Second Date Update PODCAST: Nighty Nite

let's go out for beers after. I don't know find out right now though. His name is Rob, what's up, Rob? Hey? Yeah, I know it's not come flu. It's kravmagah Um. It's really martial art developed in the army. Basically, it's all about hitting the weak points of people and causing the most damage. They say, you don't want to cause pain, you want to cause damage. So it's basically like any women that take the class, it just shows them to hit a dude in the junk over and over again. Yeah, basically.

And I mean I think the dudes too, like they would also be opted to hit a lot of attackers are bigger than you, so it sounds like a pretty easy class of teach. Just hit people in the jump. I mean there's more to it than that. But yeah, eventually, So you you met her in this class. What's her name name d Dana? And how did you end up asking her out? We've been partnered up. We're kind of I mean, she was newer. She says she's doing it for fitness. I've been doing it for a little while

because I don't know. I actually got robbed, so I've been trying to like learn how to defend against that and like kill people with my hands. I haven't killed anything yet. Wait you want to No, no, it only say you try to rob me again. Okay, don't take this guy's cell phone. Yeah, the way you said that, that sounded like you just can't wait to go and snap somebody's neck. I'm turning my body into a lethal weapon. So you got robbed and decided to take this class. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay,

So I met her. She's been doing it for a little bit and so and I assume there's a lot of girls in the class, because most self defense classes are majority of women. Yeah, there's a lot. It's actually pretty much like fifty percent women. Sometimes like more women than guys in this class. It's a good way to meet women. I mean, that's not why I went, but yeah, it's also a good way to get punched in the junk for being a little too forward. Yeah, she didn't

punch you in the junk, though, she went out with you. Yeah, I asked around. She decided to go out with me after class. Nice, and what did you guys do? Well, we drove around for a bit, and one's exciting. Yeah, well I just wanted to talk to her in the car. I don't know, it's a good conversation place. That is weird. You purposely drove around just so you could talk to her longer. Well, we were gonna go somewhere for a day, but we just couldn't really take a place. So we've

been kind of driving for like an hour. We decided, I don't know. Someone were like talking about getting like a movie or something from red Box and just watching it over at my place, and you're like, no, right, I don't do dates outside of the car. Did the red Box date happen? Did you guys go back to your place? Yeah? We went back to my place. Um, all right, so here's the here's the thing. Like, I know it kind of sounds cliche and everything, but like I do live at my mom's house. Um, I'm in

the basement. There's like a separate entrance, so like I don't have um, it's my mom's house, but I do have privacy. It's not dude, it's your house. You have your own door. Yeah, yeah, you have your own door. Dude, that's completely different place. It doesn't sound cliche. It sounds just like a turn off where she turned off by that. You think, well, I didn't really tell her about it until we were at the door of the separate entrance.

Good idea. But if it was I mean, if it was a basement apartment, why would you have to tell her at all. I don't know. I just kind of wanted, I like being honest, I just wanted to be upfront with her right away that it's better to let her know that and be like, I got my own apartment and then she finds out that it's actually at your mom's place. Yeah, so once you were in your place, was everything cool? Yeah, we watched the movie. Um it

went well. Things started, I mean things started to pick up and happen after the movie she's yeah, she's she's bet night. Oh she did. Dude. That's always nerve wracking when you're spending the night at someone's mom's house, Like, is the mom gonna come down? Should I be closed the entire time? What if I have a run in? Well, I mean she does kind of give me about privacy, so it doesn't that, luckily didn't happen. You didn't have

to run upstairs and clear it with her. No, did she have to do the walk of shame and your mom saw her? No? Well, that's the thing was the next morning. I mean that's where things felt kind of weird, like, and the whole date seemed great up until the next morning. So I woke up and I saw her like walking out the door, and I was just like, where are you going? And then she said that she called a friend to come pick her up okay, and then she was just like go back to bed, oh nicely? Or mean,

I couldn't really tell. It was just kind of like an awkward thing. And then I just haven't been able to get a hold of her, Like I haven't seen her in class or anything. She just like han't be going to class. I called her and one time she did pick up. Um, she was like just kind of silent for a bit, like she didn't even like talk to me at all, and then she just hung up the phone. Oh so she accidentally picked up That's what it seems like. Yeah, okay, why do you think she

doesn't want to talk to you so badly? I don't know. I mean, I don't think it was that bad. It was pretty good. That every band's worst sphere. We can't be the mom's house because she stayed the night. Yeah, I mean exactly, she wouldn't have stayed over in the first place. Yeah, all right, well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, thank you, all right, hang brooking jubil in the morning.

Some people like to get intimate underneath the stars. Some people like to do it under the covers, and others, like Rob, who's on the phone for a second date update right now, like to get intimate under their mom upstairs because she lives upstairs. And that's exactly what happened when Rob went out with Dana. Apparently they met in a crovmaga class. The self defense thingy what do you call self defense thingy is that, right, Rob, I don't

feel like that's right. Martial arts. Martial art, that's a better way to say. It's not very scary when you say it like that. Back up, but I know that self defense thing he called crop maga. So anyway, they met there and that night ended up going back to his place. They hooked up a little bit, and then in the morning all he remembers is her saying, I'm had my friend come pick me up, go back to bed, And that's the last time he's talked to her. He even tried to call her once and she picked up

the phone and then hung up on him. So we know she's not very happy with you for some reason. Rob. Yeah, I never heard how much alcohol was involved in your one night fling. Zero. You didn't, We didn't have any alcohol. Sober whoa sober one night stand? Yeah? I don't know. I didn't know those existed. You must be a hot Rob. Yeah, you get a sober one night stand in your mom's basement? Yeah?

How are you not getting called back? That's what I mean, man, I'm gonna catch Yeah, I guess all right, Well, I'm gonna dialar phone number right now and see if we can figure out what happened. Okay, all right, all right, Hello, Hi, May I speak to Dana please? Oh yeah, hey, Dana, how are you. This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry, what this is? Jewbil from Brook and Jewbil in the Morning. My own name? Strange? Yes, what's the deal with all the people? I don't think

you're kind of like in a conference call right now? Yeah? Yeah, what's what's going on with that? Well, it's a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm so confused, but okay, Well, we do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update, and you recently went out

with a listener of ours. His name is Rob oh okay, and Rob emailed us because he told us about how you met and how you hung out at his place or his mom's place, and then you left and they never called him, and he said he even called you at one point and you picked up and hung up on him. Well, I mean I didn't mean to hang up on him. I mean like I didn't want to answer,

but I felt bad hanging up on him. Yeah, you didn't want to hang up on the guy until you accidentally answered his phone call and then you were forced to hang up on him. Yeah, yeah, which was not good. I know, why did you hang up on him? I really didn't want to talk to him? Yeah, we got that. I mean that's usually why you hang up. But is there a reason you didn't want to talk to him? I don't know. I have a very good date with him, so I was kind of wanting to move on. What

was so bad about the date? Um? Well, I don't know what Rob told you. I don't know how much you guys know, but you've mentioned the mom's house, so that right there should be kind of an indicator that I don't want to go back. Yeah. I don't want to go back to his mom's house. No, not really, I not really. Okay though, come on, that could be kind of judge because you stayed the night there, so you didn't have that much of a problem with it the night of Well, I say the night because I

liked him. I mean, he was nice, he was cute. I liked him. That's why I stayed over. But why I hang up on him? Now? Like he's now ugly and what did you do? Yeah, it wasn't a thing that he did. It's it's just all that. They too want to forget about you want to forget about it? Yeah, I gus the present, it didn't happen, So there is a regret involved. Was he that bad in bed? I don't I don't really want to go into that. Yes, yes, no, No, I mean that wasn't the problem. The problem was it

was so embarrassing. Okay, here's what happened. So I agreed to stay over, and I realized a little bit too late I didn't have anything, like any clothes to sleep in, okay, and he offered to let me borrow something, so I said, okay, that's fine. And he goes upstairs and he brings down this nightgown. No, I don't even want to know the future of this nightgown. Why would he not just give you a T shirt of his nightgown? I don't know. I don't know. That's why I thought he was gonna do. No,

he went upstairs. He brings down this little flowery white like knee length nightgown with my curls on the end. Yeah, where do you think he got the nightgown from? Well, he went upstairs, So why don't you guys he brought you his mom's nightgown. He brought me his mom nightgown, which means he's okay sleeping with someone who's where wear in his mom's nightgown? Yeah? Apparently apparently. Oh my god, what did you say? Did you say anything? I didn't

really know what to say. I was kind said, oh, thanks, and okay, I just forgot about it, did you? But did you wear it? I did wear it? Yeah. I couldn't say. No, you slept in his mom's nightgown. I didn't know what else to do. No, wonder you want to forget the date? Yeah? I just don't forgot about it. Did he compliment you on how well you filled it out in anything? No? No, no, no, no, no no, no, Oh my god, I would cry. I was try, what

have you? Ripped it right off of his mom's body, like she's she's up there and watching reruns to something. He just grabs it from her like I did this for my date mom. I mean, I could see how to be an innocent mistake, but it's still like the biggest turn off ever. I can't know, and like I just feel though like he should have just thought, wow, this is weird, like like why did that not occur

to him? The day. That is a very good question, Dana, and a question, and I think we should ask him directly. And he is on the other line listening and wants to talk to you, so we can actually do that. Wait, I'm sorry what he's on the other line listening. No, he's not, Yes, I am Oh, oh my god. Look I now that you guys are saying this. I'm really embarrassed about the night. Yeah, well you should be embarrassed.

That's embarrassing. Okay, So, like here's the thing, Like I thought it would be like a nice thing, like I thought, like it's a nice nightgown. It's really like that was an expensive nightgown. And I'm like, my mom doesn't use it too much, so and it's clean. It's not like the war last night. How don't you even know the frequency of your mom's nightgowns. That's weird right there. Oh

my god. But but like you had t shirts. Yeah, but like I thought, you want something like nice and comfortable to sleep in, like like something that sleeping on the couch in your mom's basement to Seph, you can pull out couch. You don't have a bed, No, but my pullout couch is really nice, just like my mom's nightgown. Dude, Oh my god, I won't even do a foot on a pull out couch in your mom's basement. I don't

know what to do with that. No, you'd be surprised how many women have slept down there in the past. But that I want to focus on this though. I don't want to talk about Oh, you know, you'd be surprised how many women have warned my mom's all right, you guys are like taking this all out of context

and twisting my word. Okay, Look, I was trying to do something nice, Okay, but now you're saying, I'm like this like creepy guy who lives in my mom's basement, who gives girls like nightgowns and take away creepy guy, And that's exactly what you're doing. Yeah, you sound like a nice dude, but it's kind of weird. Man. I'm not like wearing their skin. I'm not like Buffalo bill like.

But seriously, how does it not register on your your creepy factor that you're giving your mom mom's nightgown to a girl you're sleeping with because it's a woman's nightgown. You're like, it's like a pearly nice nightgown for women for your mom. You know what, Dana wouldn't give her dad's underwear to you. I can guarantee that there you go. No, I would not. Well, if she would have, I would have appreciated the thought. Yeah, this is getting really weird.

I can't it is all right. In that case, Dana, I'd like to ask you if you'll go out on a second date with Rob. We will pay No. I will not go out on a second date with Rob. Did you hear me say we'll pay for it though? Free date? No, I'm sorry. I am not going out with him. Even throwing a brand new nightgown used probably gonna have to be used. I don't even want to go out there anyway, Like I don't want to be

with a girl. It doesn't appreciate a guy who doesn't nice things for Sorry, you didn't get your second date, But Rob, there are plenty of other women out there who can't wait to put on your mom for sure. All right, Well, this is why chivalry is dead, exactly. This is the moment that chivalry died because Dana had a problem putting on your mom's nightgown broken jubil in the morning text in at seven eight, five nine two says that's it. I'm staying single forever. Talking about today's

second date update. If you missed it, you probably shouldn't have. It was extremely weird. But Rob wanted to call Dana couldn't figure out why she wasn't calling back after they hooked up. And the reason she wasn't calling back was because he lives with his mom downstairs in his own place. It's like his own place. Okay, not necessarily his mom's house. That's the way he said it. It It is his mom's house, but anyway, he lives downstairs and she needed some clothes

to wear because she was sleeping over. So he ran upstairs and grabbed one of his mom's nightgowns and gave that to her so that she would have something to sleep in. And that creeped her out and she did not want to see him. There are some people coming to his defense. You guys blew that way out of proportion. One texts that says, yeah, the nightgown was a nice gesture. I'd go out with him if I was single. That's what hoodies are for. We have hoodies. I am worried.

I think give us his mom texting in, so I think we're good. Somebody else texted in at seven eighty five nine too, says sounds like a game of who wore it better? She did not want to go out with him again, and most people on the text message board say that it's pretty creepy to lend somebody your mom's nightgown or any clothing of your mom. Yeah, really

it is. Remember, if you want to do a second, second eight update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back, even if they're uncomfortable with wearing your mom's pj's. I don't understand that one bit.