Second Date Update PODCAST: Scout's Dishonor

really cool to me. Okay, it's probably super weird. Yeah, it's they went to a cemetery. For some people, they might feel like it's a cemetery. They went to an airport. They weren't flying anywhere, but they went to the airport for their dates. We get into the good restaurants if you don't have a ticket. We'll get in to what specifically they did at the airport in just a second, But first I want to find out more about the dude she went out with. Her name's Hillary, Hillary, what's up? Hi?

Not too bad? This sounds so weird. Was it airport date? Your idea or his idea? I kind of came out between the both of us. Organically, we'll get to the date in just a second because it's weird. But anyway, the dude that you want to call to day, what's his name? His name is Rob? Yeah, it sounded Rob. Okay, I don't know. My name is Jewel. I can't judge somebody of their name's wob, so I thought that's what his name was. How'd you meet Rob? I met Rob

online on all my dating sites. Okay, And what struck you about him? Well, we had been talking for gosh about like four weeks online and through that, like, he has a really sarcastic sense of humor, and so do I. So we were just able to kind of have a good time going back and force and chatted for like four weeks is a long time before you actually go out. Yeah, you know, you want to kind of take your time getting to know somebody before you kind of meet in person.

Plus I'm a single mom, so that's something that I

just I'm very cautious about before you meet somebody person. Well, and you have like one day available in the next six months to actually probably hang out, right right, Okay, So you guys finally connected and now I want to hear about your date, So you know, kind of we're going back and forth, and we were a little bit bored with just the typical coffee date or dinner date because it's kind of an interview style, and we had already got to know a lot about each other beforehand,

so we thought it would be cool just to meet us airport and people watch and make up stories about them and their life and where they were going and where they were coming from. So, okay, I love it. So you went to the airport to judge people a little bit? Yeah, okay, a look at it. I'm in airports all time. I love the airport for that specific reason because there's so many different stories in there and you don't know where people are going, and I like to make up things in my head too. I'd be

fun to do it with somebody else, though. Yeah. And we went specifically to the arrivals gate. So there was like a girl there there was holding up a sign chancing her boyfriend and with a story we made was that she hadn't seen her boyfriend in like six months, so she was all dressed up and had this sign. He had like a home cooked dinner. Oh that's so dude. Yeah, we were there because we wanted to see like the people that were happy to see people coming, people that

were frustrated where were they were going? Yeah, pissed off people walking out of the airport. So wait, how was your time with him though? Did you get to know him better through this process? I did a little bit, you know, obviously seeing so many in person and like enjoying their mannerisms as you don't have that opportunity over the phone. So that was cool. He looked like his pictures.

But yeah, it was fun. It was fun to see like how I felt or being around him first, and I started to get a little giddy and like girl and like like hitting him in the arm. So I was like, why am I hitting this guy? I feel like going, God, I'm in They're great all over again. Yeah. No, we had a really great time, but there was kind of like an awkward thing that he said. But what

did he say? Well, there is this guy who it was pretty clear he was a bodybuilder, Like this huge hunk of a man that came through and rob lean to me and he was like, oh, I bet that guy's you know, coming into town to cheat on his wife and he's looking for his mistress right now. And it threw me off because I had shared with him that one of my exes is a bodybuilder who had cheated on me. Oh so before he made that comparison, yeah,

like in passing. I mean we hadn't gone through like the details of the depths of our past relationships, but I had said it in passing. I feel like that's kind of rude. I don't know if he was like making that his passing was kind of like a remember or if he just completely spaced and just said it like on his own. What did he say? What was his response? Was he embarrassed? He was embarrassed? I mean we had a great rest of the time. We kind

of it was a little awkward moment. Like so in my head, I'm thinking, maybe he's comparing himself to that guy we saw at the airport because they looked totally different. Yeah, but we hate that guy he cheated on you, Right, we hate him, don't. We don't like him at all. But if he had a really great body Okay, I see, I know if I was robbed the dude you were on a date with and I made a comparison like that, I would have been sitting there awkwardly because I would

have felt bad. I'd be like, damn, I didn't mean to bring that up. Yeah, it definitely was a little awkward, but I felt like we got background track, Like later on we left the airport, we got some drinks. After drinks, we shared some smooching. It's also so positive. Yeah, and so afterwards we've had a phone call and we've texted a little bit, and I feel like he's kind of pulling away, which is fine because we're not, you know,

in this committed relationship. But if you like somebody and you kind of want to spend more time with them, I would think that you would put a little bit more aftward and see them more than just once in person. So you think he's blowing you off? Yes, I think he is blowing me off. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back and call him to get your second date update. All right, Okay, okay, hang on rooking Juble in the morning. Second updates. Hello, ladies and gentlemen speaking, we're about to

embark on a second third Okay. I just want to let you know things could get a little bumpy and we might experienced some turbulence, so we encourage you to keep your seatbelt on through the whole flight, even if the Farne is illuminated. Also never flown a plane before, so we're probably gonna crash. And Dog, what did you just say? Probably gonna crash? And because I've never thought, Dan, why did I introduce the second part of today's second

and update like that? Well, it's because Hillary is on the phone and she went on a date with a dude named Rob and their first date was to the airport. They actually met up online, went to the airport to sit there while people were arriving, and then they had fun talking about people and making up stories of why

they were coming into town. And she said it was great, except there was an awkward moment when some big, buff bodybuilder dude walked off and Rob, her date, was like, I bet you he's getting into town to see his mistress to cheat on his wife. And it seems like Rob may have forgotten that Hillary actually had something like that happened to her. And then it was all awkward after he brought that up for a little bit, and

Hillary's not sure if he was just feeling bad or what. Anyway, they text him back and forth a little bit, and now he's not really getting back to her. So we're about to call him and find out why. I mean, you said you're a single mom. He knew that going into the date, right. Oh yeah, that's not anything that I hit that was on my profile. We talked about it. Something else that could have shocked him. Yeah, I don't know.

I mean, it's hard to find good guys out there and connect with So it's totally blow my mind because there was a spark. I just don't I don't know what's going on. Right. Well, see, we get him on the phone and maybe get that spark to grow into a big, huge flame again. So weird when you say things like oxygen helps fire. So I'm gonna blow on his spark a little bit as anything. Right, Yeah, I'm dyaling this phone right now. Hillary, Thank you. Hello. Hi

is this Rob? Yeah? This is Rob who says this is Jewel from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm not interested. You're trying to tell me something or No, I promise you I'm not trying to sell you anything. I'm calling from a radio show. Why are you calling me? Because we do a segment on our show it's called the second Date Update, And you went out with a woman named Hillary recently. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

what a positive response, Rob. Hillary emailed us and told us about your date, and we said that we would try to figure out what happened. Do you have a minute to talk about that? I guess so. Okay, Well, she said you've texted a little bit and you've talked a little bit on the phone. Are you blowing her off? I mean, I, um, yeah, I guess so I say this, but yes I am. It sounds like I mean, from her description, you guys had a lovely time and a

great connection we did. I mean, Hillary's uh, she's a really cool lady and I like spending time with her that day. I just don't really see a future with us though. Can you tell us why she really wants to know? I mean, I don't want to hurt her feelings. You know, this isn't probably the best place to you know, get into that. Yeah, but it's the place she chose to do it. Before anybody does a second day update, we always tell them they might hear something they don't

want to hear. Yeah, and she sounds like a really strong, confident woman. I mean, even if you do hurt her feelings, I don't think you're going to destroy her or anything. Yeah, she no, she is, You're right, Um, Okay, every time we've been in contact, you know, it hasn't been so good. Like every time. What does that mean? So we met on our date, she brought a box of Girl Scout cookies because she has a daughter who is selling them. And so I'm like, yeah, okay, and I bought a box.

I don't okay, but like every time we've talked, like in the phone call and in all the text, like she brings up the cookies every time. Do you want another box of cookies? You know? Would you like more cookies? You know? It's like enough of the cookies. You know, she's just trying to sell you Girl Scout cookies. No, stop, every time we've talked. So wait, you you already bought a box and then she wants you to buy more. Yeah. I mean I've never dated anyone with a kid before.

But I tell you what, they're in the Girl Scout. I mean, so I love kids. It's not been problem. They're in the Girl Scouts. I'm not interested. Okay, wait, Rob, maybe she's just using it to I don't know, have something in common with you, because you obviously enjoyed the Girl Scout cookies like a way to like jump start conversation. Listen, we've talked on the phone once, and we've texted numerous times, and every single time she's bringing up these damn thick

mints or whatever. The I want to do what they are, thin mints, but I wish they had thick mints too, Yeah they should. So she's just like a crazy Girl Scout mom. Oh well, hey, you know you've called her that. I would never call her that. Okay, you said that, not me. I'm just saying I don't want any more cookies. Okay, well, Rob, we can give her that information because she's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. No,

that's not true. Hey Rob, Hilary, Hey, hey Hilary. Well, I didn't know the Girl Scout cookies were such a prominent part of our conversations. I'm sorry for that. But who doesn't love Girl Scout cookies? So that's by weird. I do like any kind of cookies, but I don't want boxes and boxes and boxes of them. Okay, okay, wait, wait, wait, first, hold on a second. It's only seasonal that these things are ever sold. So it's not like this is something that you would be buying over and over and over

and over again. So most people like to buy a lot of boxes and put them in the freezer because they love them so much, they like want to like hoard them throughout the year. We have people that are asking us, like, over and over again, you have more Girl Scout cookies, and so I kept giving you the opportunity if you wanted to buy more. We had more before we sold out. I was very aware that you

had cookies. You know, are you go to your text you were like, my daughter's going for the record and sales and be great if you bought a whole bunch O. Well, I mean they as Girl Scouts. It's a really great thing because it promotes leadership or promotes community and self work. So that's not thing that we I mean, I want to support that. But yeah, there's prizes if you're the top seller and you're true. And I just didn't know that you hated the Girl Scouts. I don't hate the

Girl Scouts. You said that. I never said that. But you bought one box. I mean, who buys one box the Girl Scouts? Somebody who only wants one box. That's ridiculous logic. I think you have to buy ten at least every time, at least got me wanting to buy cookies right now. You are a good saleswoman, Hillary. I literally have like three more boxes last if you want them, like, let me know and I can get it. Let's do that later. It let's focused on trying to get another

date with Rob. Hillary Row. I feel like you haven't given the cookies a fair shot. Hillary, and Hillary, are you still interested in going out with Rob again? You know, I'm told because I feel like, if it really was the cookies, why didn't he say something about that ahead of time? Because literally now I feel like an idiot that have been going on and on about these cookies.

But you guys, realize, if you would have met outside of Girl Scout Cookie season, none of this would have been an issue, and you would be on a second date already, maybe a third or a fourth by this time, exactly. Thank you. Yeah, So you know, Girl Scouts season comes around again and then I'm I'm hanging out with you know,

a car sales and trying to make quote. Wait, but then we would have been together for a whole year and you would have fallen in love with me and fallen in love with the Girl Scouts and understood what this is all about. You would have been peddaling cookies too, is what she's saying. You may one year and you're gonna be hawking those things like nobody's business. I don't know. Maybe you guys are right. Maybe I'm missing something. I have no idea. Okay, well, Rob, do you want to

try to find out? Would you like to go on a second date with Hillary? We'll pay for it, geez, you know, Hillary, we we gotta. I'm really great in our date. And how about when Girl Scout Cookie season ends, we'll get together. Rob. If you can't take me during Girl Scout Cookie selling season, I don't think we are a fit. You can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best. I'm kind of with you on that one, Hillary, exactly. Wait a second, so you call it a radio stations to call me? You

should see if we'll go out again. And I agreed, even with the damn Girl Scout cookies, and you said no because Girl Scouts for a light like you can't just cut that off during a season. And the fact that it was this big of a deal to you, Like, I can't move forward with that. Oh what am I supposed to tell my daughter about you? That you don't support her hopes and dreams? Wow, I bought a box of cookies. I bought abouts of cookie so I did

bought one box. Rob nobody has that. Yeah, I don't know exactly what has happened, but yeah, we won't go out. That's fine. I don't care. Okay, Well, Hillary, I'm sorry you didn't get a second date, but at least you know why now. Yeah, I mean that's that's fine. Whatever. But from what we were talking about earlier, I do still have those three boxes. If anybody just email us, we'll see if we can get those three boxes a broken juicil in the morning, let me