Are you single and feeling out of the loop? Put away that mouse and get out of the house. Join in the Loop, Seattle's brand new activities club just for singles. Put in the Loop singles dot com today looking Jules second date. You know that you had a successful date when at the end of the date to drop her off and you text her and say, hey, we should totally go out again sometime. I had so much fun. And then she texts you back and says, hey, please
never text me again. That's how you know that you have had yourself a successful first date, man. And that's apparently what happened to Dave, who was on the phone with us right now. He wants to do a second date update to a girl named Hannah. What happened, Dave? I don't know, man, I'm really confused by what was going on. You said your email said that at the end of your date you texted her and said I'd love to see you again, and she texted you back
and said, don't ever text me again. You don't know what went wrong on your date. I really don't. I'm with a little nerves that could be it, but I really don't know what happened. How could you possibly think that doing a second date is a good idea? Then if she said, never talk to me again, you know, just to show her, you know, I was just nerves and I'm really a cooler person than she may think I am. I think another shot and I might get
it okay. So you just you just want to basically call up and beg her for a second date when you know she's not interested. When you put it like that, it doesn't sound desperate at all. Why don't you tell us a little bit about your date? Well, I just got out of a long relationship and a friend who a friend told me that this girl, Hannah, she just
got out of a long relationship too. When I checked her out on Facebook and she seemed pretty cool, and the date got set up and we went out, I might have been a little shaky, a little jittery, because you know, it's my first date after so long. Did you did you talk about how you had just got out of the long relationship a lot? It might have referenced it once or twice, but I don't think it
was that much. But you didn't sit across to the table from her and go, oh, you remind me so much of my ag We used to have so much fun together. No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't do that. Okay, we laugh and joke, but that has happened on second date updates. That is a real struggle out there. It is hard, you know, after being with someone for so long and trying to start over. But I made an active effort to just be focused on her. How was the conversation on the date, It was pretty good. It
was light. Um, I might have been talking a little bit of a higher register. When I get nervous. My point always kind of changes and raises, though, and I did talk a little jittery. I'm a little nervous right now calling into you guys. It's it's a little it's a little hard. I'm not I'm not a good public speaker. And it takes you give it a speech to this. When you get to know new people, you know how hard it is to make that connection, and it takes a little bit of work and trying to figure out
how to say things the right way. But she must have done something though, to make her angry to give you a response like that right after the day. Don't you think all I know is at one point I went to the bathroom, and when I came back, things was totally different. Oh what do you mean? It was different? Like before I went to the bathroom. You know, we were talking, laughing, she was making jokes and we were
having a good time. But when I came back from the bathroom, she was just cold and distant, like a completely different person. Oh yeah, it was like a personality change. It was like she was replaced with a robot. Maybe she's possessed by a demon. Oh yeah, that should be your automatic job to conclusion. She sounds like a crazy person to me. Did you spend like an uncomfortable amount of time in the bathroom? I don't think so. I don't.
I don't like what you're implying. Minutes. Maybe things got weird, I don't know. And you know, I was nervous beforehand, but when I came back, she was totally silent. I got more nervous. I got shaky. I was trying to really force the conversation and my boy Scott really high. It felt so uncomfortable. How long after you came back from the bathroom did the date continue? Five minutes? Maybe that's it. Yeah, it wasn't that long, Like it was awkward for like a minute, and then she told me
she had to go. Do you know is she over her AX? Because you said they were together a long time. I don't know. It didn't come up much in the conversation. I mean, like if I was on a date and like my ex boyfriend texted me, it definitely changed my mood. Yeah, but you wouldn't say never call me again. You wouldn't have Yeah, you might be like, I'm kind of busy, we can't go out again, not like, hey, you're an a hole ever contact me. I want to know why.
It just the finality of it, That's just all I want. I just want to know why. All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, call her and find out why she hates you. Okay, we'll get your second date update right after your thank you looking jubil in the morning. Dave is on the phone with us right now. We're about to call a girl named Hannah who he went out on a date with. We know that Hannah doesn't like Dave very much at all, but what we don't
know is why she doesn't like him. Apparently the date was going fine, and then at some point he got up to go to the bathroom, came back and she was very cold. The date ended shortly after that. He even texted her after the date was like, we should totally hang out again, and she texted him back saying, don't ever text me again. You know that's so mean to laugh. But Dave, I think I figured out why she might be mad at you. Really. Yeah, I think the mistake you made was you didn't invite her to
the bathroom with you. That's a little trick that not a lot of guys know. Chicks dig it when you look at them across the table, go hey, I gotta go to the bathroom. You want to come with me and do stuff? What are we gonna do? Hold it for you while you go? Sure, whatever you want, I said, I said do stuff. It could be anything. So maybe she's upset because you didn't invite her to the bathroom with you. I don't think. Okay, I'm a dollar phone
umber right now, you're ready? I'm ready? Okay, here we go, fancy I got a nice ring tone? Yeah? Hello, Hi, can I speak to Hannah please? This is Hannah, Hey, Hannah, how are you doing? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. The radio show. Okay, how are you today, I'm fine. I'm calling you because we recently got an email from someone who listens to our show asking if we could get you on the phone. Okay, his name is Dave, and you two recently went out
on a date. I don't quite understand. It's a segment we do on our show called the Second Date Update, and that's why Dave emailed us. Ah, and Dave told us a little bit about your date and how at the end of it he texted you saying you should hang out again, and you told him you never wanted to talk to him again. Essentially, that's correct. Yes, do you have a few minutes to talk to us, because Dave really wants to know what he did wrong? Can you tell us what happened? I kind of thought he
would have figured it out by now. Oh really, so he should know how he screwed up. He really should. He told us we talked to him about your date, and he said that everything seemed fine and that you two were hitting it off. And then he says he went to the bathroom and came back and you seemed very cold and distant, and then the date ended shortly after that. Yes, it did. He kept saying how nervous and shy he was. But I got a feeling after he went to the bathroom that he's not always that way.
Who did Was he making like weird noises in there or something that would have been even better? But everything was going fine. He'd excuse himself, and as I was sitting there, I got a stopchat message from him. Okay, he was snapchatting you from the bathroom, right. That was a little odd in the first place. Okay, but I don't think that he meant to snapchat me. What what do you mean by that? I think he meant to send it to a friend or a group of friends,
and I accidentally got included. What did he say? Well, I understand, I'm sitting at a table in a restaurant and I opened this video and as it starts playing, there he is with urinals behind him, and he says, hey, guys, in the middle of the state, and this guy's about to bang his first telling years. Are you serious? Oh, I'm serious? And that it didn't stop. He kept going. I mean when we talked to him, he sounded like
the most conservative, nervous dude on the planet. Yeah, and maybe one of his faces, but he's definitely got two sides to him. What else did he say in his snapchat? The next one was something like is she having down there? Or report back later because this guy's getting some God wow, no wonder you were annoyed when he came back. Yeah, you shouldn't have snapped him back, been like, hey, don't
come back to the table. I'm leaving. Honestly, I could not believe when I was watching the video and trying to remember that this was the sweet guy that was sitting across from the table telling me how nervous he was, And then I see this video and I literally I wanted to get up a run. I can't believe you didn't unleash on him when he came back to the table. I was so shocked. I didn't even know what to do. I looked up and he was walking out. Yeah, just
stabbed him with your butter. I came back exactly where I would have gone with it. I never use snapchat before. Isn't that obvious to like make that big of a mistake and not realize you're sending it to some It is because there's a lot of recent so you can accidentally click on the last person that I wonder if that's what he did. So who knows how many people he sent that too? So you think it was just like him bragging to his friends about something that he
thought was going to happen. I have no idea what would possess anybody to send something like that. I don't think he has any idea that he sent that snapchat to you. There's no way. Maybe he needs to learn how to use Snapchat better. Maybe I'd love to find out if he knows that he sent that snapchat to you. Yeah, I don't really care. I don't ever really want to talk to him again. Oh that's too bad, because Hannah,
he's actually on the other line listening right now. Seriously, if he hasn't hung up yet, Dave, are you there? Oh my Dave, you're an idiot. Seriously, you're out on a nice date and you decide to go to the bathroom and call your data and stuff like that's your friends. Honestly, I wasn't being serious. I'm so sorry, but you weren't being serious. Well what did you go think? What happening? Well, yeah, I'm gonna go out with this guy again, and I'm
gonna meet your friends who got this video? I don't think so, go on. I'm so sorry. I did not mean to do that. I'm sure you didn't, but you did. You did do it. Yeah, it's it's a tough place to come back from when you call your data and then talk about it. If you're going to discover it for another reasons or if or not, you know, there's something he will never find out. You was just me being messaging my friends. It was just boys being boys.
I really didn't mean anything. Vite, oh, boys being boys, but you obviously tended to more than just your boys because I got it. Yeah, where were you sending it to your whole contact list, Dave? I didn't mean to. I meant to just send it to a few friend. Do you always call your dates at when you're talking to your buddies? I mean, that's the real problem here. No, god, No, I was only joking. I haven't been out on a date in six years. I wonder why. I really don't.
But I don't think you're at It doesn't matter if you're not. If you great, Oh my god, I really don't care what you meant or didn't mean, the fact. If you set this out there's nothing you could do to change that, you know, Hannah, I promised if you gave me one chance, I can prove that I'm not that guy. I really am not that guy. You are that guy? Yeah, I'm really No. I think Dave you are that guy because you did it. But I would still love to ask Hannah if you will go out
with Dave on a second date. Hannah, we will pay for it. It's not gonna happen, Dave, not now, not ever. This isn't sexy. I'm over it. Please just just just what seriously? All right? Well, Hannah, thank you for your time, and I appreciate you staying on with us and telling us what happened. You're welcome. Also, I would like to answer his question, though, Hannah, And which question is that?
Then things go? I'm just fine broken jewel in the morning, just got a text message in at seven eight five nine two says my friend accidentally snapchatted his junk to his whole contact list shut on when he meant to send it to his girlfriend. Oh my god, that's so amazing. How much would you pay to accessdently get one of those? Said to you? Amazing? If I also, I opened up a friend snapchat and it was that they would never hear the end of it. Why did they text that end? Well,
because of case you missed the second date update. Dave wanted us to call this girl named Hannah because she wasn't calling him back after their date. Actually, she was pretty blunt that you never wanted to see him again.
Dave went to the bathroom during their date sent a snapchat to his friends saying like, Oh, I'm totally gonna nail her right after, you know, things like that, and he accidentally sent it to Hannah, who was sitting at the table, got the text that he or the snapchat that he had sent from the bathroom, and decided that she didn't want to go out with him again. Yeah, because he was like an undercover douchebag, like he was playing nice guy the whole time and then in reality,
oh you're that guy. No, no, no, I think he is a nice guy and he was excited just trying to show off to his friends and it made him look like a bad guy. Yeah, one guy who always refers to his dates as salutes. The only thing that we did learn is make sure you check your snapchats or text messages a couple of times before you send it. Yeah, only send that type of stuff to the people you want to send it to and not the person that you're out on a date with because it won't end
well for you, all right. Remember if you want a second day up, they don't have to do his email the show Brooke and Jubileet movie to five com. You will call the person who didn't call you back.