Second Date Update PODCAST: She’s a Crier

alrighty are you okay? Um? Well, I mean I just feel like, you know, I feel like I screwed up a little bit on this one. So you know, I don't want to cry. I just I feel, really, you know, I feel pretty emotion and I just, oh, I just feel like it was my fault. Are you are you? Are you nervous to be doing the second date update right now? Is that part of the reason that you're emotional? Are you this emotional about the date that you went on? Like everything? And I mean it's obviously not trying to

call be all emotional on the radio. I just you know, when I start, I just, you know, sometimes I can't tough. Take a few breaths. We're here to help you out, all right. Oh gosh, So tell us about the date. Oll. That's the thing. I was supposed to meet him for dinner and my dog, my dog Monkey, I would walk her before I left, and she wouldn't go to the bathroom, you know, like she just wouldn't go, and I wouldn't

leave because she'll go in the house, you know. Being five minutes late, five minutes late, deal, something happened to your dog? No, my dog is like just she's fine. Okay. I thought maybe you were upset because something happened to your dog. I'm just thinking that, like, you know, I should have been there and I should have been on time, and I just you know, I think it's so like poor okay, but you were like to be tardy. Maybe you were. You were five minutes late, though, Danica. It's

not the end of the world. This is so bad, So you know, all right, okay, Heydnica, five minutes is not really a big deal. Fifteen twenty thirty minutes late. That kind of gets annoying. Five minutes later, trust me, I doubt he was really that upset about it. Well, I mean five minutes. It's fine, maybe fine for a normal date, but like, wait, if it's like the one you know that it's the one you think is your dream man? Did you think this guy was your dream man?

I met him online and he was like everything that I want? Okay, wait, hold on, did you? I mean, did you ever even you? I don't. I'm not like this. I'm not like take it to breath again. You're gonna be okay, Danica, did you talk to him for a long time before you guys' first date? Well, I mean, obviously I talked a couple of times, which is its profiles like everything. It's okay. I mean, I know it's kind of funny to some people, but it is kind of how I react. Well, it's not necessarily laughing at

you crying about the situation. It's more it was five minutes late. Yeah, and for most people they would not get that worked up. If that's how you express yourself, that's how you express yourself. I go, so did you did you were you? Were you this visibly upset when you actually met him? Well? I was, you know, yeah, I mean I I was driving, and you know, of course I was like, you know, getting emotional on the car and I was mad at my dogs, you know,

and like that's hard. And then I got to the restaurant and you know, I realized I hadn't even pulled my hair or was everywhere, and so I was just trying to be you know, I tried to play it off so it was obvious that you had been crying. Yeah, I mean yeah, I was like use myself in the

bathroom to like go like jut it together, you know. Yeah, and I came out and I started just lost it again, you know, I mean, I just know he was so he was so sweet, and I started telling him about Monkey, and it was what did he do when you started crying? He's like spoke really surprised. He's a sensitive person, so sure he was upset for me, but he was like being strong. So you guys continued the day after you were crying about your dog. Yeah, you know what I mean,

I guess he was. I told him what I happened with Monkey, and you know, it made me feel better. We had eaten and the day was sort of you know, sort of it's over anyway, So okay, how did it end with him? Um? He gave me a hug and I like a really super loving a hug. I mean he was he just made me feel oh better. And I said, can I, you know, maybe can I get a do over? Like this isn't me, this isn't how

I am. And I texted him like a bunch of times, you know, not not not in many, but you know, like enough that I probably thought I would hear back from him by now. So I don't understand why you wouldn't let me just have a do over. Yeah, but Denika, if I went out on a date with you like that and you started bawling on the date, it would probably freak me out either that artists start crying too, and there would just be a mess just to both

of us at the table. Well you know, I mean sometimes I get emotional and that's just like who I am. But you know, I think that you like I mean, I don't love him, but I mean if I like this guy a lot, WHOA, I'm worried about you, Denika, because this is just the part where we find out what happened on the date and you haven't even really been able to keep it together. I'm totally getting it together now, listen. Yeah, I totally am are right right now, Okay,

I don't. We'll play a song. Oh, come back, call him and get your second date update. All right, Okay, I need you to be strong when we come back. Okay, I am. I'm totally gonna I'm totally gonna like wash my face and like get it together. It's good, okay, Okay, Because if you cry twice to him, I guarantee that's going to scare him off. I'll tell you what, I'm not gonna cry, even if I get a little shaky. I'll hold the phone away from my mouth. No one could hear. If at any moment you just hang up

the phone. I'll pretend like the connection dropped out if you want to cry for a bit, and then I'll get you back on the phone after Okay, okay, all right, just hang on, I do this, Okay, hold on rooking Jube in the morning. Second. You know, normally during a second date update, it's the second part of the phone call, when we get the couple on the phone together and they talk that tears come out. It's already happened a lot.

And I'm actually hesitant to do today's second date update because I don't know if Danika, who is on the phone with us right now. Can handle it? Danika? Are you doing all right? Yeah, I'm you know, keeping it. I'm gonna try and keep it together. Yeah, okay, yeah, you definitely need to if you're just tuning in. Danika wants to call Mike. They met online, went out for a date. She was five minutes late for the date. It was very emotional about it. She was crying on

the way to the date. When she got there, she started to clean herself up, and then when she actually sat down with the guy, she lost it again and ended up crying during the date. And she isn't getting a call back. And I'm assuming I don't know yet, but I'm guessing that's the reason why, Dannika, it would be very weird for me to go out with a girl and have her cry on a first date. I know, I mean, I know it seems weird, but that's why I'm gonna apologize to him. And so I'm I'm a

normal person, you know. Can I make one suggestion Because I'm a person I cry at every emotion. If you start to get emotional, pinch yourself. That's my trick because it helps you get out of your mindset of going down that path, and then it hurts because you pinch yourself and you cry more pain. Yeah, why did you pinch me? I'm willing to try anything. I will do it. Do you feel strong right now? Do you feel like you could do it? I do? I do. Took some

deep breath. What's my face? Okay, I'm gonna dollar phone right now. Get him on the phone and get your second date update. Okay, Okay, you got this? Hell? Can I speak to Mike please? This is Mike, Mike, how are you doing? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Um, I'm sorry. Where are you calling? From Brooke and Jewil in the Morning radio show. Okay,

did I win something? No, you didn't. I'm calling you because we recently got an email from somebody who went out on a date with you, okay, and she's been trying to get a second date, but you haven't been returning any of her phone calls or text messages. So she asked if I could get you on the phone and find out why. Seriously. Her name is Danika, and I'm gonna I'm gonna take a wild guess and say that you remember this date. Yes, you Um, so she

she emailed you to call me. Yeah, it's a segment we do on our show called the Second Date Update. That's a little awkward. Okay, what did you think of Dannika? First off? I mean, Dannika is a really sweet individual. Um, I mean, she has a really, really great heart. I would just say that she is a very highly emotional person. Yeah, we've talked to her about your date, and it was obvious from our conversation that she's very emotional. Okay, right,

so then you got a little bit of that. Um, I mean, I'm I'm a sensitive guy, and um, you know, I'm a pisces. I pick up on people's vibes, you know, immediately, So I get it. But I mean, it was I've never experienced anything like that day ever in my life. She told us about it, and now she was five minutes later and she was very upset about that, and she had been crying before. God, I thought, yeah, she ran in the restaurant and I had no idea what's

going on. She had mascarrett down her face and she was telling me about her dog named Monkey, and she literally like started crying hardcore at the table. And you think, like that first, did you think like the dog died or something. That's that's That's exactly what I thought. So I'm in shock a because of the way she's reacting to it. But then she was so honestly upset that it was making me upset, you know, and I felt so bad for her, and but I didn't know, I

didn't know what to do. So she's freaking balling, and I'm sitting here like I'm you know, she kind of got me cheery eyed, and you know, here were like a mess sitting in the restaurant, like everybody's staring at us. Oh, yeah, that would be awkward. That would definitely be awkward. Yeah, it's the most awkward experience I've ever had in my life. And I feel bad for I mean, she's got a great heart. Yeah, it sounds like she's a very sensitive person. I don't know what I would do if I was

in your shoes. I must sucker when girls cry. Why do you think I can't ever break up with girls? Because they always like to cry as soon as you say I don't want to be with you, and I'm like, all right, well say so. I don't know what I would do if I was in your shoes. Yeah, you know, like finally when we laughed. I mean I was pretty much in like a really weird mirrored afterwards. I mean, when you when somebody is like deep, deeply emotional for like an hour, like I was, I was kind of

a wreck. Quite I would have I would have felt emotionally spent after that too, I mean I said, yeah, that's that's the right word you use, totally spent all because she was five minutes late to your day, because she was late, and because yeah, because she couldn't get her dog to use the bathroom or something like. That's that's the craziest part, Mike. I have to tell you this right now. Danica is actually on the phone listening. Are you serious? Yeah? I am. I'm like, um, I'm

so um. I At first, I just want to say, um, listening to you the way that you just told our story was so sweet and you're so you're such a nice guy, and I don't know what, Why are you? Why are you crying now? Out Danneka, You're gonna get me stress up here? Why are you crying? Because I'm just trying to, like, you know, like I'm actually trying not to cry and that's like making me cry more because like I really care about you and I really thought that, like, you know, after all we talked about

I'm line. You know, I just knew like you're you're such a good person, and I and and then I came and then I ruined everything and I and I totally a terrible I just fault you stop stop stuff. So you're not a terrible person. You didn't ruin anything, okay, I'm I'm I'm sorry. That is you know that I

couldn't deal with the situation properly. I apologize, but you know, it's like we we talked and so many times and was like you know, building up towards the date, and then I show up and and I'm late, and that's so inconsiderate and I felt so stupid. And no, no, no, no no, no, no, it's okay. It's okay. You do late. I mean, it's it's that happens. It's not happen any reasons, you know. Oh no, no, no no, don't don't cry. Come on, I don't try trying. I swear, I just want to.

I just want to say that. And I know you've been avoiding my my calls and my text and I and I understand, I have it. I'm sorry. Okay, I'm sorry, I don't okay on now. I mean, look, you know I'm an emotional guy too. I mean, how am I supposed to How are we supposed to function as a as a normal couple If I'm so sensitive and tune to you and and and you're you know, you're connected to your heart, right, I mean, how are we supposed to balance that? We would be a walking mess? You know,

it's like a basket case. Is like emotions running around the street. Are you saying you're concerned, Mike, that her being so emotional and you being so emotional, all you guys are gonna do is sit around and cry together. I mean, you know, I'm not saying that I'm going to sit around and cry, but I mean, you know, I'm saying that I'm going to feed into her feelings and I'm gonna want to, you know, nurture that. But I just feel like that that's focused, that's kind of

the energy is too focused on one thing. You know. I don't want it to be a negative situation. I don't think it's negative though. I mean, I don't think it's negative, Like I think that you were like such a good like you showed me like what a good guy you were, like just you know, sit there and you you were so sweet to me and so comforting and like that's exactly the kind of guy. Hey, hey, hey, look you are sweet okay, and that's why I was there.

It's just how always with the function if we can't we can't even have a conversation without you're crying, you know, Mike, would you be interested in trying to have a conversation with no tears with Dannaka? I mean, if that's possible. I can see if it's possible and ask you if you'd like to go out with Danaka again. I'll pay for a second date for you. Guys, it's possibly. Do you think we can no tears this time? I promise, like I am, like, I like, I've all cried out.

You know, it can be happy and we don't have to and if and if I'm late or you're late, it's gonna be okay. Well I'm not gonna be late. Oh here's the thing. Here's a thing that you don't even know is that when I'm happy, like I'm so happy, don't display you have major mood swings. Don't do that. I go from super happy to tears in a matter of seconds. All right, well, Mike, so you will go out with Dannaka again. Let's give it another let's give

another tick. All right. That is awesome. It's gonna be amazing. I can't believe it's happening. Dannaka, you may have found you're right your dream man. All right, so awesome. Don't screw it up. Okay, no more tears, No, no more tears. I'm totally going to keep it together. Okay, congratulations Danneka, you got your second date. Oh my god, thank you so much, you guys. I'm so excited, Mike, thank you very much. I look forward to hearing back from you

guys after you go out. Okay, yeah, we'll keep you updated. Today's second day up. They brought you by Zanex