Second Date Update PODCAST: Mr Good ENOUGH

right fit for you. Sometimes you find someone the chest okay enough, and then you stick with them because if you lose that person, you're like everybody else out there is a maniac and probably gonna kill me. So I should have stuck with that guy a little while ago, or that girl a little while ago who was just decent, nothing real special about him. But at least I didn't fear for my life when I was around them. And that's what Liz wants to do today. She wants to

get in contact with mister just right enough, mediocre. She actually went out on a date with about three months to go, but now she wants to reconnect with this guy. Hey, Liz, how are you? Hey? I'm good? How are you guys good? So you want to reconnect with the dude who you went out with three months ago. Yes, I do why. He was really nice actually, you know, I mean he's a little boring, but he was nice, like you could tell he's a good guy. Did you like not call

him back at all the first time around? No? No, So Frank called me up. I mean he was like, hey, I had a really great clie, like I'd love to keep you out again. And you know, I was honest about it. I didn't want to lie to him, and I was just like, look, I think you're really nice, but I don't think as like a romantic relationship, Like I just don't think that we're the right fifth for each other. But hopefully we can be friends one day.

And that's the worst. As soon as you're with talking to a girl and she gives you that you're really nice, you're like, oh here it goes. Yeah, you just put the bullet in the chamber and you're about to shoot me in the face with it, aren't you. We're gonna be friends. So you actually told him that I don't think we should go out again, Yeah, I said, you know, I thought we would be better as fund. So what

made you change your mind about him three months later? Well, you know, I've been out on like a lot of these since then, and I thinks is terrible, Like you're just like total touche bags, or they're like really weird or whatever. And I just feel like maybe I didn't give this guy enough of a chance, you know. In other words, you're ready to settle, and I like that

about you. No, No, I'm not settling. I guess I want to get to know him better, because maybe maybe he was nervous or whatever and that's why he's kind of boring. How did he take it when you told him that you guys weren't match the first time around? I mean he didn't like love the idea because we you know, like obviously he's desk me out on a second day, but he seems respectful of all time, and he's like, of course, I understand. Have you talked to

him since? Actually I'm texted him a couple of days ago just to be like, hey, I've been thinking about you. Would you want to try another eight kind of thing? And he never responded, how are you going to come back from this? Like? What's your plan here? Like, Hey, I friend zoned you, but I was wrong, and I think you're attractive enough I've never Yeah, I think I'm just honest about it. I think that's how I come back, if I just say like, hey, I'm sorry, I was

an idiot. You want to try? Yeah, you just tell him you're honest about it. Go. Hey, at the time, I thought you were really boring and lame, And then I went out with a bunch of weirdos and I realized that maybe lame and boring is for me after all. Oh he's nice, He's really nice. I just I think I didn't give him anough of a chance. Yeah, so

you promised that. You think you didn't give him enough a chance, Or it's just you've had so many bad experiences dating that now you're like, Okay, I'm gonna I'll give it another shot with him. It's kind of the same thing, right, I guess the sort of it is. Yeah, it is. Do you think this guy's relationship material for you? I think it's possible. I don't. I have no idea because I was so caught up in the fact that he was boring. Forget it reviews right now. No, I

couldn't hear anything he said because he was just talking forever. Yeah, so did he never responded to you when you texted him, and we're like, let's go out again, give another shot. No, I know this is a long shot, but I just want to think maybe he'll give me a chance for a second date. Okay, what was his name again, Frank? Frank? Okay, cool, Well we'll play a song. Come back call boring, asked Frank. He's probably not doing much, and see if he'll go

out with you again. Okay, Okay, hang on brooking Jubil in the morning. Second date update. Cool Now to win a one thousand dollars cash create one eight sixty six move at ninety two five Brooking Jubil in the morning, Second day. All right, Liz, are you about ready to get your second date? Update? Yes? I am. You know what, I think that this is going to work out really well for you. I know, in about ten years from now, you're going to be sitting down your kids telling them

all about the day that Mommy's settled for daddy. It's gonna be a really beautiful story. It's not like that. I'm just sice I can get a second date. If you're just tuning in, Liz wants to call this guy named Frank. They actually went out about three months ago, and after their date, she blew him off and said, oh, you know, I think you really swell. We could be friends, but I don't think romantically we really fit. And since then she's gone out with a bunch of people that

make him seem like a saint. So now she wants to go back and ask him on another date. If the tables were turned, Liz, would you feel okay if some guy was calling you three months later saying, oh, I thought you were born but it's good now we think that's the best. But I've really liked him to be open to it. Okay, so we're hoping he really likes you. You're going to make sure that I put the part about you thinking that he's boring in there when I talk to him, so I don't think so okay,

all right, I'm gonna dial the phone umber right now. Well, I can I speak to Frank please? Oh? Yes, Frank, Hey, Frank, how are you? This is Jewil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Yeah, the radio show. Yeah. Are you a listener to the show or I listen very time? Then? Okay, cool, thank you. I appreciate that. Have you ever heard a second date update before? I think so? All right, Well, congratulations, Frank, somebody wants to do a second date update with you.

Uh okay. Her name is Liz. Yeah, and you guys actually went out on a date about three months ago. Oh my god. Yeah, she says she texted you a few days ago to see if you were interested in going out again, but hasn't hurt anything back. So now she asked me to get you on the phone and find out if there's a reason. Um, I don't know. Is there any reason that you don't want to go out with her again? No? I don't know what she told you, but she didn't want to go on a

second date with me. Yeah, and now she does. She does. Yeah, she told us about how you guys went out, and then after you you had asked her out and she said, hey, I just think we make better friends. But I guess over that three months she's been thinking about you quite a bit and wants to go out with you again. What happen much changed? Um? I don't really know. She just says she feels like she maybe jumped the gun on her decision. Yeah, but it's been three months. That's

very true. Is that why you didn't call her back or text her back when she hit you up recently asking if you want to go out again? Yeah? I mean it was kind of weird. I didn't really think that the texts for me. You know, do you think it she sent you a mistext or something. Yeah, that's kind of out of the blue, you know. Yeah, that would be a crappy feeling to be sitting there, like, of course I would love to go out with you again,

except I don't think you're sending this to me. Yeah. Yeah, I mean I haven't think you want to go on a second day after three months? Are you flattered by that? Like? That's pretty cool. I don't know she's been thinking about it. I mean, it's weird, but it's I mean, yeah, I mean she was cool. So you do want to go out with her again? Um? Maybe? I mean why did you pause for so long? I don't know, It's been a long time, and you know, like things have been

happening and in three months, Yeah, what's happened in three months? Though? You know, like I haven't just been hanging out all by myself, like I've been seeing other people stuff, and you know, do you have a girlfriend now kind of you kind of have a girlfriend? Do you either have one or you don't have one? There's no kind of I don't know. I'm like, I'm like dating somebody that's your girlfriend. You know. It's like we've been we've been going on dates. Do you like the girl that you're dating,

because it sounds like you don't. I mean, she's she's not. I don't know. You know, I guess that that sounds really bad, but yeah, it's usually not a glowing review of somebody that you're dating. I mean, she's you know, she's not Satan close, but you know, not that bad. The thing is, like, you know, Liz is cool and I thought that, you know, that was a dead end, but apparently not. Yeah, you want me to prove to you that it's not a dead end. Uh, what do

you mean, Liz? This is actually on the other line listening right now. Hey Frank, Hey, what's up? Oh yeah, listen. Um, I had no idea that you were seeing somebody, And I'm oh no, I mean, like I said, you know, it's casual right now, it's you know, it is what it is. Yeah, Frank, is the girl that you're seeing also kind of dating around. I don't know, maybe whatever. Yeah, So are you saying you want to go out with

Liz maybe regardless of this other girl that you're dating. Well, I'm just if this is for real, Like I don't I'd like to go on a second day. Look Like there's no way I could feel, okay, you like dumping this girl to go out on the second day with me? Like what if you end up in my position? Right? Like what if you just didn't get this girl enough of a chance? Like I couldn't. I couldn't do that. I mean, I'm only seeing this girl for a little while,

and she's all right, you know, she's decent. Maybe you're not giving her a chance. I mean maybe she also hadn't you know, called a radio show to try and get me going to do with her? Yeah, but that's when I thought you were single. Like if I never call this show, like you would still be seeing her, right, I mean maybe, Like I don't know for how long though, Frank did Frank it sounds like you settled for the

girl that you're dating right now. I mean I think that that's a harsh way of put in it, you know. But but yes, but we don't need to dwell on that or anything. Well, I think you need to get this figured out if you want to go out with Lizigan. Yeah. Well the reality is that, like I I don't know, I've been thinking about you, and I'm glad to hear that you've been thinking about me after all this time.

And yeah, I mean like whatever's been happening in my life over the last three months, Like that's just not good. Get in the way of you know what could be happening right drops the dead weight you can lift more, you know what I'm saying. That's terrible, like that you would just do that to somebody, that's what you did to him. No, No, that because like he's in the process of seeing this girl. I wasn't in the process of seeing anybody, Okay, but you just were like everybody

else out there is going to be better. So no, I just didn't necessarily think we had this chemistry on that first date, which I need be mistouched, but like I wasn't like seeing him and then said, oh never mind, a better option came along, like that's the cool. Yeah, but it's better that girl does not need to be in a relationship with a man that refers to or is that girl and not that bad or not horrible? Right? But why would I want to take her place? Then? Like, yeah,

so do you want a second date? I'm so confused. Now do you want a second date? We'll pay for it? No, I can't. I can't. I would have done it. I mean, you're a lot better person than even meet Liz. If he broke up with her and then hit me up, that would be a different story. But that he's just willing to sump her over, not even like a true love. We're getting married and having babies, but like a second date,

like just over that. I mean, you're talking about it like I'm you know, I'm in this big serious thing, which I'm not. That's what I'm saying. Okay, I mean I guess that's not very it's been Yeah, we can try it. Okay. This whole thing is so you guys are going to go out again? Yeah? Cool? Yeah, I don't really get it. But if we're going on to date, it's always good to not even know why or you're

going out or if you're going out or whatever. Yeah right, Yeah, I'm totally confused by hoping too, but I think it's worth trying. I guess, I guess lead passionate relationship. I've ever you guys. Are you guys are going to be together a long time. Trust me, both of you guys have the attitudes to stay married forever. Broken Jupil. In the morning, we got back