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Second Date Update PODCAST: Round One TKO

Sep 08, 201415 min
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One of our listeners, Billy, KNOWS that he probably screwed up on his date when he decided to fight another guy outside the bar... BUT he did it for a good reason! Can he make his date REALIZE that he's not a horrible guy??? We'll try and help him out in today's Second Date Update!
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Brooking jewels. Second, today's second date update is actually a lot like a Craigslist misconnection, really, because this dude we're about to talk to met a girl at a bar, got her number, and then she was gone forever. Oh my good. Now he wants to call her and see what happened. I bet at the beginning of a beautiful love story. Actually, there's a lot of details that happened in between that we should probably talk about, but I'm gonna let him tell you exactly what happened on their date.

Billy is on the phone with us right now. Billy, what's up, dude? How are you? I'm good? How you guys good? So why don't you tell everybody what happened on your date? All right? So two weeks ago, Um, there's this girl, Christie. I met at this bar. I was with a bunch of my friends. She was with a bunch of her friends, And I mean I certainly noticed her right away. And she has a great smash and a really nice rack. Yeah you notice first on a girl usually that's usually the only way on its racked,

then smile. But whatever, So you liked her a lot, and you guys hung out at the bar your email says that you met her there and then you continued to hang out with her throughout the evening. What did you like about her so much that you want to do a second eate update. I just pick up lines that you know, it's kind of hit or miss, but when it works, usually a good sign that the girl

the good send the humor. I go to her um and then they one ever told you you look just like Megan Fox and Christie looks nothing like Megan Fox and her and if she gets it, then it's great. And I so that line usually works either way. Like if they don't look like it, they're like funny, Yeah, they're like that's funny. But if they do think they look like it, they're like, oh that's sweet. People tell me that all the time, Yeah, really look like Magan Fox.

Then they actually put off you know, Okay, but that's probably above my pay grade anyway. So you're so your line worked on her. Yeah, it totally worked on her. And you guys hung out all night talking and I assumed drinking, like, how many hours are we talking? We worked there for what an hour? And then we couldn't really hear each other, So I said, let's go to

another bar. She's absolutely So we went to the other bar just kind of around the street, and you guys broke off from your friends at that point and it was just you two. Yeah. Absolutely, yeah. Everyone I mean could see that there's in chemistry there. So yeah, we went and I went to get her a drink and I come back with the beers, right, and I'm seeing this guy kind of like really close talking and kind of like touch her leg and stuff, and I don't think I don't think she wanted any part of that.

So I'd go up to him and I said, you know, what are you doing? Really? You couldn't have come in easier than that, like, hey, what's your name? I mean, this isn't your girlfriend? I know. Actually I said I think it was, and I said, I'm a board friend. You actually said all right, well, hey, you know what I did. But I've done that before to help somebody out,

like I've been I've walked up to her. I've been like, hey, you can tell if a girlfriend doesn't want to talk to you, guy like hey, that's my girlfriend, and then the guy to leave. Now, usually I'm not that aggressive right away, but you know whatever, and it obviously didn't work out for you very well, did it well? I mean after I said, he told me, basically told me to go, and I just hit him. And that's what

I mean by she mysteriously disappeared at that point. Yeah, not a lot of girls, Billy like it when you get in a fight after meeting him, like forty five minutes in. What was her reaction, Tude. I didn't really know right away because we kind of took it outside. The whole circle formed around us and it was all kind of crazy. I did see her for a second, and so when the cops shot up, I didn't. I didn't see her afterwards. Yeah, did you end up getting arrested? No,

I did. I just took off. So you pretty much understand that that probably turned her off a little bit. That's probably why you're not getting a call back, Billy. I mean, you know what, though I thought it was ruttive with shivers, I didn't start why she did not look comfortable, right, you know, he touched by this guy.

I'm not cool with that. Anything is I just read an article in GQ talking about like the differences between gentlemen now and being a gentleman back in the day, back in the day, Billy, that would be the right move. But according to GQ, now girls don't like it when you get in a fight over them, like unless they're absolutely in trouble and you have to use for us. But it's not a gentleman thing anymore. You don't have to just immediately punch somebody in the face. I didn't

think it was immediate. I mean, I thought he was kind of prorocative and disrespectful, you know, and anyone. I mean, even if it didn't involve a girl, someone talk to me in of course I'm gonna clock though, no way. Okay, So you feel like you were sticking up for her and you were protecting her, I thought, so, you know, I thought was the right thing to do. Now have you tried to get a hold of her since then?

And what have you said to her? Yeah? I just called and I just said I really enjoyed seeing you and talk with you. I'm sorry that he didn't really get a chance to talk more and and I apologize that you had to experience that, you know, with that dude. So, I mean, it's two weeks ago after I haven't heard I called by two or three times on I don't know, are you a guy that gets in a lot of fights? Billy, I'm not. I'm really not really how many fights you've been in the last year. I hadn't been in the

fight last year. Year before that, I've gotten too. Okay, that's kind of a lot of fights. Like once you get out of like seventeen years old, you don't really fight that much. So all right, man, Well we're gonna play a song. Come back, say we can get her

on the phone and get your second day up there. Okay, all right, all right, trying to punch anybody in the face of names, hang on rooking jubil in the morning, Lydia, if a guy was to punch somebody out in your honor, would that make you happy or want to see the guy again? Would that make you swoon inside? Well, I'm a former vegan and I drive a Prius. So what do you think while he's stomping the guy's face on the concrete and he looks at you and goes, this

is for you, Lydia, would you love that? No, really turned on by violence, but I can appreciate that. I think your heart was in the right place. Billy, Yeah, I asked Lydia, the question because Billy is on the phone with us right now and he wants us to call a girl named Christy, who he met at a bar. They met hung out. Forty five minutes later, he was punching a guy's face in because he saw the guy talking to Christy. You know, it was more than just

talking to her. You know, the guy would touch your leg, so you feel like the guy was groping her, and you were coming to her defense. But you realize that's probably the reason she's not calling you back. I mean, most likely it's that. Yeah. Yeah, But you know, I just needed to state my case, you know, because I really do want to go out with her again, and I want her to know that I'm a good guy.

My only advice going into it, Billy would be, it sounds like you think you were in the right one hundred percent, and if you're going to ask for a second date, you gotta be willing to admit maybe I was wrong. Well I don't know, I saw what I saw. Yeah, Billy, that's not the right way. That's not how you do it, man. Look, even if you feel like you're right, just go Look.

I'm sorry about that. I overreacted and I should have maybe just see if you were okay before I decided to try to open up the guy's face on a curb outside. Yeah, of course, I don't want to scare her off. You know, I'm not an animal. But I did think I was doing the right thing, you know. I came back away from that, you know. Okay, Well, I'm gonna doll the phone umber right now. See if we can get her on the phone. Okay, yeah, yeah, all right, hold on me. Hi is Christy there, Christy?

How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sorry, where are you calling from? Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio show. Okay, am I in a video right now? Yes you are? Okay, Um, before you panic and hang up the phone. I'm calling you because you recently met one of our listeners who really liked you, and he emailed us and asked us

to call you. Okay, this is weird. Yeah, I understand that his name is Billy and you met him a couple of weeks ago when you were out at the bars. Oh my god. Yeah, so Billy emailed us. So Billy emailed us and told us about your evening even told us about the fight that he got in. He told

you about it, Yes he did. And the reason that he wanted us to call you was because he wanted to let you know that he's not a bad guy and he may have overreacted, and he really liked you, felt like you had a strong connection, and he wants to see you again. Oh wow, is the reason. That is the reason, That is the reason that you haven't called Billy back because of the fight that he got in.

I don't know how to answer that. I mean, he seems like a cool guy and I thought we had and I can't trust my judgment anymore because this other guy, like just some chipsie guy at the bar, starts talking to me like a harmless guy. He wasn't even really bothering me, and then before I know it, he's like, I'm her boyfriend. Like he just like slips out and then he hits the guy like out of nowhere. So I stepped back, and then he starts going, keep your

hands off my woman. All right, But in his defense, he thought he was helping you out. From his perspective, it looked like the guy was groping you. I don't know how he possibly could have thought that. So you basically just feel like Billy is a psycho. Um, yeah, he'd like punching the guy. They go outside, they're like totally wrestling. I didn't know what to do. Are you like yelling like for it to stop or honestly, like

I didn't even know what was happening. It happened so fast, and he keeps saying she's my woman, which was just insane, and like he gets all like caveman, and then he pulls his shirt off. I actually took his shirt off and threw it on the ground. Yeah, oh no, of course he said she's my woman, and I'm going to prove it to you, all right. He must have been Christie. He must have been pretty drunk, Like the pulling off the shirt thing. Whatever. We've seen d bags fight all

the time. That's what they do. But she's my woman and I'm gonna prove it. Yeah, did you? Part of you? You must have been upset, but party you kind of wanted to laugh at that point, didn't you. I was like, who is this guy? He's totally insane and I don't want this kind of drama in my life, and I just walked away. He didn't even notice that I walked away. Yeah, of course not. He was defending your honor, Christie, and then you just left. He says that he's tried to

call you a few times. I'm guessing you got the messages and just haven't felt like returning his phone calls. Um. No, that's that's unfortunate for you right now though, because Billy is actually on the phone and he wants to talk to you. Oh my god. Who this just gets crazier and crazier. I'm sorry, you know, I'm kind of embarrassed by this. Oh You're sorry? Yeah, I mean I thought I was just kind of defending your honor. I can remember sing like you're my woman, and I'm gonna prove

it to you. I did. I did love at my shirt, but I don't remember saying that. Can I ask you a few questions? First of all, to live in Medievil times like sending my honor? You know what he was just so you know, I don't think you remember because you had some drinks too. You know, he was absolutely touching your leg. I'm not making it better. Believe who can't hurt? I need help, I'll ask for it. I didn't need your help, and I didn't need you to start up fist fight in a bar. I get it.

I get it's just that, you know. I'm just that's something that's not acceptable to me. You know, when you touch it, I didn't. It wasn't here. That's not up to you. That's not up to you. That's about me. If he was touching me inappropriately, believe me, I have done something about it. It seemed like you really wanted to fight. No, I'm just saying, you know what, there are a lot of guys who aren't nice guys I'm believing or not, I'm actually a nice guy. Sounds like it.

I'm I've been a steam worker, but you know what it's like guys who don't know how to treat a woman properly. And I'm sorry, I just like that if people don't know how to treat a woman properly. You didn't even give him a chance to say anything. I could have handled it a little better, I admit that. Yeah, there you go, Christie. He admits that he could have handled it better. He did like you a lot, though, and would love to see you again. I would like to ask you if you'll go on a second date.

With Billy. We'll send you someplace where there are no other dudes so that he can't get in a fight with anybody. Would you go out with Billy again? I'll pay for it. I will go with my hands tied behind my back if that helps. Oh great, So I'm on a date with a criminal. I don't think so, Billy. Were you arrested after the fight? No? No, I ran, I ran from a cog. Yeah. See, Christie, he's not a criminal. Yeah, he's not officially charged with anything. And

it's the only fight he's been in this year. I mean there was that two last year, but no big deal. Yeah, you know, I mean I I don't need the drama in my life. What maybe we can go like get like tea or something, because no midheads drinked tea? All right, well, Christy, I'd have tea. I'd have tea with you. I'd have tea with you. Yeah. Really, that's awesome, Christie, Are you serious you'll go have tea with him? Tea was your mind changer? Yeah? I mean, I like to said to him, er,

and that's funny. So tea with you. But I gotta tell you, I am not looking for a relationship with you. Okay, so you'll have tea with the guy, but you're not looking for you changed your mind quick on that one. Christ Yeah, I mean he's cute. I'll go have tea with him, but that's it. I'll give him another shot to like prove that he's not a total meat head. Okay. Yeah, well congratulations Billy. Wow, somehow you were able to get a second date after all that. Thank you, guys. I

seriously appreciate that. I don't know if I call it a date, we'll cheat. It's not a date. No pressure. I'm going to be a total gentleman and uh, I don't know what that means to you. But okay, broken jupil in the morning, you want to pay, you want to say, you want to have it up. You started listening with my head and still I hit a while. Maybe I shouldn't gone, and maybe I shouldn't note

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