Second Date Update PODCAST: Motorcycle Love

They'll remember it for a long time. And who knows, you know, you take them out, you scare them to death, and then they'll be like, you know, we're not gonna be on this planet forever. We could die at any moment. Maybe they're willing to take a risk that night, And that's what Eric did on his date that he wants to talk about today. Eric apparently put the fear of God into her right away and is now wondering why he's not getting a callback. Eric, how are you? I'm alrighty?

What did you do? Yeah, you guys make it seem like you push her out of a plane or saw. It wasn't anything like that. Well, but your email did say that you scared her. Yeah, I mean I guess, So why don't you tell everybody what you did? Well? Basically I met. I'm single, you know, and my buddy's the mutual friend with this girl who's like, oh, you should go out with my friend Nicole. She's single, who knows it might work out. So you know, I'm down.

And I check out her Facebook page and she's cute, you know, and some of her photos looks like she's having fun, like you know, she goes fishing, and she just seemed like she's active, and I'm pretty active, and I'm like, all right, this still looks like a good time. She's hot, so I'm like, why not, you know, and I ask her out and she says cool, and so then I want to go pick her up. And you know, I have a car too, but I have a motorcycle, and so I thought, how awesome would it be to

roll up on the bike. A big mistake. I would not get on it to save my life. As a guy who rides motorcycles. I've tried that a few times on dates. I mean I've asked. I've asked before hands and be like, hey, I ride a motorcycle. That's sunny, do you want to go for a ride? And they always go no, thank you. Yeah, yeah, girls are not necessarily as big a fans as motorcycles as most dudes are. So you didn't tell her that you wanted to pick her up on a motorcycle. You just showed up on

a bike. Yeah, man, I mean I showed up. I had a helmet, and I was like, well, this is gonna be fun. I'm a great rider, never had any you know, movie violations or accents or anything. You cursed yourself, Yeah, just the idea. Who you are Jesus expect her to get on the back. Yeah. I thought you'd be excited about it. I thought it was kind of a good idea, you know. I mean I've actually gone on dates with girls in the past where I've done this and they

love the bike. Okay, but she did not. No, what was her reaction when you pulled up on a motorcycle. I rolled up and she was kind of like, you're kidding me. So she didn't want to go on the motorcycle, So would you do it? I actually convinced her to come on. You did you should have just been like, hey, screw it, we'll go get a cab. Yeah. Well, I mean I had to convince her pretty hard. I was sort of like, it's gonna be fun. You know, trust me, there's a freedom to it. You know, you'll totally have

the best time. You'll probably not want to get off. Guarantee you this will be one of the greatest things you've ever experienced. That is a big cell, sir. So she finally got on. Yeah, so she got on. Okay, she like white knuckling you the whole time, just grabbing onto you for dear life. Well, at one point, you know, we started to get into the speed limit and she

started like kind of screaming. I sort of heard like, oh, and I thought she was having a good time, like you know, I thought it was like an excited yell until I kind of speed up, and then I sort of felt like a really deep, like knuckle in my stomach, kind of grab in my jacket, and I was like, I think I need to pull over and see what's going on here. It's just to be safe. And so we pull over. You know, we're probably six blocks down

the street. We weren't even that far, and she had been screaming, and she's like, I don't ever want to do that again. Oh no, she was really scared. And at that point I was like, oh man, you know what do I do here? And she was just like kind of freaked out. So I was like, look, let's call an uber like you guys suggested earlier, which I probably should have done in the first place, and she was kind of like, okay, fine, So we waited around, she got in the car, and then I met her

at the restaurant. And now, how did the date go after? Well, it was definitely awkward at first. I mean, she was really kind of shaken up. That felt bad. She's like, I need a drink now, just somebody pour alcohol down my throat. Yeah, it was a little awkward and she was sort of like fidgety and maybe scared, and at that point I was kind of like, oh my god,

is it's slipping away from me. But we kind of loosened up after a drink, and at the end of it, I was like, look, let's do the sink end no motorcycle. You know, I'll pick you up in my car, will drive safely, and she said, okay, you know, I'd like to maybe do that, and then she told me she'd be in touch with me. I can't believe she even showed up for the dinner, like she must have liked you At some point I would have just stood you up right there and went home. Yeah that's fine. I

just I'm done with this. Yeah. Well, when she did show up, I was kind of like, oh my god, I still have a chance. Did Did you spend the most of the time apologizing profusely at dinner? Yeah, there was a lot of that. Yeah you should have. So you said that the plan was for her to contact you, and she hasn't obviously, but she said I'll be in touch, and so, you know, a couple of days go by, I hadn't heard from her, so I s gave her a text, just wanted to make sure she was okay.

And I'm texting her and I'm like, look, I'm so sorry. No more bikes. I'll bring my car this time. No helmets will be involved in any future day. It'd be awesome if you showed up on the next date in a NASCAR Let's do this. Yeah, but I'm thinking, did the bike really freak her out that much? I mean, I don't know. I mean it's not it wasn't that crazy.

But apparently she's not texting me back and I haven't heard from her, So maybe you haven't heard from her because after your bike ride, she just suddenly got a love for motorcycle riding and has been riding across the country, just exploring this fine nation on her motorcycle. All right, we'll play a song. Come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, all right, thanks, all right, hang on rooking Jebels second date. We were right in

the middle of a second date update. And in case you missed the first part, Eric is on the phone with us right now. He wants us to call a girl named Nicole. He picked her up for their first date on his motorcycle. The only problem was he didn't tell her that he was coming over on his motorcycle. She didn't even want to get on the thing. He convinced her to get on, and a little while into the ride she made him pull over because she was scared to death. She got an uber to the restaurant

while he took his motorcycle and met her there. Started things off very awkward, and now she's not giving him a callback. Gee, I wonder why. All right, Eric, you ready to make your phone call. Yeah, let's do it. Yeah, you got to put her in a death trap again if you go on a second date. Yeah, no more of that. Okay, go skydiving on our second date. Let's just stick to a movie or something. All right, I'm

a dollar phone umber right now. See we can get her on the phone and get your second date update. Here we go, Hello, Hi is Nicole there? This is she? Hey Nicole? How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, okay, how you doing? What? What is this? What's going on? We do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. It's where if you go on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them after, we call you to find out why. And we recently got an email from

somebody who went on a date with you. Really Yeah, his name is Eric, and I guarantee you remember going out with Eric because he almost killed you. Yes, it's hard to forget. So Eric told us a little bit about your date and the fact that he's been trying to get ahold of you and you haven't been calling him back. So he asked us to see if we get you on the phone and find out why. I'm assuming it was the motorcycle ride that you didn't want to go on that's causing you to not call him back.

I mean, it wasn't a great start, you know. I you start off with the basic why wouldn't you tell me you were going to pick me up on a motorcycle question? Right? Yeah, you probably want to check on that before just showing up to your house like, hey, get on the back of my hug, we're going for a ride. Yeah. Yeah, you had to have liked him a little bit, because I can't even believe that you

showed up to the restaurant after that whole incident. Honestly, I thought about at that point just saying, you know what, this isn't in a work But I mean, he said he'd call me an uber, and I was like, well, I'm already out here and he's trying to make it better, and so I thought maybe I should give him another chance. Okay, is very nice of you, pity date. So did you

enjoy dinner with him? Then? Well? I mean, you know, we got there and I was I was still really shaken up, but it did start to get better when we got drinks and I sort of sunk into date mode. You know, you start you start asking the typical questions and doing the typical first date stuff and was a conversation going well, and you guys were hitting it off up to a point that's like a bless her heart fun. Yeah,

what do you mean up to a point? Well? I started asking, you know, like what movies do you like? And what do you do for fun? You know, basic stuff. Then one of my you know, first date questions, is you got any guilty pussures? And you asked a question like that, and you sort of expect, like, you know, I like to watch Dancy with the Stars or I really liked tick Flicks or something to that effect. Um, but he says married women. What say that one more time?

Would you say? Married women? Is his guilty? Guilty? So that was my reaction. I started laughing because I definitely thought he was joking. But I looked up and he wasn't laughing or smiling or anything. He was serious. What did he mean by that he enjoys being with married women? I mean, but I mean that's like a big old red flag, way more than the motorcycle did. Why would he offer that, Like, why would you tell anybody that? Yeah, and on a first date? I mean that's definitely not

first date for me. What did you say to him? I sort of panics, and I was like, you know, how how many? How many times? Thinking, you know, maybe it was just one, and he was like, oh, it's my you know, kind of like a russion, like it's my guilty pleasure did at once and it was guilty And he literally couldn't give me a definitive answer because there were too many. He counted. Hey, you gotta give

it to him. At least he's honest. But that's probably you know where I'm gonna have to draw the all Right, you've probably told a lot of your friends about that. Huh, yes I have. Yeah, that is a great story, ultimate worst date story ever, Nicole. I'm always gonna win. Yeah you are. I also have to tell you that Eric is actually on the phone listening to this conversation and wants to talk to you. What that mother lover? Eric is on the other line, Eric, where are you at?

This is so misunderstand there's such a misunderstanding here. As a misunderstanding, you said that your guilty pleasure was being with married women. I don't no, no, no, First of all, I misunderstood what you meant by guilt pleasure. Obviously, Yeah, I guess that I thought she was like, what's something you kind of feel like you may have been guilty of in the past that you want to admit to me. Oh, yes, I do married Women's thing? You felt like, I date

married women. I've had a few experiences where married women have been attracted me. It's fund like I always follows through. She's making it sound a lot worse than it really is. Actually, dude, you didn't really sound overly like remorseful about it. It was it was a pleasure. It's not pleasure to something you enjoyed. Well, I mean, it just happened a couple of times. You're you can't you can't go around doing married women and then have other women think that that's okay.

I mean, and all aunty married women are attracted to me, so it's more their fault than it is. Mind, what are you gonna do? Right? If a married woman throws herself at you, you have to do it. You have no choice. Eric. So when you told us about your date, you didn't mention this conversation at all. Does not seemed like a big deal to you When you said that, I didn't think it was. What, how do you not think it is? I don't know. I just it happened

a few times in the past. And for the record, I don't think any husband has ever known about me. Oh good, that makes it perfectly Okay, that's not actually where the problem lie. Why would you ever believe that you're not one big lying cheat after you admit something like that on a first day. I don't think Eric's a liar. If I think Eric is maybe honest to a fault, I think you could trust Eric Nicole, that's one thing. But I think I think you. I think

that's accurate. I think he would cheat, but he would tell me right right. Oh man, Oh dude, I just I shouldn't have even brought it up. No, you definitely shouldn't have brought that up. I mean again, it's not like I'm out looking for married women. I seem to drop my bike attracts a lot of married women. It just it just happens. It just seems to happen to me a lot. That's all. I was kind of saying that married women seemed to come on to me a lot.

You're not making this any better at all. Yeah, I mean that's why it's a guilty pleasure, because I feel kind of guilty. That makes sense you want to save your affinity for having sexual relations with married women until you guys are already dating for a little whilerely on a first date. Honestly, Nicole, I thought we had a great time that night. I mean, aside from the bike and this misunderstanding in our conversation. I really think you're awesome.

You're adorable, You're I don't know, you seem like someone I could definitely hang out with if you wanted to go out again. He feels that way about you, Nicole, and you're not even married. That shows how much he cares. Yeah, Nicole, would you like to go out with Eric again? We'll pay for a second date, don't you dare That's the biggest red flag ever. I really don't think so. Yeah. I appreciate the offer, though, all Right, are you sure?

Oh my gosh, yes, I'm pretty sure. Yeah. Okay, maybe you can hit him up later on down the line when you're married. Broken jupil in the morning,