Second Date Update PODCAST: MMA Dude

what's up? How are you going? Go ahead? It sounds like your first date was not the best. You know, I didn't think it was that bad in the moment, but looking back now, I'm starting to kind of put the pieces together, and I kind of take I figured that out. I don't know. Is it something where you only have yourself to blame or were they circumstances outside your control? Well, like I guess someone outside of my control. But I think I kind of just got awkward with it.

I don't know, I think it was made. So what's the name of the girl that you want to call today? We girl all day? Is Andrea? And where did you meet Andrea? On tender nicely, So it started off great. Anyway. I love what anybody says that there's such shame attached to it when it comes out of your mouth. I mean, it's not the place you want to tell your mom, like, hey, look, I come on, Tender. You know you don't want to

take Tenderella home. All right, so tell us a little bit about Tenderella before you tell us what went wrong on the date. All right. Well, obviously I swiped right, so I thought she was high the right off the bat. She's a good looking girl. And then as I was looking through her pictures and stuff, let's noticed she was athletic. She looked like she played sports and worked out. So, you know, she responded back to me and we started talking. She's really saffy. So I like that, you know, kind

of the dansing back and forth. How long did you guys chat before you decided to actually go on a date. It was about a week, so I think that's kind of long for Tender. Yeah, it is. Normally it's like ten minutes, right, Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I'm like, yeah, I was like, well, this is a long relationship. You guys were practically Tender married at that point. Oh yeah, I was thinking about changing my status. Tell us about

the date. What did you guys actually do? So on the date, you know, we went to an oyster bar um and he actually, yeah, I thought it was nice. She said I could pick her up um, which I thought was that okay, all right, you know, actually get to give to her place, so I when to pick her up. And that's where I think I tarted losing control of the situation. But you started losing control before the situation even barely began. It sounds like, yeah, yeah,

I was listening to music in the car. I wasn't saying attention, you know, it was all excited about her. And I walked her into my vehicle, you know, if in the door floor, trying to be a gentleman and then to get in a car. I turn on the radio and then just dam like right in her face. This music just starts blaring and it's just like car about ing. I'm like, oh, like crazy, Oh my god, it's so red it was so embarrassing. Did you did

you apologize right away? I shouldn't apologize. I've in the right thing and do it instead just kind of like cut it down and so I'm like, do you listen the little Wayne And she's like, no, no, all right, I could see that suppression. Yeah, yeah, I think it was She's like, what's on this guy's mind? Already picking me up? Okay, I know, I know the tender and then the music. I don't think it was looking good

for me, right that? Did you recover from that? Or did she seem disturbed by your music selection the whole night? It was a little awkward at first, obviously, but I think I started recovering, you know, getting well by the time we got to the restaurant. You know, we were talking, yeah, that was good, and how how was the Oyster Bar? Oyster Bar was delicious? I meant, how is your time

with her at the Oyster Bar? Sorry? Okay, Well, the time was a little awkward because, you know, like I said, we were talking, everything's cool, and then I thought it'd be funny and trying to make a little joke about you know, wichers acts and this. She was like, yeah, well in my head it was funny. It was funny in my head, my eyes. And this is after she got in your car with a song that was blaring

about sex. And then you're like hey, these are apphrodisiacts like I think the only thing I could have said afterwards to make it more awkwards give like a little wink or something like, I don't matter what was your intention of the state? I mean, I actually liked our bantering on Tender and stuff. I thought she's really funny and cool, and I've had hookups before off tender obviously, but I kind of wanted this to be a little

bit something more. Okay, Okay, So after all that, did it seem like she liked you at the end of the day or was she just trying to get out of there once again? We started thinking back up and then we get to her place. I started walking there to her door, and then you know, I saw the stars were aligning. This is it. You know, I've done this anytime before. I leaned in for the kiss, and then she's just kind of like, not not tonight. How'd

you feel when she said that? I was a little bit called of guard, honestly, because that's never happened to me before. Not trying the brag, but I'm a pretty good looking dude and that's just turned down to ride at the door steps. You know, I feel like There's two ways you can say that. You can say that coily where you're like, not tonight, gotta work harder for it, or you can say not ever. You know, looking back at it, it kind of seemed like she's just a

little bit irritated. So I didn't know that she was, does me? Does? They thought like just like she needed a moment to get away from tonight, and they because think things through decompress a little bit. Yeah. Have you tried to contact her since your date? Yeah? I reached out here and tried texting her and calling her because she digging me her number, um, but she never really responded. You should have just sent her a link to that little Wayne song you were listening to. I wanted a

box of oysters. Yeah, all right, man, well we'll play a song. Come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, then all right, hold on Brook and Jubil in the Morning. Seconds. All right, if you're just tuning in for today's second date update. Oh wow, sorry, song kind of came out of nowhere. It's Brook and Jewel in the Morning. That's exactly what happened to Mike on his first date. He thinks that the girl might not be calling him back because a string of things

went wrong. He met her on tender. They decided to go out to an oyster bar, but when they first got into his car, he forgot that his radio was on to a very inappropriate song. He turned his car on, and then I had to look over here and go, uh, sorry about that, romantic Mike, Are you ready to do your second date? Update? Absolutely? Is that kind of like the song that was playing in your car when she

got in? Yeah, except it was way, way worse worse Mike, she denied your kiss at the end of the night. Is that actually why you want to call her? You know? Actually I really feel like there could be something way more than just a little tender hook up. All right, well, I'll dollar phone of her right now, get her on the phone and find out why she's not calling you back. All right, We'll nervous, but all right, here we go. Hello. Hi, is Andrea there? Yeah? Did she Hello Andrea? How are you?

My name is Jubil and I host a radio show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Um, okay, how are you doing today? Good? Um? I'm sorry. Did you say you were calling from radio? Yes? A morning radio show what's going on? We do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. What that is is if you go out on a date with somebody and then don't call them back after they get in contact with us to see if we can get you on the phone and find out what went wrong. Okay, and

so somebody just emailed us about you. This is so weird. His name is Mike, and you guys met on tender. Oh my god, Mike. Yes, Mike has been trying to contact you since your date, but apparently you haven't answered any of his phone calls or text messages and he didn't take the hint. Apparently, well, he took the hint. He knows that you don't want to get back to him for some reason, but he doesn't know why. So he asked if we could get you on the phone and get that answer on the radio. Yes, did you

like Mike at all? Well? I what did he tell you? Guys? What you know? He told us how you met. He also admitted to us that he feels like your first date was kind of awkward. There was a point, I guess where he picked you up and you got in the car and he had a really inappropriate song blaring on the radio. He thought you might have felt awkward about that. Yeah, that was weird. He also told us how you turned him down for a kiss at the end of the day and you said no, not tonight

or something like that. He told you a lot, Yeah he did. He told us all about your date. He also said that he really likes you and wants to see you again. Honestly, the most shocking part of the night was when he came to pick me up. He looks nothing like his cinder profile. He catfished you. No, no, it's something he didn't like, Like it wasn't like give you a different person. He had bruises all over his face. What didn't wait when he came to like, he looks

like he got the chicked out of him? Really what he did not mention that huge black eye that lit like and I I was like, oh my god, what happened? What did he say? He's so weird. He told me that he like does that sometimes gets into like fights with his friends, like mm a style in his backyard, like once a month, like like a fight club thing they fight each other. And so he was just super like whatever, like no big deal, and so like just looks like that a lot of time because he and

his friends beat the shit out of each other. So he does like Novice style mma in his backyard, I guess, and he thought. I mean, was he saying this to impress you or no? I asked him why his face looked like scrambled things. He was like, glad, I just do this, not a big deal, like holy casual, So no big deal. Me and my friends just fight in the backyard once a month. Yeah, it was so weird. I mean, at least warned me that you're going to look like you know, he's greater went on it like

I would you have gone out with him though? If he would have said, Hey, by the way, this is what I do in my spare time, and I'm going to show up with a black eye, that's so weird. So weird, what kind of psychological issues going to beat the crap out of each other? Like? What is that? He didn't tell us any of that. He just told us about your date and it was all good, except for those couple of weird things. He didn't tell us that he showed up and looked like somebody had beaten

him with a bag of pennies. It was horrifying and I couldn't believe this. I want to know a little bit more about his backyard, mma, ring you want to get in on it? Yeah? Do you want to get in on that action? Let's ask him about it, Andrew, because he's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, now he is not on the phone, Yes he is, Mike, What what are you doing him doing this? Woman? Tell me you could just texted me or called me and then we have

to do this. We didn't have to do this, period. You could take up my hand and just let it go. You're beating your number, so obviously you're cool to give me your number, so you should expect a phone call or attack. What my god? Okay, Andrew, that first off, my face looked great right now. I've never broken a bone or anything. It was just a little beat up. And for the record, I want so they're go just

a little beat up. That wasn't even that. Bet normally will say my face with to a grinder, but this time it was fine. Oh my god, And that's supposed to be attractive to me, Andrew. Look, I had a fight the night before with my bros. So I don't know what the woman you're bros. Oh my god, I didn't think it's gonna be that big of a deal. Honestly, you saw by my pictures that I like athletic things, and in at athletic things is one thing. Beating out of each other in a backyard may be different. It's

making me better. It's making me better. Like, I don't understand what big deal, but I don't. I don't even know why you're so upset. But you should be excited to have like friends that enjoy hanging out me. So I should say something about my social life. If I'm thinking about yourseluce of life, I'm I'm learning everything I need to know. I mean, what were you doing last day other night before? They were just petting your cat and watching Netflix? Or what are you jesting me? Is

that what's happening right now? Wow? Is this your Is this your attend to like get me out on a second date with you? Seriously? No, I just don't understand why. Also, you're coming out like bashing my face, which it already was bashed enough. Don't need any of that. So you were placers and blackwoods groblaying onto your chest. Well, it was just I keep telling you, it's just from the night before. It was just a little cut, a little cut, weed, a little bit. I'm a man, I can handle it.

It's not a big deal. Hell do you think that someone wants to kiss a person who's bleeding all over their room? Oh my god? Seriously he leaned towards me. I was like, seriously, you want me to kiss that? Hell? Hell, Mike, I support your mma backyard fighting if you want to do that, But why don't you Why didn't you warn her though, like, hey, I'm gonna show up in my face, is gonna be bruised. Honestly, it was just at night before, you know, and I thought, you know, hey, I didn't

think it looks that bad. Honestly, in comparison to other times Bruise told me it wouldn't be a big deal. I thought she'd be cool with it. Why would you plan to fight the night before a first date? Like, if I mean, if that's gonna be your hobby, maybe wait till after. I mean, I get what you're saying there, But we planned this every month. It's the same day, so I wasn't gonna miss it. You know, it's the

same day every month. It's more important than her. Look sometimes, you know, I go through there, I only have like a scratch on my face or anything. Completely fine. So like what that night, a little bit rougher, I would admit, but whatever. I didn't think it'd be that big of a deal. And right now things look fine. But you should come out to you now. Yeah, I'm gonna thank you. Are you sure, Andrea? Because I would like to ask

you out on a second date with Mike. We will pay for it if you'll go out with him again. I'd rather punch myself in the face than go on another date. But it's really not that big of a deal. I don't know when you're looking this a big deal. Look I look great right now. I look I was better than my tinter picture. Honestly, listen, I'm not in the miss. I'm sure there's somebody else out there who will totally appreciate it. Maybe, but out Mike, I'm sorry,

No second date, man, that's a bummer. Man. I really liked her. Yeah, I know. Hey, you know what, Mike. Sometimes in dating it can give you the upper cut and you can be up against the ropes. But I know that you can get back on track and stand up like the true champion you are and get back in the dating world. Awesome, bro, what's good to this one? Now? I want you to come fight with me. I am not going to one of your backyard brawls, Mike. I don't want to do it. Morning,