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Second Date Update PODCAST: Second Date Update: My Date Did CPR (3/26/2018)

Mar 26, 201819 min
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This man proves to be a hero, but his date isn't so impressed with his heroics.

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Need Leasic trust the experienced team at the Leasic Center at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do? Lasik at Evergreen dot com rooking jewels, second date of day. You know you must have really screwed up on a date if you actually save somebody's life and you still don't get a call back. What Yeah, yeah, I don't know what you could have done, Patrick, but

that's what happened on Patrick's date. He said he actually helped save somebody's life, but he's still not getting a call back. Oh my god, what's up? Man? How are you hey? How's it going? Dude? This is good. It's like an insane date. You know what. It was honestly one of the craziest experiences I've ever had. Why you said you saved somebody's life. Unless that happens to you all the time, I would have to think it's a crazy experience. No, No, I don't do that all the time.

I know that's I figured that you didn't. But thank you for clarifying. Before we talk about what happened, let's talk about the girl you went out with a little bit. What's her name, Jennifer Jennifer. All right, and where did you meet Jennifer? We met on an app Actually, okay, that's pretty common. Was there anything that stood out to

you about her? I mean, she'd actually done a couple of triathlons and I used to do some, and we just kind of got going back and forth about our training routine and we just kind of hit it off and we had some common ground. Okay, that's always nice. It gives you something to talk about at least to get things rolling. Yeah. Yeah, I mean she's actually really accomplished. So I just, you know, I kind of wanted to impress her, but wanted to not act like I was

impressing her kind of thing, you know. Okay, so I want to get to the part where you save somebody's life, because I'm curious about that. But did you have a good time with her? What did you guys do? She was awesome. I made restaurant reservations at this super fancy place. Oh, so you want to do impress her if you're making visions at places like that, I did, you know, And I had just gotten a promotion at work, so I was actually kind of spoiling myself. I just had a

good feeling about this girl. So yeah, I popped down for this okay, and it was going really well. Um. I had actually done some training beforehand that day, so I had forgotten to eat in between my last training and meeting with her because I was kind of running over there and uh yeah, so by the time we got to the restaurant, I was super hungry. Yeah yeah, it was doing a lot of the talking for me. Unfortunately. Were you angry? Were you? Were you like hungry and

upset with her the whole time until you ate? You know what I get, I get a little more zend out, Like before the hungry happens. I was getting to the angry okay, But you know when I get food in front of me, sometimes that need just kind of takes over. Would you do to your food? Well, I you know, I have a very personal relationship with it. We'll say what is right. Maybe that's the reason you're not getting

to call back. I mean, if you're doing what I think it sounds to me like you did with your meal, I wouldn't call you back. It sounds like you shouldn't be doing that in public spaces. Whatever it is you need only in private. I just need to chew my food a certain amount of times before I swallow it. I was I was taught at a very young age that you have to chew your food or you won't be savoring it. You count while you're chewing. It's sort of a rhythmic thing. Interesting. It's more of like a

like a one two three four one two three four? Okay, okay, where are you able? Are you able to multitask? And I don't know, have conversation while your rhythm chewing is going on. Absolutely, I've actually, um, we talked about the triathlons, I've I've done it on the bike a few times. Oh, chewing, I still don't know talking to There's a little gummies that they give you for energy as you're going down the like final stretch to run out of energy, and

you have to like eat these chewy gummy things. And it's actually a perfect way to rhythmically pump with the bike as you're chewing your food. So, okay, rhythmic pump was not where I thought this conversation would go. Yeah, what about the part where you saved somebody's life? How did that happen? Right? So we pay the check, we leave the restaurant and we see this commotion gathering about half a block away from the restaurant on the sidewalk, and we just kind of didn't think of anything of

it at first, but but this commotion started growing. Somebody was yelling help, so we walked over to see what was going on, and there was a man on the ground that had collapsed. Oh yeah, it was not breathing. Coincidentally, at my work, we had I just got a promotion, so I had new responsibilities and they trained me in CPR. So that's crazy. I told you, this was one of the most insane experiences I've ever had. And so did you actually do CPR or did you screech and run away?

Don't forget everything you learned. I did everything that I learned the previous day. That's great. And it took a couple of times. I had to go through it. I hate to say it, but I had to give this guy mouth to mouth time. Yeah. I think it's all right if you're saving somebody, I hope, I hope. So I mean, if you if you can't kiss a dude when you're saving his life, when can you, I know, I don't think, Oh my god, are you guys that scared of mail on male touch that you consider it kissing?

Did it work? I was able to revive him and when he opened his eyes. I mean, I just I can't remember a more important thing that I have done in my life that is really beautiful, that really is I mean timing. I mean, it's just one of those once in a lifetime things that I don't know we'll ever repeat itself. So okay, and what's your date? Think we had had a really great conversation in a really great time, but this was a moment where we really

saw each other. That's deep. Yeah, sounds like it was more of your moment than hers, though, because she's not calling you back. Either that or it was her moment and she freaked her out. I wish I knew. We'll play a song, come back and get your second date update and see if we can figure out why she isn't calling you back. Okay, sounds good? All right, hang

onuoking Cuba in the morning. Update around in the middle of a second date update, and if you're just joining us, Patrick is on the phone and he wants to call Jennifer. They went out for dinner, but he ended up saving somebody's life after the date. When they were leaving, apparently a man had passed out outside the restaurant, and Patrick performed CPR on the dude and then revived him. Yeah, and Patrick this, you know, I was thinking about it.

And if we find out that, like you set this whole thing up to look like a hero on your first date, I gotta tell you, I would be so proud of you. I'm so proud. I don't know about everybody else, but I will be so proud of you if you set that up. Yeah. I don't think I can give myself that much credit. Yeah, really, Well, I mean, have you talked to her at all since your date? No, I've tried to reach out to her several times, and

I mean not too many, you know. I mean, it is pretty crazy that she hasn't called you back, even if she didn't like you that much. I mean, you, guys, that's a pretty intense thing to share. I thought it was a pretty special moment myself. Okay, Okay, that's probably not the right way to describe a man almost dying, but whatever, when he came back, that was the special moment. Okay, Well, I'm gonna down her phone number right now and see if we can figure it out. Here we go. Hello,

Hi is this Jennifer. This is Jennifer. How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Hi. How are you? I'm okay? Okay, cool, We'll have a good day. No, I'm just confused. Sorry, what do you confuse about? Like? Why are you guys calling? Oh? Okay, I can help you with that, Okay, if you want, please, I'm calling you today because one of our listeners sent us an email about you, about me, m I got even more confusing just now, didn't it? Yeah? It did well.

We do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and end up not calling them after, they can email us and we'll get you on the phone and try to find out what happened. So Patrick emailed us and asked us to call you. Okay, and he told us about your date, even the part where you said he saved a dude's life. And he also told us that he's trying to reach out to you a few times but he's heard nothing. Yeah, this is crazy. Okay, Yeah,

your date sounded crazy. It was crazy to say the least. Um, yeah, the CPR part was was insane. Okay, I guess the question we all had is, how do you go out on a date with somebody and they actually end up saving someone's life and then you don't call them back? Was he that bad? Yeah? Wow, it makes his sound terrible.

I don't know. I just I guess, like I think Patrick, you know, nice and obviously like him saving that life was like really, I don't know what to say, like heroic and great, but like I just I just didn't feel like it was because it's a match. I don't know, just no chemistry or what I mean. There was chemistry, but like honestly, okay, I don't know. I'm just gonna

be honest. I guess since we're doing this. Um, like I was just driving home, like he ordered, he got me an uber and like, you know, at first, I thought it was like really great that he gave CPR to the homeless person, and like, I mean, he saved the life, so looked amazing. But I just like realized that he like gave CPR to a homeless person, and you think that they should all die whatever you like the way you just said that made you sound totally

and completely evil, heartless. I'm not sure which Yeah, Oh my god, Bill, That's not what I meant. He revived a homeless person and they're a scourge on our city and I don't know why he would do that. No, Okay, what I meant was that, like, I just feel like a lot of homeless people probably have like some diseases and what. Yeah, And I just kind of felt like if he, you know, basically kissed a homeless person, that like he probably got something. And I just like, I

don't know, are you freaking kidding me? So you feel like he's dirty? Now? What is your problem? I mean, I don't. I don't know what to say. Like I'm just being honest. I just feel like you probably have something and I didn't want to I don't want to get it. Okay, Okay, okay, you sound like one the least medical person ever. Okay. And two how that is? I mean there's are so many like maybes what ifs? I know, but it's it's been enough, I guess for me. I don't know what do you think he has? I

have no idea. I would start with TV. I would start with TV and then I would work back from there. At least thetis like a B or C. I don't know, they might even have a new one who knows. Hold up, if if he hadn't been there, and you walked out and you saw a man unresponsive on the street, and you judged him as homeless, even though you'd actually probably don't even know that he's technically home or not, you

wouldn't save them for fear of getting a disease. I I in that situation, I don't think that I would like be able to just jump right in and like save a light. But so I just think in general like I would be too. I don't I wouldn't know how to do that, and like I so I just think that at that point, Okay, the bottom line is the reason that you didn't call him back is you

think he might have contracted something from a homeless man. Wow. Yeah, I don't know how many times I've heard that after a day, There's been a lot of reasons that I haven't gotten a call back, Yeason, Jennifer, I do need to let you know that Patrick is on the other line listening to this conversation wants to talk to you, though, Um, okay, Patrick, Yeah, Hey,

I'm I don't think I know what to say. Yeah, sorry, I'm just you know what I mean, I gotta just say, I'm I'm in I'm in a I'm just I'm in shock. I can't believe that that you that you would think that are you liking nice shock as I'm in like

furious shock over here? I don't know, I mean, I just I'm actually just kind of confused because you know, from your profile and from the conversations we had before and during our date, I mean, you seem like a really educated young lady, and I wow, I'm just confused. I'm just confused that you would think that I could contracted the leaves from a brief encounter with a man's mouth. I mean, yeah, he splaying like that. Who knows right?

I had to give him mouth to mouth. He was not responding to the initial CPR that I was giving him, so I had to do what I did. I mean, I totally get it, and I think that again, it was like very heroic and amazing. You should have done it. I just think that I can. I am allowed to have my own feelings about it. Afterwards, that guy looked like he had a disease, but you can't. You but what made him look like he had a disease? Give us some details. I'm just like his hair was just

like so like tangled tangled hair disease. So no, I mean, he pretty much just looked like a hipster to me, Jennifer, yeahs and hipster like you're kissing dude you meet on apps you think that they don't have disease. They have is just as much chance for disease as a homeless guy on the street. I mean, now, I don't know. I just like I don't want to debate about this for forever. Like I just this is how I feel, and I just don't really want to deal with that.

Like I'm super focused right now and I'm like healthy training, so I just don't want to deal with like any of that stuff. I am still so blown away by your reaction to this. But if it makes you feel better, I can't believe I'm saying this. I will, I will go and I will get tested. Yeah, what are you gonna have to test you for? How? How do you even want to go out with her again? Patrick? I

just want to prove it to her. I just want to prove it to her that me saving this man's life in no way put in harm's way or possibly gave me a disease. I just want to disprove that theory, Okay, Honestly, like I don't know. I think it's just still too soon and like something still come out. Some of that stuff can take months, you know, Jennifer, before it actually pops up on a test, because the problem is it's her feeling. It's not actual science or actual facts. Now

that's just an opinion. I don't get that, Jennifer. Do you think every er doctor an ear nurse in this country has a disease because of people that they've helped? No, I just think that maybe Patrick dies. Well, Jennifer, would you like to go out on a second day with Patrick? We'll pay for it. We'll even pay for his health screening. I honestly, I'm sorry. Like Patrick, you seems super nice and like I was, like, I can tell you're making a lot of effort, even just like with the phone call.

But like I just don't think I can dumb. I guess I can't really argue with that. You know, rejection is God's protection, so okay, really I thought it was Trojan, I'm well, I guess I should have used protection when I was saving. Yes, from now on for you, PORM CPR, always make sure you have some protection on you, Okay. Yeah.

In the Morning five nine two says I think you guys just spoke with the worst human on the planet, which is really saying something because we've talked to a lot of terrible human beings on the show Broken Jewel in the Morning. I'm talking about today is second date update. If you missed it, Patrick wanted to call this girl named Jennifer. They went out. He actually saved a dude's life on their date. He performed CPR on what we

found out was a homeless man. Well, she didn't want to go out with him because she's worried about potential diseases that could have been transmitted to him from doing CPR on a homeless dude. I mean, I think a lot of people are arguing, like, well, you don't need to do mouth to mouth anymore, you know, it's actually compression, Like that's not the point. He used what tools he was taught to save a man's life, and then she didn't want to go out with him because of that.

She said that she would have chosen to do nothing if she saw the guy pass out on the street. I feel like, no matter how he did CPR or revived the dude, she's just been like, oh, you touched a homeless Yes, she was awful and so sad, so she didn't want to go out with him again. And he actually offered to get tested in order to go out with her again, Like, I'll get tested just to prove to you that I don't have any disease is from the homeless dude. He still was like willing to

go out with her again. Yeah, my god, I know. So who's more wrong in this situation? I can't figure it must be incredibly hot, yea. And everybody texting in at seven eight five nine two is talking about what a horrible person she is for not wanting to date him again after he helped save a homeless man's life, thinking that he must have some sort of disease. Now, I keep looking through our text where there's not one person that has also say that we still don't know

that this man was homeless. She just thinks he's homeless because he had greasy hair. That was her easy, not that it would matter either way. He's a human being, he's a person. But she's so judgmental, which means if you have a bad hairty around this chick and pass out, then yeah, I'm gonna tell you a daily basis if those are her like bars for being homeless. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, all you have to do is email the show and we will

call the person who didn't call you back. Even if they wish homeless people would just die because they're all kind of dirty, you can just email us and we'll call the person who we can't call you back.

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