Second Date Update PODCAST: Shopping Spree

many emails for second date updates? Stand? I don't know. But Cassie, who's on the phone right now for a second day update, said that she had the best date of her entire life. I used to say bold statement, but I don't know that it is anymore. Maybe the bar is just low enough. Finally, yep, So Cassie, why don't you tell us about your best date of your entire life? Hello? All right, how are you doing? You

sound like you're still smiling, Cassie, So that's good. Yeah I am, and I'm trying to still You're obviously not getting to call back, but that's cool. Yeah, kind of sucks, but um, you know, hopefully you guys can help me. Yeah, we'll see, we do help a lot of people. No, we don't, not really, we'll try. So tell us a little bit about the dude you want to call today. Who'd you go on a date with? His name is Levi, And we did go on a lovely dinner date. Oh,

the best day ever. It really was, you know, until he just stopped contacting me. Yeah, and that usually makes it a lot worse, all right, Cassie, Like I said, everybody seems to be saying they've had the best date of their entire life. Why was it so special? We went to a really nice restaurant. Okay, I heard that before. Don't be bared of their story. Listen to her. Most guys, I hear. Most guys say they don't want to invest

too much in a first date. Though it is a nice thing when it's a nice restaurant that isn't cheap. Good point, it was really nice. You know. The dishes were like at least thirty forty bucks per person, and he did everything. But you know, like a traditional mom would tell you to look for a guy, like pulling out the chair for you, opening the door for you. He even like was so weird. He even like stood up when I came back from the bathroom, and I've

never experienced that before. I was like, wait, what's going on? Are we leaving? That's really funny. For I am a gentleman. I stand when a woman in the room. I'm waiting for you to be seated, and then I will take my seat as well. Oh my god, coving. I didn't say that because I was like, oh wait, no, he's doing that old school chivalrous thing. I was like, wow, this is really interesting. So he was. I mean, he

was really polite. Was what it sounds like, which is lovely and sad that that is what makes it the best date ever? Or was there something else? Now there's more. It's like, it's what's so weird about it? So he wasn't only polite. He was engaging and interesting and he had a sense of humor. He asked me questions about myself. He didn't just go on and on about himself. It was like, really like he had my interest. Yeah, it

sounds refreshing and lovely. Sounds like you went out with a night of the round table who has learned to travel to the future. No, yeah, maybe that's why he's not calling you back. He had to go back fight some dinosaurs. Really, whatever they were fighting, it sounds like a true gentleman, Cassie. Anyway, the dinner date was awesome.

You know, everything ended well, I mean, you know, big Bill, I'm sure because we ordered everything and then we were walking out and he was like, I really don't want to stay to end you and I said, actually no, I'm having a really good time. Oh that's such a nice moment. But I thought he was like. I was like, okay, is this the point where he's going to ask me to go back to his place? And then that's gonna like just be you know, everything downhill from there, and

I was like waiting for it. But he said, well, let's just get in my car and we'll go find something fun to do. And we ended up at a mall. What yeah, I thought you said something fun to do. Why were you at a mall? Well, it just kind of ended up in our conversation. We were just yapping about something and I was like, oh, you know what, that actually is not a bad idea. There's something I wouldn't mind you know, stopping at Sephora pick up a couple things that I know I need Okay, Cassie, now

we're running errands on our date. Okay, I don't know. Well, it was an excuse to keep the day going, you know. He suggested mall and I was like, sure, why not. And so that you guys went and picked up some dry cleaning. I'm gonna lose it, but yeah, so we win them all. I stopped at Sephora. He actually goes with me, which was weird. Usually like a guy would just be like, i'll be out here, so I'm going get my stuff, and he just like butts in in front of me and puts his credit card down and

buys it for me. Nice whoa, yeah, fifty dollars you know of like cream and foundation stuff. I'm like, wait, what why are you doing this? And he's just like, oh, I just want to see smile. You're like, okay, sir, come with me to the next store. Then I was bigger. It does sound like the best day of your entire life. I wish somebody would take me out and just buy me things. Yeah. Actually it did continue. I went into another store and I was like, surely he's not going

to keep doing this. I just saw something in the window I was like, oh, that looks cool. What do you know he buys that for me too. And I kept trying to say stop, you don't have to do this, this is like you know, and he's like, no, no, please, please let me. I enjoy giving and you know, I'm enjoying my time with you. Wow. Okay, so other than credit card debt, how did the date end? Very nice? He just took me back to my house and dropped

me off and it definitely ended with a nice kiss. Oh. And that's when I told him, you know, I was like, this is probably the best date I've ever been on. And you know, I was like, thank you very much, and he said, don't say that yet because we have another date coming up very soon together. Oh cute way to take control, sir. Obviously he was lying though, because you haven't gone out again. How long ago was it that he said that? That was like a couple of weeks ago, And yeah, I was the last time we

spoke about it. I mean, he hasn't you know, we haven't spoken on the phone. We've just kind of texted a little bit, but not made any concrete plans, so he hasn't really followed up with what he said, yeah, a few weeks. I would not consider very soon. No. Yeah, And it's frustrating because we've kind of talked about the dates, but nothing's really happening, and I do want to see him again. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and get your second date update.

All right, thank you? Okay, hang on looking jubile in the morning. Second updates if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Cassie is on the phone and she said she had the best date of her entire life with the dude named Levi. They went out for a very nice dinner and then at the end of dinner, Levi looked her and he said, congratulations, Cassie, you just won a luxurious shopping spree. You'll be whisked away to

the local mall. We'll head on over to Sephora and buy you a bunch of perfume and other facial crap, and then you get a pair of new shoes. Cassie, this is what life is like when you're dating Levi. Is that kind of how it went, Cassie? Pretty much? Yeah, I guess I was pretty much it except for non game show like no music, announcer. That's too bad. It couldn't have been the best day of your entire left because every really good date involves a game show announcer.

Cassie went to the mall with this dude after they had dinner, and he bought her a bunch of stuff and then they had a kiss. He said he had another huge surprise planned for their second date. But now the conversation has fizzled out. And what are you feeling with him right now? Are you still liking him a lot? You too frustrated? I still like him slightly frustrated, but I also in thinking there could be another girl involved,

So I just want to get an answer. Oh, like, he hasn't had time because he's dating other women, possibly where he has a girlfriend, and he knows if he is seeing somebody else, he's spending a lot of cash if that's the way he dates. Yeah, all right, Cassie, here we go. I'm in a Dallas on him right now? Okay, Hello, Hey, can I speak to LEVI? Oh? Yeah, this is him? Hey, what's up? Man? How are you? This is jew Bil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. From what Brooke

and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Uh oh, okay, have you listened to the show before? I have not? Okay, Hey, cool, thanks, don't blame you, LEVI not. I don't even want to listen when I'm here, you know. No, No, I'm personal. I'm just not a big radio guy. Yeah, but for me, it's personal though. Anyway, let's not talk about that. I want to talk to you because we got an email from one of our listeners about you. You got an email about me? Yeah, it's from a girl named Cassie.

Cassie emailed you about me. Yeah, she did. We do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update. So Cassie says that you had a wonderful date together, but you've kind of been blowing her off recently and she feels like you don't want to go out again. Wait. Wait, I just want to clarify other people have done this, right, I'm not the first guy that you've been contacted about. Does that make you feel better about the situation if

other people have done it before you? Well, I just want to make sure that, like, I'm not the first, No, but you're the best. Leave You're not the first. We do a lot of these Okay, Um, First of all, I just want to say that my date with Cassie was like the best date I've ever been on, and I had a great time, and I really, really really want to go out with her again. I'm just not ready. You're not Why aren't you ready? Well, to be completely honest,

I'm kind of broke. That first date kind of tapped me out, and I'm trying to save up enough money to take her on a second date. O. Man, why are you paid for all this expensive stuff if you don't have the funds to do that, like buy or the makeup and the shoes. She told you about all that stuff. Huh yeah, yeah, we talked to her about your date. She said, you, guys went to a really nice dinner and then afterwards you took her to the mall and you were like, throw it in the bag. Girl. Look,

it's not really a big deal. Guys. I got a second Um, I gotta I'm I'm driving for Uber now, and so between that and my real job, I really think that, you know, it's gonna be easy to take her on dates like that. I just wasn't planning ahead because I didn't know I was going to meet her. You know, you took a second job in order to take Cassie out again. Yeah, oh man, that is so sweet and so wrong all at the same time. Yeah, no,

it's not right. I mean, look, let's be honest, what's money for if not to like, spend it on people you liked? Sounds like money for you should be to save it. But you realize when you go out on a date, you don't have to break the bank. Right, Well, you don't know Cassie, but she's definitely worth breaking the bank. I mean, i'd even rob a bank, not a big banking but a medium size bank. If you don't have the bank, don't spend it. No, no, I get that.

It's just I think today nowadays, it's just a nice concept to be able to take somebody out. And if I'm the one asking them out, I want to be the one who can, like, you know, make it a date. Okay, I agree with you there, I do. I think that if you're the one that's asking, then you should be the one that treats. But she likes you for a lot of reasons, and there's a lot of other less expensive date options and taking them to the mall like you could go. I don't know to coffee man. Yeah,

I mean, I don't know. In the dating climate nowadays, I think too many guys are content just being you know, typical. And I wanted to wow her and I still want to wow her on our next date. That's the point. And this promotion that Uber's offering right now. If I give one hundred and fifty rides in a three week period, I get a bonus five hundred dollars. So I was out there last night until four in the morning, giving rides to a lot of drunk people, and it was

totally worth it. I think that is so kind. But you're missing the point. That's not how you wow a woman. It's not with money. You wowed Cassie because you listened to her, that you engaged her, you pulled the chair

out for her, you made her feel respected and important. Well, regardless guys of like what we agree or disagree on, can you do me a favor and just let Cassie know that I am totally on board for another date and if she can just wait a few more days, I'm going to give her the best next date ever. Oh okay, well, I'll let her know, but you kind of already did because she's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. What do you mean.

I mean, we have multiple phone lines and she's been on one of them listening to your talk. Oh hello, Oh look, and there she is. Modern technology. Isn't it awesome? Hi? I LEVI have you been listening along? Yes, I listened to everything. There was no time where you stepped away from the phone. No, I heard it all and it's okay. I am. I'm really glad to you know, just like hear something, because you know, I was really starting to wonder and just think that, um, okay, maybe there was

another girl. Let No, sorry I did something. No, no other girls. You are the only girl I want to hang out with. I just really wanted to show you a great date. And I get that. I think that that's amazing. I really really like after hearing your story now, like I'm so amazed that you would go to that extent, but you really, like, you know, you don't have to

go that that crazy. I mean, especially we're just getting to know each other, like, you know, we should focus on getting to know each other, not just about the money. I mean, you're really awesome. I want to spend time with you. Well, let's say on our next date, I got you two pairs of shoes instead of one. I mean you're not going to turn that down, right? Okay, that is not necessary? You know I eventually I'm going to run out of places to put things if you

keep it up like that. Well, we could get slippers. They they're more space efficient yet where you could take a third job and build your new closet. Believe, it's almost like insulting to her. She she's more than just wanting shoes, man, she wants you. She wants your personality. She wants how you make her feel. Not only do I want to listen to Cassie and hear and respond with her, but I also want to be able to, like, you know, buyer things because that's the total package and

that's what that's what women dig, and that's awesome. Yeah, I'm excited about it. I can't wait to me to do like that. You're enough, That's what I'm saying. You're enough. You don't need the other stuff. You are the total package without the shoes. Yes, exactly, you don't. I mean it's gonna be detriment, Like if we were in a relationship and you were just busy working all the time to make the money and then just give me gifts. If I don't have a connection with you because you're gone,

then that's not the total package. That's like a lopsided package. All right. When we were at the door after we kissed, you told me that that was the best date you'd ever been on. Right, Yes, and that was because I got you this stuff at Sephora and I got you the shoes you are. No, it's not because of that. That was just like an extra, like icing on the cake. Totally unexpected. But I was already interested in you from

our conversation at dinner and how polite you are. I mean, if you were rude and awful and then you said you want to hit me shopping, it would have been weird. I probably would have said, no, I'm good. I don't want to pen any more time with you. So it wasn't the money, Okay, I hear you. It wasn't the money. But just so you know, I've been saving up a lot for our next day, driving until four in the morning, carting around drunk people, just trying to make some cash

so he can take you out again. Cassie, totally not necessary. Have about we just go to dinner somewhere that's inexpensive, and we just take a walk somewhere where there's no money involved, no shopping, like something simple on a beach or whatever. Oh I could rin a pair of sale and we could fly around on that. No, don't spend any money. I mean literally, the only red flag with you right now at this point is your money management skills, Like you need to stop. Man. How about this? Would

you go out on a second date with Cassie. We will pay for it, and you're you can't spend any money on it? Though, I gotta respectfully decline, guys, because I'm gonna pay for it and you guys can't pay for anything. This is my date. Oh my gosh. Just the principle of the matter. You're arguing whether or not we pay for your date that you can't afford. I'm going to be paying for stuff, and that's how it is. Okay, it's fine, you can pay for stuff, but let's not

like be spending the whole time paying for stuff. Like, just pay for a dinner and then a little dessert and then that's fine. That's it. No shopping, how about that? That's probably a good idea, because I should be driving over by ten thirty. That's when you get the biggest bonus. Okay, cool, so we're gonna agreement. Then you guys are going to go out one more time. Yes, Cassie, I'm really excited for an estate. I don't want to give away too much,

but it does involve a limousine and endangered animals. Oh my god. Wow. Yeah, I don't care what I want to go on this day. It sounds interesting and the morning