Second Date Update PODCAST: Mr.Date Saver

I'm not. I'm not. It sounds so much cooler than I am. That's how your email said. You said you met what's the guy's name you want to call today? His name is Connor. Connor says you met Connor while you were out with another guy. How'd that worked? Okay, So I met this guy on Tinder, not Connor, the other guy. When I'm on a date with this Tinder guy. Yeah, first red flag is he hadn't you meet him at a bar that was like thirty minutes away from my place and it was like super close to his He

wasn't like consider it at all with that? Okay? And you knew you felt like he was looking for a hook up. This Tinder guy a little bit, absolutely, yeah, Like why would he want to go to a bar that was people called to his place? Right? Anyway, the entire date, he just talks about himself, like I probably said like two things about myself. Okay, So he was kind of a d bag totally, and he was just so in himself and like he would interrupt me constantly and I couldn't even get a word in edgewise. And

he was like super loud, incredibly rude. I mean it's a wait staff, like he would like snap at them. I guarantee there's people listening that are like, I've been on that date. That's so weird. I'm sure there's way so many men like that out there. Absolutely. So the dude that you want to call the day Connor, how does he fit into this whole thing. So in the middle of him talking, Tinder Guy gets up and he's like, man, I've got to go pitch. They've got to go open

the sludgegates. We'll be right back. I think it's a really really classy move. No, no, no, one says that. Oh. Anyways, Tinder guy goes to the bathroom and there's this table next to me and there's this really cute guy sitting there and he leans over to me and he was like, sorry, I don't mean it interrupts, but I have to ask if that's a first date. Oh my god, people were actually eavesdropping on your date. That's how bad it was. Well, he was so loud and sere they could could hear

everything about him. Oh and I love going to restaurants and over listening on people's tender dates. You can always tell when they're a train wreck. It was so obvious. It was really embarrassing. So you obviously said yes to this guy. I did, and Connor was so sweet. He was like, you know, you seem way too nice for a girl to be on a date with him. He

seems like a total like douche bag. And he offers to pretend to be my brother, and he offers to like come in to the bar and like interrupt our date and say that it's like emergency and he wants to take me away. That's nice of him offered to do that. That is a modern day night in shining armor right there, the little night in training armor. Absolutely, And I said, no, that's not necessary. And I was just like, why don't we just leave together, you and

I and go like somewhere else. Whoa, So you were going to skip that piece in the bathroom worked out in Connor's favor. Yeah, he's like whoa yeah, Like he was really surprised with me saying that, but like he agreed to do it. Well, you were still on a date. You probably wanted to go on a date with somebody at least and finish it all up totally. Like I shaved my legs, like from my hair I had to do. Yeah, don't waste your pretty So where'd you guys go? We

literally went to a bar right down the street. I was very impossible that Cinder guy could totally like seeing us. Sounds like he's so stupid he wouldn't even got it though, Like, whoa are you the chick I was just talking to just yeah, I mean I left without paying the tab or anything like that was for him to do it. It sounds like you deserve that though. So how was the time with Connor the night and shining Armor at the other bar. You obviously enjoyed that or you wouldn't

be wondering why he's not getting back to you. I did. And the thing is is we only hung out for like an hour, but he was so genuine and just so like cool, like you know when you'd like click with someone really really well, you know, you just laughed and like feel comfortable with him, like I felt like I'd known him for like a year. It was. It was really weird. So you didn't think that the conversation ended up all being about the Tinder guy or anything, right,

you guys, really not at all? Okay, Like we kind of joked about it in the beginning, but then it was like we were on a gate, like he genuinely wanted to get to know me and vice versa. It was really refreshing. How long did you guys hang out together? Only an hour? And then I asked if you know, we could like hang out it later, but he said

he had planned, so he gave me his number. But like in the back of my mind, it was thinking planned at ten o'clock at night, you know, it would did he have like a girlfriend or was there something going on, Like I don't know, I don't know who I hang out with it o'clock at night. Yeah, maybe he had another date planned. I didn't expect a date to just happen while he was out earlier, you know.

I mean, yeah, I guess I didn't even think about that, so you never established with him, like you'd never asked specifically are you single? Well, no, I just kind of like assumed, right, I don't think a guy in a relationship would offer to do that. I don't know, Well, they could, I mean, it's happened. Why not mean you could? Yeah, I mean I'm I could actually see my husband doing it. Yeah, and like being kind of an idiot thinking that he was just helping and not realizing that it was coming

off as hitting on someone. Yeah, but it really did seem like he was really into me and like flirting. He was touching my arm and stuff like. I don't know where he would have thought that that wouldn't come across as him being interested. Okay, and how many times have you tried to get a hold of him since you guys hung out. I didn't want to come off too crazy, so I just texted him like a couple

of times, you know ever since Okay, andsn't responded. Okay, what We'll play a song, come back call him and get your second date update and find out why he's not getting back to you. Okay, oh, I'm so nervous. Okay brooking jubil in the morning, if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Abby is on the phone and today she wants to call a guy named Connor. She met Connor in a pretty unconventional way. She was actually out on a date with another dude who sounds

like a huge duche. Yeah. I guess he was just like talking about himself the whole time and was loud and obnoxious and rude in the bar. And when he got up to go to the bathroom, Connor, the dude that we're about to call, lean over to Abbey and I was like, hey, is this the first date? It sounds terrible. Do you want me to pretend to be your brother and come in and tell him that there's an emergency and you leave with me? And she was like, no,

let's just leave now and go on a date. So they went right from there and hung out for about an hour and she really liked Connor. But now he's not getting back to her. Abby, Are you ready to call him? I am? I just food he's like really heartbroken if he did up a girlfriend, because he just seems so genuine. Yeah, but think of it. This. Wait, that's way better than him saying something awful about you totally. Yeah. Yeah, so I'm just saying you could be more heartbroken here

in a second. All right, thank you? Why do you prepare for every angle? Look forward to that? Well? Thanks a lot, guys, Yeah, no problem. We're always very supportive. We're doing these second date updates. All right. I'm gonna dial him right now, get him on the phone and see if we can find out why he's not going to back to you. Okay, oh oh man, I'm really nervous. Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Connor please? This is Connor Connor. How are you? This is Jewil

from brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry you're you said your name is Jebil. Yes, and huh from Jebil from from Brooke and Jewbil in the Morning. It's a radio show. All right? Then you call me. Why I'm calling you because we got an email about you from one of our listeners and they asked us to give you a call. I don't want to understand. I'll explain it for you. So we do a segment on

our show called the Second Date Update. Right, it's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up blowing them off after they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and find out why you didn't call him back. So what does it have to do with me? I don't well get it because you recently went on a date sort of with a girl named Abby. Yeah, but I don't want to talk about that. Is there anything else

that you hang on? One second? Like, Abby asked us to call you because she wants to know why you won't get back to her. She said she had a really fun time with you and thought you guys had a great connection and chemistry and everything else. I really just so much. Well, she was nice on all those things. We are really fun time and I thought it was going to be great. But I just I just don't want to talk about Hold connor, hold on a second,

Take a breath. The thing is she really liked you man, Like we talked to her about your date by the way, nice move swooping in and rescuing her from a dirt bag. She told you about all that. Yeah, yeah, she told us about how you guys met. She told us about how you hung out for a while after and she told us how she really liked you, and now you're not calling her back. She sounds like a really nice girl, and even though I spent an hour together, she's invested

into this. I wish I could make a different I really do, but I just can't. I just can't. What do you mean you can't make it different? I mean I feel like you can do whatever you want to do. Are you really uncomfortable right now because you're actually in a relationship and you don't want your girlfriend to find out? That's No, that's not it at all. That's not it at all. I just she was really nice, she was really sweet. It's just it just wouldn't work out. Well,

it's hold on a sucond, Connor. If you're saying that she's nice, sweet and you're available, don't you think you owe her an explanation and telling her why you're not getting back to her. I mean, did you just not like her? No? I totally like her. But I like the way my face looks more. You like the way your face looks more. Oh my god, you want to date yourself? What are you talking about? Man? You're like rambling right now, and I'm making any sense? Okay, Hi.

She obviously told you guys how we met. Yeah, which again nice move, and we uh we hung out afterwards. And after the date, I'm going home and I'm walking up to my apartment and I get confronted, attacked by douchebag who she was with at the first place. Are you serious? Whatever the hell's name is, the knuckle dragon frat boy follows me home telling me that I'm not allowed to talk to her. I'm not allowed to contact her. If she contacts me, all this stuff is going to

happen to me. I mean, he pushed me, and he was like trying to get physical in but he was like ten times bigger than me, and I'm just like, oh man, I gotta talking my way out of it. What did you say to him? I just said, look, you know, I just met her for the first time. She asked me to get her out of there. I didn't know what your relationship status was or anything. And he's wearing and cuffing at me, and he's like ready to blow a gask and he's like, that's my up

and girlfriend and you don't talk to him. Wow, wait a minute, that's crazy. Do you think that that was actually her boyfriend. I don't know. I met her for the first time. All I know is that this dude knew where I lived, followed me home, and I'm not gonna mess with him. Does that her boyfriend? That's like some psycho tender guy. If it was her boyfriend, she wouldn't be contacting us to put all of her business out on the radio. Oh, we don't know that for sure.

We have had a lot of weird things happened. It could be her boyfriend of like seven years, and we had no idea. I know how we can find out, though, Yeah, you can ask me. Okay, good, thank you, Abby. What's going on? Connor? That's Abby. She's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. She's on the phone. Yeah, why don't you talk to her and find out the information for yourself? Yeah? Yeah, Connor High. Is this dude your boyfriend or what? No? No, he's

absolutely not my boyfriend. Everything I told you it's true. You know, realistically, it doesn't really matter because this dude knows where I live and he wants to kick Maya and I don't want to be part of that. Connor is so cowardly. You're gonna let this guy not day the girl that you're interested in because you're afraid of Inima. This guy he's huge. I mean, I can't believe that you just call him cowardly. I'd be scared boodless too. But if you really like someone, if you really really

like someone, it shouldn't matter. Why are you sonnche lot about your Tinder date being so crazy? There are a lot of crazy douchebogs out there, But I am more concerned about Connor. He was willing to like protect me when kinder guy wasn't there, but when he is, he just like backs out, Like. I don't understand how am I a bad guy? Here? I was? I almost got my app Connor. I'm not saying you're a bad guy at all. I'm just saying, if you're going to be a man, be a man the entire time. Ouchy, Yeah,

that hurt. That hurt me listening to it. I don't understand who I'm being hurtful. I just need him to man up. Man. I mean I met you, would talk to you like for an hour, and I just wasn't ready to get being up for you. I mean, it sounds like you're more interested in two guys fighting over you than you are an actually dating Connor. No, I really really really like Connor. It's just confusing to me because he was my hero that night, and a hero doesn't back down to like a bully like he's doing

right now. I'm just so confused. I didn't want to back down, but I did. You know that happens a lot sometimes you're confronted with something like I don't want to back down from this, but you know what I'm going to. Well, Connor, let me ask this. Would you like to go out on a second date with Abby? We will pay for it. Maybe we can even hire a security guard to come along with you if you need it. You should go, Connor. You know Abby, I

really do like you. I mean, I am a little scared of this guy, but you make some one point. Maybe I need to stand up for myself a little bit. Yeah, yeah, I think you should. So is that a yes, Connor? Where you go out with her again? Well? He probably can't take both of us, so yeah, let's go. All right, if he does, you're gonna throw Abby in front of Yeah, for sure, us are as a shield. Abby does sound scrappy. I will say that Abby, do you want to go

out with Connor again? Even though he let you down in the man lead department. I wouldn't love scra out with Connor again. He and Connor I can really help you be tougher, Like we can take a tech on fast together, like or Abby, great idea. You guys go to a bar on your next day and then you just mouth off to people left and right. I'm sure eventually somebody won't want to punch the broken jupil in the morning text at seven eight five to nine two that says, please get an update on that second date

update when the guy is in the hospital. I would love to hear from him if you missed today's second date update. Abby wanted to call a guy named Connor. She actually met him while she was out on another date with some d bag that she met off a tender I guess the guy was rude and loud, and this guy, Connor, could tell that she was not enjoying herself, so he lean over and was like, Hey, is this

a first date? Do you want me to help you out and pretend like I'm your brother and there's an emergency And she was like, nah, actually, let's just you and I go to another bar right now and have a date. So they did that, but he wasn't calling her back because when he got back to his place, the dude that she was originally out on a date with confronted him and threatened to beat him up if he ever talked to her again, which is nuts until you heard Abby's reaction of well, why didn't you get

in a fight with him? Because ye aren't you a man? She should have stood up for me and been a man for once in your life. At the beginning, I felt bad for her with that d bag, but then afterwards I'm like, maybe she should be with him because they sound like a match meet. Yeah, I get beat up for you. I just met you. Well, he agreed to go out with her again, So the impending beat down is coming, and we'll hopefully follow up with them

and see how everything went. Remember, if you want to do a second day up, they'd all have to do is email the show and we will call a person who didn't call you back. Moving ninety two point five