Second Date Update PODCAST: One “Tiny” Problem

parking garage? What's his name? First of all, his name is Joe. His name is Joe? And how does that happen? How did you guys meet in the parking garage? Did he stock you from car to car? Or yeah? Him? And while I, being the absent minded girl that I sometimes am, had lost my car in the garage, I could not, for the life of me remember where I parked it. We've done that sucks? Or you saw him and then planned it the old damsel in distress. Oh, creative,

I'd probably made it more often. But no, he saw me kind of wandering around and it was obvious that there was something wrong. You know that I was lost or something had happened, and so he you know, he was just being kind. He's asked if I was okay, yeah, and I told him I was fine. But then I couldn't find my car and he was like, oh, well, let me help you. I mean, this is a big garage. I'll take way less time after there's you know, two

of us looking. So I lose my car in the parking garage all the time, Like I have to a plan for it, like an extra hour because I know I'm gonna be looking for my car forever. How long did it take you to find it? It took like fifteen to twenty minutes. He found me like halfway through my search. So okay, once he was there, we definitely

got it done faster. And did you like strike up great conversation when you were looking for the black sedan or well, he was just really charming about it, Like he like ran all the way across the garage and was like calling out like play numbers of cars. But I told him that were similar to mine, and he was actually who found my car. So it was really helpful. Oh so you found your car and then blocked your driver's side door and was like, you don't get to get in the car unless you let Papa take you

out on a date. That's how it happened in my head. Is that how it happened? Your head is definitely in more of a movie situation. Yeah, he's pretty chill. I mean we just, you know, we kind of chatted a little bit, and I obviously was very thankful, very grateful. I mean I kind of just I don't know, I thought he was really cute, so I kind of just threw it out there, you know. I said, you know, you're probably seeing somebody and he said, no, I'm not.

Do you want to have coffee? And I was like, well, yeah, that sounds great for making the first move on that. So how was coffee? How was the actual date that you went on? Coffee was wonderful. We had so much more in common than I would have expected. We talked a lot and just I mean he made me laugh like crazy. He's very sarcastic, and it called me out of my stuff. So that was you know, I like a guy who's honest, who can kind of tur back and forth, and coffee is always like a safe date.

Did just in case you need to, like get out quick because it's not going well. Did you guys stay for a while? Yeah, we see it for like an hour. And I liked that he threw out coffee too, and not like a bar or drink or something, you know. I like that it seemed like he really wanted to get to know me. Like that's where you go to get to know somebody, You go to a bar drink to go home with them. So his intentions were good. So is that all you guys did get coffee? And

we just got coffee that day? We were there like an hour and we're kind of wrapping things up and I just threw it out there, said, hey, you know, do you want to see each other again? And he said definitely, that sounds great. I'll give you a call. You're you're my hero, Monica. You were the one that approached him to go to coffee in the first place. Now you're protein for the second date. Well, and I hope that like didn't throw him off, Like do you

think that could throw a guy off? Like being cute, we're pretty lazy as a whole. Any of the work, we'd really appreciate it. And how long has it been since you've heard from him two weeks. Two weeks. Any awkward moments on your date at all? I mean, besides the fact that I'm obviously kind of lame and couldn't find my car in the first time. Second time was great.

I mean we even laughed about that, Like I don't know, I'm super thrown off because the way that we last think it was so casual, like yes, I will definitely give you a call, like there was no you know, game playing going on, right, And have you heard anything from a medal? No? I gave it a week, you know. I was like, all right, so I just throw a text out there like, hey, you know, I've got some time this week if you want to plan a day

to get together, let me know. And I heard nothing back, like not even like you know what, I changed my mind, which you know at the end of the day, like we went on one date, like I'm not going to be crushed forever. But I don't know. I need help. I need help figuring this out because if I did something wrong, then I think I have the right to know right right, And you sell like a confident woman who's somewhat self aware. I feel that way, Thank you. Definitely,

there you go. That's really nice to you to say, all, yeah, what if we call him and he answers the phone and I'm like, hey, is Joe there? And He's like, I can't talk right now. I'm in a parking garage watching this chick again. I will thank you profusely because Myra was way on cool. Play a song, come back, get him on the phone, and find out why he's not calling you back. All right, thank you? Okay, hang on brooking Jubil in the morning if you're just joining

us for the second date. Update. Monica is on the phone. She wants us to call a guy named Joe today. They met in a parking garage when she was having trouble finding her car from that turned into a coffee date. Says that that a wonderful time. Can't think of any awkward moments. At the end of the date, he even said that he wanted to see her again, but she hasn't heard from him in about two weeks. Or about to call him and find out is there a reason

that he's not calling her back? Monica, I think I figured it out, Okay, I think that you are yet another victim of the parking lot. Cassanova. I read about this guy in the USA today. He travels around from Chica, I'll go Atlanta, Los Angeles, now Seattle. Did you read about him in the crime? Yes? Yes, He goes to parking garages all over the country, hits on women, takes him out for coffee, and then leaves him in the dust. Well, I mean that I'm gonna be the victim of a crime.

I guess this is the crime. I want to be a victim of a good point. He just just left you high and dry. Didn't even take your panties, did he? It was a coffee day. It's usually what he does. That's what the parking lot casanova does. Everybody knows, yes, according to Yestery Today. But anyway, that's what I think. You're still unsure obviously. So we're gonna call him right now, see if we can get him on the phone and find out why he's not calling you back. All right, Okay,

here we go. Hello, Hey, can I speak to Joe please? Yeah, Joe? How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry, what from Jewbil from brook and Jewel in the Morning. The radio program? What's that? It's a radio show? Have you not heard of us? No, I haven't. So you wait, you're a radio show as stagients. Yeah, well yes I am not. I'm a person. My name

is Jebil, I'm here with the show. It's me, Brooke, Jose and Lydia and we're calling you because you recently went out on a date with one of our listeners and they emailed us to see if we could get you on the phone. Okay, And and her name is Monica. Wait, Monica called you, guys, Yes she did. She emailed us because she said she went out on a date with you, had a great time. At the end of your date.

You even said that you want to see her again, but you haven't called her back, and she's tried texting you and calling you. So she wanted to see if we could get you on the phone and find out if there was a problem with Monica. U. Yeah, there was a problem, which was really too bad because cool girl, Okay, can you tell us? Can you tell us what the

problem is so that we can let Monica know. Well, to be honest, she said something that I just couldn't look past, and I kind of thought about it afterwards, and I just thought, now I just can't spend any more time with this girl. What did she say? Well, so I am a new father, I have a four month old daughter, and thanks, yeah, thanks a lot. But I didn't tell Monica about my daughter when we met in the we've met in the parking lot. I don't know how much she told you. Yeah, she told us,

She told us all that. So she didn't know yet a kid. No, No, she did not know. She doesn't know. And basically I don't bring it up right off the bat. You know that I have a daughter. I'm not with her mother. We had a fast thing. It was kind of a mistake, if you ask me. But you know, and I look at my daughter and I go, well, it wasn't I think of a mistake because my baby's beautiful, right, and you know, I'm taking care of her. I'm doing

my thing. So normally I would think, like, you're not trying to date because you have a four month old, But you went out on a date with Monica, so that's obviously not the case. Yet I've gone on a couple of dates actually, and I do this thing. It's kind of I kind of kind of take the temperature of the group of I'm with if I see another kid inside of wherever we're at, I'll say something like, oh, you know, look at that kid. Do you like kids?

Or something like that. And this little boy came in and he was with his parents, and I said to Monica, I said, oh, that me, little boy's cute or something like that, and just to kind of see what she would pay, and she said something like, oh, I sure hope he doesn't sit over here. And I was like kind of confused by that. I was like, oh why, and she was like, well, you know, kids were really loud and like they make a bunch of noise, so

she was making true facts. She was true points. Sure he might have been, but you know, I could just tell from her tone that she's just not in the kids, and I just knew that, like I wouldn't be able to just have my daughter around her. Joe, did you ever specifically ask her point blank do you like kids? Don't you like kids? Well? No, I didn't ask to that, but I could just tell from her reaction to the little boy that she probably doesn't like kids, which was

just really too bad because she's so awesome. Hey, Joe, No, and like, Joe, real quick, since you didn't ask her that question. Why don't we actually have you ask her? Because Monica is on the other line listening right now. What yep, how did you not tell me that you have a kid. We talked about our families for like twenty minutes. You guys have her on the She's been listening four times. She just talked to you right there. Actually, Joe, how did you tell me? I mean, why didn't you

say something? Well, first of all, it was it's a first date, and I don't know, I don't feel the need to bring it up. But what I did bring up, like just trying to ask you kind of taking your barometer on like how you feel about kids. Ye, on a date, on a nice like date where we were like having a nice conversation at this year, was so quiet and chill, and I obviously didn't want like something

interrupting that. That's all I was saying. I was saying that we were enjoying our time in our conversation and I didn't want to be distracted by anything else. Well, it seemed pretty clear though, Monica that you think kids are just like little breaths, and like, I just don't want my daughter to be around that you know, I didn't have her around that. I can't believe you would say something like that. You didn't tell me that you had a daughter. I wasn't being sensitive to the fact

that you might have a kid. So yeah, I gave you an honest thinking about kids in that moment at that coffee shop with that kid who was already like screaming about wanting that frosted cookie out of the case. Joe, don't you think that's kind of an unfair barometer. I mean, you probably had the same feeling about kids before you had your own. No, I didn't, actually, like, I've always really loved kids, and I always knew I wanted to ask kids. I do want You never asked me if

I wanted kids. Okay, you know what, guys like this whole thing, you guys laughing in the background, her kind of barking at me, like this is one of the reasons why, first of all, I don't listen to radio. Any other reason why I didn't call her back because I didn't want to deal with this, you know, like I don't want to deal with any of this like negativity and like, well, this is your whole I'm doing.

You didn't say something you've put yourself in this position, and the fact that you didn't call me back or even say anything like, hey, listen, I don't think this is gonna work because you didn't give me a chance. I think this is actually a good sign for everybody involved. First date and you're already arguing about who wants kids and who does, which really to me says that you guys are perfect for each other and should probably continue this. Joe, would you like to go out on a second date

with Monica? We will pay for it. No, No, thank you, I don't need your offer. Thanks a lot, but no thing. All right, all right, Monica. Would you like to try to convince Joe to go out with you? No? Absolutely not. Do I seem like a girl who's going to convince some jerk who apparently judges people based on no truth whatsoever. I mean, I honestly like feel sorry for his daughter at this point, because I know we hope that he can find you know. I'm wanting you to hear this anymore, guys,

I'm out of here, see you later, Joe. Okay, Well, there you go, Monica. That escalated quickly. That's what you get when you meet somebody in a parking garage. Yeah, you just never know. I don't know, Jewel. Maybe you were right, Maybe he is just a parking garage cast pears about him. I think I like Honestly, I think I liked that answer better. So I think I raised the last ten minutes and pretend let's go with that,

because I'm so curious. You got it. You're happy you didn't give that guy your panties, right, broken Jubil in the morning,