Second Date Update PODCAST: No More Mrs. Nice Girl

the seven month rule standard? I know, I know, it seems crazy that it took her long. Why didn't it take two months to go out with this guy? Are you that cautious? No? I mean it's just kind of timing and everything. First, you know, when you're on those apps, like you meet like eight million different people. So first it was like the little highest, you know. Over the next couple of weeks, it slowly kind of ramped up.

Then we were starting to like get a little flirting, you have a little fun, and we was all g rated, but we were texting constantly. You know. It was kind of back and forth and at work with your either sneaking peaks at your phone, you kid, you know, you hurt the little gang and you're all excited. So, oh, is this normally how you do it with dates? It takes you this long? No? No, this one was just a cool situation kind of that we were actually taking

a little time to get to know each other. And yeah, it sounds like you guys actually got to know each other better than I know anybody in my life. Too much texting back and forth, and then you guys actually went out. What did you guys do when you finally met up? We just met for drinks and we just kind of clicked right off the bat. I mean I was laughing so hard. My face was hurting, you know how when your cheeks starts to hurt because you're having so much fun and you sound like you're a hard

person to get to laugh. So I imagine he was really hysterical. Yeah. True, I hope he was really funny, and I just really liked him. If we just kept talking and talking and we're kind of, you know, having a drink and you know a couple of times you felt bad, It's like, oh my gosh, this is going on a long time. I'm having a really good time, but I didn't want him to be stuck, so he's like trying to give him an out, and I was like, you know, it's late, I understand if you need to go.

We're going to work tomorrow and all that. And he's like, no, you know, it's like I'm having too much fun. I don't want to go. And that's how exactly how I felt. Oh yeah, that's good. And at least you guys didn't like learn everything about each other that two months and then you had nothing to talk about. You're like, yeah, I know everything about you. So how did the date end? Then? It was really sweet. He walked me to my car and you know he just you know, give me a

nice kiss on the cheek and said good night. And it was great. That is sweet. Was there plans to go out again? Well, you know, we'd mentioned that we were going to look at our calendars and it just changed and all of a sudden, you know, I'm not hearing from him. I'm starting all the text conversations. And when I got a response back, and it took a while to get a response, it would be like really short, almost like kind of rude, like it was like a

completely different person. Wow, Wow, And why do you think that is? Do you think you upset him in some way? You know, it's so funny. I've been over this so many times in my head, and I did realize and I feel kind of bad that I did not offer to split the check, and because he just kind of grabbed it and took care of it. So I didn't think anything of it because, you know, gentlemanly on the first date. But we were there a long time and we had, you know, a good amount of food, so

I imagine it was probably pretty big bill. Did you thank him, I mean, did you thank him for paying? Oh? Oh my gosh, of course, yeah. I see, you weren't rude. But there are a couple other things that that have been like kind of occurring to me, and I've had plenty of time to think about it. We did talk a little bit about like politics and religion, but it seems okay because we seemed to be on the same

page with everything. Here you're both Satan worshippers. That crazy, but you know, we just seemed like we were, you know, kind of on the same page. So it didn't seem like a big deal, didn't seem like it was super controversial. And then the only other thing that I didn't think it was a big deal, but like while we were walking in my car, I told him, I'm like, please don't look at my car we get there, because it's kind of a mess. Oh yeah, oh god, I understand that.

You know, I didn't think that much of it, But I'm like, I don't know, maybe he was really scoping it out the something, and you know, I thought it was bad. I don't know, that's not a big deal. Do you think he like looked in your car and it was filthy and that's why he doesn't want to go out with you. And those are the only things. I've had an entire week to try to figure this out, and those are the only things I can come up with. I mean, I don't know, those would be really weird

reasons not to cause somebody back. I feel like, I mean, the religion thing and the politics thing maybe, but if he was offended, you think you would know right away that you can like see it in their face. Totally totally Okay. It's appointing to go from like such a high, it's such a low. Oh it's killing me. It's absolutely killing me. That's why I'm like, that's why I'm talking to you guys. Okay, well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and get your second day update. Okay,

think you so much. I really need this. We'll get to it in about two months. How about that brooking jubil in the morning right in the middle of a second date update? And if you're just tuning in, Mel is on the phone and she wants to call a dude named Evan. Apparently they had a great date. They actually talked online for two months before they even went out, and then when they had their date, something went horribly wrong because mel had something in her car, something that

she didn't want anybody to know about. And unfortunately, she thinks that might be one of the reasons that he's not calling her back, because at the end of the date everything was going fine and they walked out and she said, don't look in my car, and she thinks maybe he looked, and Mel, I don't know what you had in your car, but I'm thinking you shouldn't have drawn attention to what was in there. Okay, you're probably right, but I mean, it wasn't that bad. It's just a

whole lot of stuff. There is it a lot of stuff like your gym bag and your work stuff. Or is it like a lot of old food rappers and dirty It's mostly like the jim bag and stuff. But there might be a couple bags. It's not like a big deal. I mean, I could clean it out in just a couple of minutes. I just didn't have time to do it before I drove there. Are you sure there's no bodies of former boyfriends? And no, I'm pretty sure. I probably don't even know underneath all the other stuff. Okay,

pretty MESSI one of those guys could have gotten lost somewhere. Well, we're about to call Evan and get him on the phone and find out why he's not calling you back. Do you have any last words before we make the phone call. I just really hoping that there's like a good reason and maybe it's something really simple that that can be solved, because I can't tell you. I feel so happy. It just felt so good. It's the end

of our day. I'm just kind of baffled by all the man I'm nervous, and now I'm going to be really sad for you if this doesn't work out. I'm gonna be sad too. All right. Well, on that note, I'll doll have the phone number and get him on the phone and see what he has to say. You ready, Yeah, let's do it. Hey, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Evan please? Oh yeah, this is here maskw som Yes you may. This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. How are you? I'm doing well? Um?

What can I do for you? Do you have any idea who I am or where I'm calling from or anything? No? But I mean what what can I do for you? Okay? Well, my name is Jewbil and a host of radio show called Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. On the phone are also Brooke and jose H. How many are there more? People? No? This is it right here? Just us? All right? Do you need something? What we do? Yeah? We got an email about you from one of our listeners. What her name is mel? And you guys went out on a

date the other day? Whoa no? Nah? Nah? Okay, no no you did? Right? Yeah? Yeah you did? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? But why is she no? What do you mean that question? It's a statement. So let me explain to you. Okay, we do a segment on our show called the Second date update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up giving them the cold shoulder after they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and find out what

went wrong. So you've been kind of avoiding mail, and she was hoping maybe we could talk to you and figure out why. Oh come on, this is low. This is not what is not a thing? What's low about it? I mean she was really into you, man. She said that you guys talked for two months leading up to the date. I mean, yeah, but that's none of your business. Well, she sort of made it our business. So now we're on the phone with you asking why you don't want

to see her again. Dude, I mean, you could have just told her to begin with and we would have avoided all of this. Oh no, she's she's not the woman I envisioned myself being with. Oh no, okay, is it a looks thing? Is that we are implying? Oh no, I'm not. I'm not that superficial. So it's about her personality, not her looks that it's not. It's who she is as a person that is deep. Man. What don't you like about her as a person? We talked to her, you know, and found out a little bit about your day,

and she sounded cool to me, sounded nice. Yeah, yeah, she's very nice. She's a very nice girl. Okay, it's kind of the problem. I mean, nice girls are good to work with, they're good to have his sisters. That's not what I'm into. Wait, she's nice and you don't like her because you want a bad girl? Yeah, okay, all right? Is that it? Yeah? I mean she's not mean enough, mean like you wanted her to insult you or the woman I'm attracted to needs to have an edge? Okay,

and what what does that mean for you? How do you define a woman with an edge? It's like she's got this air of danger about her, you know, a little a little off a cuff, something not right, slightly mentally unstable. Is kind of what you're looking for? No, no, no, I just want I want a girl that you know, can lash out kind of on a on a moment's notice, or like no reason. So surprised me. All right, So you're looking for a girl who's a little bipolar. No,

it's just these nice girls. What you see is what you get, and that's that's no fun. Okay, all right. I guess there's something for everybody out there, and I'm sure there's plenty of women like you're describing that are looking for a guy who likes that. Yeah, that's watching. On our date, I brought up politics, you know, politics are the perfect opportunity to argue about something, and then she just ended up agreeing with everything that I said,

and it was really boring. I mean, I kind of get what you're saying, but I feel like you guys talked and texted for two months leading up to this date. Didn't you realize she was a nice person before you tried to bait her with politics. I mean, hey, I'm not the same person over texts as I am in real life, and I was kind of hoping she was the same way. Okay, so you're hoping she was just playing sweet to lure you to dinner and then she was just going to rip your head off about something.

You never know. Some women, there's there's always this mystery around them, but with her, there wasn't any. Well, Evan, there is a little bit of mystery because she's actually on the other line listening right now. I wants to talk to you. What she is yep, I am, and I didn't mean for you to hear all that. I'm sorry. This is the absolutely dumbest reason I have ever heard or could even imagine, not like someone I'm too nice? Yeah, it's just what I like. And I just wasn't that

into you know how nice you were being. You weren't being at all. No fire there sounds so ridiculous. Well, this is officially the stupidest thing you have ever done in your entire life. And I'm starting to like, really kind of question that I thought you seemed so intelligent and thoughtful and rational, and you're really turning that around for me. I'm not quite so sure about your IQ anymore. How many intelligent conversations we can have? Is that more

what you like? That here after looks? Does that satisfy you? I'm not gonna lie. That turned me on a little bit. Oh my gosh, I could be a mean girl. You're like a masochist. I'm not like that, guys. I just like a girl with a little bit of edge. And like, I know she's trying right now, but that's the point is she has to try. Yeah, mel, you should not have to try to be a horrible person. You should

just be a horrible person. Seriously, because we agree on politics, we can't sit and watch cable news and get riled up and yell at the TV. We have to yell at each other. Maybe you guys have things that you can get angry on together. I just want someone to go after like me a little bit, call me out on my stuff. I don't need anyone to be yelling at Anderson Cooper for me. You want to be yelling for Anderson Cooper and you want them to be behind you about to hit you over the head with a

frying pan because they disagree. I sorry, think it could be east Bearing easier to yell at you, Evan. I was like, maybe I could become that person. You know, you say that, but I don't. I don't think it's actually in you. I think when push comes to shove, you're just going to be very pleasant. Oh why why didn't you man up and just tell me that? Oh there you go, Evan, she's questioning your manhood. Are you questioning my manhood? Yeah? Oh yes I am, Thank you

very much. Well I don't like it. Well, apparently that's what you do like, And you're gonna sit there and take it like you should. Yeah, I feel like we're getting in the middle of something. Hell, this is this is kind of riling me up. It's not a bad thing. Well, now that you're all riled up, Evan, would you like to go out on a second date with Mel? We will pay for it? Yeah, bro, you know if she can keep this suck? Yeah, definitely with him, don't. I mean,

it's not bad that what he wants. But like, you don't need to change who you are. Mel, I don't think you're right. I don't think there's a thing. It's being too nice And no, I'm not interested anymore. What are you talking about? You called me, you had these people call me, So now you're into it? Evan? What good thing I did? Because I found out what you're really like? And now I won't keep thinking you were so amazing. I know the truth. I just found out

what you were like. I like it, like it. So now Mel Evan is officially interested, although now you don't want to go out with him? Right? No? Yeah, I'm done? Okay, Okay, well full circle. It really did. Mel. Thank you for doing the second date update today. I'm sure you can find a guy out there who likes a nice lady. Thank you, you're welcome. And Evan, yeah, you can keep trying for a date with mel and if that doesn't work, I got some ex girlfriends numbers for you. Love them.

Oh my god, broken jewil in the morning.