Second Date Update PODCAST: Picture Perfect

at each other most of the time. The guy's trying to talk to the girl who is already looking at the next table over because she sees a guy who's way better looking, and it's just ignoring him the whole time. They're just bad and awkward. But apparently people actually do meet someone on a speed date that they'd like to see a little longer in person, sort of like what happened with Zach, who was on the phone with us

for a second date update. Zach apparently met the girl that he wants us to call to day on a speed dating adventure. Is that right, Zach? Yeah? How are you guys doing? Good? Man? So it actually worked out for you? Huh the awkward speed dating thing, well, yeah, you know, I was shocked. Have you done speed dating type stuff before? Is this the first time you'd done it. You know, I totally agree with you, man, it always seems kind of awkward or weirdness. I've stayed away from

it for the longest time. My buddy and I both ended up going just for the hell of it because we dirtych other to do it, and I was playing because most of the girls there were just just definitely were not my type. There's one girl I totally connected with, luth And and that's the girl I ended up going on day with Carly. What did you learn about Carly in that minute and a half that just made you think, Wow, I was wrong about this. She's hot, you know. You know,

we talked about a lot of different things. For it wasn't as much that it was just the the vibe I got from her. She's just just seemed so different, down to earth, and yeah, probably because she was new in town. She told me that she's just gotten to the areas I imagine in a situation like that, Zach, it's not so much what you learn about each other. It's like, if you guys can even have somewhat of a decent conversation in a minute and a half, So,

what did you guys do on your actual date. So, because she said to his new in town, I wanted to take her to Pike Place. I wanted spec or a little bit of what it is that we're known for in the area. And so we went there, we walked around, we had some food. She's a really easygoing girl, and we had great conversation and we did so the I got her to throw some salmon in the in the marketplace, which there was a lot of fun. Do you like the fish catch? Yeah? She really dug it.

I mean it was just cool overall. It was just really easy with her. Okay, how long has she been in town? You said she's new in town? When did she move here? When I met her at speed dating was three weeks so and we actually got together just a few days after that. So yeah, then like little less than a month. Where's she from? She's from Tennessee. Oh, I bet she has a really cute accent too. Yeah,

she's very sweet, very down to earth. I even bought her some flowers where were there, And it's almost like I just bought her a new car. You know. She's just like the biggest smile on her face and she's just like so happy and it's really really super nice girl. All right, So you had a good time. I had a great time, all right. I would think as a good old Southern girl, she would be getting flowers every day, like every day she went on. But she thought it

was an unusual thing. I don't even think she really expressed that it was unusual. It was just the way that she was thankful for it, and she just like nite, me feel special that I even thought of giving her flowers. You know what I mean. She's a country girl from Tennessee. I go to the big city and this man's buyam flowers. What's next? Is he going to ask for my hand in marriage? You can you How did the date end? Did you guys share a kiss? Anything more than that?

I walked through the cards and I wanted to be a gentleman about it and just give her a kiss on the cheek. Of course, a real Southern lady would never kiss on the lips on a first date. You know that? It does it feel like you're on the date with her right now? Yeah? Yeah? Can I get your number? Vat? You know you can? All right? So you kissed her on the cheek. I want to be a gentleman, she's obviously not calling you back. How long has it been? How many times have you tried to

get a hold of her? I called her a couple of times, texted her a couple of times, and it's just clear to me that she's just blow from the office point, which is really weird because I wasn't expecting that you get any response from anything. Nothing. That's what's weird. That's just really tripping me out. And the weird thing

is is when you're new to town. I mean, I've been new to town before, and you basically call anybody that calls you back because you have no friends, you know, I think, and I don't want to sound morbid about it, but I'm just because you needed town. I hope it's something didn't you know, didn't go wrong, like you know, Hey, No,

you're that's perfectly acceptable what you're thinking. Anytime that I've ever gone out with a girl and she hasn't called me back, in my mind, I'm like, she must have died the only way a woman does not call this guy back, Zach, you and I are in the same boat, buddy. I don't know. We'll we'll play a song come back, call her, get her on the phone, and get your second day up there. Okay, cool, thanks you to hang

on brooking Jubil in the morning. Hey Zach, Yep, after thinking more about your situation, I don't really think you need to worry. I think you might be a little pretty much really okay? Why is that? Well, any girl that is new to this area, it's like a feeding frenzy. Like dudes just to attack them left and right, you know, because like we're not very attractive in this part of the world, so there's a lot of ugos out here.

So as soon as a hot girl from Tennessee ends up on the scene, guys are gonna be after her like crazy. So she's probably just got tons of dates and she'll get around. You're like maybe like fifteenth on the list. You know. How does that make you feel? All? Right? Great? Right for the second day update? Then I'd like to just take the wind out of your sails right before her see why she's not giving you a call back? Sorry about that, Zack. Yeah, it feels great, guys, I

got your back. I think if the date went as well as you said it did, then there is could be twenty guys that she went out on the date with and she'd still want to call you back. Thank you. Yeah, that's the way I'd like to see it. Okay, Well, I'm gonna dial the number right now. See we can get her on the phone and then get your second date update. You ready to go? Yep? All right, here we go. Please enjoy this ring back jone while you're party of sweet Hi? Can I speak to Carly? Please? Yes?

Is she Carly? How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm doing good? Who did you say? What? Jewbil from brook and Jewil in the Morning radio station here in town. I know that you're new to the area, and what we do is we get a list of people that have just moved here and we call them to welcome them to town. So welcome Carly. Oh wow, yeah, that's real nice of you. Yeah, it is so. So you're where are you from? You're

from Tennessee? Yes? And nice? And how long you've been here? Um? Just about a month? Is this really what y'all do? Carly? I'm not actually just calling to welcome you to town. Okay, you recently went out on a date with one of our listeners. You're calling me about a date. So went on, Yes, I am. You recently went out with a guy named Zach who listens to our show. You met during speed dating. Wow, y'all do think it's real different? So you went out with Zach right, and he liked you a lot, but

now you're not giving him a call back. So he emailed us to see if we could get you on the phone and find out if he did something wrong on your date. Okay, So what do you think of Zach? He was real nice. Okay, So no problems with Zach, then why haven't you been giving him a call back? He says that he's tried to get a hold of you a bunch after your date. I don't really want to say honestly, is it embarrassing? Well, a little embarrassing for him, not so much for me. Okay, Well that's

perfect then. I don't mean it's perfect that it's embarrassing for him. But he's the one that wanted to know, so if it's something that's embarrassing about him, he's willing to hear whatever it is. So I just feel real bad because he was real nice. You know. Think about it this way, Carley, it's not mean to give constructive feedback. You're helping him out down the line, just might help it. I just I just want everyone to know that he is a real nice guy and he treated me roll out,

and I don't have anything against him. We know that you like him. We know that you don't have any ill will towards him, and you don't think that he's a jerk or whatever. But what is he doing or what did he do on the date that was embarrassing enough to make you not want another date with him? He sort of made these weird noises like when he was talking or like throughout our date, like we would just be talking and then all of a sudden he would go like that with his like you'd make that

silent his mouth. Okay, are you are you picky? Are you normally a picky person when you date? No? No, honestly, not at all. I mean I was just a little confused, like I don't want to say anything because I thought maybe he like, maybe you have like a chick or something, and I didn't want to be mean and I know people have that and I understand that, so I wasn't going to say anything. But he kept doing it, and

then finally at the end of the day. I just sort of asked him because I figured out I might as well asked, how did you ask him? Just? Hey, what's up with that weird noise you're making? Look you made the door and I kind of kind of laughed and I was like nicely, and I was like, hey, like, what's that noise you're making? Yeah, what's that about? What? You know? Like he go, he goes, I'm just taking

mental pictures. I'm taking these mental pictures. So he's taking mental pictures on your day, which is I guess fine, But he's actually making a camera noise when he does it. Oh yeah, Like at least he could do it silently, you know. Yeah, that's pretty weird. So let me get this straight, all right, just so I can really do it was so sweet, but it was just so like,

I don't know what it was. Just I was very weirded out because he's like, you know, I just want to remember how beautiful you are, and like where we are now, and when you know, when I tossed the face or whatever it is they all do at that time, did you laugh and he told you that? I think involuntarily I didn't. I was a little bit weird it out, so I didn't really know what to do. That was

my reaction. I kind of like, oh, yeah, did you did you try to play it off like like it's a cute thing, like, Oh, I just like you so much, I want to take a mental picture of you. Yeah. I think he thought that would like do it for me or something, Yeah, like okay, But it, honestly was I felt like, oh my gosh, I'm in an episode of CSI or something. You know, that's what the murderer

does before he gets caught. Oh my gosh, So you don't want to call him back because he takes mental pictures of things and makes a camera noise when he does it. It wasn't just that, It's just that he thought that that was like a cute thing to do. I was like, one others twute things does he think? Is okay? Yea, Carly, wouldn't you be interested to hear an explanation from him about his mental camera that he brings with him. Not really, He told me enough on

the date. I don't really need to hear anymore. That's a shame, Carly, because Zach is actually on the other line right now and has been listening to this whole conversation and taking mental pictures. Hey, Carly, Oh my god, Oh my god, I'm so sorry. Really that's the reason why you don't call me back, just because of that. Because of it. Oh my god, I'm so uncomfortable right now. I don't really know what to do. You know what, when I first heard what you guys are saying, I

do little girls. But now I'm thinking about the bigger picture here, maybe it was all in delivery because it really was supposed to be funny. I supposed to. I mean, we were having a great time. I was supposed to make you smile. Well I didn't. I didn't think that was very funny, honestly I did. Listen, I was just trying to be romantic. You know, there's plenty of girls that would be totally cool with me doing something like that. It's kind of romantic in a silly winning you know. Listen.

I'm sure maybe there are some girls somewhere that think that's cute, romantic, but it's it just the first time you're eating some money. It was just it was just a little much. It checked worked with me before. I've taken mental pictures of a lot of girdles. They don't seem to have an issue with it, like you're having an issue with it. That's got a mental photo library. So this is your thing, Zach, to be cute with the ladies and romantic. You're like, you're so beautiful, I'm

gonna take a mental picture of you like that. I don't I don't know why you guys are all being weird about it, because it's one thing to do it once, Zach, Like, maybe you did it once and that's cute, But to make that noise throughout an entire date whatever, it's romantic. You guys obviously don't know what you're talking about. Working in the past. Everybody seems to be cool with it, except that you guys. Well, I mean, all right. The positive thing is she he really does like you a lot,

That is true, Zach. Do you want to go out with Carly again? I do you do? Okay? Carly? Would you like to go out with Zach again? We will pay for a second date. Maybe Zach leaves his mental camera at home in the mental camera bag, yeah, and doesn't bring it along on your next date? Would you go out with him again? We will pay for it, Carly? If it helps. I mean, honestly, I'm still a little bit weirded out, But now that I have been publicized on a radio, I feel like I have to say yeah, yeah,

And Zach's not a bad guy. He just like he's just a mental photographer and that's just what he does. Oh man, well, now you're making me you think that I should say no because it sounds real creepy the way you say it. No, I'm not trying to do that, all right, So you will send you guys out again. Congratulations Zach, you got your second date. Thank guys. Yeah, man,

big beating through all of that. But you and Zach, if the date goes really well and you guys end up together at the end of the night, I want you to forward me some of those mental pictures, all right, yeah. Right in the middle of it, just before we even played the second date update for you, I asked for an audience poll text us at seven eight, five nine two if what the guy did on his date was creepy or romantic. We asked a question because Zach wanted us to call this girl Carly. We got her on

the phone. It came out the reason that she does not want to go out on a second date was zach Is because during the whole date he would stop and go, ch I'm taking a mental picture of this, So he was taking mental pictures on the date. It's a move that he's done many times, and he says kills it. Women always think it's romantic and it always works for him. As Brook and Jewel in the morning, I'm moved an eight two point five. Out of all the texts that came in about this second eight update,

ninety eight percent of them say creepy. We did get one person, one person out of the hundreds of text messages that we got that says I'd be interested in that. I think it's romantic. So one person, actually I kind of think it's cute. It's probably him defending himself. Yeah yeah, so yeah, pretty much very creepy to take mental pictures

while you're out on a date. And the thing is, if you're taking a mental picture of something, do it in silence, making a camera noise and then saying that you're taking mental pictures of stuff is probably not going to be considered very romantic. Emphasis. It may even be less creepy to just take the picture with your cell phone like a real picture. She probably would have liked that. I'll put this on Instagram. Yeah, exactly. An actual picture

is a lot less creepy than a mental picture. Lesson learned. If you want a second dight up date, all you have to dose email the show Brook and Jewel at movie five dot com. We will call the person who didn't call you back.