Second Date Update PODCAST: Old Fashioned Values

He'll walk up next to a girl and just like throw a shoulder on a real hard and then he starts up a conversation. Is that how it works? Mark? Uh? Yeah, yeah, I guess so that's how it works. I thought he was being sarcastic. I think he still is. Yeah, I'm being a little sarcastic guy. His email said that he bumped into her real hard to try to get her attention. So tell us how that happened, Mark, Well, not real hard. Um. So anyway, Yes, Rebecca, I met her at a club.

She absolutely stunning. I noted to her right when she walked in, and so I immediately started figuring out ways of trying to talk to her. So I ended up going over to her and kind of dancing there and purposely bumping into her. After I was like, why did you bump into me? She was like, you bumped into me, and so that's actually pretty smooth. Yeah, I didn't think it was too offensive. So see, I was picturing it totally different. I was picturing like you guys were playing

hockey and she had a drink in her hand. He just slammed her up against the wall and the drink went everywhere. Yeah, so obviously it worked out for you since you got a date with her. Yeah. Like I said, man, she was absolutely stunning, slightly out of my league, but you know, I mean it worked. We chatted up at the club the rest of the night. I asked her for a number and if she would want to go out some time. She gave it to me. You gotta

be honest. I was worried that she was gonna give me the Loser Line segment that we do on seven ten and nine ten on Monday mornings, the Loser Line number, But we didn't hear your voicemail on that, so obviously it was a real number. That's nice. Yeah, it really was, and so we set it up and it was great. Man, I was excited. Did you put a lot of thought into what you guys were going to do on your date?

You know? I actually just kind of wanted to keep it casual, just kind of started off with dinner and just kind of see where it led from there and how did it lead? Was good? Well, when I first pulled up to her house, and when I walked up to the door, she had actually opened the door before I even knocked that she was looking out the people and expected you, and it was just well, if he said he was going to be there at a certain time,

why wouldn't she. Yeah, I mean I do that if somebody's coming over to my house, I'll look out the windows see if they're there. But I never opened the door before they're there, act like that from the knock and be like, oh, there you are. It's kind of weird to just be like I was sitting right here next to the door and open it up. No, it was just for me. It was a wonderful surprise. I mean, it got me pretty excited that she it seemed like she was that excited. Yeah, totally. It's a great side

I think it's awesome. Yeah, that's what I thought. Then I gave her a hug and said we should get out of here, and I made some dinner reservations, and I go to my car and turned around and realized she just was still standing there in the doorway, just stood there in the door. Yeah, I didn't move. Maybe she was stunned by your good looks. What was she doing in the doorway. I don't know what she was

doing in there. Uh, I didn't know, if you know, the club light hit me right that night and daylight it wasn't so good or I don't know, so she seemed stunned. Yeah, I don't know. She just kind of stared at me with this weird look, and I stared back and just kind of said we should go. And I don't know, she kind of stepped into it and got in the car. Maybe she was expecting you to carry her to the car. Be a gentleman, everything about

that man. She was that hot enough that I would have done it if she had give her a piggyback ride to your car door. Was that the only strange thing that happened on your date? Um? Yeah, sorted. You know, dinner was good conversation was relatively smooth. I kind of was offended that she actually had set up something for after our date, which I thought was kind of weird. Not knowing that the date was ending after dinner. You know, I didn't know if she was lying or just making excuses.

At that point, I was gonna say, did she not tell you about that beforehand? No? No, No she didn't. I will say, even if she wasn't lying, a lot of times, going into a date, a girl will set something up just in case as her out or as a way to stop herself from going home with you that night. Yeah, thanks for trying to be nice to him. That doesn't So how did everything in? Then? After she said she had plans, she actually had me drop her off a few blocks away on a different street corner,

and yeah it was and she was getting out. I just was like, can I call you again? And she just yelled sure? And have you called her? I wouldn't be calling you guys if I didn't. And how many times have you tried to call her? Um? Probably more than I should have, But I mean, I definitely want to let her know I want to go out again. And if you know, I did do something wrong. I

don't know. I definitely want to know and see if I can fix it, or you know, if it turns out she's just not attracted to you, are you gonna have hurt feelings? Ah No, that's fine. That's you know, people's preference. It's you know, it's what it is. Yeah, and you said she was out of your league anyway, so you should hardly know that might happen. So you dropped her off on the street corner. He dropped off on the street corner, and that's the last you've seen her,

heard from her. Yeah, So I mean alien abduction ever crossed your mind? It happens so much. There's TV shows about it. It happens all the time. I really don't think we'll play a song. Come back, call her and get your second date update the inn her right, thank you guy, okay man brooking jubil in the morning, right in the middle of a second date update, and Mark is on the phone with us. Mark went out on

a date with a girl named Rebecca. After the date, she said she had plans, and he dropped her off on a street corner a few blocks away, and she disappeared. And he hasn't heard from her since now. Mark just thinks she's not calling him back. But experts say that she was abducted by aliens, and that expert would be me. I'm almost positive that when we dial her phone number to try to get her on the phone to find out what we're wrong on the date, nobody will answer

because she's currently in space being examined by aliens. Mark, on the other hand, does not agree with me. But Mark, we're going to call the number either way and see who's right. I hope you're ready to be wrong, buddy. I don't know. I guess I did see a strange light that night out in my window. Starting to put it all together. You're changing, You're slowly changing my mind. I didn't feel really weird to drop a girl off after dinner on a dark street corner and her like

want that to happen. I'm in a dark street corner. It was the well lit street that she was meeting her friends. I was just I just really wanted the date to keep going. I didn't want it to sure meeting her friends, her friends from a far off galaxy who would beam her up into space, never to be heard from again. All right, I'm gonna do the phone of her right now, see if we can get her on the phone and fight out what went wrong in her date. Okay, awesome? Hello, Hi is Rebecca there? Yeah,

this is her Rebecca. How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Ohkay, I'm calling because you recently went out on a date with one of our listeners and he emailed us to see if we could get you on the phone. His name is Mark. Oh and you met Mark out at a club and then you guys went to dinner, and ever since your date you haven't responded to any of his phone calls or text messages. So he emailed us and was like, can you guys see if you can call her and

find out what went wrong? This is really bizarre. He told us how you guys went out and then you said you had to meet up with some friends. Was the friends thing an excuse to get out of the date? I mean, I mean he was you know, he was nice. You still haven't answered my question, Rebecca, did you make up the fact that you were meeting up with your friends later as an excuse to get out of your date with him? I mean, I'm going to take that as a yes, Yeah, just take that. So why did

you do that? What was so bad about the date? For me? I'm more like old fashioned when it comes to dating and stuff, and I definitely believe that a gentleman should act a certain way, and I kind of feel like he fell short of my expectations. Do you

mean was he not opening doors? And I mean when we first met up, when he came to my house to pick me up, you know, I was waiting for him at the door, and I just felt like, you know, he came to greet me and that was fine, and he gave me a hug, and then I was kind of just waiting, you know, for him to kind of set the tone of the date. Especially with the first impression. He just didn't really do it right. What did you want him to do? To do? I mean, sounds pretty

good to me. I don't know. I just think like like when a gentleman comes to pick up a lady, you know, he should bring her like a little token of his appreciation, like flowers or maybe a stuck animal or something. It doesn't have anything, you know, expensive, but just something to say hi, and you know, I appreciate you taking the time to go out with me today.

He didn't bring you, essentially a gift, and that upset you. Yeah, wait, do most men Okay, hold on, do most men bring you a gift when you go out on a first date? Because I've never encountered it. I mean, not every time, but I mean the ones that don't bring me a gift don't really see me ever again. And the ones that do, I, you know, am willing to take the next step or maybe a second date. And I know a lot of people will call me old fashioned. I feel like you kind of feel that way, and maybe

I am, and you know, maybe you're not. People just do things differently and talk different you know, standards of and stuff. Okay, so that so, well, how is everything else? How is everything else on the date? Other than the fact that he did not bring you a gift? Um, he seemed genuinely nice. And it's just it did start off a little sour, and when it kind of starts off that way, it's hard to really get like the

butterfly's going and stuff like that. He said when you picked you up, that there was a moment where you just stood at the door. Well, I just thought that he was going out to get the gift after he came up empty handed first picking up on what was happening, So you assumed that he was going back to his car to grab you whatever it was. Yeah, like I thought he had forgotten it in this car. So you knew in that moment when when you were at the door and he had nothing for you, that you would

never go out on the date with him. Again, I didn't know at that moment. I thought, Baby, somewhere down the line, there'd be like a surprise or maybe a gift waiting, like on the seat in the car or at the restaurant or something like that. But yeah, then when I realized, it kind of just figgled out for me. So he took you out the whole time and no gift, right, no gift. You know what. I think he should realize that he needs me more of a gentleman. We should

tell him that, go for it. But how about you tell him because he's actually on the line listing right now. I Rebecca, Oh my god, I didn't know you were there. Yeah, listen, I'm I Rebecca. I'm I'm really sorry. I had no clue what your expectation was for our day. Um, you know. I mean, I don't think it's too much of an expectation for a girl to feel like excited and appreciated

the first time she goes out. And you know, it just didn't really live up to what I thought you were gonna be when you showed up without like a gift or something. I mean, this is I don't have time to teach a guy how I'm really romantic. You're I You're right. I I completely agree with you. I don't know, I don't know where my head was. I definitely should have, you know, brought something. Are you serious right now? Mark? Thank you? Mark? I do appreciate you

saying that. Yeah. No, I mean, people have their ways, and she's absolutely beautiful and she knows it and she deserves to be treated from the very beginning just like that. You know, she's like putting like all the emphasis on material things, right, I want to say like material things. I mean, I don't care. He could have read me a poem at my door, and that would have been something. It doesn't have to be something that costs money, you

know what I mean, just a gesture. You actually want a band to stop and read you poetry when he picks you up, she's a fashion that's just awkward. I mean, what's awkward about a guy who's trying to actually lou a girl and you know, be old fashioned and be romantic. If you don't like romance, I mean, that's on you. But I would like to steal something when I meet someone. Yeah, sometimes you want a guy to show up and read you a sonnet. It's like a Shakespeare type experience. But

like I said, it could have been anything. I mean, I'm not expecting diamonds. It's just the thought that goes into something like that, and a guy who knows how to treat a woman. Listen, I totally understand what you're saying. I definitely should have been way more of a gentleman and much more attentive to your needs. You know, I'm really sorry I didn't get you a gift. Hey, Rebecca, if you think about it right now, this is sort

of a gift. Yeah. Hey, he went through all this effort to try to get a second date with you. Would you like to go on a second date with him? We will pay for it, And Rebecca, I promise I will get you two gifts, one to make up for the last time and one for this time. You hear that, Rebecca, this could work out in your favor. Oh my god, two gifts. I mean, I really appreciate the effort, and you know, if you are willing to do that, I I I'd give you a second chance, even though I

really shouldn't. You know, A real man would just know. But you know you have gone through all these great names, and I'd say, okay, oh god, I promise you won't be disappointed. There you go, Rebecca. You should know. A real man should already know. But sometimes a lady needs to teach a man how to act. And so maybe Mark just learned right now how to treat you. I think we've made progress here today. So I will pay for a second day for you guys. But Mark, you're

you get the gifts yourself. Okay, that's that's awesome. Yeah right, so that's a yes from both of you. Guys will go out again, Yes, gifts on their dates like congratulations you two, yea, thank you. I feel like this is a start something really good. Oh yeah, but I started something good. I mean the start of Mark being bankrupted in the morning text in at seven eight five nine two it says that right that girl's old fashioned. That's why she met the dude at the club in the morning.

I'm talking about the second date. Update. This guy Mark want us to call a girl named Rebecca. She wasn't calling him back after their date. The reason why she wasn't calling back because he didn't show up with some sort of gift. And to make matters worse, he actually agreed to go out with her again if he would get her a gift, like a proper gentleman. Two gifts, one to make up for the first date where he didn't break one. She must have been super hot. I

don't know. People are texting in at seven eight, five, nine two. A lot of people are like, what a materialistic idiot? And you know, but then there are some people texting in like good, it's nice to hear a woman stand up for old fashioned values. That you got gifts all the time in the old date. I don't know. I don't buy flowers until it's like a third or fourth I can count on one hand how many times my husband has gotten me flowers. Well, your that's your marriage. But ye