that nobody's coming for a second date. Man, then there's
a reason this is. I can't believe what's coming out of her mouth. I'm not being single for ten days. It's kidding me. I'm undesirable. But you and I were making out at this house party, so I thought you were hirable. Can I be amen? Listen, Gossin. The thing is you're living in single land. That's just where I want to be. I mean, it's fine if you want to be there, but I don't. What is single land exactly? What is help? Where you are? About where? It's what
you are. You're in single land, and I don't want to be there. I'm just single right now. There's exactly land. It's not a continent or an island. It's just right now. And then I go out and if I meet someone like I thought with you, maybe then I would be not in single land anymore? Does that make any sense to you. Unfortunately, no, because you're out there on your little island all by yourself. Oh all right, my head's starting to hurt. So hard to understand about this. Let's
just want to date people that other people like. I don't see why that's weird. If nobody likes them, then why would I want to see them again? Oh my god, Janine, you're basing all of your opinion on someone else's opinion. Do you know what I'm saying? Like you are judging him based on what other people think of him, And what's the problem with that? I you know, what I think for Eugenine isn't a problem. But I'm gonna ask this question. It's a really stupid question. They say there's
no stupid questions, but this is definitely one. Janine, would you like to go out with Dawson again? On a second date? We will pay for it, nobody, No, I think I'm okay? Yeah, I mean, I under understandable Dawson hasn't been out with a woman in four months. You know, yes, thank you, you understand It took me a while to get on the same page as Eugenine. Oh Dawson, it's just you know that's fine. I'm fine with this outcome. Yeah,
I think you should be buddy. Yeah, of course you're fine with it because somebody likes being single, So why would you want to go on a day? Yeah in the morning, you made me do it, Me do it, You made me do it? Now, who's gonna come up the studio? Right? Brook and Jewel in the morning text in at seven eight, five to nine two that says there's obviously a reason why that girl is still single.
Talking about today's second date update if you missed it, Dawson wanted to call a girl named Janine and they met at a party. They kissed, texted a little bit after, and then she just sort of dropped off. We got her on the phone and found out that the reason she wasn't calling him back and didn't want to go out with him again was because she went to his Facebook page and noticed there were no pictures of other women, so he's not dating anybody currently. Therefore, she deemed him undesirable.
I don't I don't get it. Apparently still don't get it. Like usually single is what you look for when you're wanting to date someone, but she wants him to be out and about make the round. Yeah, he's got to be almost in a relationship for her to go. Yeah, that guy is definitely worth dating. You can't win anymore. You can't be single and well, I mean you can't have a girlfriend or a boyfriend or whatever. You can do that, but if you want to date, you can't
be fully single. You gotta almost be in a relationship. Apparently, it's like you need a Yelp review, it's what you need. Like that's what she's looking for. They do need a Yelp review for people. She wants a Yelp review that ensures that people are visiting that boyfriend. Yeah, this guy mouth's funny. Yeah, two stars only have two reviews. I'm not going to that place. If you want to do a second day update, I have to do is email the show and we will call the person that didn't call you back.