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Second Date Update PODCAST: Selfie Stick Rejection

Jun 09, 201718 min
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Some places in this world are SO SCARY that no sane man would dare to venture there Places like Area 51, the Bermuda triangle.. and a woman's purse. They ALL hold terrifying secrets, that none of us want to know about and if you don't believe us, just listen to today's Second Date Update. The woman on the phone is not getting a call back and SHE thinks it's because of something she pulled out of her purse Find out what that was below!

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Speaker 1

Looking jewels. Second date up date. The girl on the phone for a second date update today thinks she might not beginning a call back because she was too prepared for her date. She took along something in her purse that she figured could help them both out, and apparently she feels like the guy got a little shocked when he saw it. Oh, I feel I don't know what it is, but my mind is going to places that are not very clean. We'll find out what it is

in just a second. But she's on the phone right now, Samantha, what's up? Hey? Hey, God, she's outing really pissed almost right now. You guys just knew that sound like? Oh when she got her purse? Oh yeah, sure, Maybe you're gonna think twice now before you put things like that in your purse before a date, right, could put it in perspective? Could I tell you what happened? Yeah? I guess. First, tell us how you met the guy you want to

call today? Um? Yeah, So his name's Charlie and we were set up on a blind date by mutual friends. Oh and was it like blind blind where you hadn't even like stocked him on Facebook or Instagram or anything? Well, I didn't know his last name, so I couldn't do my due diligence. Okay, okay, but you did look at like every Charlie and like so many Charlie our mutual friends. I'm like, who's the Charlie? I was like, and how was the date with Charlie? What did you guys do?

We went to this bar that was kind of in between us because we both live a bit of a distance from each other, so we met in the middle at this bar. And were you nervous going into this or did you feel pretty cool? Yeah? It was my first blind date. I was like, oh, I don't know. Now you haven't able to snoop him? And I right, what if? I just what if I can't hide that I'm not attracted to hit like you know all these thoughts you know. So were you relieved when you got

to the restaurant or how'd you feel? He's very cute, okay, like the definition of my type. He's tall, he's got dark hair and green eyes and stick eyebrows that kind of come up to a point that I like on guys, I like, picture it Dracula what you just described. But no, but I'd give him a shot. You know, okay, okay, all right, So you were pleasantly surprised with Charlie tell us about your date. So we sat at the bar.

We're chatting or laughing. The conversation is flowing easy, and he said some I can't remember what it was because this is like on our second drink. He said something super funny and I was like, all right, choose to that. And then we clinked and I was like, whole hold on, I just to commemorate this moment, can I get a picture? Because what he said was just it was it was like a perfect moment on a date. Hold on, though you stopped in the middle of laughing at somebody's joke

to take a picture. No, the laughter had ended, and it was like, I think I did it at the right moment, you know. So that's when I lached my purse and I grab myself a stick and I and you know, after he said, yea, what did you do? Say? I said, I grabbed my selfie stick out of my purse. You brought a selfie stick with you on a first date. Well, it's always in my purse, yeah, but then you have to like attach your camera to it and then pull it out. I mean, this isn't come on, You're making

it sound like it's like hard labor. You just pop it in and hold it out. Okay, if I would be off put if I was on a date with you, it's so normal. No, yeah, it is. It is. I just feel like that's a lot for a first date to put a first date picture up on Instagram. Look, it's obviously you haven't dated in like a long, long line time. People would do it all the time. Or maybe this is like a generation gap where you guys, I'm not that old. Alright, listen, I will say, Mary,

but I'm not that old. So you ended up taking a picture with your selfie stick. You said in your email you thought that that might be one of the reasons he's not calling you back. That's the only thing that stands out on the date, because like after that, a group of his friends were also It's just happened to be at the same bar. They came over and they hello, and he introduced me, and they invited him to h they were going to some other place, and he was just like yeah, yeah, and so we closed

out and walked outside. It was gorgeous. It was absolutely gorgeous. The moon was huge, it was bright, it was creating this like beautiful blue backlight. I didn't take a picture. Okay, I add that that's what we were working up too, and I'm like, hell, but it was just really romantic and and just sort of magical outside and so it we went out to get some there and I pointed it out. I was like, wow, look at the moon. It's gorgeous, Like this is this is so romantic. It

was a perfect, perfect moment for a first kiss. And and I don't think he picked up on the moment. They didn't just stand there and go yeah, yeah it is sor that's exactly what he did. That is exactly what he did. So I was like, okay, well maybe he's a little solocially awkward. So I started like slowly yeah, and he's like what are you doing? Oh oh you guys shot down. So I got shy and I was like, oh, you have something in your shirt. I was just going

to get it off. I will smooth recovery. Yeah, well not exactly, because he was like really, because I thought you were trying to kiss me and that would be weird, he said that, he said, and that would be weird and that would be weird. And I was like, no, I'm trying to kiss you, like we're talking about you're trying to kiss me or something. You're dropping hands and he like, he's like, because I just met you, you know, And I was like, of course, yeah, I just met you. Yeah, yeah,

that's an awkward into the date. Then was that like the last little bit, So that's awkward, But like, the conversation was so free flowing. It was so easy and light and fun. And that's why I'm kind of disappointed he didn't call me afterward. Yeah, I could see that. I mean selfie stick aside, it sounds like a great evening. Yeah, Like, how can a selfie stick, something so simple be a deal breaker? I wouldn't think that would ruin things for you,

but maybe the awkward kiss moment could have. Well, he doesn't know that I was going in for a kiss. I played it off pretty well. Yeah, all right, well we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and get your second day update. Okay, okay, all right, hang on rooking Jubil. In the morning, Samantha is on the phone and she wants to call a guy named Charlie. They were set up by friends. They went out to

a bar, had a fun time. She thinks that he might have thought the selfie sticks she brought along was awkward to take pictures with. And then at the end of the day there was another awkward moment when they walked outside and saw the moon, and she looked up at it and was thinking, I know that he's just gonna lean over right now and we're gonna make eye contacting. Oh my god, we're going to share a beautiful kiss. And then in his head it was just that is

a nice moon up there. That show does look good. It'd be really cool if you were kiss someone in front of that moon. But too bad. Oh, I don't got nobody to kiss. So it was definitely mixed signals. He wasn't getting the right signals from her. She tried to lean over for a kiss and he was like, whoa, what are you doing? And she had to play it off like she was getting something off of his shirt. So they parted ways and she hasn't heard from him since.

Bouts getting on the phone and find out why. I need you to not bring up that I tried to kiss him. Please, Oh you don't want that information. Out there. No, dude, you guys are killing it. I got away with it, why are you? Yeah? I mean you said that you played it off fine, and you said that he had no idea. So I won't bring that up. I won't. I won't say, hey, did you notice that she was trying to kiss you when you shut her down accidentally? Okay, I'll do It's fun of it right now. Okay, here

we go. Hello, all right, can I speak to Charlie please? This is see Hey Charlie, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. What. I'm sorry? What's brook and Jewil in the Morning. What can I do for you? It's a it's a radio show, a morning radio show, a morning radio show. And what does it have to do with me? Well, I'm calling you today because we recently got an email about you from

one of our listeners. An email from a listener about me. Yes, why because they recently went out on a date with you and they thought you were awesome, but now you're not calling them back. Okay, So I know it's weird. Yeah, Well explain it to you, Charlie. I'll explain it to you. We do a segment on our show called the Second

Date Update. That's where if you go out on a day with somebody and then end up not calling them back after they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and find out what happened. So you went out with a girl named Samantha the other day. Isn't not returning the call enough? Well apparently, I mean it's enough to let them know you're not interested, but they want to know why. Wow. Yeah, I don't really know if I want to talk about it. I

don't know if it would be fair to Samantha. I don't know if you're thinking about it being fair to her. She is the one who wanted us to do this phone call, and she also said that she's willing to hear whatever the reason is. I mean, she told us that she thought you guys got along great and you had good chemistry. Oh good chemistry, said that as well. Well, Okay, listen, she didn't say that specifically. That's how I interpreted what she said about the day, like that you laughed. It

was easy there, It was easy to laugh. Yeah, whoa wait? Did you think that liked? Just insult? Was that an insult? No? Listen, all right, look, I am oh, this is difficult. I'm not a jerk. I enjoyed meeting Shamantha. It's just obvious to me that she has some drama going on in her life, and I don't want to be involved in it.

Why is it obvious? I don't know what she told you. Well, she said that you guys got set up through friends, went to a bar, took a picture there, and then hung out for a little while, and that was about it. Took a picture there, Okay, yeah, it was more than a picture it was like a production shoot. She breaks out a selfie stick, has to take a number of different pictures until she finds the right one, then fans more time putting effects and filters on it and whatnot.

I was willing to be like, all right, no, you know whatever, no big dealt. But then I get home and on Instagram she's got somebody else tagged, and the quote is what freaked me out. She's like, I want to get specifically home much. She says, sorry, Jake, looks like I've moved on. No, you were part of a revenge picture. I guess. So there's I don't know what is going on, but there's some kind of drama there, and don't I don't want to be involved in it.

She didn't not tell us that. She made it sound so innocent, like she was just capturing the moment and it was no big deal. I don't want to be involved in any of her drama. I've had that stuff in the past, and I'm just I am not ready to deal with it. I don't want it. Okay, Well, you're probably gonna really like the fact that she's on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. I'm not dramatic at all. So Samantha, what are you

talking about? She's on the phone. Yes, she's listening right now, Samantha. Yeah, Hi, Oh my god. So first, Chilie, let me just say that there is absolutely no drama at all to be worried about. And just to explain that post, I recently got out of a relationship and my ex had done that to me a few weeks ago, and um, drama free, right, and and and and so I did it back. But with the point is is we both shot our shots off the mask at each other and it's over over

over all, right. If I could I listen to Cemita, I really enjoyed your company, and as I said before I knew you were there, absolutely beautiful girl. But I felt like I had been cast in this role of your boyfriend. You were shooting like you were just looking for somebody to stand next year in the instant brand shot. No, I haven't know. I'm I'm sorry it came off that way and I made you feel that way or any of that. I could not be more sorry. But the truth is is I really do like you, like quite

a lot, and that isn't normally me. Was emotional and sort of just overly excited when I had finally met you and you were you So I'm hoping that this doesn't kill things. Oh wow, Well that's really nice of you to say, Sam, But I was just kind of like, what the hell is good one on? Here? I got it? Yeah? No, but like really, Sam, like what were you thinking when you posted it? Were you thinking about how you liked him? Or were you just thinking about getting back at your eye?

Honestly I was. I was like two drinks in rounding the third and having fun. And I don't know what made me think this is a good time to do this or that I should at all? Right, Because I mean, I think what you said is really nice, but it is a red flag if you're on a date with somebody and your two drinks in and the first thought is your ex, right right? Well, no, okay, just in my defense, the first thought wasn't my ex. The first thought was what he said was super funny, and I

want to remember this moment. And I took the picture. But then when I started running it to the filters and saw how good it turned out, thought revenge. Yeah, I mean I get that. I mean, I've been there. I understand, but you gotta understand it comes off as a little crazy, right, Charlie totally crazy, And it just seems like she's got this thing where she's got to let everybody know, including Jake, that she's going out with somebody else. I don't need this man, I don't need

I don't need Jake. All of a sudden contract that who knows. I don't know how things ended, but all of a sudden I go home. Here I am, and her Instagram with a quote that says, sorry, Jake, looked like I've moved on. Well, I will say, Charlie, you should be flattered, though, because no girl would post that if you were ugly, you're obviously in operade from Jake, because that is the only reason she would text and tag Jake. And that the picture really did come out

really great in spite of it all. And I know it was stupid to me to write that caption, and I really hope that I'm not entirely judged by one stupid, buzz bad caption. Let's find out, Charlie. Would you like to go out with Samantha on another date? We will pay for it. Will you go out with her again? Can it be social media free? Oh? Of course? Yeah, of course, Yeah, I believe. I don't know. Yeah, yeah, I'm not so sure. I trust you. Well, give me,

give me a chance to build back the trust. And I think you can actually trust her because if she was going to call us and put all this on the air and if her ex heard, she looks pretty pathetic right now. So she's just risking a lot for this day. I'm thank you. Do you think, Charlie? You know what? I think it's worth one more date. Let's let's do it. Yay. So that's sweet? All right, Well, congratulations you two, and hey, Samantha on this date, if you actually do try to lean in for a kiss.

It might actually happen. You were to say anything, say what I just thought maybe you guys could share a kiss. Broken jewel in the morning text in it's seven to eight, five nine two and says any that anybody that posts a I'm so over you picture on Instagram or any social media is proof that they're not over anything. It's a jewel in the morning. If you missed a day. A second day update, Samantha wanted to call a dude

named Charlie. They went on on a date. She had a great time, was wondering why he wasn't calling back. Well on that date, they took a picture and later on he went home and saw it on Instagram. He was tagged in it, but so was her ex boyfriend, saying look at me, I'm moving on. And he didn't want to go out with her again because he's like, Okay, that's weird. I don't want to get wrapped up in all this drama. But they worked it out. You know, yeah,

he's probably still worried a little bit. And like I said, he's hotter than the boyfriend, so he's got that going for him. True. You know, you never got to post a picture with somebody uglier and say hey, I moved on. No, definitely not. At the end of it, they did agree to go out again, and she promised that she won't do that anymore, and she's over her boyfriend, so we'll

see where they wind up. Remember, if you want to do a second date update I have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.

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