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Second Date Update PODCAST: Once You Pop, You Can’t Stop

Jan 16, 201513 min
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Sometimes on date, there are Words that just come out of your mouth... and once there's out, you can't take them back. One of our listeners, Kenny, had that problem. And we might be his last hope for getting a Second Date. Listen in the PODCAST.
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Rooking Jebels second day. I think one of the best things that you can do on a first date is take a girl that you don't even know down a remote road where nobody's at and it's just you two together. That's the most romantic thing that I can think of. If you want to get maced. Maybe that's what Kenny did on his first date. Yeah, so you guys say that now, you say, oh, that sounds super creepy, but that's what he did. He took her hiking. It's exactly, yes,

it is exactly. It really is. That's what Kenny decided to do on his first date with the girl that he wants us to call today. I don't think it was as creepy as I made it sound, unless you want to correct me on that, Kenny. No, I mean, it was definitely not that creepy. Just checking. I don't know. You know, you said you took her hiking in your email, so that's all I thought about. Maybe on the problem here, Kenny, So tell us a little bit about the girl that

you want us to call today. We are we know you took her hiking. We'll get into that in a second. But where'd you meet her? I met her out at a bar. We have some mutual friends, and all I heard was that she was recently single, and I was interested, and I asked her out. Was it like a setup thing where your friends are like, hey, this girl, she's single, come to the bar. She's there too. No, not really. I mean we all just happened to be in the same place at the same time, and I just found

out to single. Okay, And that's when you said, hey, do you want to come down a dark road with me? Yeah, that's not exactly how I said it, but yeah, I did ask her to go. Okay? And why hiking? I think that's a fine first date. I think a lot of people would like that. But why choose hiking instead of meeting up for coffee or food or whatever. I love the outdoors, I love living up here, and I just think it's a great first date activity. I mean, you know, one that's like you relieve stress, you kind

of relax. Two, you're definitely in beautiful nature. And for me, the other thing is it's free. That's another very good free Kenny. Do you know, is she an outdoorsy person too? Because I know girls sometimes love it or hate it. She was into it. I mean, she was certainly keeping up with me on the trail. She didn't complain. Yeah. Nice. That's the best part when you're in better shape and you get like ahead of them and you're just like, hurry up, come on, it is your first time. That's

always fun to do too, you know. Yeah, if they're lagging behind, I normally get you know, a little a little concerned. But she was keeping up. Okay, I hike quite a bit. There's a lot of time for conversation or lack thereof. Was it easy to talk to her?

It was? I mean, I thought she was really funny, and you know, I mean I've been on a lot of dates where you just go out and have drinks and don't you just I don't know, I never really know what's really happening, or what's the liquor talking or whatever, and up there it's just like you're away from it all. Yeah, she was funny and had a great time, I thought. So she's obviously not calling you back. Did anything happen on the hike at all that Was there any awkward moments? Yeah,

not that I had noticed. The only awkward moment I noticed was afterwards we went down and we went over to this grocery store to get some water, and we were just kind of hanging around, and I was like, you know what, I'm actually a pretty good chef. I like to cook a lot. And I was like, you know, now that the hype one, well maybe I'll make a dinner or something. So I said, hey, can I cook

you dinner tonight, thinking we'd just still go out. It's a Saturday, right, and she just sort of responded with no, I have to get up early. Mike. Well do you work tomorrow? She says, no, I just have to get up early. I'm like, well, small Sunday okay. Really bummed me out. Did she seem upset about something? No, I mean it's anything. She's like, well, we'll do it with some other nights. Great. I mean we didn't make any specific plans, but I don't know. It just seemed weird.

And yeah, I called you guys, especially if you felt like you had a good time in her to just be like, no, I gotta get up early in the morning on a Sunday, you know, and no excuse, like nothing nothing good to say about, like, yeah, I have to get up early for church or I have to get up early for anything. And there's not a woman that I know that would say no to a man cooking them dinner. It's a very rare offer, right, I mean, I know, I'm like, that's my thing. You know, I'm

a good cook. She just wasn't into it her, I thought, I'm not really sure what she was thinking. How many times have you tried to get ahold of her since your date? I texted her Sunday kind of like, had a great time. I called her Sunday, told her I had a great time. Let me know when we can get together again. No response. And then I texted her on Tuesday, and that was a while ago. How long ago was your date? It was a couple of weeks ago. A couple of weeks ago. All right, so that's a

long time to not hear anything from her. All right, now we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date up date? Okay, all right, thanks along, all right, man hanging up brooking jubil in the morning, sate. All right, Kenny, are you about ready to give Alexa a call and find out why you're not getting a call back for a second date. Let's do it. If you're just tuning in. Kenny took Alexa on a hike.

After the hike, they were at the grocery store to get some water and stuff, and he said, Hey, why don't I make you dinner tonight? And she said, no, I have to get up early. And he hasn't heard from her since, so he's wondering what we're wrong on their date. And Kenny, I didn't ask you at any point during your date did you show her your junk? Hey, you're on a hike, and that's kind of, you know, standard operation for me when I'm on a hike. I

know that. You know, last time I was on a hike, I got junk thrown at me left and right, just random people out there. So I'm just making sure because actually that seems to happen a lot in second day updates. We calling, they're like, oh, yeah, they decided to show me a picture on their phone. You never did that move at any point. No, I didn't pull that one, not even like Pete on a tree or anything when

you're out there. All right, all right, Well, I'm gonna die the phone emer see if we can get her on the phone and get your second day update. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Man. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Alexa? Please? This is Alexa. How are you. This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the morning. What's going on, Alexa? Okay? All right. The reason why I'm calling you, Alexa is because one of our listeners

emailed us about you. His name is Kenny, and you guys recently went on a date and he emailed you about it. Yes, he did, because he wants to know why you're not calling him back. He would love to see you again and says that at the end of your date you even said like, hey, maybe we'll go out another time, and he hasn't heard anything from you. So Kenny emailed us to see if we could get you on the phone and ask you if he did

something wrong. That is incredibly weird. I know, I understand this is like a weird phone call to get but would you mind telling us if you enjoyed going out with Kenny? Well, I guess since you're already calling. I mean, we went on the hike and the hike was fine, we were getting along, but at the end of the date got really weird and so I haven't called him. It got really weird because when we talked, we talked to Kenny about your date. He didn't mention anything weird happening.

He had agreed you talk to him on the phone. M we did. He said that everything seemed normal. This is this is the first in my dating life. I gotta say, well, what happened that was so weird? Well, I mean it wasn't so much weird as it was humiliating. Whoa he humiliated you? Oh no, what did he do that was humiliating? We like got our bottles of water and we were walking out of the store and we like walked past the pharmacy area and he saw this

acne medicine and he pulls me over by it. He's like, oh, you should really try this. It's it's really good and it could really help you. Who are you serious? I am you have Wow? What did you say when he said that to you? I think like all the blood drained from my face and then all of the blood came to my face and I was like rushing, like beat red, absolutely mortified. I mean maybe yeah, it was like the most humiliating experience in middle school. Like it was.

Do you think he realized what he said to you I don't care. Yeah, I mean I wouldn't care either. I'd be like, hey, you're an a hole. Yeah, I mean I could not believe that happened in real life. And it went then and then he's like, oh, do you want to come over? I'll make you dinner so you can make me dinner, and then like, let me try some more your acne products. Yeah, like tell me

what else I can fix about myself after there. I mean, if was there any time during the hike that maybe you guys like I don't know, somehow got on the subject of how hard it is to have acne or something no god first state material like nosh. So you're just walking along and he stops and goes, hey, try this acne medication. It might work for you. It might help you, it could really help you. Is messed up?

Like what the And then apparently he calls the radio station like yeah, if he's not that aware to know that that's something wrong to say somebody. I can imagine being at your house cooking, like, hey, I'm not using butter in this your house? Like what what what would you say to him? If you could say one thing to him that's direct Alexa would you like to say that to him because he's actually on the phone listening. I'm so horrified right now. You should be. You should be.

You should be absolutely mortified, just like I was. In all honesty. Can I just tell y'all trying to help you out? If anything, you don't need your help. I don't need your help. I'm Kenny. You're digging your ditch even more right now. My skin is calling that like I actually spent time with you, and you think you need to help me, Like I just think it's like a grooming tip of anything, you know. I don't know

why everyone is like laughing. It's so horri I mean I was in the situation with her, and I saw the problem and I was just trying to help. To me, it was a positive move. Oh my god, that's not the kind of help that anybody really wants or needs. Do you have any read on like other people's emotions? Kenny? Maybe you're just bad you think I don't know what my face looks like, Like, yes, I had a breakout, Like I'm pmssing like it happened. I need you to tell me that fix me. I mean, I didn't mean

any harm by it. I was just trying to help you out, you know. I mean, you can shove your help up here, Kenny. I don't think anybody wants to have somebody recommend a skin cream to them to help them with whatever acne problems are having at that moment. Yeah, even my mom would do that, and I'd be like, hey, you're what I mean? I mean, look, I guess I wasn't. I just wasn't thinking very clearly, and I shouldn't any saying. And I feel like an idiot right now. And good,

I don't know. I don't know. My buddies and I we like take care of our skin, we moisturized and all that week, and I just trying to like help I don't know. Maybe, oh my God, like can we have this because I'm so revolted right now. I mean, look, it's not about whatever physical things like if I didn't think you were a tractor was called and tried to go on a second date with you, coming at himself thrilled, do you think I'm attractive? Yeah? He was able to look past the still want to go out on a

second date? Figured monster. All right, Well I've got to ask the question, Alexa, would you like to go out on a second date with Kenny. No, Kenny, and he's already trying to find things to fix about me. Why the would I waste time on a second one? Yeah, all right, I got it, I got it. Okay, Kenny. You know what, so you understand what you did wrong? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

I do. Do you to tell you the truth? I'm a little surprised and shocked that if you make like one mistake on a date, then it's like someone can be so judgmental and just blow me all. Oh my god, you're still doing it, Kny. You're calling me judgment Yeah, that's pretty amazing, Like I can't believe this is reality right now? All right, Kitty, Well, better luck next time when you're out there in the world dating. Okay, Yeah, thanks, Judd. I think we all learned one very important lesson today,

and that's don't ever take girls hiking, right am? I right? Worst dating idea ever, Jewel in the morning, I could show you incredible things, magic, madness, heaven since saw you

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