Are you single and feeling out of the loop? Put away that mouse and get out of the house. Join in the Loop, Seattle's brand new activities club just for singles. Put in the Loop singles dot com Today brooking Jebels Second date Update. A girl name Amy is on the phone. She wants to do a second date update with us. She sent an email in her email was interesting. I'll tell you a little bit more about that in a second.
But my favorite thing about her email. At one point, in all caps, it said this, I did not go all the way with him. We just fooled around. Three exclamation points. All right, Amy, get the points. So you you you met a guy, it says at a movie theater, and then you did not go all the way with it. That's correct, Okay, Why why is that so important for you? Didn't put in all caps, Amy, because I'm not that kind of girl. I mean, we just met that night and we just hold her. We did not go all
the way. My guess is that at some point in your life that you've been called all the way Amy. All right, let's find out a little bit about your date before we get into the specifics of how far you went. Because I want to know everything now, now that you put it out there part of the way. Yeah, so your email says that you met this guy at a movie theater. Yeah, me and my friend we went to see a movie and these guys sat down next
to me. One of them his name was Marcus, and he was off tattooed and just had this bad boy vibe. I love bad boys. I think that's the problem. A lot of ladies love bad boys, really rough around the edges, kind of too cool for school vibe. Yeah, you can't stop thinking about him, can you? I can't. And after the movie, he was like, do you guys want to come to a bar of Sish? And my friend really didn't want to go, but I convinced her to because
you just had to get more a Marcus. Yeah. Yeah, well yeah, So how much convincing did it take to get your friend to go to the bar with these guys? She owed me one put it that way. Did she not want to go because she didn't like like the dudes? Or did she like had to work the next morning? I mean, the other guy just wasn't that appealing. Okay, why do you get Marcus friend? I guess I was lucky so you obviously went to the bar. How did
that whole thing play out? It was great, I mean well for me anyway, Hamia and Marcus, we we hit it off, I thought, I mean, there was some chemistry there, and we kind of started making out of before that. I'd say, that's a good sign if you have chemistry, if someone's making out with you, that you're getting along. Yeah, And my friend at that point was pretty over the whole thing and wanted to go, so she ended up
leaving and left you with Marcus and his friend. Yeah, and me and Marcus we wound up hanging out a little longer, had maybe like one more drink, and then I went to Marcus's apartment, all right. And that brings us to the part of your email where you said I did not go all the way with him. We just fooled around, right, true? Did you end up staying the night at his house or did you bail that night? No? I had to work early in the morning, and after a while I was like, you know, you don't want
to give the prize away the first day. I mean, he'll never call me if I sleep with him, right, Yeah, but now you didn't sleep with him and he's not calling you anyway, so you should have done it. Hindsight is And how did the evening end? Well, the me ended. I basically was like, let's call it a night, and he didn't want to at first, but I mean I wanted to say, really I did, but I made myself leave.
I made myself like was it one of those things where you're like, Okay, if I don't leave, then I am gonna go all the way and I'm gonna regret it, absolutely task And I do not ever want to put myself in that position. That's such an internal struggle too, Like you have the full conversation with yourself in your head. Oh, absolutely, like the devil on one shoulder and the angel I mean, and we slowed down and he said he would call me and we'd have a proper date and take it
from there. And you haven't heard anything from him. No, it's been a week. A week okay texting and calling him? Yeah, I texted him a few times, but I mean, what am I gonna do start calling him? He said he would call me. I don't want to look desperate. Yeah, you've already sent three texts. I think you're good, and I think it's obvious that he's purposely not getting back to you at that point. Yeah, like the first time, I'm like, well, maybe he didn't get the tech sect
but yeah, yeah, he definitely got them. So you guys hit it off. Why do you think he's not calling you back? Then? I seriously, I have no idea why he's not calling you back. All Right, we're gonna play a song, come back, call him and get your second date update. Okay, okay, thank you, all right, hang on frooking Jubil in the morning, Sate. Hey, Amy, Yeah, I've decided I'm not gonna make the phone call for your second date update today. I'm not doing it. Really what,
I'm not doing your stupid phone call. I'm doing whatever the guy want. Amy. You know why, because I'm a bad boy. I don't give it about rules, right, can't tell me what to do? Oh? Yeah, Amy? You like that, don't you? Amy? Amy? What? I was just trying to be a bad boy there because he said in the first part of the second day update, how you really like bad boys? And the guy that we're about to call gave off that bad boy vibe. So apparently I didn't pull it off as well. As he did. Oh well,
just refresh everybody's memory. Amy met this dude in a movie theater. He sat down next to her. They talked and then agreed to go out to a bar afterwards. They ended up making out at the bar and then went back to his place and messed around a little bit, but they did not go all the way. Amy wants us to be very clear about that. All right, Amy, I'm on a dollar phone right now. See if we can get him on the phone and find out if there is a particular reason that he's not calling you back. Okay,
maybe maybe it's because he's a bad way. He doesn't pay his cell phone bill. Who cares? Right, Maybe his phone pull off his motorcycle. Actually he a lot of his motorcycle. He threw his phone off. He doesn't care. All right, I'm gonna dollar phone right now, Amy, Here we go. Hello, I can I speak to Marcus please? This is Marcus. Hey, Marcus, how are you doing? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio Show.
Is there something I can do for you? Yes? There is. Actually I'm calling you because we recently got an email from somebody that you went on a date with. Her name is Amy, and she's a listener to our show, and she told us about an evening that you guys shared together. But now she's not getting a call back from you. So she wanted me to call and see if I could find out if she did something wrong. Who are you talking about? Amy? You apparently met her at a movie theater and then went back to your
place and messed around. Oh yeah, okay, yeah, remember we talked to her about you know, you're you're the time that you hung out. I guess I can't really call it a date because it's kind of like you guys met and then went to hang out and had drinks. But she's wondering why you're not calling her back because she's also told us that she tried to text you two or three times and you haven't responded. I don't. I don't know about it, Amy, you know, like, just uh,
are you just not interested? Yeah? Like, I don't know, it's my thing. I come, I'm pretty busy dude, you know. Okay, So there's no specific reason. Um, well, like when I met her, she seemed pretty cool and pretty open to whatever, you know, and like we went out and had a good time, and I thought she was DTW, you know, and she just I think maybe some people need to explain d w W. Yeah, I know, I know DTF. I don't know dt W. It's down to whatever, you know.
Oh okay, all right, So okay, are you not calling her back because she didn't sleep with you that night? You know what. Things were getting hot and we were like trying some things and I pulled out syrup just to you know, play around. And I don't know if she got weird about it or what, but she didn't want to do it. And what do you mean what do you mean syrup? Like, uh, like pancakes syrup you had to reserve before just regular serrup, Like it's not
one of my signature moves, Marcus. Yeah, well you should try it? Did she say? Just like no, She kind of just like everything kind of stopped. Then you could tell she wasn't into it. And like, I'm definitely not have a guy to force syrup on somebody. I'm just gonna dump syrup all over her head. That's good, That's I think that's a good way to be Marcus. Most people just don't want syrup dumped all over their body unless they're willing participant. So you think that she's like
just not a good time. I just think, you know, maybe she she's a little close minded or whatever, she just hasn't experienced. Did you at least give her like a warning before you went to the kitchen and got the syrup? Well, yeah, I got up left, I came back with syrup, and like I started to undo the top, you know, and like it's pretty obvious what's gonna go down after that. Yeah, you could tell she was just getting real awkward about it, and like she wasn't kissing
me anymore or anything. So I was like, whatever, okay, I'm just gonna put syrup. Ways, I think she's close minded and kind of brutish. She wouldn't let you pour syrup on her body the first time you hung out. Yeah, she's just you know, she's just conservative. But it's not for me, Like, you know, I like experimenting and doing different stuff. It's just my thing and it's not everything.
So yeah, but it's different if you like to have a conversation maybe leading up to it, like hey, you want to try something, and then you go into it, like the surprise syrup is a little much I think for anybody to handle. Well, let me put it this way. I've been with girls that are into syrup before, and you just know, you could tell a girl that's in the syrup from a mile away. Hey, Marcus, Marcus, let
me ask you this. If she was down to have syrup poured on her body, which is apparently your thing, would you be willing to go out with her again? Like, would I hang out with her again? Yeah? Maybe, Like, I don't know. I don't want it to be all about the syrup. Oh, now she wants syrup on her and now it expectations. I think it would be good for us to find out from Amy. Yeah, well, I don't know, Like I don't know if I'm gonna call her back. You know, you don't have to because she's
actually on the phone listening. She on the phone right now. Yep, Hey Marcus, what up? Yeah? I didn't know. I didn't know you were. I'm sorry, surprise. I'm just I mean, I'm really shocked. I it's not that I'm approved or anything, but I didn't even want to go all the way. I kind of syrup isn't going all the way. But like I just don't want to have to worry about like, hey,
is this okay? And then is that okay? And then like I just kind of want to go with the field and wherever, you know, what the experience takes us, we just go with it, you know. Yeah, totally I'm like that too, But it's just it kind of threw me for a loop since we first met. You know, like I don't even know where you went to high school, Like, yeah, usually you want to find out where someone with to
high school, and then you bring the syrup into the mix. Yeah, I mean like I don't really know you that well. It's not that I'm closed off to experiences, but I want to be comfortable with the person i'm with. Yeah, but all I did was pull out a little syrup, and you seem to get like real closed off, real quick. And how else do you want me to read that? Like, okay, just not into this dust, not in the syrup. Got it moving on. I'm open minded. I'm not conservative because
I've got marshfellow fluff. Hello, Wow, I told you finding out a lot about you too. I don't know, I thought you're cool. I mean, like you're cool. It's totally cool. If you get to know me, maybe a little more, then we can bring out the syrup, Marcus, would you like to go out with Amy again? I will pay for a second date for you, guys. I'm not paying for your syrup. You buy your own syrup for the stake, don't worry. I always have something stock. Believe it. Yeah,
it sounds to me like you probably do. Would you like to go out with Amy again? We'll pay for a second date. You'll pay for it. I'm done. I'm downe to hang out again Amy. All right, Um, they're gonna have a really good time. Yeah, I bet you guys are