Second Date Update PODCAST: Organ Moaner

I see, because that's usually where you know, you do the meet up to change kids and stuff, So you're always getting McDonald's. So it's like children light, is what you're saying. Yeah, yeah, that's the way to do it, if you're gonna do fatherhood. That's what i've heard. At least his name is Kevin. Kevin, what's up? Hey, how are you guys doing? It's pretty good? Is it as romantic as he describes it, being a single dad? Well, I have to say, I do try to throw in

some vegetables every once in a while. Yeah, well for them, I guess. But yeah, you get McDonald's at least twice a month. That's fun. It's got to be done. Your email said that you're a single dad, you don't date very much. So you're really excited to go on this date. Yeah, it's been quite a while actually, and you know, I mean, I guess I'm out of practice. I don't really know how to do that anymore. Date. So the way I met this girl was pretty cool. I was taking my

kids to the Natural History Museum. Never mind, Hey, forget what I said about being a single dad. That sounds terrible. Dinosaurs and stuff, It's like perfect, Okay, never mind, I'm back on board. Sounds great. All right, So you're at the History Museum with your kids and that's where you met her. Yeah, because we were part of a tour and my kid asked me something about I don't even remember now, it's something about dinosaurs and like, and I was searching for the answer and I couldn't come up

for it. And Stephanie, that's this girl's name, she stepped in and she like completely knew all these answers, and of course both of my kids like totally fell for her right there, and I thought that was pretty cool. So we got to talking a little bit and I don't know, I guess flirting. I think it was flirting.

I sue, if you guys went on it was flirting. Okay, yes, thank you, I just don't recognize it anyways, So we did start talking, and at the end of our time in the museum, I told the kids to sort of go over there for a minute. Yeah, you distracted them. What's up in chiny? I did look at that, look at those skeletons over there, and I pushed them that way. Yeah, and then check out those bones over there. Daddy's gonna

try to get a bone of his. God, how long have you been waiting to work in a bone joke? Three minutes? But I didn't tell her, you know, I don't normally do this, but I asked her if she would like to go out with me. That's so cute. You sound cute, nervous, and it sounds lovely. So I got her number and we made a plan and where'd you go. We went to this nice restaurant and we were having a good time and then something sort of awkward happened. Um, okay, how far into the date were

you when the awkward thing happened? Well, unfortunately, it was kind of at the beginning because we were waiting for our table at the bar and we were ordering drinks and the bartender carded us, which is kind of funny, and you're not twenty one. So I was flattered, I guess, and he took our IDs and then he had them back to us, but he like switched them up, so I had hers, she had mine. Okay, So what's awkward

about that? Because the picture on my ID is like three years ago and I weighed at least ninety pounds more than that I do now, okay, So did it even look like you on your ID? I can barely recognize myself in that ID? Yeah, you know what I mean, Like I got this big, ugly beard and I just said it wasn't a good time. Okay. Why would that be awkward though? I mean because she sort of looked at it, and then she looked at me and she

was like, is this you kind of you know? And I was like yeah, and I went into the whole story about, you know, what was going on, and I don't know. I mean, she just seemed sort of shaken up by that. I mean, I don't look like that anymore. If anything, I would feel like she'd be impressed that you were improving yourself and doing what you needed to do to feel good about yourself. Yeah, me too, and that's generally been the reaction. It's good for you losing

weight and getting healthier again. And that actually made her angry, I guess, and I never asked. I mean I assumed that she was a single mom as well, that you met at the History Museum. No no, no, no no, no, she doesn't have kids. But oh she doesn't have kids. No, she doesn't have kids, but I mean that was one of the things that I thought was really cool, is like, she seemed really cool with my kids. I mean, she got along with them really well, you know, at the museum.

And I'm biased, but my kids are pretty cool and they were entertaining her. So that seemed like it was not going to be a problem, which is a huge deal. Yeah, it would be differ, Frint if you let her know that you had kids on the date and she didn't know that going into the date. Didn't you be like, well, maybe she's not calling back because of that, right, No, that's not it. She she totally got along with them.

So so how did the date end? Well, okay, so we finished dinner and I was walking to her to her car and I said good night. You know, I had a really great time and I tried to give her a hug, just a hug, and she sort of like backed away and backed away from a hug. Yeah, And did she say anything about it. I've made some joke about like what like too fast or something, and she sort of said yeah, and then she said, well, okay, bye, and then she left. I mean, dare you think I'd

hug you on the first day. I mean, I wasn't gonna try to kiss her. But anyways, I don't know. I am super confused because, you know, I called her, left her message and told her I had a great time. And I mean, in the back of my mind, I'm thinking, wow, she thinks I'm a creep or something. I couldn't quite tell, right, So I called her and I texted her, and I'm just there's just nothing, no response, no response at all. It sucks. It's like your first foray back into dating,

then you're you get tonight a hug. I know, it was like it started out so great at the museum and then so I guess I'm asking you guys, like what do you think happened? Like what is it? I'm super confused. Well, yeah, the dating game has changed a lot. People don't hug anymore. You can get a disease that way. Yeah, yeah, sorry, you didn't know that. We already figured out. No need to make the phone call. No, I have no idea what it could be. Well, we'll play a song, comeback,

call her and get your second date update. All right, Okay, thank you, Okay, hold on brooking jubil in the morning. Second if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Kevin is on the phone and he wants to call a girl named Stephanie. We think the reason Stephanie's not calling him back is because Kevin decided to do the unthinkable in his life and get healthy. Oh yeah, lost a bunch way started eating better, feels better than he ever has before. Except now, sure you can run more,

but you can't run after love. Can you can't catch love? Can't run that first Kevin, I was trying. Yeah, if you missed the first part. Kevin told us about the date that he went on. They went out and had dinner, and the bartender asked them for their IDs at one point, and he showed his ID and he looks a lot different in his ID because how many pounds heavier were you? Ninety pounds heavier, substantial and so he's lost a lot of weight. And after that point her mood toward him changed.

It's almost like she got angry at you. I mean, she didn't get angry. You know. I thought the date work really well actually after we got over that initial id thing and I thought it was fun until you know, she receives to hug me at the end. Yeah, getting shut down for a hug to me. Would say she was kind of angry with you about something. Maybe. I guess that's what I need you guys to find out for me. All Right, Well, I'm gonna doll her phone number right now, see if we can get her on

the phone and find out what happened. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Stephanie. Yes, Stephanie, Hey, Stephanie, this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry, who's this Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. What is this in regards to? Well, it's in regards to an email that we got into the show, and the email was about you. What do you mean, well, you recently went out on a date with a guy, named Kevin. Yeah I did.

Who wants to know? Kevin does because he told us about your date send us an email because now you're not calling it back, and wanted to see if we could figure out if something went wrong. All right, Is this that gonna take a long time because I don't I only want to talk about this. No, we can get you off the phone pretty quickly. He just wants to know because he really enjoyed going out with you. He said that he thought you had a really good time, and he's tried to call you and text you, and

I guess he's getting nothing in. I can save you a lot of time. Just tell him I'm not interested. Okay, Oh, I know you don't have a lot of time right now. But he seems like a really nice guy. He hadn't been on a date. Yeah, yeah, okay, sure he's not a nice guy. Uh No, no he's not. What really? Because he came off as like an awesome guy who has some kids, and yeah, yeah, that's why I thought initially that's why I decided to go out with them, but I found out that that was not the case.

What did he do? Look, I don't really want to do this, Um, I'm just not interested in Kevin. I don't I don't only want to go into it. Okay, But you said so you sound upset at Kevin. Yeah, yeah, I am. Well now is the perfect time to at least state your case, yeah, and get it off your chest. And if Kevin's doing something that you think is terrible,

now's your opportunity. Need to tell Kevin whatever you want. Okay. Um, So we were at the bar and we were getting drinks and we got carded, and there was this mix up with the IDs. He got my ID, I got his ID and I took a look at it, and his ID was the huge turn off right away? Is that because so he told us that your attitude sort of changed after he saw the ideas. Are you saying because he was ninety pounds heavier? No? No, that that

wasn't it. Oh my god, because I always had so many mean words about you in my head if that was going to be the case. No, no, no, that that was not the case. But I noticed that he's not an organ donor, okay, And and that's terrible. Are you serious? He's that's incredibly selfish. That's the reason. Yes, you don't want to allow him agin because he hasn't elected to donate his organs after he dies. That's exactly why. Oh my god, I don't appreciate you laughing about that.

It's very serious, all right. Well that's how Zay laughing. He laughed at everything, So it's fine. I don't appreciate it. Honestly, though, to me, it does seem kind of trivial to not want to go out with a person again because they're not an organ downer. Look, I would understand if you know, he was just like a young guy I didn't know better. But this is a guy who has kids. He has two kids, and like one organ can save up to eight lives. I mean, it's it's not just not just

one to one, you know. So I the thought of someone not wanting to do that and not wanting to even take the chance of saving that many people, to me, that's incredibly selfish. Yeah, I mean, okay, I mean, I'm an organ downer. I think it's important for me, but everybody has a different reason. And you didn't even give him a chance to expect. I don't care. He should he should know that, and he should he should look for the box and check it. I don't care. Okay,

there's no excuse for that. In my mind, he needs to understand the consequences of not checking that. Why didn't you just talk to him about it if you were that passionate about this, cause, look, you're not listening to me. The point is, like, I shouldn't be the one to have to explain this to him. He's an adult. I'm not trying to date a guy who needs a mom to tell him that. Okay, he should know that. I'm um. Wow, you're really fired off about this, are you? Yeah? I am.

You can tell him. I think he's a scumbag for not being an organ doner. I'm never going to date him again. Wow. Okay, Well how about this, Stephanie. What if you just tell him that I don't want to tell him that I don't want to talk to him. Okay, Well it's too bad because he's actually on the other line, who wants to talk to you? What are you talking about? I mean, that's the whole point of this was so

we could get you two on the phone together. He's listening. Yeah, yeah, Oh my god, Hey, Stephanie, I don't want to talk to you Kevin. Wow. Look, I feel like I need to at least have the opportunity to defend myself here. I feel like I'm being accused of some horrible being saw him. Yeah, because you are listen. I don't have anything against organ donors. Okay, I think it's why are anyone I don't know? I? Because I did? I must have missed the box or what's good enough reason, Kevin?

Look for the box and check it. It's not that hard who Okay, I take your point. I just we should give me a little slacks here. Okay, Kevin, you you have kids? Okay, you have kids? Exactly happened to your kids? Excuse me? I have two kids who I love more than anything, and they're also a handful okay, and I gotta be on my toes. And maybe I was frazzled or whatever. I'm sure they were with me at the D and V. And that could have been why I didn't check the box. It's not because I'm

some weird monster who won't give my organs away. Well, you need to need to be more responsible and think about why didn't shoot? Why didn't you say anything? Because I should want to tell you to be an organ donor. You should know that yourself. You're a grown man. Yes, I would love to be an organ donor. And if you had told me that at dinner, I would have said, oh wow, I didn't realize that I wasn't. I will

get right on that. Oh that's so convenient, Kevin. You're saying that because you want to date me again so you can sleep with me. He said, he's not an organ donor. Actually, actually, Stephanie, I can put your mind at ease because I really really don't want to date you, and I definitely don't want to sleep with you. Oh well, stephan you realize you're coming off is a bit crazy.

Your code off is that naggy Okay, you've been nagging me the whole time, and is if I have to defend my position on standing up for honestly the whole human way, I have to do that. What Wait a minute, Wait a minute, are you saying that because I forgot or I missed a check a box? People have died because of me not checking a box. Maybe not yet, but someday you're going to kill somebody. Whoa, whoa, I'm gonna kill somebody because I yeah, because I'm not going

to donate an organ. What are they're gonna die of a o heart. I don't understand how does that kill someone? Just because you don't take a weapon and kill somebody doesn't make you not a murderer. I mean, Stephanie, Wow, you may have a good point somewhere in there, but you need to be less aggressive about it. I think you guys are being ignorant and I don't even want to talk to you guys about this. Can I ask you one more question? Please? What do you want? I'm done.

You're taking up enough of my time already. I just want to ask you if you'll go out with Kevin on a second date. We will pay for it whatever. Smart. I don't appreciate this. Hey, Kevin, Yeah, yeah, she hung up. Huh that's a tasman. I mean you should be an organ donor though. I will gladly go down and register as an organ donor, but not because of stephany, because I think it's the right thing to do. Look, I didn't even know that. I wasn't all right well until

you do that, Kevin. In my book, You're a murderer Morning text message in at seven eight five nine too, it says Kevin didn't just dodge a bullet. He dodged a nuclear bomb. Good for him. Talking about today's second date update if you missed it, this dude, Kevin wanted

to call a girl named Stephanie. She wasn't calling back after their date, and he thought, for some strange reason, she was angry at him for losing weight, because there was a moment where they had to take out their IDs and a picture in his IDs like ninety pounds heavier. Once she saw the id, she became cold to him, and he didn't know why. It was hard to believe that maybe somebody would be angry at him for losing

a bunch of weight, and it wasn't that. It was the fact that on his license he wasn't listed as an organ donor and she went as far to call him a murderer. Did she lost it? Man, I'm just saying, if Stephanie dies, I do not want her angry kidneys. No. That didn't keep those things away from me. And the worst part to me was like he was like I didn't even notice, Like I totally would be. He's like, I'm fine with being an organ doner. I don't have a problem with it. She's like, whatever, you just want

people to die. Somebody texted in it of an eight five nine tune said, can you imagine if they got married and he didn't recycle one day? Oh my god, she might actually be a murderer on that day. I mean. And the thing is is, if you do have a really strong stance on something like that, that's not how you communicate it, how you get people on your side.

Ask him about it. I don't know. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back, even if they're a murderer and don't want to be an organ donor ninety two point five