Second Date update PODCAST: Reunited and it Feels So Weird

lasting impression for him. Right. But sometimes you just don't get a second chance. That's really too bad. It's not the case with James, though, who's on the phone for a second date update today. He actually got a chance to write a wrong with a girl who's now not calling him back for a date. Yeah, so it sounds like he didn't write the wrong correctly. What's up, James? What's up? So your email said you got the chance to go out with a girl who you went out

with before but like lost touch with for a while. Yeah, I did. It was pretty awesome. So how did that work? Well, we didd a couple of times, like a few years ago. I mean it just didn't really work. I mean It's probably because I wasn't looking for anything serious at the time. I had my eye on a couple of girls. Oh my god, I love your band, chuckle like. Because I was such a stud back then that I had so many options. I was playing the field a little bit.

But you know what, years have gone by, I packed on a few pounds, kind of losing some hair, not as many options. So I wanted to see if I can hit her up again. Well yeah, I mean, you guys get it. You know, you reach your point into life when you're you want that like emotional connection with somebody. You know what I'm talking about. Okay, Well, we were saying it's because you've given up. But you know, what's

her name? Her name was Hannah. Hannah all right, And how many years has it been since you've talked to or seen Hannah. It's been about six years. Six years, okay, And you guys hadn't talked at all in that six year period. Uh nah, wow, okay, I've really thought about her until I just bumped into her the other day. Oh yeah, we were. I was in the grocery store, you know, making the rounds, just coming down one of the aisles, and I look up and there she is

at the other end of the aisle. Wow, like awkward. You turned around real quick? Did she see you right away? No? I saw her first, but I was already like, you know, a couple of feet in the aisle, and I didn't want to, like, you know, run and I'm like the heavens open up and a light behind her, let doves fly down around her, and the song dream Weaver came on.

No we now it was the freezer section. And that was just really like this really like tense moment as we like we were pushing our carts closer together, and I was like, oh, gay, what am I gonna say? And panic? So I I said probably the lamest line in the whole world. I said, oh, buying food? Huh yeah, so what are you doing here at the grocery store shopping for groceries? H you're hungry? Yeah? I mean it was not it was not good. That's good a buddy, though.

Did she recognize you immediately? Yeah? I got to talk a little bit, and uh, I thought she looked great. So I was read the signals and everything, and I decided to take a chance and ask her out again. And they why not? Did you say, hey, hey, let me ask you a question over the past few years. Is your biggest regret me and would you like another shot? No? I think that was quite I probably should have said that though, that would that would have been super smooth man.

I just said, hey, you know, maybe we could give this another shot. Maybe we could you know, try it again. Oh, how did it go? Well? I thought it would be cute if we went back to like the same place that we went on our very first date. So it was the same coffee shop that we went to on our first date six years before that. I don't know that that's cute. I mean, you're talking about dates that didn't work out six years ago, so why would you

want to rehash that. Well, you know, I thought it was cute because you know, it shows like I remembered right where we went. Okay, okay, and your first date with her six years ago was not a horrible time. I mean, no weird fun. Okay, I had fun. So how was coffee shop for her state redone? How did that go? I thought it went fine. It's a cute little place. It's got like board games and stuff there.

So we did this thing where we were going to play battleship, and like at one point she even like put her hand on my leg and it got really flurry. So yeah, I mean I had a much better time than the first time, and I thought she could tell her that, like, Wow, you've changed a lot, You're so much more fun to be around, because I remember six years ago snooze fest with you, and now I kind of enjoyed it. I mean, yeah, to be honest, yeah I did. But you know, I don't wait, that's a

bad thing. You said it to her, You told her basically what I didn't say that, But to be honest, I was like, I was having a much better time. Oh God, why are we even doing this? You know why? Okay, so that was a smart Oh no, why don't I just tell her she's lost light or something? So why do you think she's not calling you back then? I mean, maybe going to the first coffee shop might not have

been the best idea. I mean, like, if I wanted her to see me as a new guy, I probably should have taken her someplace new, right totally, And how did things end? Well? I mean I tried, I said we should hang out again, and she said I gotta go. Then she took off. She was nice about it, wasn't like awkward or anything. But I've been texting her next couple of days after that, and she just hasn't been responding, So I don't know what's going on. Okay, now you

said she looked better after six years? Do you look better after six years? I look just as good. What are you talking about? All right? Okay, all right, well, well play a song, come back caller, and get your second date update. Okay, okay, that's good, thank you, Okay, hanging five, rooking jubil in the morning. Second, Hey, James, are you there? I'm here? All right. Well, I wanted to start off the second part of today's second Date update by dedicating a song to you, James, Reunited and

it feels so good Reunited. Yeah, it's feeling really good, so good in fact, that James not getting a call back and now he's sitting home alone by himself. He can't get a call back, and now he's bummed about it. James. I realized the rhyme kind of fell apart at the end there, but I think I was feeling it. I think that song told a touching story of your romance. Dedicate I didn't know he was going to serenade you, either of James. But you're in the mood for this now, Yeah,

I'm so there. Well you better be if you're just tuning in. James is on the phone to do a second date update. He wants to call a girl named Hannah who we actually went on a date with like six years ago, and then they ran into each other recently at the grocery store and decided to give it another shot. They went out to the same coffee shop that they went two years back, and he says they had a good time, but she's not calling him back, and she ended the date by just saying, oh, yeah,

I gotta go. So he's wondering what happened. James, you're ready to call her? Yeah, let's do it. Do you want me to sing to her because it could happen? No, no, please, just don't do that. Okay, all right, Okay, I'm gonna dial her phone number right now, get her on the phone and see if we can figure out why she's not calling you back. All right, Okay, thank you, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Hannah? Please? Did this? She? Hey, Hannah, how are you This is

Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Who Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. I don't I don't really listen to the radio. That line. Oh well, we play all the hits all the time. It's one of the things that we do. Another thing we do is we try to reunite people. Okay, and somebody recently emailed us about you and is wondering why you're not calling them back? What really? Yeah? His name is James. Oh m okay, so I think you might

know the James that I'm talking about. You two actually went out on a date or a few dates, like six years ago, and then recently went out on another date. Yes, we did, got it. So James listens to our show and emailed us because he's wondering why you're not calling him back after your date. Oh he still hasn't figured it out. Apparently not clueless is a good describ of James. Why is that? Look, I I do you think he's really confused about everything? What do you mean he's confused

like what he wants in life? Or well maybe, but I think like when we went on this date, he was very confused about who I was. So, are you not somebody that he used to date years ago? I mean we dated, but he but so, James had this big surprise and he was gonna take me out to where we went on our first date. Okay, yeah, he told us that, so I was really excited. And then we ended up at this coffee shop, the coffee shop where you had your first date six years ago. No,

he took me to a different coffee shop. Oh oh, so he mistakenly took you to the wrong coffee shop. Yes, exactly. So that's enough reason not to call him back though, because he doesn't remember six years ago the exact coffee shop you went to. I can forgive him or getting the place wrong, but he just continued to get worse. Okay, so you didn't you didn't call him out on it right at the beginning. No, I didn't. I didn't. I just I don't want to make him feel that bad. Yeah, okay,

how did it get worse? Well, he just kept bringing up memories that we had from our first date, and I just had I just didn't remember anything that he was saying, and I just kept nodding my head. It's pretty funny, do you think he remembered the first date and you don't. No, I mean I have a really good memory. And then the first I was like, oh my gosh, am I crazy? But then I just was like, no, I'm right, he's confusing me with someone else. So he's really liiving a first date that he went on with

another girl and putting new in her shoes. Yes, and he's trying to make it so romantic. And I have no idea what he was saying. What was your favorite memory that you guys didn't share. We were sharing all of our passions and life together and how I liked hiking, and I mean I don't hiking. I think hiking. So he's remembering everything from another date that he went on, or maybe multiple dates. I don't know, but he thinks it's all you. Yes, I'm like allergic to nature. I

think i'd do what he was saying. I mean, I just can't believe you didn't take the opportunity to call him out on it, just for the sole fact that the embarrassment is kind of funny. No, I mean he was just trying to be so romantic. I mean I think his eyes were welling up and I was like, I can't just break his heart there. Well, he obviously had a really good time with somebody at that coffee shop at some point in his life. Yeah, you should

find that someone, Canna. I bet you he'd be surprised to know that he got it wrong, because he told us that he was sure that he went to this coffee shop with you and you guys played games and had a great time. Well, yeah, sure, I mean I think he thought he was doing a romantic thing, but it was just it was far from it. Speaking of romance. He is on the other line and wants to talk to you right now. Yeah, James, are you there? Yeah, I'm here. Oh god, Hey, what's up, James? A little

barrass buddy, Uh yeah, a little. Um. I'm confused. We were at that same coffee shop, I remember distinctly. No, No, we were not at that coffee shop. We were at another coffee shop. That's my first state coffee shop. I take all my first dates for that coffee shop. Oh my god. Well, obviously I was an exception. Well, you know, maybe I thought you were special. Maybe I thought I should treat you better or something like that. I don't know.

Oh night, try James. Yeah, the one we went to didn't have board games, but I distinctly remember playing battleship with you on our first date. Remember, No, maybe you played Battleship with all the rest of the first date. I don't know. I remember because, like you said, you just finished training for that marathon marathon. I'll never run a marathon in my life, I don't know. And that was something I really liked about you, that you were so active about Torsie. It wasn't me. No, okay, Hannah,

I'm sorry. So like, well, which one were you? Then? Like? Which one were you? Wh How am I supposed to know which one I am? I'm Hannah? Well what day did we go out? Was it like a Tuesday or a Wednesday? Do you only have two days where you go out with people? James and you take him to the same coffee shop except for the one time you took Hannah somewhere else. I don't know what's going on right now, I was this is this is blowing my mind a little bit. James. You obviously remember that we

went out, but you don't remember me. So that just makes me feel weird. It's awkward. Well it's not easy, you know, I mean, it was six years ago. It's hard to remember. I mean, you don't probably remember anything about me. I remember that you like running and your favorite director is Quentin Tarantino. Okay, maybe you do remember some stuff about me. I look, I'm sure i'd remember it about you. You just gotta refresh my memory about

which one memory? Hannah? Which one? Are you? Oh? My god, Hannah. In James's defense, right like during during the date, he said that you touched his leg and that you seem to be enjoying yourself touched his leg. No, I never touched his leg. Your leg? Team you did? I remember you? Yeah, you did. No, I would not have touched your leg. I are you sure that wasn't getting it confused with another date that's happened. Yeah, maybe there was a different

date where somebody touched your leg. James, James, are you just firming we look bad? Right now? You're just going to know everything I bring up and remember, because I mean that was you. That was definitely you know. I'm telling the truth. I'm not putting anybody out there. I can't believe this is happening right now. All right, Well, I'm sorry if I can't remember something that happened six years ago, but you know I had a good date

with you this time. Well, in that case, Hannah, would you like to go out with James again on another date? See if he can remember your last date fully by the time you actually got We will pay for a second date if you'll go out with James again. I just can't. It was just it was awkward for me. I mean, you were just like reminiscing about these things that happen with someone else on another date, and I

just I can't come back from that all, Hannah. But just please, I mean I really, I really did have a nice time with you. I think, you know what, if this other woman made an impression on you, I think that you should just try to find her, you know, I mean, find the girl that likes hiking and battleship and go and seek and find her. I mean, maybe she's the one for you. I'm not I could be like six different people. Well, James, it sounds like you've got some work to do then, yeah, well, um, yeah,

I guess so. I am sorry that I forgot who you were, Hannah, but you seem like a very special person. It is it's almost sweet. Well, Hannah, thank you for your time. I appreciate you telling us about your date. Thank you, you're welcome. And James, I'm sorry you did not get a second date a sor right. At least

you'll remember this one for sure. The text in at seven eight five nine two says that guy could not get him out of the get himself out of the hole, that he died and just kept digging that hole deeper if he missed today's second date updates. Guy named James wanted to call Hannah. They actually went out for coffee after six years. Yeah, they had a date six years prior to the one that he's calling about. He took out to coffee, took it to a coffee shop that

they went to on their first date. Only problem, they didn't go to that coffee shop on their first date. And every single memory that he had from their first date was wrong and it must have been memories from another girl. It'd be fine if it was like one time he brought it up. Yeah, but over and over, Yeah, kept harping on it, like remember when we played battleship together? No, No we didn't. And I like how he was arguing with her. No, that was you. I swear with you

she's like, seriously, it was not me. In the end, she said she didn't want to go out with him again, but gave him permission to go find the girl that he really wants to go out with again, whoever it was six years ago. Then he went to that coffee shop and played battleship with Yeah, he's not going to remember who that was. No, No, not at all. Remember. If you want to do a second eight update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.